[Boutique] The first long-term meeting guide

This article is a catalogue of the first long-term class leader's speech. 2 The first long-term class leader's speech draft 3 The first long-term class leader's speech draft article 1: The first long-term class leader's speech

Parents:

First of all, I would like to express my heartfelt gratitude to all parents for taking time out of their busy schedule to attend this parent meeting! Thank you for your support of our school and class work.

In a twinkling of an eye, the children have been in secondary school for two and a half months. Thanks to the close cooperation of the parents, under the careful education of the teachers, the children have made various progress in all aspects.

The purpose of this parent meeting is to strengthen the relationship between teachers and parents, parents and parents, parents and students, and to exchange information about students at school and at home so that teachers can implement education more specifically. Parents can It is good to educate your children to be human and mature.

First, class introduction

1. Teacher situation

First of all, I would like to introduce to the parents the class teachers in my class. I am the class leader of this class, teaching mathematics; Chinese teacher Zhang Hua; English teacher Xu Xiaoyan, our class teacher has a strong sense of responsibility, and every class is meticulous. Prepare, each student's homework is carefully revised, timely feedback, every day at noon to give up the rest time to the classroom or to counsel in the office alone, we know that responsibility is great, are doing everything possible to do the work of educating students, find ways to put students I hope that the students can rest assured that I am on behalf of all the class teachers in the class. We will do our best to make our teaching work better, and educate your children and our students to improve their progress.

2, class situation

There are 37 students in this class. Our class committees set an example and play an exemplary role in creating a good class style. The small cadres of this class, Zhang Yijia, Liu Yanan, Shen Jingyi, Liu Yi, Shen Yiyan and other students are active. Under the constant tempering, the organizational management ability is constantly improving, and the learning atmosphere is becoming increasingly strong. It has always been among the best in the school's regular evaluations. But after all, they are children. Whether they are studying or in their daily life, their self-discipline is not strong. They can't completely change some bad phenomena in a short time and remove some of their bad habits. As a class, I am in a daze, doing small moves, passing notes, etc. Of course, I have listed some bad habits. Some students have such problems, not many.

Below I will show the performance of my class students in school, and make specific reports to parents so that we can seek consensus in thinking, let us work together to lead our children to a better tomorrow.

Second, the mid-term analysis

Let's talk about your child's academic performance first! This may be a topic that parents are willing to listen to. Every parent wants their child to be the best one. I don’t know that the best one is the one. So the throne is also everyone’s eyes. So far, we have conducted a total of two school-wide tests, the monthly test in September, and the mid-term exam in October. The purpose of these tests is to test the students' learning since the semester, and the results are quite satisfactory. Take this mid-term exam, and achieved good results with the hard work of the teachers and the efforts of the students. The average score of Chinese is comparable to the other two classes; the average score of English is more than 4 points higher than the first class; the average score of mathematics is also 4 points higher than the other two classes. And my class has 13 students to enter the top 30 of the grade; they are --------- 5 students into the top 10, Zhang Yijia first grade, Qian Yuyu grade second, Liu Yanan grade fourth place. Some students in the period have made great progress relative to the beginning of the semester: Chen Jing, Liu Zhijie, Zhang Junqiang-------, they have created a good learning atmosphere for our class and become the leader in our class learning. In addition, in all kinds of competitions, my class students have also made great achievements, and the essay competition---the school sports meeting has achieved the first grade of grades under the efforts of all the students and the hard work of the athletes. Strong collective sense of honor and cohesion. However, I especially want to mention those students who have made me feel bad. Although they have paid the same effort as others, even harder than others, but for one reason or another, they have not achieved the desired results, their efforts. Should also be affirmed, such as Pan Yihui, Liu Ying and so on. But after all, they are children. Whether they are studying or in their daily life, their self-discipline is not strong. They can't completely change some bad phenomena in a short time and remove some of their bad habits. In particular, some students who have no hope of learning and some students who have poor foundations have some bad habits. The performance in school is as follows: after reading the class, you can't immediately take the time to read early. The idea of ​​class can't follow the teacher, and the speech is not active enough. The efficiency of listening is not high, and the homework after class is not really understood, even the phenomenon of plagiarism.

On the surface, this seems to be a student's attitude to learning, but I think this is a study habit and a learning method. In the small school, the teacher taught me how to do it. I rarely do my own ideas and ideas. After entering middle school, the difficulty of learning is increased, the amount of work is increased, and the time available for self-control is also less, but learning The method still can't be changed.

In middle school, students should have the initiative to learn, can preview what the teacher has not said, and can also review the knowledge that the teacher has already said. Therefore, students who are more eager to seek knowledge will get better and better, or have obvious progress; and those who are lazy and afraid of hardships will find it difficult to achieve good results.

I always have a good wish. I want my classmates to cooperate with teachers to learn independently, to guide students to learn to listen to classes, to learn to think about problems, and not to rely entirely on teachers, especially those who are temporarily behind. Relying on the teacher to make up, I want to have outstanding performance, it is difficult! Because a lot of knowledge depends on the students themselves to digest, comprehend, and finally reach the analogy bypass. Therefore, I encourage students to think more and ask more. Of course, the process of learning has never been smooth, and there are many difficulties and twists and turns. As a school, as a class teacher, as a teacher, we have the obligation to help students overcome the difficulties in learning and help students truly learn to be independent. Learn. If some students need will, some need endurance, some need emotions, some need methods, and some need to be careful. Although there are still problems of this kind or the present, we will always work hard in this direction.

