Young people, your hard work is selfish

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I went back to my hometown some time ago, my cousin met me, and said with tears, sister, I have been dating dozens of times since last year, and no girl will look at me. Good heart!

I seriously analyzed with him that the girls nowadays like men who are actively working hard. You can have no money now, but you must be self-motivated, willing to work hard, let them see hope and give them enough security.

The cousin said with a confused face, I worked hard! I have a job, go to work on time every day, and never go back early. I haven’t eaten, smacked, and sneaked around the streets all day, and I feel insecure.

I asked him, how much do you earn in a month? How much is left in the mortgage?

The cousin slowly lowered his head and slowly extended two fingers.

two thousand? I ask.

There are still two hundred left in the mortgage! The cousin is a little embarrassed

I asked him, then you only have two hundred dollars left. How can you raise a family to raise a child in the future?

The cousin said with conviction that the daughter-in-law also had to go to work to make money! And my parents can earn thousands of dollars a month now, and raising a family is not a problem.

Well! If your daughter-in-law will have children in the future, I can't go out to work at least for three years, just like now. Your parents are old, and their money is only enough for their own daily expenses. Have you ever thought about waiting for them to be old, how do you support your parents in the future, and how to raise children after you have children?

Then what should I do? I also want to make money, that is, there is no way. The cousin said helplessly.

I enlighten him. You must make a special profit in this line of sales. Besides, you have accumulated a lot of contacts now, and it should be quite easy to sell. Well done, the mortgage will be paid off in two or three years.

The cousin shook his head into a rattle, and the sales were too tired. Besides, my character is not suitable for sales. I don't want to live so hard.

I continue to persuade him, if you do not want to do sales, you can use the time to play games after work, to enrich your professional knowledge, we must be solid ground. Survive within eight hours and seek development within eight hours. Whether your career will take you to the next level depends entirely on whether you have made the most of your spare time. You must know that efforts can only pass, and you can work hard to be excellent!

The cousin said a little angry that you are thinking about making money for me? I don't want to live so hard, I don't expect to be rich and rich, I just want to live a quiet and stable day, why do you always impose your ideas on me, it is not the lifestyle I want.

I am also angry, you are a man, please take responsibility for raising a family like a man. Your parents are fifty or sixty years old. In order to buy a house and pay for your mortgage, you are now working in a hometown. You have no reason to work hard and not fight hard.

You are still very embarrassed to play games without white and night, you are now young and do not work hard, what will be held up in the future. Your hard work is a kind of selfishness!

My cousin is ashamed and difficult, sister, I know everything you said, but the change is too difficult, too painful.

I am very vocal in saying that change is painful, but it is the least costly and the most effective investment.

How many times can life be in life? In fact, the time to work hard in life is only a decade. 25-30 years old is a precious stage in our accumulation of basic knowledge in the field we are good at. At this time, you have to study hard and lay a solid foundation. Just like laying a foundation, can you build a dream building, completely It depends on whether your foundation is solid.

Between 30 and 35 years old is the accumulation of contacts and experience. This is also the time to test whether your foundation is solid. If you work hard enough and are good enough, then you are surrounded by outstanding talents who stand at the same height as you. Remember, your location determines your connections.

Once you have missed the decade of hard work, your next life will be difficult.

In the age when you can endure hardship, you must not choose comfort, because young people do not work hard and ease, will make your old age pay.

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A university student who had not been in contact for a long time suddenly asked me on WeChat, aunt, do you know what to do now to make money?

I tried to search for it in my mind, and then told her that it is the most profitable business! Isn't it the image design of learning? You can open a cosmetics store, do a makeup styling by the way, or you can order online. Now you have a bride makeup that is hundreds of thousands of people, and the prospects are good.

The classmates sent a grin expression, pro, entrepreneurship requires capital investment, how can I open a store?

I thought about it, then you can set it up first! Many big entrepreneurs have started to set up their stalls. Do you still remember that our dormitory is not sunny? After work in the evening, people sell nail polish on the night market. They only work for one hour a night. They can earn 10,000 yuan a month!

The classmates sent a horrified expression: God! Ten thousand dollars is twice the salary of our two couples! But the stalls are tired, I can't eat the bitterness, Xiaoqing is a workaholic in the eyes of money. When I go to school, I will go to the dormitory every day to sell cosmetics. I really don't understand, a girl lives so much. Do it! That's not the lifestyle I want, I just want to be peaceful and live a good life.

I told her, but did you know? Xiaoqing himself bought a house, more than one million houses, paying a down payment himself, and owning a mortgage. And this year people have traveled to four countries. Even so, people can afford to pay for their sister's tuition and living expenses.

Therefore, it is a simple, simple and happy life that is easy, comfortable and materially rested by your own efforts!

You don't dare to expect a better material life because you don't have money. You can't reduce the quality and level of life. Is it obvious that you are poor?

Do you know why a girl is working so hard? Because only you are good enough to find a better half, the most important thing is that you only have to work hard to have a bright future!

The classmate is about to cry: What should I do? I am now selling cosmetics in the mall. I work 12 hours a day, only one day in a month. I am tired and tired, only 1,500 yuan. Can I still save?

I comfort her, and choice is more important than hard work. As long as you find a suitable work direction from now on, and then work hard, you can change the status quo of dissatisfaction.

