[Boutique] Parents' School Experience

Part 1: Parents' School Experience

Through studying at the parents' school, I deeply realized that being a parent is an art that requires lifelong learning. While caring about the child's food and clothing and physical health, it is more important to face him in the right direction. Patience education will make children useful in the future. At the same time, I have changed and improved in various aspects in various aspects. Now I will talk about my feelings after class:

First, the child, respect the child, be the child's close friend.

In life, learn to respect children, treat children as equals, be friends and friends, and win the trust of children. Let the children talk about what happens in the school every day, no matter what they say, parents should listen patiently. Listen to her views on some things and tell her what is right and what is wrong. Let her feel that we are friends. Don't be patriarchal; arbitrarily special, discuss with your child and cultivate your child's self-confidence. Resolutely can't beat the children.

Second, educate children to lead by example. Cultivate children to be honest and polite.

In daily life, we should pay attention to our own words and deeds, educate our children to be polite to others through words and deeds, observe various behavioral norms, and cultivate good behavior habits. Many of our shortcomings can be seen in children. Children's ability to imitate is very strong. Our words and deeds directly affect children. For example, things that cannot be done, don't promise children; can't swear in front of children; let alone lie in front of children. I believe that many parents have a deep understanding! The child is still small, he distinguishes between the ability and the good behavior, from the usual life, the environment of contact and the education of contact. Therefore, the role model of the parents is A silent education.

3. Avoid taking children's scores too seriously and learn to think differently.

Parents should not stare at the child's score all day long. When a child gets a high score, he will be overwhelmed; if he gets a low score, he will be disheartened. Make the child feel nervous when he arrives at the exam. Sincere and fearful. Unwilling to learn. Fear of the exam. It’s because the child doesn’t get a hundred percent because it’s not because it’s sloppy; it’s because the writing is not neat. I feel that most of them are because sloppy and writing is not neat. Then, add some of the same type of questions, let them read them carefully, write them carefully, and don't make the same mistakes. To properly assess your child's learning ability, don't blindly compare, and this is what most parents, including me, have not done. In fact, think about it, we are also very ordinary parents, but why do we want our children to excel? Parents should focus on the cultivation of children's morality, on the ability to create and learn, let the children in the future Even if you can't get to college, you can be self-sufficient.

4. Learn to be tolerant, tolerant, to be a good boy who has love and knows gratitude.

Tolerance is a beautiful landscape. A person who can tolerate and tolerate the shortcomings and mistakes of others is indeed a noble person. Our heart is like a container. When I love more and more, hatred will be squeezed out. Therefore, we must continue to use love to fill our hearts and use care to nourish our chest. When a child has a conflict with another classmate, educate the child, and the students must help each other and not hurt each other. The classmate accidentally touched you, and you must not raise your hand to play classmates. The child accidentally injured the classmate and immediately said: "I'm sorry, I didn't mean it." School supplies, art tools, to lend to students who didn't bring. Give your grandparents a seat when you take the bus, and so on. To be more sincere to others about their help: "Thank you!"

5. Good children are boasted, not made out.

The deepest desire of humanity is to gain the appreciation of others. Children are no exception. The praise from parents will arouse the child's inner self-worth and dignity, and encourage her to further strengthen her good behavior until she develops her character. In the past, when I was doing my homework, I sometimes scolded her for her incomplete writing, typos, and mathematics problems, and even beat her. This inadvertently dampened his self-respect and self-confidence, so I will have more patience in the future and encourage less scolding for the children.

6. Be good at discovering and cultivating children's interests.

Interest is the best teacher. Only from the point of interest can the child take the initiative to learn. There are many parents who blindly obey and let their children participate in various classes. They do not consider whether the children are interested, which is a waste of money and a waste of children's innocent childhood. I was one of them. Therefore, we must capture the child's point of interest, guide it, so that her interest in learning burns up, and master a certain skill without affecting the child's academic performance, so as to achieve the desired effect. Therefore, through the study of the parents' school, I asked her to choose her favorite dance, vocal music and painting from calligraphy, vocal music, keyboard, eloquence, painting and dance. At the same time tell her that this is your own choice, to do things from beginning to end, to the end, can not be abandoned halfway.

VII. Cultivate children’s sense of independence

In the process of growing up, the children will encounter a lot of bumps. Maybe they will fall to the ground and rub the skin. Maybe they will cry because of the misunderstanding between the partners. Maybe they will be disappointed because some wish is not realized. Parents can't pay attention to these things all the time. Even if you can pay attention, you may have psychological dependence on your child because of excessive intervention, and you will lose your ability to deal with problems. Our parents must pay attention to cultivating children's ability to be independent and let them learn to solve and solve problems in their own world.

8. Maintain a happy and harmonious family life.

Family harmony is also a major factor in cultivating a child’s happy personality. Try not to quarrel in front of your child. Take as much time as possible to accompany my child to study and play games... Let her feel the warmth of home and give her a good learning environment.

Nine. Suitable for $2 teacher communication

The active $2 teacher understands the child's situation at school, reports the child's home situation, and is easy to affirm the child's performance and correct the child's shortcomings. Here, I would like to express my gratitude to the teacher for his meticulous care!

I remember that there is a very good sentence, the article is not well written, can not blame paper and pen, the child is not good education can not blame the child is not convinced $2 teacher is not good. More time to think about us as a parent, do you care?