The form of school education is group-oriented. A teacher is responsible for at least the education and teaching of dozens of students. Therefore, it is impossible for a school to have enough time and energy as a parent to concentrate the object of education on a student. In the whole process, whether in the time and energy of education, or in the object and emotion of education, parent-child education always occupies a special dominant position, and its potential ability is enormous. School education must have close coordination with parenting education.

According to the current situation of the class, the principle of taking the class is to pour the true feelings and care for the students; pay attention to the details and pay attention to personal habits.

I am very concerned about the development of habits. First, I will never be allowed to go home after school in the morning, and I will be supervised by a special student. Second, I will be responsible for the morning reading of the students before the morning reading at 7:00 in the morning. Self-learning ability. Third, get homework 5 minutes before the start of self-study and prepare for early self-study. Fourth, sort out the wrong set of questions, sort out the topics that are easy to be wrong, and spend time each week to take out the wrong questions and do it again. Consolidate and deepen your memory. If you can persist in doing it for a long time, I believe that your mathematics achievements will definitely make great progress.

[Parental advice]

First, be a role model parent.

Cooperate with teachers to strengthen ideological education and guidance for children and help them form a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values.

Second, be a supervised parent.

Job supervision: check the child's work every night, some parents can not guide, right or wrong, you just have to see if the child has completed the homework.

Third, parents should treat children correctly

You cannot use your grades to measure your children. Good grades of children do not mean that they have good ideas and high abilities; the fact that their children's grades are average does not mean that they have poor thinking and poor ability. The current society needs all kinds of talents. As long as they have the ability, any student can stand in the society and achieve a career.

Scientifically analyze the children's performance files, not to compare with other students, but to focus on themselves. Compare their own several exams before and after, see if they are regressing, what are the reasons, compare the scores of various subjects, see which section is weak, and spend more time to make up. If you compare it with other students, it is easy to enhance the students' rebellious psychology, and the effect may be reversed.

Do not protect your child excessively, and bring great psychological stress to your child, affecting their normal learning. Do not interfere too much, otherwise it will be counterproductive. If the expectations of the children are too high and exceed the actual level of the children, it is easy to discourage the children's self-confidence.

Pay attention to the health of your children. The students in the middle school are in adolescence, their psychological changes are big, their thoughts are immature, and they don’t communicate with adults, so it will easily make our work more difficult, and we can easily give them arbitrarily. To conclude, the diaphragm will become larger and larger. Therefore, we should pay more attention to their thoughts and learn more about them. It would be better if you could make friends with your children and communicate with them.

5. Keep in touch with the school at any time, exchange information, and find the best way to educate your child. If there is any change in the phone number, please report it in time. Our school is a reception day for parents every day. Parents are welcome to come to the school to communicate.

Parents, although we have devoted a lot of hard work and sweat to educating our children, we have made great efforts and made many achievements. However, there are certainly many problems in our work. There is still a distance from parents’ requirements for quality education. We must listen to the reasonable opinions and suggestions of our parents with humility, and go further and strive to do a better job.

Parents, "Ten years of trees, a hundred years of tree people", let us understand each other, cooperate with each other, join hands, and work hard for a better tomorrow for children.

Part 2: The first long-term meeting guide

Dear teacher, dear classmate.

Hello everyone, I am very proud and very happy, I can stand here and speak. Today, the sky is high and the sky is cool, and the autumn wind is cool. As a representative, my heart is full of enthusiasm. The red scarf is the corner of the national flag. The martyrs exchanged their blood. They always encouraged us to be active and study hard.

I used to look forward to bringing you a bright red scarf and a glorious young pioneer. As I grew older, I slowly learned how to be a qualified young pioneer: we are in a young age. We should establish a great ambition, study hard, build our motherland in the future, live up to the expectations of the martyrs, and live up to the red scarf that flutters in the wind on our chests, and be a good student with good academic performance. We respect teachers and unite our classmates at school. We must strictly demand ourselves everywhere, speak civilized, polite, and actively help others. We respect our parents at home, do our homework carefully, and take the initiative to help our parents do what they can.

Classmates, from the moment you wear the red scarf, you are a young pioneer of Guan Rong. You will understand that you are the descendant of the dragon, the future of the motherland, and the actions of the motherland must be worthy of the red scarf that flies on our chests. We must remember the martyrs of the past and strictly demand ourselves to complete the mission of the red scarf to us!!

Fifth grade: Wang Zhiyao

Hello everyone!

First of all, please allow me to express my warm welcome and heartfelt thanks to all the teachers and all the students in our first class for the arrival of the parents. Thank you for your support of our work. Inviting everyone to come today, the main purpose is to report to the parents about some of the class, to study the tasks we are facing, to develop good measures, through the joint efforts of both of us, to do a good job of our children, so that each of our children can Make progress and work together to make every child grow healthy and lively.

Today, I mainly talk about these items:

First, let me introduce the basic situation of the classes of the teachers:

Student situation:

There are 75 students in this class, including 37 boys and 38 girls. The film accounted for 80% of the students, and 20% of the students entered through the relationship. Some students have poor learning foundations and good study habits have not been developed. However, from the performance of this half-semester, most of the students are more loyal and honest, and there is no big problem. It can be said that this is very valuable.

Teacher situation:

Language——Zhang Liming Mathematics——Fan Liying English——Li Xia

The teacher is very responsible, especially the mathematics teacher. Although she has just left the school, she has a postgraduate degree, very rich knowledge, very serious work, and a strong sense of responsibility. English teacher Li Xia is transferred from the big battlefield middle school. A teacher with a very rich teaching experience. They have teamed up with me, and I believe that our first class is very promising.

