Give everything to dreams

Life on the mouth

That year, when I was away from home, I slammed "Slam Dunk" into my hard disk. My mother looked at me with a sly expression. It seems to be saying: "So big people still like it so much. Watch anime."

I don't know how to respond to her, so I shrugged, because I really can't explain the meaning of this cartoon to my dear mother.

You know, some songs have that kind of power. Even if it has been hidden in your mobile phone for several years, even if it has passed the golden period, even fewer people will mention it. You just know that when you listen to this song, when you look at those comics, you will think of yourself, and you will gain an inexplicable power. This kind of power allows you to feel your own rhythm, let you run alone in a different way than the world, you can hear yourself. For example, the ever-forward butterfly and the end of the world, they are more reliable than memory.

What impressed you the most in your memory must be your own. Because only at this time, when you are screaming that "time changes too fast", in those so-called "things are human beings," the most changed person is yourself. I don't know how life is the most terrible, but I know that when you look back one day, when you find everything you said, when you have promised everything becomes talkative, you will not be well received. Where to go.

It seems that when people grow up, they will lose a lot of things. For example, those things that are simple but can make you happy for a day, such as the ability to make you cry and laugh, and those who have been together. The most terrible thing is not to lose these things, but to become safe. You start to comfort yourself, this is growth, and that is what we will eventually become. You just found an excuse to continue this life and sneer at yourself.

It's just that when you listen to the previous song, or when you see someone sticking to his own path, you will be like a big mouth.

Looking at other people's efforts to envy and then turn back to your own life, and why have you ever lived the life you want?

Work hard to explain to myself

I used to talk to a friend to negotiate a project to go to Beijing. The other party is a standard after eight zero, and drifts north. This is his third year of floating, accompanied by his straightforward character that has not changed. This is his third job in the third year, and he has not been stable. He said: "I have seen a lot of people in these years. Some people have good prospects without having to do anything. Some people are working hard to survive or there is no way to survive in this city."

A little girl she met on the Shanghai River, she used to go abroad for a year for her boyfriend, but then they broke up. Later, she decided to go to Shanghai alone. When she was the hardest, she didn't even have to eat. She took a few buns and hid in the MRT station. She didn't know where to go.

I used to be unable to understand. It is better to go back to my parents and work better. I can also stay with my parents. Why bother in the big city, I can’t get a good result. Like the girl I used to cry in the moving car, I can't go home in the end. I used to think that this was not worth it, but when I faced the choice one day, I finally understood what kind of mood they had when making decisions.

The buddy who drifted north said that even if he struggled for a lifetime, he would be a relic, so at least he would not have an excuse again, and he would not regret it when he was old. Are you worth it? I think it is worth it. Although my straightforward character has caused me a lot of trouble, this is me, this is the way I exist.

In fact, all the wandering people are just to one day be able to stop wandering, and they can use their own strength to prop up the family behind them and the people they love. What do you think is the best state of life? I feel that the best way to live is to persist in your youth and to persist in the ideals, and finally return to the plain way to let yourself live. It is best to be able to realize your dreams, but it is not a pity to fail to realize your dreams. The first step to growth is to accept the diversity of the world, to recognize the reality of the bad, and then decided to stick to the initial insistence.

When I was a child, I always groaned. I tried to change the world. However, now I feel that some people try hard to become an ordinary person. Some people try hard to explain it to themselves. Maybe we are always just a small person, but this is not the case. It hinders us from choosing how to live. Stealing that, after seeing through the helplessness of life, those who choose not to complain or not to be inferior and still love life still do their best to do things around them, the effort is their account of their own.

Just as I used to discuss with Li Wei where to work, in the end we came to the conclusion that it is not easy to survive in any city, but no matter what you do, you have to bear it yourself.

I have the courage to make choices, and naturally I have to have the ability to bear the consequences.

Only action can lift all your uneasiness

You said that you want to be a freelance writer, but you can never write hard to write a manuscript; you say that you want to take a postgraduate course, but you can never see your words. If you see that the school tyrants are not swearing, it’s boring to say that it’s boring, you see When someone travels, they don’t bother to say that this is just a big stream. I began to wonder if you were hanging out on the excuse of escaping from reality. I began to wonder if you were uneasy during the escape and self-consolation.

Then you slowly succumb to your own desires. Obviously, you can have a better life in a few years, but you must buy the latest package now. Everyone starts to want to achieve a certain social status and material conditions, and it seems that the result is the most important. However, have you ever thought that all your so-called efforts are to satisfy your desires or to really pursue progress? Just like Wang Feng’s song said: “Some people are walking but they are stuck in the same place, how many people are alive. It’s like dying, how many people love but it’s like separation, how many people smile and tears.”

Finally one day, you find that you have achieved the desired result, but after that, you never know how to continue.

When you are in your early twenties, please put yourself in your early twenties. You have no reason or ability to have the experience and wealth that a forty-year-old person has. You have nothing but the youth at hand, but you have a handful of things on hand and can decide who you are.

I don't know if there is really a sense of security in the world, or because everyone says they don't feel safe, so you feel that you don't feel safe. I have only two definitions of security: First, the energy that others give you will disappear one day. Only you can give yourself the most reliable sense of security. Only action will give you a sense of security. Second, you must always remember. No matter what kind of virtue you are, you are the security of your parents.