The truth, how many people have you misunderstood in this life?

In life, many people like to stand in their own perspectives, thinking that they know others very well, and they arbitrarily condemn and criticize others, thinking that the world is right. In fact, you don't know the lives of others, and you can't feel the same with others' sweet and bitter feelings, so don't easily blame others or criticize others.

What kind of life does others have and what kind of path they take, others can never really understand. Therefore, no one is qualified to blame others for commenting, because without real experience, you can't understand everything.

Maybe you are a little more intelligent than others. The life of others may not be anything in your eyes, but you should not look at your own position and blame others. Don't say too much in everything, don't look too subjective. In fact, sometimes we should know how to look at the problem from another angle.

There is a fable saying that "a pig, a sheep and a cow are kept in the same corral. Once, the owner caught the pig, and the pig shouted, violently resisting. Sheep and cows hate Its name is called, and the accusation of anger is arrogant: You are too exaggerated. He often catches us. We don’t yell. The pig replied: It’s totally different to catch you and catch me. He catches you. Just want your hair and milk, but catch me, but it is my life!" The sheep and the cows listened, and they silently said nothing.

The moral of this story is very profound. It shows that people with different positions and different environments are difficult to understand each other's feelings. If we are good at standing in the position of others, we can solve others from the bottom of our hearts, closer and more in line with the facts, and it is easier for people to have more compassion between them, making it easier for others to accept, so that people Misunderstandings and contradictions with people will be much less.

Every result of this world is not produced for no reason. Anyone who does anything has his reasons and reasons. Anyone’s life has unrecognized joys, sorrows and sorrows. Some people always like to blame others for not asking for indulgence, often because they have not figured out the reasons behind them. Before you blame others, be sure to fully understand the situation. If you are eager to blame and criticize without being indiscriminate, it is easy to cause harm to others.

Looking at another angle, you will find that it is not only you who are the protagonists of this world. Every thousand people have their own stories. Everyone is the protagonist in their own stories. Whether the story is unremarkable or twists and turns, everyone has experienced different stories, or sadness or happiness. Life is impermanent, whoever has tears and sorrow, we must learn to appreciate and grieve, learn to be kind to others, after all, life is not easy.

There is such a real thing: a doctor rushed to the hospital as soon as possible after receiving an emergency surgery call and put on the surgical gown. The boy’s father shouted to him uncontrollably: "How come you come so late Don't you know that my son is in danger? Why don't you have a sense of responsibility?” The doctor smiled indifferently. “I am sorry, I was not in the hospital, I just arrived when I received the call, you calm down. "Calm? If your son is lying in the operating room, can you calm down? If your son is dead now, what would you do?" the boy's father said angrily.

The doctor smiled indifferently and said: "I will silently pray for the text. "We come from the dust, and we all fall into the dust. The blessing is the name of the Lord. 'Please pray for your son!" The boy's father said indignantly: " When a person is indifferent to the life and death of others, he will say this.” A few hours later, the operation was successfully completed, and the doctor happily walked out of the operating room and said to the boy’s father: “Thank God, your son is saved!” Without waiting for the boy's father to answer, he hurried away and said, "If there is a problem, you can ask the nurse!" "How is he so arrogant? Even if I ask my son about the situation, can he wait for a few minutes? "The boy's father said to the nurse indignantly.

The nurse’s tears came out at once: “His son died in a traffic accident yesterday. When we asked him to perform surgery for your son, he was on the way to the funeral home. Now, he saved your life. Son, rush to complete his son’s funeral."

You don't know the life of others, please don't blame it.

What happened to other people's lives, what kind of twists and turns they are experiencing, you may not know what you are standing on, and what you see is just a representation.

Don't blame others easily, because we don't have enough wisdom to know the joys and sorrows in other people's lives, and to really understand the ups and downs of others. Everyone has different positions and different environments. It is difficult to understand each other's feelings. Therefore, do not arbitrarily blame criticism, otherwise it will bring harm to others.

A truly literate person who can use "compassion and tolerance" to achieve others is actually accomplishing himself. A person who knows how to be free from the "phenomenon" is the real person who knows how to cultivate himself. Think about us, the pain of the journey of experience, to know the suffering of others. Think about us, how many unseen sadness and suffering, we know that other people's lives actually have the same content, and they also experience ups and downs on the road of life. Think about how we walked through the rough, and we know how others have walked through the rough and the hardships. A true self-cultivating person should understand the use and harm of words. He knows not to look at the problem unilaterally from his own perspective, so that the harm between people will be much reduced.

Buddha language cloud: one flower and one world, one leaf and one bodhi. What is the realm of this! In fact, it is not difficult to do this. To be kind to others and to be considerate of others, you can get inner peace in this secular world.

There is a saying: "Happiness does not depend on wealth, rights and looks, but on how you get along with people around you." If you want to be a happy person, then start with being kind to others!