The biggest challenge in life

May I ask all of you here, what do you think is the biggest challenge in life?

Later, I found out that the entrance exam is good, the work is good, the love is good, and the marriage is good. This is not the biggest challenge in life. This is only a result. What is the real challenge in life?

That is the life of every moment!

The first sentence I want to give to everyone is a belief, that is: I must succeed today!

Remember, it is today, not tomorrow, not even the entrance exam. Because all the success of life can only be successful today, life is likely to succeed. Some people say, how can you guarantee that your joint test will be successful? But I must let you guarantee that I must succeed today. Many students said to me: The slogan is useless to me. Do you know how slogans can be useful to you? That is to repeat the hints often. When you don't want to get up in the morning, you have to repeat it: I have to succeed today, and you will jump out of bed. Repeat when you don't want to listen to class: I have to succeed today, and you will listen to it.

Next, I will give you the second sentence: Life must have a clear goal!

It is important to have a clear goal in life. There are two taxis on the road. One is an empty car. One car is full of guests. Which car do you think is prone to a car accident? Because the full car driver has a clear goal: I want to send these people to Jinqing Middle School, and the empty car driver is desperately looking for: Where is my God? But learn to break the target, for example, you have six subjects a day, Maybe you only have one subject not completed, and only one goal is not completed. If you take these six subjects as a goal, will your mood be better?

The third sentence I gave to my classmates was: calmly face failures and setbacks!

What is failure? It is the mother of success and it is temporary unsuccessful. The pendulum of the alarm clock swings to the left and swings to the right. When the pendulum swings to the left, is there a kind of energy that swings to the right? The surface is to the left and the energy is to the right. This is life, there is something wrong with it, and there is something wrong with it. The failure is the beginning of success. Sayong lost his horse, and he knew that it was a blessing. Hilton said: When a door closes to you, there must be another door open to you. Therefore, the failure of the usual examination is not a bad thing. This is just a reminder to you, tell you what knowledge points you have to master again, to avoid your failure in the joint exam.

Some students said that my pressure has been getting bigger since I entered the third year of high school. Let you carry a 30-kg bag, not heavy. If you let 30 hours do not let go? Too heavy. I am afraid that the ambulance that needs the hospital is coming over.

Then I will give the students the fourth sentence: learn to release the pressure!

All the stress and troubles in life, like this bag, the longer it takes, the heavier it is, so learn to let go.

Many students have pressure to know how to let go. Just look for one of the best students to talk about. Brother, I don’t think it makes sense to live. Do you know what the brother said? He will say: It doesn’t mean anything. Then two people cried with a headache, because there was a saying that things were gathered together. You don't have to talk to him, it's useless. You should find someone older than you, someone you trust, and he will often give you a lot of life inspired.

It is sad that current middle school students generally do not trust their teachers. I can tell you clearly: the teacher is worthy of your trust. When you step onto the society, you will understand the form of society. Be daring to trust your teachers and talk to them.

Of course, you can also write down the pressure immediately. Writing it down is a good catharsis.

My classmates in college encountered a setback: I was initially loved by a person, and later she was abandoned, and the young mind could not bear this trampling and embarrassment. I am suffering and can't ease it. Can only write it down. After writing more than 300 poems in three years, the language is getting better and better. Instead, it was more a man, and later won a touching love.

Remember, what exists is reasonable. When you can't change the pressure, write it down. If you are not careful, you become a writer.

Others said: I am under great pressure and do not want to write it down. What should I do? There is also a third method: natural catharsis. When you are upset, find a corner of no one, do whatever you want, and get it in two minutes.

Many students complain that many topics are usually done, and they are wrong when they go to the exam. You don't have a time concept when you are at rest in the evening. You just want to correct the problem. Some students still talk to the same table while doing the topic, and they also lick the seeds. The purpose of the exam is to get the highest score, and to get the highest score within the specified time. Someone asked: Can I take the joint test as a normal test?

Can you do it?

Unless you develop two habits: treat each exercise as an exam and consider each simulation as a joint exam.

I will give you the fifth sentence: every test in life, every experience is unique!