Second, the status of children and our measures

Children are the future of our country. Children are also the hope of our happy life in our later years. Correct and reasonable parenting education is the happiness of a person's life. Mistakes and bad parenting education are the pain and bitterness of our own old age. The present society is a If a society with equal civilized competition does not have a certain knowledge reserve and ability, it will be difficult to maintain itself in fierce competition. The biggest worry in life is that the children are not able to make a difference. The greatest comfort in life is the talent and virtue of the child. Now pay more, do your own efforts and responsibilities; otherwise, when the child goes to school, our parents will be distressed to find a good school for their children, and they will be troubled when they have a good job. When your child is married, you need your constant help and help. The knowledgeable parents can not only cultivate their children, but also have a happy old age. This should be the most important topic that our parents consider.

In fact, there is not much knowledge taught in the middle school. As long as you listen carefully and study seriously, no child can't keep up. It depends on whether he wants to learn. This is the psychological state of the child I want to talk about. An educator has said that a normal middle school student can learn 14 languages, and the potential of children is huge. However, because in the small school, children do not have the pressure to go to school, and every child can directly enter the country. Therefore, many children still lack initiative and lack of purpose in learning, and there is no learning goal. Some children regard learning as a task. Finished without taking learning as your own business. Because of the unsatisfactory results in the small and medium-sized schools, individual children lack confidence in learning and think that they have no hope. In fact, the results of the national hour period do not necessarily play a decisive role in the performance of the middle school period. Some children's first-year school entrance results are not ideal, but due to the efforts of the middle school stage, they can still go to key high schools; while some children have good grades in the national stage, after entering the country, for one reason or another, for example, learning is not diligent. Or the method of learning is not scientific, resulting in a decline in the national stage. At present, some good habits of children have not yet formed. The performance of the school is as follows: After the school arrives in the morning, I can't immediately take the time to read it early. I don't listen carefully to the class. I don't really understand the homework after class, and even I can't pay it on time for several days. At home, performances such as Sundays cannot be scientifically arranged during the holidays, and the concept of learning is not strong. This actually requires our teachers and parents to help children establish a correct understanding. In this regard, our teachers will further strengthen guidance, not to behave in a discipline, and to achieve a comprehensive development of thinking and learning.

We must strengthen the concept of discipline, strengthen the concept of time, strengthen the concept of efficiency, and guide children to develop a good habit of "what time to do what, what to do and what to do." The school's rules and regulations and good teaching conditions are the guarantee for the healthy growth of our children. At the same time, I hope that parents can urge their children to arrange their own study time at home, and at the same time check to keep up, and find problems in a timely manner with the class guide or the teacher.

Children in the middle school period, education and psychology called this stage "juvenile period". During this period, psychological and physiological changes were relatively rapid, and all aspects of body and mind were contradictory. Both teachers and parents attach great importance to the supervision and check of this critical period and dangerous period. During this period, they were full of energy and curiosity. They always wanted to try anything, but their wishes were very contradictory to their actual ability. Their independence was enhanced and they always wanted to get rid of teachers and parents. Trust, always think that you are not a child. Some people are unwilling to communicate with their parents and teachers. They are in a semi-closed state, and their peers complain that they are risking exposure. So they feel that no one can understand them without friends. Another striking feature of this period is the gradual maturity of physiological development. On the one hand, they are new to the development of various parts of their bodies. On the other hand, they are full of shame and anxiety. They are unwilling to let their parents enter their own rooms and have their own secrets. It is. Psychological performance is easy to be excited and impulsive, nerve sensitive, most children's early love is in this period, during this period, we must attach great importance to it, we must not have adverse effects on children because of bad stimulation, our children Although it does not reach the ability to discriminate between right and wrong, it is very confident, and self-inhibition ability is the lowest during this time. Therefore, parents and teachers must strengthen education and guidance.

The school's form of education is a group of forms of education. Its moral, intellectual, and physical education is group education. It is mainly based on imparting knowledge. A teacher is responsible for the educational tasks of forty or fifty people, so the school cannot. As parents have enough time and energy to concentrate the object of education on a student, regardless of the time and energy of education, or the emotional aspect of education, parent-child education has an advantage and has a special status. And role.

In the tenth week, the school conducted the mid-term examination, which is a test of the students' learning since the half-semester. The overall result is quite satisfactory. Especially under the special conditions of placement, most of the students' grades have improved compared with the beginning of school. Some of the students' progress is still very big. These students are Cao Ninghui, Wu Jiabao, Bai Yan, Fu Simin, Yan Huihui, Wang Qili. Li Min, Li Jing, Zhu Sinan, Liu Siyu, Dang Xuejiao, Zhang Wen, Kang Zhixiang and other students.

However, the mid-term exam also reflects some problems. The most prominent problem is that the partiality is serious and should be paid enough attention. I hope parents can cooperate with education.

Third, I hope that parents can cooperate with several aspects:

1. Our parents should give their children more confidence and be a strong backing for their growth.

Because of the individual differences of children, it is inevitable that the children's performance is good or bad. Because the children refuse to learn, the results are poor. We should be appropriate criticism, but the children try their best, but the results are not ideal. We should give him confidence. Give more encouragement instead of pouring cold water on him. This will make him feel resentful about learning. In the face of children with unsatisfactory results, parents should not blame, and should not give up. What we should do is He works hard to help the child think about how to get the results up, care more about his study and life, help the child to establish a realistic learning goal that can be achieved through hard work, and let the child adjust his mind and be positive.