The classmates said very helplessly, I also want to work hard to make money, but I can't help myself! I am pregnant again, not too hard!

I was shocked that my chin had fallen. You don’t already have two daughters. Are you pregnant? Will not be fined?

The classmate said mysteriously, the doctor said that this time is a son, I am afraid that I will be fined hundreds of thousands! So I am very distressed, want to find a way to get rich quickly!

I am not angry with one place: the rich and the rich, trying every means to have a son, is afraid that no one will inherit. You are a problem with your own mouthwash, and you still have to risk a fine of more than 100,000 yuan.

The classmates said that it was awkward to say that I was forced to do so. My husband always wanted a son.

I sighed helplessly, okay! Then, for your three children, you should work hard to make money, isn't it?

The classmates made a crazy expression and said, hey! I just don't want to live so tired, is there a good job that can make a lot of money when I sleep in bed?

I am going to collapse, please, there is no good thing in the sky, and once in a while, not a trap is a trap! If you want to make money, you have to be down-to-earth and hard-working!

The classmates said indifferently, it doesn't matter, anyway, I am suffering from the hardships. I don't want to make big money anymore, as long as the family is safe and healthy, it is enough to eat. Doesn't it all mean that children are poor? Put them in the rural home, let the grandparents take them, one sheep is put, and the three sheep are also right! How can a child grow up?

I told her very seriously that children must be responsible for them when they are born. You can not give them a good living environment, but at least let them live a normal life and grow up with their parents. It is an extremely irresponsible selfish act to send your child back to your hometown and throw it to your grandparents. Because of your lack of effort and selfishness, parents can't enjoy their old age, and children can't grow up healthy and happy in a good native family environment.

Some of my classmates are not convinced to say that I am not a case. You go to the countryside to see, and the left-behind children catch a lot. Are their parents not working hard and being selfish?

I am saddened to say that the general phenomenon in rural areas does not mean that this matter is correct. As the saying goes, all the results are related to childhood, and the growth and psychological problems of left-behind children have become the focus of society. If you feel that it is very hard to work hard in a big city, it is very difficult to make money. You can go back to your hometown to open a small shop, which can accompany your child to grow up and take care of your elderly parents. Please take care of the responsibility and responsibility of an adult.

If you don't work hard now, what can you do to make your children and parents live a simple, happy day?

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Ten years ago, the 18-year-old Xiao Yan, who had been a salesman for several months in his home shoe city, found that the profit from selling shoes was very impressive. So he borrowed 5,000 yuan and put a counter in the shoe city.

At that time, the girls who had worked as a sales clerk with Xiaoxuan saw Xiaochao’s early purchases of greed and sold goods. They were tired like dogs every day, and they did not understand.

They sneered at the fact that women will eventually marry in the future, and the husband and wife will teach them to make money. Woman, it’s better to marry well than to do it! Just dress yourself up and catch a golden turtle.

Xiao Yan also doesn't understand them very much. Only if they do well, can they marry well! The same is 12 hours a day, why don't you do it yourself? I have to work for others for a few hundred dollars a month, and I have to work for thousands of dollars a month!

The girls all turned their heads into rattles, how tired they were! Careful and hard, what if you lose it? Still work for someone else. Besides, we are not as vulgar as you are, we are all in the eyes of money, ambitious to make big money, is money omnipotent? Can you buy happiness with money?

The young and angry little anger is irrefutable. How are you so selfish? You are still so young now. If you work harder, you can reduce your husband's pressure and let your child live a better life. Let your parents enjoy their old age. Yes! Money is not omnipotent, but there is no money for what you raise to support your children.

The girls were screamed by the little sisters, and they cried and said, we just thought about a simple and plain life.

In the past ten years or so, the girls who are sales clerks have not been married because of their youthfulness. Most of them are married to wage earners who live with their own households and live a long-term separation. They are still sales clerk, and their wages have not risen too much, at least far from the soaring prices.

The salespersons in the 18th line county towns have low welfare benefits. There are no five insurances and one gold. There are no holidays, 12 hours of work a day, only one day off a month, and you have to look at the boss's face. So they simply don't have enough time to spend with their children and family.

When they reach middle age, they still live very hard, and they don't imagine simple and plain happiness.

Although Xiaoyan didn't have a big fortune, the whole model bought two houses and there was no pressure on the mortgage. Although she did not marry very well, she graduated from a prestigious university and worked as a teacher in a key high school. She worked calmly and decently, had many holidays, and had enough time to spend with her children.

Xiaoxun works easily and freely, has as much money and time as he wants, and can take his grandfather to come and talk about the trip, because even if she is not in the mall, the sales performance is still very impressive.

Yes! Otaru has worked hard at the age of hard work, so she is now qualified to live a simple, happy and plain life.

Being young, if you are a family, you are not qualified to choose the so-called plain life, because your hard work will make you and your family unable to see the future and hope. Your hard work is a selfish escapism.

Don't always say, I am a woman, there is no need to live so hard. First of all, if you are an adult, you have to take responsibility, shoulder the responsibility and obligation to the family and society, and hold up your own half of the sky.

So even as a woman, you have no reason and qualifications, no effort, no struggle.

As the saying goes, if you don’t work hard, the bosses will be sad, and when you are young, you should eat more, so that you can be relaxed when you are old.

The same is true for women, so if men have to shun hard and struggle with a simple and plain life, don’t blame me for saying that you are too selfish?