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Kindergarten parents experience


Part 1: The experience of parents in kindergarten education

Because the current concept of education requires teachers and young children to be equal. In this regard, the education of kindergarten parents is that teachers should respect each child and sit down like a friend to talk with their children and understand their personality traits. If these are easy, it will be difficult to do. Everyone has their own rights, including young children also have their own rights, so do not force young children to do anything. For this, the kindergarten parents' education experience is: You can guide young children to do it. Teachers use kind words to care what they like to do and what they need. This has brought the teacher-student relationship closer and enabled us to implement our goals.
Kindergartens should carry out a variety of games on a regular basis so that young children can get knowledge from them. In this regard, as parents of kindergarten children, our experience is that in the educational activities, teachers should try to design games that are consistent with the educational content. Realize the "game-based activities" required by the "Procedures" and educate them in the activities.
Grasping the bright spots of young children can help kindergarten teachers to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. In this regard, the education of kindergarten parents is: let the children be confident and do everything well. Teachers should encourage young children, including some very small things, to praise them. There will be development and progress. These praises are like a small halo. The teachers bring them with them and can satisfy the children.


Chapter 2:

Many parents may have overlooked this point and always feel that this is a trivial matter in the kindergarten stage. For late children, this will not only affect the development of children's living habits, but also affect children's daily life because of late nights and irregular work schedules. In addition, the late arrival of their children will interrupt and interfere with the normal activities of other children.
If you are a parent who is not used to picking up your child on time, please think carefully about the working hours of the kindergarten teacher. Under normal circumstances, the teacher goes to work at 7:30 in the morning and goes to work at 5:30 or 6 in the evening. At noon, I have to watch the children take a nap. After the child falls asleep, the teacher has to carry out some environmental arrangements and work on the desk, and these Work can't be done at noon time. Therefore, if you can pick up your child on time, the teacher may be able to use this time to complete a lot of work, then get off work on time and spend more time with his loved ones and children. In fact, this is not just a matter of coordinating and respecting the working hours of kindergartens. For children, seeing Mom and Dad earlier, they can still play on the way home for a while. Every day, there is a wonderful time for parents and children. The sweet memories of the children growing up. Of course, if there is an accident, and occasionally you can't pick up the child on time, please remember to say hello to the teacher in advance and say "thank you"!


Part 3: Kindergarten Parents' Parenting Experience

My child is already 5 years old this year, and is working in the middle of the class. The children have grown up from small to large. Although they have suffered a bit, they have fun in their bitterness. There is an emotion between the mother and the child that can never be left behind. I am naturally optimistic and cheerful. My children are lively and active. Sometimes I and my son are not big or small. I often wrestle with me on the grass with my bare feet. I will play with the game with him, his Wahaha, jelly, I will rush to eat with him. Sometimes the music sounds, I can't help but dance, my son dances with me, and we both often make a lot of sweat. Sometimes we both have conflicts. For example, I cried my son, spoke in a heavy tone, or beat him unreasonably. I would hold him to kiss his little tears and seriously say a son to him. And every time his son did something wrong, he would also say to me that my mother was sorry, and then kissed me and dissolved everything.
I think it is very important to be a happy mother. Although there are so many unsatisfactory things in life, there are so many ups and downs in life, but this wonderful life will make you feel that the world is suffering and what difficulties are unstoppable. . Which mother does not want to see her child happy with small eyes, bright appetite, and a happy smile into a dream?
When my son was a child, I often took his hand and walked him to the kindergarten. I always told him stories along the way. He talked about the land and he was very happy. He entered the kindergarten without knowing it. In order to let him learn to say hello to his uncle and aunt, sometimes I deliberately climbed upstairs first, then went down from the upstairs and said hello to him: "Hey! Kids, hello." He will also say very eagerly: "Hello. Mother aunt. "This kind of etiquette is so vividly trained."
As a mother, I often tell my children about his childhood. When he is in his mother's stomach, his mother wants to eat a lot of things he doesn't want to eat every day. He tells his mother that he can't sleep when he is crying at night. The child will feel the hard work of the mother, he will be very distressed by his mother. Now, whenever I am uncomfortable or tired, my son will say, "Mom, rest, I will do it." He will pack his room, sometimes rushing to wash his clothes. If a child wants to learn to love others and pay for others, let the child learn to love his mother first.


