Survey report on college students' love outlook

Survey report on college students' love outlook

With the development of the times and society, the contemporary college students' love concept is very strange. More and more college students in colleges and universities have come to the edge of love more and more early, and there are many people who have entered the world of love.
In December XX, the author conducted a questionnaire survey and online survey of the students of Jy University. In a sample survey of love attitudes among students of various departments and grades of Jy University, it shows that the concept of love of college students has changed a lot. It is no surprise to fall in love on college campuses. College students have their own views on love. About 91% of students think that college students' love is normal. Among them, 89.5% of the boys agree that college students fall in love during college, and 68.5% of the girls think that college students' love is dispensable, and all days are doomed, among which liberal arts girls account for 55%. 80% of students believe that college love is ideal and romantic.

When it comes to the standard of love, 71.5% of students believe that love should be based on feelings, 70% of boys think that love should be followed, and only 6.5% of girls believe that they are close, but believe that based on money, appearance, etc. Love accounts for a part, mainly as females account for 11%. Although most people think that college students fall in love, it is normal, but 70% of students who trust in love believe that college students' love credibility is not high. Graduation means breaking up and it is difficult to go to marriage. And 12% of science girls think that college love is loyal and credible; 18% of liberal arts girls think that college students can develop into marriage.

In summary, through a sample survey of jy college students, it shows that love represents the heart of two loved ones, sacred and inviolable, reflecting the more idealized understanding of love for college students, hoping to find the ideal love, but the reality Cruelty adds a contradictory shackle to love, and most college students can't handle the relationship between love and reality. At the same time, college students' understanding of love during college is one-sided.

First, the love of college students represents romance and idealization, but it is impossible to get rid of the shackles and cruelty of reality.

According to the information collected from the online survey of jy University: there are both good love for reality, such as "love is sacred, strong", "love is like a diamond forever, a eternal pass!", "love, simple And simple! Our love is built on the needs of each other! The love around us is gentle, and gently walk! No line, no head, everything is so simple and simple "There is no help for the cruelty of the reality, such as "a rare good skill, the feelings are always stunned, tender and sweet, and the sword is no result. The flow of water is constant, the emotions are not broken. The blade is cold, the enthusiasm is not cold." The bottom of my heart is even more sad. The ruthless knife, never knows the wrong, has no fate, only sighs, facing the death, will not be scared, leaving heart and soul. Life is a little frustrated, why not choose me. Sword, break the covenant, Acquaintance is destined to be a big mistake." There is helplessness for love, such as "love is like quicksand", "What is love? Love, not two people, you love me, I love you, and what I think now is love now. What will happen in the future? Well? So I am hesitant, I'm anxious. " Therefore, the love of contemporary college students is full of romance and nobleness, and can not escape the cruelty of reality. No wonder, some people say: "University does not fall in love, university life is incomplete." And the reality of love has never had "worldly Taoyuan-like love."

Second, the college students' love concept is both full of yearning and fragile

College students are full of vigor, ideals, self-motivated, and eternal topics - love, both longing for and lack of reason. In the survey, 41.5% of the girls thought that college romance was a moment of curiosity. After 12 years of hard work, the hardships of the college entrance examination, the hard battle of the smoke-free battlefield, and the ivory tower, the youth’s depressed heart finally got The release, colorful university life, has changed the high school's concept that only reading for the college entrance examination has ceased to exist, the mind is relaxed, and then the college students in the youthful turmoil finally found a way to release emotions in love. Due to the maturity of the physical and psychological aspects and the improvement of understanding of life, nature has a realistic change in love. In the survey, 13% of boys believe that one of the goals of college love is for physiological needs, 20% of boys think that college students are in love with each other, and 58% of students oppose cohabitation, that cohabitation is moral One kind of corruption; while about 9% of liberal arts girls think that cohabitation does not matter, when the feelings have reached a certain level, it is beyond reproach, as long as the two sides are right, this may be related to the knowledge, understanding and emotional thoughts they receive. related. About 60% of the students think that love should be single and loyal to each other. This has become the dominant idea. It seems that contemporary college students are still immersed in traditional culture, and their ideological and moral outlook tends to be benign. Some girls think that if they can find a better one, they will consider changing their boyfriends and pursuing a more perfect love. They reflect the idealization of love and lack of rationality. Falling in love is only based on their own perceptual knowledge and lack of mature analysis. As a result, the degree of trust in college students' love is reduced to a certain extent. 70% of students believe that college students' love is not credible, but they will not completely and resolutely oppose love, because for college students, marriage is a distant matter, and there is no responsibility or obligation. Falling in love is also understandable; the understanding of love, with the growth of age, has a relatively mature performance. Among the juniors and seniors surveyed, 60% of the people advocate that love should be combined with social reality, family reality, Economic ability, etc., less reckless and casual, more mature, rational thinking.

Third, the college students' love concept is uncoordinated.

According to the survey, 30% of students believe that finding a boyfriend must have a "determination for a common ideal", in which art students account for 10%, while 60% of science boys think that girlfriends must be pure and strong. 20% of the liberal arts girls hope to find a "companion that can talk about the heart when they are bored"... These results show that male and female students have very different orientations for love partners, while literature and science have The obvious difference. The reasons for the investigation may be related to their respective cultural knowledge level, education level, moral concept, understanding of reality and plans for the future.