Some things you never get the life you want will never get

The 22-year-old S girl has a good job in a small city, but she is troubled by the marriage. The unappealing appearance and the character of a few men make her peach blossoms slow. She plans to go abroad or change jobs to a big city, but she is too late to make up her mind. On the one hand, the current job is a high-paying state-owned enterprise. On the one hand, she is afraid of the complicated process of going abroad and the fierce competition in big cities, so she has been entangled for six years, to twenty. At the age of eight, due to the narrowness of the social circle, she was still the one who looked like an ordinary woman, but she became a leftover woman. Due to the limitations of gender and unit nature at work, although it has been very hard, it is still an ordinary staff member. Her high education and single status made her stand in the small city, so she took the time to change to Shanghai.

The new company gave her a position, and also provided a dormitory with a yard, wages are several thousand higher than before, saving money, plus the previous investment income can pay a down payment. The work is not too difficult for her to be outstanding. The experience accumulated over the years has made her feel like a duck, and she has begun to harvest the affirmation that she rarely got before. She just changed jobs and worked overtime. She didn't have a lot of time to meet new people, but the bookstores, the gyms around the company and the variety of activities have made her focus on fashion, new things and herself. There are several older girls in the company, and she no longer feels lonely, no longer feels that she is a different kind.

Once she was on behalf of the company to negotiate business, the young man of the other company saw her doing things seriously and sincerely, asked her phone number, and later began to eat with her. She suppressed her feelings for a long time and got better. She began to think that if she came over six years ago, she would like to think about her condition more suitable for her ability, and she also likes a rich spiritual life. There are still a lot of single men who are much better than her. She even decided to go abroad, but the six-year time of the vain will never come back. She may still be unable to form a family, but she definitely got a good position and started to grow fast. Some things you don't do, you can't get the life you want.

The 25-year-old K girl is on the road to blind date. Her recent blind date object thinks that she is all very good, that is a bit fat, in fact, not fat, one hundred and twenty-five pounds, just slightly plump, but in this age of skinny beauty has become a target, even if she faces Peach blossoms can't offset this extra twenty-five pounds.

K has never lost weight, so she never thought it was a matter of weight. She blamed the world for being too valued. She blamed the boys for being too snobbish. When they were blind, they went to such a bad restaurant, blaming their bad fortune, but still can’t escape. When the blind date, the other party's coldness, and after the blind date, the other party's sales disappeared. The world did not change for her, but she began to lose confidence in repeated disappointments. She became fatter, not as lively and cheerful as she used to be, and even somewhat autistic.

She did not understand why she was twenty-five years old. She had never experienced a decent love. She was an invisible girlfriend, a long-distance relationship, and even almost became a junior. Until this time, the blind date bluntly said that you are a little fat, she looked at the opposite side and looked twisted, talking about the words to the mouth, the strange man who paid the money to grind, and suddenly shed tears. Then she began to lose weight, the method is very intense but also very effective, is purely hungry, three months later she is already 95 pounds of long-legged beautiful girl.

She is tall and tall, she wears high heels and shorts and walks down the street. Together with the five features that are very good, most boys have to look at them more. All kinds of friends began to take the initiative to find her to eat and chat, we found that she was such a beautiful girl. Her optimism and cheerfulness, her garden full of flowers and plants and good cooking, her kind gentle and graceful writing, all under her thin and bumpy body.

Looking at a large bunch of expensive roses on her desk, she felt that her previous days were so close, she didn't know why she spent so long to go through such a terrible life.

When you are seventeen, you don't lose weight. You don't have a first love. If you don't lose weight at the age of twenty, you still have no first love. Love and work are all about conditions, but the conditions are different. Some things you don't do, you can't get the life you want.

The 30-year-old Q girl is rushing in the dusty life and the serious emotional blackmail of her parents and brothers. She lives in the corner of the basement, wearing clothes five years ago, her hair is dry and yellow, her face is heavy and bitter, and she often cries in the middle of the night, not knowing where the future is. If there is a phone call, it must be that the mother called to complain and ask her for money. All her savings were given to the younger brother to buy a house. Now the little sister-in-law is born, and the expenses are still her responsibility. Occasionally, I don’t agree, I think of my mother’s old appearance and sick body, and I feel sad.