Part 4: Kindergarten Parents' Learning Experience

First, what method can change the child's introverted personality?
1. The feelings of the parents of the third class: parents are the children's enlightenment teachers. For children, their plasticity is very strong. As long as we are parents, we can guide them and have enough patience to the children. The requirements, let the children learn to take care of themselves, cultivate independent quality, parents to communicate with children, be friends with children, listen to children's ideas, respect children's ideas, as long as the continuous efforts, children will change to form a healthy personality .
2, first of all should be a "ten heart" parents, the child can not be fierce and rude, respect the child.
Second, the experience of the "seven one" teaching method:
Parents of the second class:
1. In the face of children's mistakes, we sometimes get angry and can't help but lose our temper. We learned a lot in this book. Knowing that the parents' rough screaming will not make the child correct the mistake, on the contrary, it will produce rebellious feelings, even if it is The authority has changed, and it is not true.
2, the child is not our private item, not that we are born to him to raise him, he must have to listen to the response we arranged, he is an independent person, in this sense we must respect his self-esteem, his ideas, His ability to accept, even his little temper, educate him on the premise of respecting him is the communication between two equal individuals rather than an authoritative fingering of a vulnerable group, trapping this "seven one" Just a form, the key is the respect of the inner child.
3, after learning the "seven" teaching method, reflecting on their usual behavior, they can generally handle the child's mistakes in accordance with the "seven ones" method, but in the face of the child's disobedience, the item hit the parents When I occasionally can't control the anger in my heart, I will reprimand the child in person and take it for granted.
Third, how do parents treat a slow-moving child, how to guide the parents of a small class:
Our children also have too slow movements when doing something. I don't think children are like adults. The children's thinking is too narrow. Therefore, my mother and I often educate her to remind the children to do something faster. Don't sharpen it. For example, in the morning, Mom and Dad are eager to go to work, and the children are going to kindergarten. In the future, we will strengthen communication with the children.
4. Talk about your own experience in reading the book "Don't lose in parenting education". Parents of Beibeiban:
1. After learning the content on page 60 of "Don't Lose in Parenting Education", let me know how to help my child to complete the homework. I will use the correct method two: "Let him be like a loved one, kiss her. The little face, said in a calm and friendly manner, don't cry, whoever forgets things, what do we think about now?" When the child listens, he stops crying, and the parents understand that the child gets Consolation, calm emotions, use this method to help children, I will also cooperate with good teachers to make my children grow up healthy and happy!
2. The parents who made mistakes in the book are too similar. In the future, I must first teach myself, manage, and lead by example to educate and guide my children and strive to be a qualified mother.
This book, "Don't Lose in Parenting Education," has taught me a lot of ways to educate my children. I am very grateful to the kindergarten teacher for ordering this book. I will continue to order it later.
3. My idea is to make children develop stable behavior habits. Family members must adopt a consistent educational concept, parenting attitude and behavior. The child's childhood should be happy and worry-free, but the child will also have children's little troubles. We should always pay attention to the emotional experience of preventing the warehouse. Certainly, encourage him to help him. I feel that we should not arrange for practical opportunities instead of depriving children of their own self-care. These simple self-service labors can let the children do it themselves and make the children happy. healthy life!
4, probably turned over a few articles, some cases are very good, and have great inspiration for educating children, but it is still in line with China's current educational style, educational methods and our big educational environment. Exploring, as the case suggests, German parents can ask their children to see the scores normally. They are not pressure. In China, the fate is determined by scores. It is still the dominant position. Parents ultimately hope that the rational return of Chinese education will be The child has a free space and a happy childhood for the child!
5. How do parents do when they have a conflict between children when they play?
Parents of the baby class: After our son went to kindergarten, every time the teacher recommended the book "Don't lose in parenting education", I realized how important parenting education is to children. I feel that my education for my children is really bad. I have reflected many bad habits and temperament of my children. They all stem from the consequences of not understanding education. I used to see conflicts between children. I will be in the first time. I have stopped learning. Through this period of study, my experience is very deep. It is really a deep learning to teach children. It is easy for each of us to become a parent. If you want to educate your children, it is never easy. For children. I try to change myself and persuade my family to work together, hoping to make our children happier and healthier through the efforts of the family.
6. What should parents say when teaching children?
1. The experience of a small class of parents:
