Winter holiday society practice Guanxian trip

Follow the winter vacation social practice squad organized by the hospital to the two rural small schools in Liaochengguan County to conduct a practical study on the education and psychological status of left-behind children. All the way down, feeling a thousand...

There are such a group of people around us.

There are such a group of people around us...

This is a group of special minors. They use the "vulnerable groups" to locate them in society. Their growth lacks the emotional care and care of their parents. They have been extremely vague about the concept of "home" since childhood.

They are "left-behind children."

In recent years, left-behind children have received more and more attention from all walks of life. Some even say that paying attention to left-behind children is concerned with social development. Indeed, the problem of left-behind children cannot be solved, and the construction of a harmonious society cannot be fully realized. Paying attention to left-behind children is concerned with the construction of a harmonious society or with social development.

However, I used to know only some of these concepts. When I am in the realm and really walked among them, I know what kind of environment they live in and what kind of life they live. And these people have always been with us.

The trip to Guan County shocked my heart

A small country with the slogan of "not getting rich, not going to school, not going to school, not removing roots": ancient brick houses, simple classrooms, dilapidated tables and chairs...

This country is called "Liu Cun Guo Xiao".

A group of children with longing hunger and helplessness: thin clothes, frozen hands, numb expression...

This group of children is called "left-behind children."

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When I first arrived at school, I was shocked by the situation: Is this a school? When I walked into the classroom and saw the children, it was a bit sad...

Their eyes are numb, or at least seemingly dull, when they get the questionnaire and think of their parents, the expression is more dignified. We know that in such an environment, the most impoverished children are not material conditions, but spiritual life. Their eyes tell us that they need the love of their parents and need someone to care and take care of them.

Clearly remember that a child wrote this sentence in the questionnaire "I have a feeling of being abandoned." I was deeply shocked from the bottom of my heart... The bitterness is that teenage children can’t express themselves in words...some things, some feelings, only they understand it...we live in the sun, forever Can't feel the feeling under the shadows, even if they are in the same place, how can they completely enter their hearts?

Left-behind children: Who are you most happy with?

In our questionnaire on the education and psychological status of left-behind children, there is such a question: “Who are you most happy with?”, to our surprise, the majority of children choose “classmates” instead of “parents”. .

Out of curiosity, I randomly asked a classmate.

"Who are you most happy with?"

"Classmates."

"Why not 'parents', are you not happy with them?"

"No..."

"Why is that?"

"I don't know what it feels like to be with my parents, they are not at home..."

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This is a sixth-grade elementary school student. When he was a child, he went out to work. He has been staying at his uncle's house. His uncle and his sister have their own children. They usually take care of his food and accommodation. They don't ask about other issues. For a long time, this child has begun to have a weak feeling for the family and can only play with his classmates.

In order not to let him continue to feel sad, I tried to talk to him about other topics. But when I asked him what his dream was, he said, "With mom and dad"...

Left-behind children, who is the most happy with whom? ... The parents are not around, they can only play with their classmates, and some children may feel happy with their classmates. But in their hearts, being with Mom and Dad has always been a dream, just because this dream can't be realized, they don't know how happy they are with their parents.

Today, I also have a dream in my heart, I hope that all left-behind children with the dream of "with their parents" can realize their dreams. Because they are with their parents, they are the happiest.

Psychological problem

In this survey, we also found that most of the children who work outside the home are not communicating with their parents when they encounter setbacks or troubles, but solve problems with their classmates or keep their own problems. Some people say that this will allow them to exercise self-reliance and self-reliance to a certain extent, but for a group of children, there is no parental education guidance, and more, it is the breeding of their psychological problems.

In a questionnaire, we saw this sentence - "There is no father or mother around, I don't know how to do a lot of things, but I don't want to ask others." It can be seen that the role of parents in the development of children's physical and mental development is irreplaceable.

Parents of left-behind children go out to work more for the better development of children, in order to improve their lives and let them have better educational conditions. However, because these children are not with their parents for a long time, they lack care. If they encounter problems, they can talk to them without their parents, leading to a greater degree of psychological problems, which has caused their lack of ideological education. Isn't this a kind of regret that is not worth the candle?

Economic difficulties must be solved, and psychological problems cannot be ignored. In order to let the children grow up in a healthy and healthy way, the fathers and mothers who go out to work should think about it: what is the most important thing for children.

They need a blue sky to fly freely; they need a harbor to rest assured; they need their parents to be around, and listen to their voices for the first time...

What should we do in the face of left-behind children?

“Do you want your parents to work outside? Please explain why.”

"Hope. Because you can make money, there is no clothes to wear without money."

“What are the difficulties and problems you face when your parents are working outside?”

"I really want mom and dad, I want to dream, I want to cry when I am serious."

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Another child wrote in our survey: "Parents work outside to earn money to buy a lot of good things, but I miss them very much."

The plain language is the most authentic and simplest feelings, and it is the most heartbreaking. Left-behind children, they actually live in sharp contradictions: on the one hand, they are eager for parents to work outside to make money to improve living conditions, eager to get material satisfaction; on the other hand, they are eager for parents, eager to be with other children of the same age The same grows under the care and care of parents.

In the face of such a group of children, what should we do? We can't replace their parents and give them the feeling of home. But we can let them feel the temperature of this big family of society. I remember the kind of look that the children saw when we saw us, remember the joy they showed when they chatted with us. They need someone to greet and care. We have the responsibility and obligation to warm them and drive away the cold around them. "Caring for left-behind children and building a harmonious home" should be our common consciousness.

I sincerely hope that the sun will shine and every corner of the society will be warm!