In short, the parents have taught me a lot. Although it is not easy to do it, I will correct it bit by bit, try to improve my psychological quality, improve my tutoring level, study with my children, and make progress together! Finally, I hope our children grow up healthy and happy!

Part 2: Parents' School Experience

Through the study of parents' schools in these schools, our parents know how to educate their children, how to cooperate with school teachers, how to cultivate and train children's interests, and help us establish a correct education concept. And the concept of talent. I also have a deeper understanding of the key to the importance of parenting education in the process of children's growth and learning. I will cooperate with the school and teachers to educate my children and have a lively and meaningful experience in the parents' school. I am deeply grateful for the lessons. At the same time that every parent looks at Jackie Chan and looks into a woman, how important is parent education in the child's growth process, and also makes me feel more affectionately. When teachers are difficult, it is difficult for parents to be qualified. Parents are more difficult. It’s a long way to go to be a good parent. Fortunately, there is a parent school that gives me a deeper and newer understanding of parenting education. While trying my best to be a good parent, I have some different degrees in various aspects. Change and improve.

Really small---the cradle of children's growth: the school principal explained to us the history of the school's growth and the current school situation. His humorous speech won the applause of our parents. I learned about the school's hardware facilities, the teacher's faculty, and the children's learning during this period of time. In such an environment, children will learn happily and grow up healthily.

The study of the national stage requires the guidance of parents and teachers. Through the lectures of several teachers, I learned about the school's requirements for children and how to cooperate with the school to do the education of the children. Through study, I understand that parents should actively participate in the parental education of their children, communicate with teachers and communicate more, so that school education and parenting education can be effectively combined to achieve the best results of education. Through the teacher's lecture, we can avoid the misunderstanding of parent education in time. Understand and respect the child's choices, trust the child, and get along with the child. Cultivating children's healthy personality in a timely and effective manner, cultivating children's self-confidence is the first step to success and the importance of cultivating good habits.

Improve your own quality. As the first school for children, parents always act as “teachers”, so they must improve their educational quality. By listening to the teacher's lecture, I learned some knowledge about parent-child communication. I know how to assign tasks to children, how to deal with children's demands and rejections, how to deal with children's anger and so on. To educate a good child, we must start with a good parent-child relationship, make friends with children, and respect children. As a qualified parent, this requires our parents to lead by example, to preach and teach! To develop a child's time concept, to give children time to help him concentrate on doing things and improve learning efficiency.

Parents and teachers play a bridge role between the school's learning situation and parent education. Only parents and teachers can communicate fully to help children grow. Parents and teachers face-to-face to communicate and discuss the existence of children and reach a consensus can be said to do more with less. Through study, I understand that only by cultivating children's self-esteem and self-confidence can they make their children grow up healthily and become a self-reliant and self-reliant useful person. Learning can't be done overnight, and it can't be done once and for all. The study of children is a lifelong matter. Parent-child education is also a kind of parent-teacher school. It can be said that parents can better master the methods of education to educate their children to learn and grow.

Part 3: Parents' School Experience

At 3 o'clock this afternoon, as a new parent of Fushan Elementary School, I entered the school campus with good reputation with expectation and excitement, together with more than 40 new parents in the first grade. Received a rich and meaningful new parent guidance session.

Several major class teachers in the class introduced the teaching situation and the matters that parents need to pay attention to. The class teacher and the language teacher Ji teacher have rich teaching experience and follow the example; the math teacher is steady and docile. When I saw two excellent teachers, the parents felt a little embarrassed and relaxed.

Most of the parents of this year's students were born in the 1970s, when the social environment, parenting education and course difficulty were completely different. It can be said that in the current social environment, whether a child can adapt well to the teaching methods and progress of the school is largely due to the joint efforts of parents, students and schools. In order to better cooperate with the school teachers to do the parenting education, parents must sacrifice and use certain methods and techniques. Through the explanations of several teachers, we also learned a lot of practical and effective education methods. Summarized as follows:

First, the cultivation of study habits

Cultivate learning interests so that children can voluntarily learn knowledge.

Parents should pay attention to help them develop their own habits and methods to solve problems, instead of directly telling the answer. The so-called fish is worse than the fish.

Avoid excessive criticism and attack, and guide children to learn and establish self-confidence through positive methods such as praise, affirmation, encouragement and reward.

Adhere to diligence, diligence, diligence, diligence, and perseverance will be rewarded.

Second, living habits

Going to bed early and getting up early, have a good mental state to ensure normal learning.

Pay attention to writing posture, protect eyesight, and bad habits are difficult to correct once they are developed.

Pay attention to personal hygiene, use garbage bags and rags, and start small things.

Develop your own habit of recording homework and organizing the use of book stationery the next day.

Third, campus discipline and precautions

Obey the time of entering and leaving school, and leave the team without disapproval.

Make a good date according to the class schedule.

No snacks, pencil sharpeners, water bottles, etc. are admitted to the school.

Just as the teacher in charge of the class said that "strictness is the direction, pine is the harm", only now that the heart is helping the children to lay a good foundation, they will not delay their future. I believe that one day the children will understand the good intentions of the teachers and parents. I hope that in the next six years, I will be able to accompany my children to the unforgettable national stage.