From the above questions, my thoughts: "Children must have better guidance methods to guide their children at school or at home. In fact, children spend more time at home, and they use their parents to guide their thinking and develop good at home. Habits, whether it is learning or living habits, children must come to the kindergarten to obey the teacher's teachings. Only when our parents and kindergarten teachers cooperate with each other can the children grow up quickly.
2, the first class parents learn experience:
At home, I always think that when children listen to their parents, they usually say no when they do things. If you can't wait, I read this book and then I know that we lack communication and understanding between children. We must respect each other's hearts. Thoughts and exchanges of ideas are very important, and they will be of great help to my future education.
3. The learning experience of the third-class parents:
We didn't criticize her on occasion. We found that this was a very disregard of Joe's behavior. Now I have changed this aspect and changed it to talk privately. When criticizing her fault, I told her the correct one. The practice, and the consequences of this mistake, let her know where she is wrong on the basis of reasoning, what to do in the future, can not arbitrarily promise to ensure that our ability can not be fulfilled, Will explain the reasons, let her understand, what is said to be done, people with integrity can make good friends.
7. Can we discover their potential from the child's tricks?
1. The feelings of the third class parents:
I regretted not seeing this book early. At the beginning, he just started to doodle on the door. We all blamed him. I didn’t think he had the potential to paint. He didn’t think he was interested in painting. I was not interested, nor did I specifically buy him a picture book, or reported to the children's drawing class. Since reading this book, I now know how to discover his potential from the child's trick.
2. I believe that in the article “Discovering Potential from Trick or Treat”, the various behaviors of the children introduced are all relatively normal behaviors in the growth process, and most of the behaviors contribute to the child's brain development. Exercise children's autonomy and hands-on ability. For some kinds of excessive behaviors in quail eggs, we should adopt different methods to guide and educate. We should not take violent means, so it is easy to cause harm to children's young mind and leave Shadow, we should also adopt a way to encourage children, guide children to correct their own wrong behavior, so that children can correctly understand their mistakes, and know how to deal with and correct.
3. Through learning, we realized that children are very curious about things. Why can't adults be patient with children? Why should they be treated rudely? May give your child some opportunities and encourage them.
8. How did you solve the problem of children going to bed?
Parents of the second class:
After reading this book, I have found many deficiencies, learned the patience, gave the children more space for free development, and things that were not allowed to do her before, now she will try to do better.
9. What are the five key points for training your child's concentration?
1. Learning experience of 3 classes of parents:
Through learning, I realized that as an adult, I will pay attention to things that I am interested in. I will pay less attention to them. After learning, we should cultivate our own and children’s concentration as parents. Play a role as a model. From now on, we will improve the anti-cash focus by telling children stories, playing games that children are interested in, and letting children watch favorite cartoons. My son is currently thankful for his interest. There are many things, and we will gradually develop his attention through these things in the future.
2, the big 3 class parents learn experience:
I haven't seen the five key points in the past. I think this is very useful for our children. For example, the first and second points for the child's study time and scope of observation will help the future study. Fourth, Five points are to give our parents and teachers the cooperation to let her learn interest in one thing and one problem and arrest her willpower.
3, the third class parents learn experience:
Through learning, to understand the training of children's concentration, we must first start from adults, not to prevent too many actions of children, to fully respect children, to be good at observing children, but also to be patient with children's interests and hobbies, to guide and Encourage and participate in the field, fully improve your child's interest in things, continuously improve your child's concentration, and let your child grow up healthy and happy!
10. What are the five skills that allow children to learn to be independent?
1. Learning experience of the second-year parents:
By letting children learn the five skills of independence, as parents, we deeply understand that only five skills to learn to learn to be independent will be of great help to his future life. First of all, learning to use and not solving problems, second. Learn to solve problems yourself and learn to save yourself. When you are in trouble, you can find ways to deal with problems, learn to think independently and deal with problems independently, and no longer rely on adults to make yourself stronger, more independent and more like a "man"!
2, the third class parents learn the experience:
In the process of educating children, I realized that we should start from the details. In fact, we must not only cultivate children's interest and ability to learn knowledge, but also focus on cultivating children's healthy living habits in life and cultivating children's emotional intelligence. Our parents The common problem is that I always impose my own ideas on the children. I always think that the children are small, have no thoughts, do not pay attention to their thoughts, and regard the children as their own accessories, so that the cultivation of children's independence is not in place. It is very unfavorable for her future growth. Through the study of this book, I have realized my own shortcomings. In the future, I will make more efforts in these aspects to let the children grow up and become self-reliant and happy!
