[Boutique] Parenting experience

Part 1: Parental experience

Everyone wants their children to be healthy, smart and lively, and to cultivate a happy and healthy child. It is the common aspiration of teachers and parents, and it is our common desire.

In the new century, new requirements, traditional methods of parenting must also be upgraded. In the face of opportunities and challenges, how should we train our children? Here are some of my childcare experiences as follows, for everyone to discuss.

First, ideological and moral education.

From the child's words and behaviors, he is educated in terms of courtesy, honesty, and love.

To cultivate his ethics, and to support his parents, and to praise, let him know that beneficiary can make people happier, but we must strengthen the self-protection of children while educating their children. Education in consciousness and other aspects.

Second, start from small things and cultivate good habits and self-confidence.

Develop your child's observation, memory, imagination, thinking, language skills and hands-on skills.

In daily life, parents should be good at discovering the child's strengths and abilities, arranging some things that children can do and do well, let the children do it, and then praise and affirm the child. When children see their achievements and are praised by their parents, they will do everything passionately and willing to try to do something more difficult. As the child gradually feels his ability in the "little things", he will gradually become full of confidence.

Habits become natural, we make some appointments with children for small things around us, such as the time, method and content of watching TV with the children. The standard does not have to be too high, but it needs to be sustained. It is very helpful to cultivate good habits of children. In many people's minds, they always feel that children are still small, clumsy and do not do anything well. But in real life, in fact, children need to share responsibility. For example, if an adult goes out first, the child must go to the door and power, etc., and tell him that he does not close the window, it will rain, the rain will come from the window. Falling in, not closing the door, afraid that the thief enters the house to take things, turning off the power can save electricity, let him know the difference between the bad consequences and the good things; criticize things instead of children, but tell the children, you do This thing, mom likes or dislikes.

Allowing children to exercise their right to choose is actually a manifestation of respect for the child. In life, adults often have such a requirement for children. Children should be treated according to the wishes of adults. But children often have their own opinions. At this time, if parents over-strive, or even obligate to obey the child, not only It is impossible to make the child obedient, but it will cause the child to have a rebellious mentality of "facing with the parents", which will affect the child's mental health.

Let the child have the right to choose, to enable the child to know the self, to affirm the self-ability, and to enhance the child's self-confidence.

Third, cultivate children's wide range of interests

When it comes to children's interests, we naturally think of those "interest classes, special classes", and feel that children can learn piano, learn to paint, etc. to cultivate children's interest. Often a lot of children are at the request of their parents, have to attend those training classes, and practice with the scalp, it is not the child's interest. In fact, for children, interest is a spontaneous part of the child, and parents and teachers play a facilitating role, to find ways to stimulate the children's broad interests, and to cultivate.

Cultivate children's interest in reading. When the child is doing homework, I will read a few interesting and interesting stories, or children's songs or riddles, which will not only increase the child's knowledge, but also cultivate his reading interest. I also asked some questions in the story, let the children think, if he didn't understand it, read it again or give appropriate tips to let him develop the habit of reading and thinking. This method has a good income and not only expands his vocabulary. And inspired his imagination and enriched his emotions. Now, Pei Xin also compiled some riddles for us to guess!

Properly play some parent-child games, give your child some encouragement, listen carefully to their needs, and always keep in touch with the teacher, and the teacher and parents trust the child, but also make the child's confidence multiply, easy to learn, optimistic.

Fourth, develop a study plan and have a normal heart

Don't give your child too much pressure, let the child have a relaxed learning environment, work with the child to develop a study plan, study regularly, let the habits become natural, and help the child to digest the new knowledge taught by the teacher as much as possible, instead of giving the child extra Too much learning pressure, I don't think it is too big for the children's test scores. No matter how good or bad, they should be treated with normality and correctly guide the children's gains and losses. Encourage and praise is the motivation of the child during the learning process. This is what I deeply understand; we never criticize her because of poor test scores, but help him find the reason, and tell him to earn a perfect score, teacher and parents. I will be very proud of it. If it is because the word is not written, it will remind her that you are a student, the word must be written, and the writing is correct. Every time before or after the test, we will say to him, "Pei Xin, come on! You are the best!"