2. Educate your child to observe discipline.

The family has a family law, the school has a school rule, and the class also has class discipline. These rules and disciplines are the guarantee for the students to improve their performance. Only by observing these disciplines well can the children form a benign class and be able to improve themselves in all aspects. It is particularly necessary to strengthen the concept of discipline and to be civilized and disciplined. It is necessary to educate the children to understand that a person who understands the rules and consciously abides by the rules can only act according to the rules before he can make himself progress. If a kite wants to fly high, it must be pulled by the bottom line. If there is no such line that binds it, the kite can only fall to the ground. The same is true of people. Don't fantasize about absolute freedom. Absolute freedom brings absolute indulgence. There is absolutely no good result. If a child does not do well in observing discipline, it is not only a kind of harm to himself. It is also a kind of harm for those who study hard and study hard. It is also a kind of harm to our class. This is what we do not want to see. It is absolutely not allowed.

3. In response to the child's situation, contact the teacher in time and communicate in a timely manner.

As there are more students in the class, as a class guide, my contacts with parents are not very frequent, and there are fewer opportunities for other teachers and parents to communicate. I think that in educating children, we must first understand the children. On this basis, parents and teachers join hands to make the work a child's heart and achieve real results. Parents and friends get in touch with the teachers. On the one hand, they can make our work more targeted. On the other hand, they can also drive the progress of the children. There are individual children, parents and teachers who are both at the same time, and they have a free time. The results can be imagined. If we do the work of the children ahead of time, I think at least they can make them more advanced, which requires us to communicate further. Parents should keep abreast of the child's monthly study and discipline, and rely on a parent meeting to solve any fundamental problems. In fact, it is unrealistic to solve many problems through one or two parent meetings. In special circumstances, parents still need to contact the teacher through telephone or to other forms such as school, so that the education of teachers and parents is consistent, forming a synergy.

4. Establish the concept of talented person and comprehensive development.

If you don't give up education, every child can make a difference. For each child, we should strictly educate and manage, put ideology and morality first, constrain discipline, grasp learning, develop specialties, strive for advanced, and comprehensively improve all aspects of the martial arts. There are so many different things in the society, such as video games halls, computer Internet cafes, computer online games, unhealthy movies, comics, novels, etc., and dance halls, etc., far beyond the knowledge of textbooks. Attraction can make their academic performance plummet, and their thoughts and concepts are adversely affected. This is also often said to be greater than 5. Moreover, the consciousness of Guozhongsheng has not yet formed. Practice has proved that parents have strict management of their children, and their children's academic performance will be excellent; on the contrary, in addition to very few children with strong self-care ability, learning often fails.

5. Strict management of time and scientific arrangement of time. There are several aspects that require parental attention:

Do not go out without a parent during the break.

Morning arrival time: 7:10, evening school time: 6:20, to urge the children to get up on time, do not arrive early, not late, parents must master the time, ask students to go home on time, can not stay outside, play.

On Sundays, you should also work on time and work together. It is recommended to study on average 3 to 4 hours a day.

The study time per night should be 1 to 2 hours, including homework and review.

Parents should often ask their children to learn and understand their learning.

Focus on cultivating children's labor concepts.

Ask the child to do a certain amount of housework at home. Such as washing dishes, wiping the floor, cleaning up the room, washing vegetables, field work, etc. If you don't learn to live, you will often not learn. In labor, you will not only cultivate your child's sentiments, but also allow your children to exercise in their abilities. Our labor arrangements, such as the child’s health value date, are also based on this. When educating children, ask yourself to do things yourself. Parents should not do everything for their children. They must consciously cultivate their sense of responsibility.

Parents, our goal is the same. Our mission is to be unified. We hope that we can cooperate with each other and train our students, your children, into excellent students who are diligent and of high quality, and will be promoted and employed for future students. And even the development of the entire life lays a solid foundation.

Part 3: The first long-term meeting guide

Dear parents,

Hello everyone! First of all, please allow me to express my warm welcome and heartfelt thanks to all the teachers in the 12th class. Thank you for your concern and love for our class students. Thank you for your support of our class work. Thank you for your support for my work during the first half of this semester and for the support of the school work. Without such support from you, children cannot make such great progress. Today, take this opportunity to communicate with you and hope that with our joint efforts and cooperation, your child will get the greatest possible progress and improvement in the shortest possible time.

Children are the future of our country. Children are also the hope of our happy life in our later years. Correct and reasonable parenting education is the happiness of a person's life. Mistakes and bad parenting education are the pain and bitterness of our own old age. The present society is a If a society with equal civilized competition does not have a certain knowledge reserve and ability, it will be difficult to maintain itself in fierce competition. The biggest worry in life is that the children are not able to make a difference. The greatest comfort in life is the talent and virtue of the child. Now pay more, do your own efforts and responsibilities; otherwise, when the child goes to school, our parents will be distressed to find a good school for their children, and they will be troubled when they have a good job. When your child is married, you need your constant help and help. The knowledgeable parents can not only cultivate their children, but also have a happy old age. This should be the most important topic that our parents consider. In fact, there is not much knowledge taught in the middle school. As long as you listen carefully and study seriously, no child can't keep up. It depends on whether he wants to learn. This is the psychological state of the child I want to talk about. An educator has said that a normal middle school student can learn 14 languages, and the potential of children is huge. However, because in the small school, children do not have the pressure to go to school, and every child can directly enter the country. Therefore, many children still lack initiative and lack of purpose in learning, and there is no learning goal. Some children regard learning as a task. Finished without taking learning as your own business. Because of the unsatisfactory results in the small and medium-sized schools, individual children lack confidence in learning and think that they have no hope. In fact, the results of the national hour period do not necessarily play a decisive role in the performance of the middle school period. Some children's first-year school entrance results are not ideal, but due to the efforts of the middle school stage, they can still go to key high schools; while some children have good grades in the national stage, after entering the country, for one reason or another, for example, learning is not diligent. Or the method of learning is not scientific, resulting in a decline in the national stage. At present, some good habits of children have not yet formed. The performance of the school is as follows: After the school arrives in the morning, I can't immediately take the time to read it early. I don't listen carefully to the class. I don't really understand the homework after class, and even I can't pay it on time for several days. At home, performances such as Sundays cannot be scientifically arranged during the holidays, and the concept of learning is not strong. This actually requires our teachers and parents to help children establish a correct understanding. In this regard, our teachers will further strengthen guidance, not to behave in a discipline, and to achieve a comprehensive development of thinking and learning.