Eleven, talk about the nine best opportunities to educate children
1, the first class parents learn experience:
These nine best moments are very good. I have learned a lot. For example, the child made a mistake. He used to know only the child. After reading it, he knows how to help him. When a guest is present, he will say the child’s bad habits in front of the guest. After reading it, he will know that the child also has self-respect and must pay attention.
2, the second class parents learn experience:
By learning the nine best moments to educate my children, I feel very embarrassed. In my usual life, I give my children more preaching. When I encounter the timing mentioned above, especially when my child is wronged and has a big fault, Most of the time, I was angry or angry. I didn't understand the child's mood at the time. Most of the children are now rebellious. Perhaps our attitude has created them.
3, the third class parents learn experience:
Children on their own path of growth, at different stages of growth, show different qualities, in fact, every child is a genius, this is my idea, they do not need any packaging, as long as under the guidance of adults, through their own Unremitting efforts can be made into plastic materials. I agree that children should guide them in different ways and at different times, so that they can know what they are doing now, have a clear attitude, and consciously do everything well. When a child is interested in something, we have to give support and encouragement. Make the child a person who is assertive, generous, and capable.
Twelve, be a "ten heart" parent
1. Learning experience of the third-class parents:
I read the book "Don't Lose in Parenting Education" and it is very helpful for me to educate my children. Our parents will only ask the children to follow the path we gave her, and impose what we think is good for her. I didn't take into account the needs of my children. After learning, I learned that children also have ideas, they need to be understood, and they are respected, not just prescribed. I will stand on the child's stand in the future.
2, the first class parents learn experience:
The "ten heart" parent content can basically be done. For example, if you want to correct the child's shortcomings, I will tell the child that if you change this shortcoming, your advantage will be one more, and she will be happy to do it. When she does something wrong, she generally does not say that she marries her, she will give her reason, why can't this be done, what will happen if she does this, and she will tell her that we have done something wrong, you can also point it out. We will also correct it. When she listens, she knows that she is respected like an adult. She is a part of being a master of the family. She will be a child with thoughts and opinions. When it is difficult to achieve results, we will encourage her. She is great, give her confidence, she will do it harder.
Learning experience of the third class parents:
Treating children with "ten hearts" Because children have different personalities, according to the characteristics of different children, according to their teaching, our children's characteristics are active, but not enough, more fun, but generally he decided to do I can do her seriously, so we will always encourage him to let him decide to do things. In the future, we will use wisdom to educate him, and strive to solve some shortcomings or potential problems invisible, and strive to cultivate a healthy body and strong ability. Boy.
Thirteen, how to properly guide children to get up?
Learning experience of the third class parents:
It used to be very difficult to get up to children every morning. I couldn’t get up for a long time. Sometimes I got angry and angry. After I read this book, I slowly felt that it was much easier to get the child to get up, and he got up very quickly. I can pack it up. I think this book is very helpful to me.
XIV. How to change the three-class parent's learning experience in the child's “wolf-crossing” phenomenon:
After studying this article, I have a deep understanding. Now every family is basically a child. Parents regard their children as sweethearts. Of course, they don’t want their own sweethearts to be aggrieved. The family and the people use him. For the center, what do you want to give, some parents always think that he is still small, just grow up, it may not be easy to change the habits after the cultivation. When the children grow up, they will put forward various requirements, once the parents meet you Without him, he will lose his temper and even go on the road of crime, so I personally think that children can't be too fond of love, it will only harm the children.
Fifteen, praise what kind of wisdom children need to learn from a group of parents:
First, we must be a parent who understands the child. The child has his own inner world. Only when the parents really enter the world can they understand the incredible behavior of the child and know how good the child is. Appreciate their children like Bole to appreciate Maxima. These qualities will become the biggest capital for the future success of children through excavation and training.
16. What are the top 12 hackers in the diet?
The first class parents learn the experience:
In our daily life, these hackers often appear around us. In the past, they have a little understanding of them. They know that eating too much is not good for children. Children occasionally ask for it and they will satisfy them. After learning, they will find out that they are physically There are many hazards, and its harmfulness to health has exceeded our imagination. In the future, we must strengthen control in these areas.