Parenting is a difficult and complicated project. It requires not only material resources, but also energy and endurance. However, in learning together with children, you can gain some happiness and sweetness. At the same time, you can get some thoughts and enlightenment. In short, children only have a little progress. It will surprise us, because it is the fruit of the teachers and parents who have worked hard.

This is the most nerve-racking problem for me to help my child correct the bad habits of writing homework. Here, I would also like to ask other parents to see if there are any good methods for future improvement and improvement.

We need to constantly explore good parenting methods to make children healthier and better. I hope that the good parenting method and the teacher's teachings are like the same canoe, carrying the children to the infinite vast knowledge ocean, growing up under the sun and rain!

Part 2: Parenting experience

Most of the children nowadays are only children. The family members are so fond of putting their hands on them, making them more and more difficult to manage. They can't use soft ones, and hard ones don't work. I believe many parents have the same experience.

As the first teacher of the child, parents play a key role in the growth of the child. It is also necessary for each of our parents to take it seriously. We cannot ignore and evade. Now let me talk about some of my child-rearing experiences.

Parents are the imitators and role models of all children's behaviors. Our words and deeds are children's textbooks, and parents' good words to exercise their children's lifelong benefits.

Yang Yang is a child with a bad temper and a soft and hard-nosed child. The more you are fierce against him, the more he is crying. If you kneel down and talk to him, you will listen to you.

I remember one night, Yang Yang came home from school and picked up the woven wood. He thought that he had lost two pieces at first, and immediately told me: "Mom, my cousin stole my two pieces of woven wood. I didn't play with her in the future." , my woven wood is gone," and began to cry. At that time, I should have said in the past: "Who told you not to put your own things in place? Put things in the air and say people?" At this time, he also became more and more crying after listening to it. At this time, I saw him as sad as he was. Just put down the tone and said: "Then you put the woven wood back in place to see if it is less," he said. After a while he finally put the woven wood together and found that there was not a piece. Then I said to him: Next time, don't talk about people stealing your things. Don't be too rushed, roar, and lose your temper." Then he nodded and laughed!

The character of the child is not innate. The cultivation of the day after tomorrow is very important. Don't easily hurt the child's self-respect. We must respect the child. As the child grows older, the child begins to learn to think about not obeying blindly. Usually we use communication methods and tone. Put down the shelf and talk to the child. For example, watching TV for a long time, we use reminders, tell him to rest for a while, should protect their eyes and so on. Or in accordance with the actual situation, set the system, for example, my family's ocean is not willing to go to bed every night, then I asked him, no more than 9:30 after the story is not, this effect is very good, every time 9:00 When I was less, I asked him to go to the room to rest. At this time, he first looked at the time and asked: "Mom, how many o'clock, now I deliberately said that it is almost 9:30," he asked me to hurry. Going to the house, preparing to tell a story, generally I will tell him some inspirational stories or allusions.

Yang Yang was very moving from an early age. He would most imitate the appearance of an adult. When he saw that we were doing hygiene, he rushed to mop the floor and picked up the ground and waved it everywhere, although sometimes it was dirty, but he saw him seriously and happy. I am happy! I remember that last Sunday, I took my son to my grandmother’s house for dinner. After dinner, I said to my son: "You have grown up, now you have to learn to wash dishes. After he listens, he starts to pick up the dishes. Then I I was doing his military division on the side. After his efforts, the bowl was finally cleaned up. Later, I still praised him. After listening to it, I was very happy. I also asked my mother’s assistant to wash the dishes tomorrow. Oh!

Children have vanity from an early age and like to fight for the first. When I started playing flying chess, he saw that he couldn’t get the first thing, he said that he didn’t let him, sometimes he still cried, then I taught him, the first thing I have to work hard for, instead of asking everyone to give it to you. The same is true at school. Learning should be serious, stressing methods, and vice versa. Others must be happy for the first time, and we should not be discouraged!