In the third year of the country, the first day is the key. In this year, it is necessary to let the children develop a good habit of earnestness, diligence, and practical study. They must be able to practice sitting and have strong self-discipline and control. This is the basis for studying in the next three years and even in high school. After all, it is impossible for children to attend high school. Therefore, I personally think that as a parent, it is necessary to take some time in the first year of the year to supervise the children to learn. If your child develops your study habits under your supervision and strict requirements, then you don't have to worry about it later, including leaving your high school and going to college. Maybe you earn a little less for this, play a few mahjong less, watch TV for a while, or sleep for a few hours every night...but these are compared to your child’s lifetime, I think Mingli’s parents must believe that this effort is worthwhile. Some parents think that if they send their children to Chengguan Middle School, the children will be able to successfully enter the door of Lingtai No.1, but they will let the children hand over to the school for full management. Some parents will entrust the children to relatives or trustees to manage. The ideas and practices are very undesirable. Some parents say that they don't have much culture. Children don't understand what they learn. In fact, our parents should understand that parents are not teaching children how to do problems, but how to behave, how to develop a good habit of learning, if he learns Being a person, learning to learn, what else can he learn? Maybe relatives can help you take care of your child's daily life. Hosting can help children to comment on some homework, but ask anyone who loves their children like their own children. If the others are paddles, then you are the helmsman, you have to control the direction yourself, and they can only help you. As a class teacher, as a class teacher, it is also incumbent on the students to make efforts to grow their students. However, class guides and class teachers must manage two classes of students, and they should give their energy to 46 or even 94 children. The energy of your child must be very limited, not to mention that we also have our own children, and our parents have only one child. Therefore, parenting education must be more important than school education. Every parent is creating good children. While studying the environment, you must not neglect your supervision and education of your child. Some parents will say that if the child does not listen to us, the teacher’s words are very good. So where is the problem? The teacher only has the child for three years, and the parents have to take care of the child for a lifetime. If you don’t spend more time educating the child, then how? The parent education will create what kind of child. So, here I suggest:

1 The family should take the primary task of educating the children, instead of kicking the children to the school and kicking them to others; 2 the family should be harmonious, especially when the parents are in conflict, do not quarrel in front of the children, can be children Provide a peaceful and happy environment; 3 reduce unnecessary entertainment, when one party has entertainment, the other party should try to stay with the child; 4 usually communicate with the child, talk, and develop learning goals and plans with him, and supervise Its implementation, encourage him to move forward, through your unremitting efforts, I believe that children will certainly improve; 5 behavioral habits parents should be good example, in the face of children talk less about the dark side of society, let him be pure and lovely Students, because pure and lovely students are loved, don't let him be too snobbish, too self, should educate him to do more collective efforts, learn tolerance, students and people get along with each other. Because the recognition of academic achievement is a small part of the person, the recognition of the person and ability is a large part of life. Some parents will think about it. If you say this, it is not to shirk the responsibility of the teacher. I can show each parent that every teacher will do his best to discipline your child.

Let me first talk about the basic situation of the class and some of my less mature personal views.

First, the basic situation

There are 46 students in our class, including 24 boys and 22 girls. The ratio of male to female is acceptable. In fact, at the time of placement, the 12 classes in the seventh grade are all balanced according to the score. Our class is a very common class in the balance class. The first class in the class is the eleventh in the class, but our class. The class style is still very upright. In addition to some a little naughty students, the boys are more active. They love to talk a few empty words. They are basically very cute and very kind. The girls are also relatively simple and well-behaved. However, there are more students with poor class foundations, especially those living in school. In addition to the disciplinary violations, the class is counted down to four, so although the school is only half a semester, the two poles that appeared in the second day of the school. Differentiation has emerged. From the usual performance, there are mainly the following problems:

1. A small number of students have poor behavioral norms, like to interject, be active, and have difficulty concentrating.

2. Poor work habits, low quality of homework completion, no questions about other students or teachers for the problems that will not be done, do not understand if you don't understand, the homework is wrong, and no corrections are made in time.

3. Do not attend classes, do not know how to take notes, how to integrate into the new classroom.

4. Careless and sloppy, often lose three pull four, some good students, forget to bring homework, forget to bring a tablecloth chair cover, school sign, need parents to send over, or go home to take.

5. Individual students do not learn on their own.

6. There are always students in the self-study class who can't control themselves and will talk back; some students will not go home in time after school.

7. Seating problems. The principle of separation, according to academic performance, individual height and so on.

8. Students who do not live in the dormitory outside the school are difficult to manage.

Judging from the examination situation, this time two major examinations were conducted. The mid-term exam is a test of the student's learning since the half-semester, and the results of our class are still ok. In this exam, a total of 33 people in my class have made different degrees of progress, but there are also signs of regression. However, the mid-term exam also reflects some problems. The most prominent problem is that the partiality is serious and needs to be taken seriously. I hope parents can cooperate with education. To correct the reasons, there are the following points:

1. The purpose of a small number of students is not clear enough, the autonomy of learning is poor, and there is no consciousness.