I ask you to treat each exam as the last exam. Only in this way, every time you will get the best degree, you will be able to play the ultimate in the joint entrance examination.

Let me talk about one more question: How to establish the confidence of the joint entrance exam? It is often said that self-confidence is half the success. Some students said that I am inferior and not confident. What do I think will be inferior? From two aspects: one self-denial, the second environment hits you.

I have received calls from three students. One said: The second model test is over, and the results have dropped. I know that the tragedy will happen to me. Self-denial. One said: The second model test is over, although the score has improved, but I know this is accidental, I will still fail in the joint exam. Self-denial. One said: My class performance has not been good, but this time the second model test, I don't know what happened, he is actually a point higher than me, as long as he looks at me, I can't stand it. The environment is against you.

How to establish self-confidence, I will give you the seventh sentence: learn to be self-affirmed!

Everyone has an innate talent and instinct. It just takes time to discover. There is a movie "Fanny's Choice". Fanny is a math teacher and is in a wheelchair. After graduating from college, the Education Bureau will assign her to a disabled school because the people in the Education Bureau think she is a disabled person. And she doesn't think so. She thinks she is a normal person and she is going to teach at a normal school. After three years of teaching, it was very successful. Some reporters were very moved to interview her and report her deeds. Fanny did not allow reporters to interview. The reporter was surprised. Fanny said: Because your opinion is wrong, do you think I am a disabled person? I am not a disabled person. I am in a wheelchair like some people wear glasses, but some cute defects in a certain part of the body. What is this? Self-awareness, self-awareness determines a person's worldview and values.

I found that people are not successful in education. Successful people have high academic qualifications, and some nationals have not graduated. They succeed: just because they are developing a habit of success. The habit of success is very important.

Some students said: I can only learn three days of study. After three days of learning, I have no motivation. I want to fall.

Where does the power come from? Power comes from the imagination and depiction of future life.

The success of the joint entrance exam is a price to pay. Five thousand years of Chinese civilization, I have summed up the saying that there is no free lunch in the world. It is worthwhile to pay a small price for the joint entrance exam. It will make your life without regrets.

Some students asked: My grades are not very good, can I not take the exam. No, it doesn't matter which school you take the exam. What's important is that if you give up the entrance exam, you will develop a habit of giving up, and you will easily get through the difficulties in the future.

There is a wire master Valenta in the UK, and the tightrope is very beautiful and elegant. Never make a mistake. But in the last performance of the fifties, he fell and died in the face of ideas. His wife said that I had a hunch that something went wrong: my husband never wanted to make a result when he was walking the tightrope. He was only walking, so he walked very successfully. I said to me last time before I came to power: Dear, this is the last performance in my life. I have to give the audience a good impression and memories. I can only refuse success, fall down, why, because the attention is scattered. .

There is a philosopher in the West who said that there are two major pains in living. One is that you don't get what you want, and the other is that you get what you want. Do you know its meaning?

He told you that the result is only a matter of moments. When the success is over, the joy is over. If the failure is over, it will end. It will pass. The most important thing in life is the wonderful process.

Next I will tell a story. In the country of Israel, there is a beautiful plant, the name of the plant is called the desert rose. When you look at this rose, it is not like a rose. It is like a hay. An Israeli friend told you: Don't worry, bring it back to your mainland China, put it in the water, and observe it for eight days. You will find it is the most beautiful rose. You do not believe. On the first morning, I found a sprout in the middle of the hay. A little life but not beautiful. The next morning, the innermost petal was opened. On the third day, the second petal was opened. On the fourth day, the third petal was opened. You found it a bit beautiful. By the eighth day, all the petals were turned on. You found it really beautiful. If a neighbor arrives at your home on the eighth day, you are excited to tell him: How beautiful is the buddy, do you feel it? No? Why? Because he only saw one result.

Classmates, during the struggle of your life, parents, teachers, classmates, and all others see only one of your results, and it is a phased result. So don't care too much about how others see you, how to talk about you, because that doesn't matter, only you always accompany yourself, silently endure all the pressures that belong to you, your pain, your troubles, your life. As long as you have your own conscience, you can stand up to yourself, work hard every day, be happy every day, and be successful every day, then you will be the most beautiful rose!