She is a smart but hard-working girl, so she often encounters unsatisfactory things at work, and she has no time to fall in love. She does not know how to respond to the boys. The pressure of life and emotion often makes her breathless. Coupled with the burden of the family's expectation on her, she has a feeling of being alive, but still trying to support it. Until one day, the younger brother called to ask for money, and she just sat for two days and one night in order to save money, she suddenly felt sad and angry, because the younger brother wants money but refuses to install 2M broadband, but must Install 4M wideband.

She decided to end it all. She called her mother and said so many years of hard work. She said that she might have to consider it for herself. The mother was surprised and angry, accused her of being a white-eyed wolf and hanging the phone. The younger brother called again and asked her why she did this. She was sick of her mother and criticized her. She thought about it, flew back to see her family, and took good care of her mother, but she still insisted on her own ideas with firmness and gentleness. After a few days, my mother suddenly cried and said: Thanks to her in these years, it is time to consider herself. She gently embraced her mother and said that she was not blaming them.

After returning, she easily calmed down a lot, took out the down payment for many years, paid a down payment, bought a house, and even overdrafted a credit card, bought a high-end mobile phone, a few beautiful coats for herself. Made a new hairstyle. She also bought a wool coat for her mother and told her that her brother had grown up and believed in his ability to live. Unexpectedly, the younger brother actually supported her and said that he would take good care of his mother. Her relationship with her mother's brother was even better than before, because she learned to communicate, and she found that her mother and younger brother also very much hope that they are happy, but there are problems with ideas and expressions.

In this way, she began to slow down a little, because of paying attention to her body, starting to eat every day, her face even has a feeling of white and red. For the first time, she felt that living was so beautiful, not just the fear of facing the exam and the pressure to face expectations. Some things you don't do, even if you are thirty, the life you want is still not available.

Some of these girls are fortunate, they finally find out what they really want, and they get the life they want. Living in their beginnings, although they have gone a long way, they walked like a night road, harvesting the shining stars and tempering their hearts. They still have some regrets. Why is it so simple? I don’t know how to use time and lessons before. In the embarrassment and ignorance, many good people pass by them. If there are daughters in the future, they must be informed early.

Some things you don't do, life you want to think will never be available.

Still wanting a job that looks good, you can travel around the country, and you can easily get a high salary, but your education does not seem to be enough. Why not go to higher education? But it is three or four years. Otherwise, after ten years, you will still be watching this job that encroaches on all your time but gives you only enough to live.

Still secretly in love with the boy who looks handsome and decent, you look at yourself, gray-faced, clumsy and rude, but can not love the boys who are similar to you. Why have you not been to a refined life? The beautiful body can be obtained by diet and diligent exercise. The temperament can be obtained by the wisdom and compassion of the heart and graceful manners. The face can be modified by the appropriate hair style and smooth skin, even if you still can't get the boy's favor. But why not try it? Otherwise, after eating a snack to watch the Korean drama, you will still be like this for ten years. Living in the fantasy of nothingness and the tragic reality, or marrying a boy who can’t see it, live a life of resentment.

Still envious of the girl who can easily make friends in the four languages?

Still unwilling to give up for those little talents that have been deeply buried?

Life is not only static and repetitive. We have come to such an era, as long as your desire is reasonable, and you work hard, the world will find ways to help you achieve it. We have come to an era where everyone is pursuing the quality of life, and we look forward to being with all the things we like, not just living. Marrying someone you like, doing what you like, having the intimacy you want, moving in the direction you like, is as important to us as sucking.

Some things you don't do one day, you live in an environment you don't want one day. And what you don't want today will lead to a more unwanted tomorrow, and a less desirable tomorrow will lead to a day that you don't want. Since the times have given us the right to choose, taught us the knowledge, and pointed out the way to reach the life we ​​want, why not get on the road of pursuit early?

Life is very long, when it is time to get on the road, what is important is that it is extremely light for the desire to run.

You see, the day is more radiant, the high circle,

Zhou Xun, Liu Ruoying, and Big S all wore white wedding dresses and married people who wanted to marry.

You see, Oprah has his own TV show, Jiang Fangzhou, An Yiru, and Annie Baby have gotten a lot of attention and money by writing constantly. If you read their biographies, you know that persistence also requires courage.

You see Caroline and Max in "Bankrupt Sisters" open their own colorful Cupcake store, and set off a cake fever around the world. You see Victoria maintains No. 0 body for many years, gave birth to a bunch of children for handsome Beckham, lived under the spotlight for twenty years, like the dream of every little girl, but she used to be a fat girl. You see that your mother has started to dance in the square, go out to travel, buy a pair of expensive shoes, or no longer force you to marry, are you more brave?