2. Some students' learning habits and methods are backward and inefficient. If you don't hurry, find problems and ask questions from the teacher.

3. A small number of students have not yet placed a seat in the study, and it is a waste of time to make the class poor.

4. There are still some bad phenomena in the class, such as: some students speak in class, do small actions, some students like to attack others, get along badly with classmates, some students are indifferent to the class, some students are not willing Take responsibility and so on. This requires parents and teachers to contact in time to help students get rid of these shortcomings.

5. The students' self-consciousness is poor, there is no initiative, and the teacher must look at everything, even if the teacher is holding a whip behind him.

6. There are more lazy people, afraid of brains, fear of writing pens, fear of remembering, fear of back, doing everything is to complete the task, and even some students can not complete the tasks assigned by the teacher.

7. Students are comfortable with the status quo and have no sense of competition.

The most important reason for the above situation is that some students' good study habits have not yet formed. In the small school, the teacher taught me how to do it. I rarely do my own ideas and ideas. After entering middle school, the difficulty of learning is increased, the amount of work is increased, and the time available for self-control is also sufficient, but learning The method still can't be changed. In middle school, students should have the initiative to learn, can preview what the teacher has not said, and can also review the knowledge that the teacher has already said. Therefore, students who are more eager to seek knowledge will get better and better, or have obvious progress; and those who are lazy and afraid of hardships will find it difficult to achieve good results. Relying on the teacher to make up, I want to have outstanding performance, it is difficult! Because a lot of knowledge depends on the students themselves to digest, comprehend, and finally reach the analogy bypass. Therefore, I encourage students to think more and ask more. Of course, the process of learning has never been smooth, and there are many difficulties and twists and turns. As a school, as a class teacher, as a teacher, we have the obligation to help students overcome the difficulties in learning and help students truly learn to be independent. Learn. If some students need will, some need endurance, some need emotions, some need methods, and some need to be careful. We also implemented a system in which teachers as teachers assisted students and discussed with individual students. Although there are still problems of this kind or the present, we will always work hard in this direction.

Second, the basic approach

In order to better enable students to enter the state quickly, I have mainly done the following work for more than two months.

1. Get together with your child every morning, middle and night to understand the class situation and deal with some emergencies. At the beginning, many children often come to me as the national juniors, saying that the other party is not, or who is quarreling with whom. After I understand the situation, I always let the contradictory parties find their own, and then sincerely to the other party. Apologize, or write an apology letter to the other party, let them return to good, and then tell them something to be tolerant of each other. Sometimes I simply said: "Some little things that don't always come to the teacher to complain, you have to solve it peacefully, otherwise both sides must criticize, and also deduct the moral education points of the two." Also let the classmates see the classmates When confronted with contradictions, we must come forward to persuade, and the class cadres must not shirk their responsibilities. So now, there are very few contradictions between the classmates, and there are some things that say a few words.

2. In order to form a good self-study discipline, create a good learning environment, better improve academic performance, guide them how to make full use of the two meals, complete the homework as soon as possible, and then read some meaningful books, asking the children to enter the school at noon. Time and self-study time must be able to study quietly, not to whisper. In order to improve students' self-control ability and work ability, each classmate has the opportunity to manage the class. When managing the class, the students can perform their duties well and do a good job. For those students who violated self-study discipline and discipline, I asked my classmates to make appropriate punishments to warn themselves, in addition to preaching and enlightenment. Some children, in the less moderate teacher's class, can't control themselves. I will let the class teacher sign the teacher every time. If there is a disciplinary or poor situation, then he will be arguing and tracing. After the joint efforts of the teachers and students during this time, the class self-study discipline and classroom discipline are still very good.

3. In order to develop good hygiene habits and working habits, I said to the students at the beginning: "Every student can't escape the value of life. If you escape the value of life, then even if you get home, I will let your parents put it. You send it back to the school to make up the value of the daily work. If you accidentally forget it, then please take the initiative to ask for the value of the daily work." I also said that labor is the responsibility of one person, and the students can work hard for the class. And why can't you work for the class, the class is everyone's class, if you don't want to contribute to the class, then you are not worthy of class 714 classmates. If the work on the value day is not satisfactory, they will be educated to pay attention to the meaning of the team and help each other. If they still can't, they will be given a small punishment - the penalty sweep, if the work is improved, it will be free from punishment. , or reduce the number of days of penalty sweeps. Due to discipline and health and class culture construction, the blackboard newspaper and other aspects are very good, our class also got five awards "opening the door" winning awards at the beginning of the school, the five items won so far The red flag of the competition is also relatively large.

4. Do a good job of the students' conversations. In the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Ma said: "The heart attack is the top, the siege is the next." The most important job of the class leader is to attack the heart. Some children are not broad-minded; some children love to bully others; some children do not know how to arrange at school. Time, often on the table; some children love to speak foul language, swearing; some children's performance is declining; some children are too careless, etc. These are the things that I can't usually do as a class guide, and not one case.

5. In the teaching of Chinese language, in addition to the usual good classes, students are often given no tutoring, and sometimes they come home very late. Regarding the correction work, I said to the students: "The classroom teacher will definitely correct it. Even if it is too late, I will make it up the next time I am correcting this book. As for homework, I will have time to have the energy to approve. As much as possible, but as a class guide school, it is very trivial. Sometimes, I have to put more energy into the daily work and class construction of the management class. Sometimes I have to do the ideological work and individual counseling work of my classmates. Sometimes I am very Pay attention to the corrections and test rolls of independent work completed at noon, so many times homework can not be approved, I hope everyone will forgive me.” The students also understand me very well. Here, I want every parent to say “sorry”.

