Happiness stems from your life experience

My mother often receives a newsletter that I gave her back at 2 o'clock in the evening, or in the phone at 6 o'clock in the morning, I heard the strange excitement that I had not slept overnight. She began to worry about my body, and even told me with great enthusiasm, if the work is too tired, quit, let us raise you. When I heard this, my heart was warm. If I was internship at Company A a few years ago, I would be in tears. At that time, I was mistaken and counted, and it was really a gray face. At that time, if the mother said this, I guess I will immediately put down everything, buy a ticket and fly home, never come back. But today, my feeling is that it is good to have their support.

I used to be a vulnerable and sensitive person. A colleague's blame, I can be uncomfortable for a long time. The boss’s reprimand, I can feel that I have been destroyed from the previous process. However, it is these criticisms that have made me a child, from a naive and romantic child, step by step to me today. I remember the first day of work after changing jobs. The boss pointed at the vase and remembered to use the logistics to help me change the flowers. My job is to maintain the daily work agenda, the minutes of the meeting, yes, and to translate the files.

If you change to me when you graduated, you must turn around and leave: I am here, not to serve you alone. But that day, I happily thanked her for her arrangement and said good morning to everyone I met.

Before each meeting, I will put all the information that my colleagues need on the table, and then pour them water. Slowly I observed that every colleague likes a different drink. I began to record the hobbies of each of them, and then the next meeting, ready in advance. The only thing that I played was the minutes of the meeting. I made the minutes of the meeting into an analysis report and handed it in according to the reading habits of the boss. In the analysis report, there will even be a data model and detailed industry analysis. When I change the flowers every day, I will carefully adjust its position and spray it with water. Of course, I will also calculate that when the boss enters the office, the flowers just greet her in the best posture.

I never feel that work is meaningless. Many children who have no work experience want to do big projects as soon as they come up, with big orders. I really like the work of an assistant. Is there any work that is more rapid and faster than letting you learn the working mode of the strong? I am very serious about her schedule, what projects, who to meet with; a project, how many people invest, what is the price, what is the cost; how to appease the staff, how to coerce the employee; how to bargain with the customer How to make customers believe in our profession, how to compete with their peers. These things I never learned in business school, during that time, I learned a lot. The boss is also more and more fond of me, and gradually, what to do with me.

Perhaps it’s a flamboyant age, and I feel that I’m working hard and making my heart a lot better. In fact, I know all the way, this is just a process, a process that makes you full of wings and has enough qualifications to undertake. This industry has invested in the most intelligent people in the world. More than you, you must count more than you. If you blindly follow the footsteps of others, it is easy to get lost in this chase game. I didn't follow my formula to go my journey, but I took every step on the ground. Nothing, I have always been cheeky to ask experienced colleagues. From small to large, I have always taken the initiative to take care of others, and I have received a lot of selfless care. Some people say that this industry is so competitive, how can it be possible to pay attention? However, as long as he is a person, there will always be times when he needs to be cared for and understood. At this time, can the person who appears to be you?

Later, I finally could do the work that I was good at and liked.

When the old classmates saw you today, when you were envious, please don’t tell her how hard you are. Just smile. When the friends of the past told you, how long have we not met and have not chatted, when we are so sad, just smile.

What we lose is the cost we get, we can't always want everything. Always remember that people who understand you will always understand you. Things that will be lost will never belong to you. Being yourself is the most important thing. I will follow the advice of my predecessors, both at work and in life, but that doesn't mean that I will do what they say. Some obviously know that there will be pain, I will still try it; some I know that there will be some sadness, I will still experience it. When we are young, we must bravely try different possibilities in life. In this way, we will be able to walk out of our way in our future life journey.

Happiness, how many pairs of shoes you have, how many brand-name suits, and how big a house is. Happiness stems from your life experience. Happiness stems from what kind of person you are, and in what way you spend your life.