There is also the need to "conquer" children with violence and learn to patiently educate their children. I used to be too slow to do things for my son, pretending that I didn’t hear what I said, and getting angry with him. For example, doing homework, going home from school, not having finished homework, playing at night, not interested in reading, sometimes not willing to read, even teaching several times, not reading, sometimes saying that I don’t know, sometimes asking him to do The extracurricular homework also bargained at me. I said that I did so, I didn't do it, I was angry, and sometimes I even cried. At this time, I couldn't help but pick up the rattan and I was very good at it. Although the son was quickly obedient and the homework was completed, he was very unhappy every time and was prone to confrontation. We should not insist on insisting, ordering children, and for the naughty son, I learned to be patiently taught from him.

In fact, I did not ask him how smart, how capable, and let it go. He wanted to tell him the common sense of life and the truth of his life. This is enough. Kindergarten is the happiest place for children. The first family to perceive, let him play with restraint, cognition, let him know that respecting the old and loving the young, treating others kindly, loving the classmates, caring for others, being a good boy, first of all Being a person, followed by learning, physical and mental health is enough. I know that educating our next generation is not an easy task, but I will try not to give up!

Part 3: Parenting experience

Dear leaders, distinguished guests, parents and children, good morning!

Today, I am very proud to participate in the "Guancheng Cup Network Baby" awards ceremony, and I am honored to represent this participating mothers to do this parenting experience. My daughter is less than two years old. I have been in contact with children for a short period of time. I have a bad place to talk about, and I also ask my friends for criticism.

Today we are here, I am very grateful to the organizers for their hard work and the support of the sponsors. It’s really hard to come by, we would like to express our sincere gratitude, thank you!

Like everyone else, I have watched many children's classics in ancient and modern China and abroad because of my concern for the growth of children. In the two years of practice, it really benefits a lot. Today, share it with friends and learn from each other.

My education for my daughter started with prenatal education. After her daughter was born, the color balloons, ringing, and baby swimming pool on her cot were specially prepared for her. I made a one-year support for my daughter. Keep talking to her, so that her daughter will call her parents in 9 months. If you are older, you will walk, and you will not fall. Just let her play as long as it is safe. If you can't help, you won't help. She also created conditions for her to play, buy a bookcase, let her play, and later as a wardrobe. The swing, now home is full of world famous paintings, welcome to visit at any time, but to charge!

I said that a good mother is better than a good teacher. I have always tried to be a role model. ‚ Today's TV is hurting too much for children, and we moved the phone away before the daughter was born. In the past two years, I have studied with her and grew up together. We guide and educate our children in all aspects. Germany is first, skills are behind, we pay special attention to the cultivation of the character of the daughter, and follow the disciples and implement the disciples in life. In this way, I read books with my daughter, draw together, play together, pack toys together, laugh together...

Now our daughter is less than two years old, and all aspects of the performance are particularly outstanding, especially sensible, easy to raise, see the child's happy and healthy growth. Our family is very happy! I would like to take this opportunity to thank my gentleman for your support, encouragement and help, and my daughter's grandparents and the whole family for their silent support!

I said that these are not to praise their daughters. They want to tell everyone about science and parenting. Some people may say that genius is born. I also admit it. Even if it is a genius, we don't know how people are educated. Second, we all know that some geniuses are even flaws in some respects. If there is a better education, genius will be closer to perfection. I am sure that my daughter is not a genius, so I use a good education method. If someone says that his child is a genius, then we congratulate you! If not, please remember that the education of the day after tomorrow is very important, the sooner the better! This is what we say: "Three years old, big, seven years old."

Seriously, in these two years, I deeply realized that parents can use the right method, and the children are really good. I must not tease my children to play, so I have established many so-called "enemies" in my life. But I believe in science and believe in the principle of cultivating justice. I also believe that every mother can be a good mother!

Because we may have childhood regrets, but we cannot give children regrets of childhood.

We can't be geniuses! But we can be genius parents!

May the world be happy parents! Thank you!