Third, several suggestions

The form of school education is group-based. A teacher is responsible for at least the education and teaching of dozens of students. Therefore, it is impossible for a school to have enough time and energy as a parent to concentrate on the education of a student. Education always occupies a special dominant position, and its potential ability is enormous. There is a phenomenon in which children enter the same school at the same age, learn in the same class, and teach the same time, education The environment is the same, but the effect of receiving education is very different. The reason for this differentiation is not the quality of school education, but the cooperation of parent education. There is such a metaphor, the teacher is like a doctor, the parents are like a nurse, and the care of the nurse is particularly important after the doctor prescribes the medicine. School education can never be separated from correct parenting education. If there is no good, correct and reasonable parenting education, no matter how good the teacher or the better school can produce good educational results. To this end, we must form a consensus in the following aspects.

To master the characteristics of children, to educate in a targeted manner, to pay more attention to methods and methods in education, attitudes can not be rude, language can not be too radical. Parents should try their best to spend time with their children, communicate with their children regularly, and learn to treat their problems as they grow up with their children. I usually have to communicate with my children and ask about the situation. I can't wait for the results to come out. When the problem comes out, I think about caring for children. For example, if the child comes home and asks at random; what's new in the school today? Have you changed the same table? Do you like him? What are the characteristics of your math teacher's lecture? What are the beautiful essays in your textbook, read? Two paragraphs of American text give me solutions, and so on. Ordinary conversations can cause children's interest and a sense of intimacy. Pay attention to your child's psychological problems and pay attention to the problem of early love in the Qing period. The only child is easy to be self-centered. In fact, teachers are weak or weak, and parents should pay more attention to it. Grasp the scale when educating your child. In particular, when correcting the child's key shortcomings, we must consider maturity and choose the best place and timing. There is a female classmate in our class. Her parents communicate with it through a pen-talking form, and write what she wants to say on paper. Stay on the desk, she has any ideas, opinions and unwillingness to write down in person, and leave it to parents. This method is very good, avoiding emotional problems with each other and it is easy to accept. Parents can try it.

Be comprehensive and accurate in estimating your child. This kind of assessment can't be too high or too low. There is an old saying in the countryside that "the crops look good, the children look good", and when their children are very small, they feel very intelligent, but After going to school, I saw the gap when I compare it, and then I was disheartened when I was in the middle school. This is caused by the inaccurate estimation of the child's intelligence. As parents of children with better intelligence, we must see "someone outside the world, there are days outside the sky."

Be sure to look at your child's score correctly. The times have changed, the standards of talents are also changing, the scores cannot determine everything, and the high scores may not be high-energy. Only the comprehensive and comprehensive development of the elements, and the students with strong adaptability and innovative ability can adapt to the competition and challenges of the future society. Einstein failed to graduate from the middle school, Edison Elementary School was called a fool, but they became scientists and inventors who have made great contributions to humanity; Bill. Gates Harvard University can become the world's richest man without graduation, so we should establish a new concept of talent. Your child's academic performance does not mean that his or her thoughts are good and his ability is high. Your child's temporary academic performance is backward, which does not mean that the mind is poor and the ability is low. Can not think that the score is everything, the test score is high, to guide the child not to be complacent; the test score is not ideal, you should calmly study the existing problems with the teacher and the child. It is better to compare with classmates, but also to compare with yourself, compare several exams before and after, to see if it is regressing, what is the reason. Compare the scores between the sections, see which section is weak, and spend more time to make up.

Give your child more confidence and be a strong backing for your child's growth. Because of the individual differences of children, it is inevitable that the results are good or bad. If the children refuse to learn and lead to poor grades, we should properly criticize them. If the children do their best and the results are not ideal, we should give him more confidence. Instead of blindly pouring cold water on him, it will make him feel resentful about learning. Listen to your child's voices, don't blindly blame your children, help them analyze problems and find countermeasures, so that children will not be rebellious and willing to communicate with you. In the face of children with poor behavior, parents should not blame, and should not give up. Encourage them, give them confidence, cultivate their positive and optimistic attitude towards life, be good at discovering their strengths, patiently guide children to correctly view their own deficiencies, and jointly formulate plans to help them correct their shortcomings. . Sometimes a parent's words, a look, an action can have a great impact on the child, even unforgettable. Positive encouragement is an effective way to promote your child's success. For example, an exam was taken, and he ridiculed him: What do you look like? It is better to change the angle, the effect will be different: such a difficult problem, also got more than 60 points, not bad!

Students should be taught to observe discipline. The family has a family law, the school has school rules, and the class also has class discipline. These rules and disciplines are the guarantee for the students to improve their performance. Only by obeying these disciplines well can students form a good class and be able to improve their own. level. If a student does not do well in observing discipline, it is not only a kind of harm to himself. It is also a kind of harm for those students who study hard and study hard. It is also an injury to the class and unfair to other students. This is something we don't want to see, and it is absolutely not allowed. Individual students in the class speak swear words, call others nicknames, and even write swear words on the slips. It is not only easy to induce contradictions and conflicts, but also ruin the class atmosphere and hope parents strengthen education. Educate your children to obey the teacher's discipline at school, respect the teacher, and not to attack the teacher. Our teachers can be regarded as first-class in both teaching and education. Therefore, we should believe in the teacher's education and education standards. Everything is for the children.