Pt 5: Kindergarten Parents' Assistant Professor's Experience

When Teacher Wang told me, I planned to invite me to the kindergarten to be a teaching assistant and experience the life of the kindergarten. I was very excited when I heard this message. I haven't seen the children's life in kindergarten yet, so I want to know how the children spent in kindergarten. I am happy to accept this glorious task, but when I got home, I began to hesitate. Although I am a labor camp, I am engaged in the management of education and reeducation through labor. How can I get along with a group of three-year-old children? I have never experienced it. Combining my own work: I am managing young people who are in danger of drug abuse, and they are not always telling drugs to three-year-old children. What should I do? I checked the information on the Internet and asked the teacher for advice. Soon my heart already had a bottom, but this matter has been dragged down due to work.
I went to the kindergarten to pick up my son last week. The teacher met me and told me that this semester is coming to an end. If you don't go, there will be no chance. When I got home, my son began to ask me: "Mom, when are you going to our kindergarten? You still can't come?" Looking at the son's looking eyes, I told my son: "Mom has time to go." The son said, "Mom, do you have to go?" I replied: "Okay," so I waited for my son to sleep every night. I gently turned on the computer to collect information, prepare a lesson plan, and make teaching aids.
At two o'clock on the afternoon of June 21, I entered the 19th class with excitement. Most of the children were still asleep, and a few children had already woken up. Some children greeted me with a hand, and some children looked at me very curiously, and my child hit me in 19 classes, and my eyes kept following me. At 14:15, the children started to get up. I and Wang and Mr. Li put clothes on the children, and then took the children to the toilet to wash their hands and prepare to eat fruit. When the children finished eating the fruit, we started class. I first gave the children two small cartoons: "Safety by Car", "Safety Crossing the Road", and with their teacher, I took my own teaching aids. Explain and tell the children what is the zebra crossing, what is the traffic light, how to pay attention to safety when taking a car, and so on. The children listened to me seriously, and when I asked questions, the children answered the questions actively and loudly. Finally, I teach children to know police uniforms, police caps, cap badges, etc., and teach children how to salute. The children seriously learned the actions of salute, and they were very happy and excited.
Half a day is coming to an end soon. I feel very fulfilling. Of course, it is quite hard. When I left the 19th class, the children went back and shouted and said, "Gao Mama, goodbye!" Looking at the lovely little faces. I really can't bear to leave, I think of the children's active and enthusiastic speeches in the classroom: "The red light stops, the green light line, pay attention to safety when riding a car, fasten the seat belt." My heart is very gratified.
The assistants gave me a lot of feelings. The children were weird elves. When they were in class, they listened carefully, answered questions actively, and lived and studied in an orderly manner. These are all rewards for the hard work of the teachers. The teachers in the kindergarten are really very hard. From the morning when the children enter the park, and the children leave the park at night, the teacher does not have a moment of rest. As a parent, I am very pleased and appreciate the sacredness and greatness of the preschool education. I thank the teachers and the children for giving me this opportunity and let me have a good afternoon with them.

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