Educate your child to do more self-criticism. When the child and other classmates have a squabble or contradiction, when they say that they have been wronged, let the child find the reason from himself, do not always help the child to speak, or will condone the child's shortcomings. When criticized by the teacher, let the children analyze: Why did the class leader and the teacher criticize you, is the teacher looking for your own embarrassment? What are the wrong things for yourself? Any time strict requirements are beneficial to the students, the teacher’s criticism education is for the children. Responsible, praise is love, criticism is a kind of love. After all, the child is a child. Sometimes the child's words are not necessarily true and trustworthy. I believe the teacher's words and ask the parents to take the initiative to communicate with the class guide and the class teacher to understand the real situation. I believe that many misunderstandings can be completely eliminated through communication. This is more conducive to the growth of children.

Be honest with the teacher, be consistent, and form the synergy of education. In modern society, parents must rely on schools to allow their children to receive systematic knowledge. At this point, parents cannot replace school education. On the other hand, the school can only take part in the education of the children. If the parents push the education responsibility to the teacher, it is a dereliction of duty. In particular, important educational tasks such as moral education, habit cultivation, and character development require the cooperation of parents and teachers to complete. Of course, quite a few parents attach great importance to the educational cooperation between the family and the school. Under this circumstance, I believe that parents and teachers should be honest, exchange and mutual tolerance. As parents, we must correctly treat the deficiencies of teachers. There are no perfect people, and the educational standards of teachers are high and low. It is inevitable that mistakes and deficiencies will occur. Parents should communicate with teachers to resolve differences and opinions. We must maintain teachers in the minds of children. We must not discuss the shortcomings and shortcomings of teachers in front of children. We must not belittle teachers and stand firmly on the side of school teachers. Teachers will also maintain The image of the parents, so that education can form a synergy. The children are still young. Once the teacher loses their proper status in their minds, they will refuse to study together with this homework. In this case, the child's loss will be great. As a teacher, we must fully understand the eagerness of the parents to look forward to Jackie Chan and look forward to the female Cheng Feng. Fully devote themselves to the work, teach good books, educate people, satisfy students, and reassure parents. I often hear some parents say: My child’s national hourly performance and behavior habits are very good. How did you change to your school? This reflects the lack of objective and comprehensive understanding of the children’s understanding of the children, the age environment is changing, the middle school and the small school. There are big differences. It is normal for children to have new problems in their growth. We must face him squarely. As long as we understand each other and support each other, we will definitely receive good results.

Do not spoil the child, learn to say no to the child. There is a famous saying in Israel: If you are rich, you can't be rich. Let the children endure hardships and cultivate the children's hard and plain simplicity is beneficial to the child's growth. Give your child money to control and ask how the child spends it. Handling of mobile phone, MP3, Wenquxing, and extracurricular readings. It is necessary to focus on cultivating children's labor concepts and require children to do a certain amount of housework at home. Such as washing dishes, wiping the floor, cleaning up the room, washing vegetables, field work, etc. If you don't learn to live, you will often not learn. In labor, you will not only cultivate your child's sentiments, but also allow your children to exercise in their abilities. Our labor arrangements, such as the child’s health value date, are also based on this. When educating children, ask yourself to do things yourself. Parents should not do everything for their children. They must consciously cultivate their sense of responsibility.

Proactively contact with the class leader and the teacher, to keep abreast of the child's performance and learning in school. As there are more students in the class, as a class guide, my contacts with parents are not very frequent, and there are fewer opportunities for other teachers and parents to communicate. I think that in educating children, we must first understand the children. On this basis, parents and teachers join hands to make the work a child's heart and achieve real results. Parents and friends get in touch with the teachers. On the one hand, they can make our work more targeted. On the other hand, they can also drive the progress of the children. There are individual children, parents and teachers who are both at the same time, and they have a free time. The results can be imagined. If we do the work of the children ahead of time, I think at least they can make them more advanced, which requires us to communicate further. Parents should keep abreast of the child's monthly study and discipline, and rely on a parent meeting to solve any fundamental problems. In fact, it is unrealistic to solve many problems through one or two parent meetings. In special circumstances, parents still need to contact the teacher through telephone or to other forms such as school, so that the education of teachers and parents is consistent, forming a synergy.

Strictly manage time and arrange time scientifically. Parents should pay attention to the following aspects: Do not go out without parental assistance during breaks. Morning school time: 6:30, evening self-study time: 20:50, to urge the child to get up on time, do not arrive early, not late, parents must master the time, ask students to go home on time, can not stay outside ,play. On Sundays, you should also work on time and work together. It is recommended to study on average 3 to 4 hours a day. The study time per night should be 1 to 2 hours, including homework and review. Parents should often ask their children to learn and understand their learning.

Parents, with the advancement of society, the next generation of education has become a hot spot and focus of the society. Paying attention to and improving parenting education has become a consensus among educators and parents. However, in real life, it is inevitable that many parents do not have enough knowledge about how to be a good parent, do not know how to educate children, treat children, or be wise and ethical, only care about children's scores; or believe in " "Being a filial son", educating children is simple and rude; or excessive love for children, all kinds of care... A misunderstanding formed in parenting education, and thus the negative impact on the child's mind, will be a child's life Caused delays. Children are the continuation of life and hope for the future. Parents' cooperation and teachers' efforts are the foundation for children's success. Let us work together to build a bridge for children's growth and create a better tomorrow for children! We have paid a lot of hard work and sweat in the early stage, and we have done our best and made a lot of achievements. However, there are certainly many problems in our work. There is still a distance from the parents’ requirements for quality education. We must listen to you with humility. Parents' reasonable opinions and suggestions, go a step further, and strive to do a better job. I am confident that after all three years, these 46 children will be trained in adults. There will be a qualitative leap in study and life. I am confident, or that sentence, there is a hope of one percent, and we will never give up.