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Parents and children write a book


Parent-child sharing a reading experience Fan Wenyi:

I like to read books. My daughter also likes to read books. But what kind of books I choose for my children is good for my child's development and physical and mental health. It has always been my confusion. The development of modern material civilization, the temptation of television and internet for children, and the children's books driven by economic interests. Although children like to read, I feel that many books are not very good or even harmful to children's physical and mental development; Children who don’t like books that are educational to children. It is very meaningful for the school to carry out parent-child reading activities, so that parents pay more attention to the children's extracurricular reading and mobilize the enthusiasm of children and parents to read good books.
In order to make my child's summer vacation more fulfilling, I went to the bookstore to choose a book with my child. The book selection was made by the child. This greatly mobilized the child's enthusiasm and bought the book that the child liked. The child couldn't put it down. I agreed with my child to finish reading the homework for 30 minutes every day, and the child is interested in reading more. During the child's reading process, I found that the child just watched the excitement and looked at the little stories inside. It obviously did not play much role in the cultivation and education of Chinese knowledge ability. So I started taking the time to study with my children, but because I am busy with work, it is very difficult to read them all with my children. So I play with my children. Who has time to see who sees who sees fast, whoever reads part of it? Tell the other person what to read. During the reading process, I discussed and communicated with my children, which improved my child's language skills. When I have time, I will read a paragraph for the children to enjoy the pleasure of listening, and then discuss the stories, characters, and language in the book, and let the children develop the habit of reading, discussing, and thinking. In the past, children read books and were too lazy to take notes. Since I was studying together with my children, we have been reading and reading the good words and phrases that we have seen, focusing on guiding children to record good words and sentences, and let the children gradually develop into study. Habits, instead of just reading the storyline, for a period of time, the child can basically read and find good words, and read more, which is conducive to improving the child's writing level.
Sharing with your child is not just about sharing happiness, but also about sharing confusion. Where the child does not understand, I will talk about my own understanding, or check the information with the child. Parents and children have increased their knowledge and trained their thinking skills in reading.
Nowadays, our parent-child reading is slowly changing from passive reading to active reading. Parent-child reading is becoming a good habit of our family. In the future, we will continue to improve methods and methods to further stimulate children's habits of reading and thinking, so that children and The book is a friend, with the book as a companion, growing up healthy and happy in reading.


Parent-child writing a total of reading experience Fan Wen 2:

Half an hour before going to bed every night, reading with my daughter is a must-do for every day. The original parent-child read was only to perfuse her daughter, because her daughter refused to sleep alone, so she promised to accompany her for half an hour before going to bed every day, but this half an hour must read each other's stories to each other. In this way, the daughter began a journey of "co-reading". The days slipped away quietly and silently, and the books I read with my children increased quietly. I gradually felt that the daily habits from the beginning to the present day turned out to be natural. I was pleasantly surprised to find that "parent-child reading" is playing the unique magical power of her. It is not true that the daughter's diary is written in order to make up the number of words at the beginning. The essays arranged by the teacher can also be completed independently.
When my daughter was very young, I paid great attention to cultivating her interest in reading. Because I was working in a bookstore, I usually noticed a lot of good books. At that time, I bought her a lot of books suitable for her, although sometimes I might still see I don't quite understand it, and I also tore a lot of books, but I also learned the above knowledge in the process of tearing up the book. Although she never taught her to read Chinese characters, she could already know many Chinese characters without knowing it, and the kindergarten could read short story books independently. Later, I also taught this method a lot of young parents who came to buy books.
Now my daughter is a first-grade elementary school student. She insists on writing a diary every day since she graduated from kindergarten. From the initial daily habits of giving me her subject matter to completing it independently every day, it is inseparable from the daily "family-child reading" credit.
At this moment, I am so happy, I am experiencing the joys, sorrows and sorrows brought by books with my children. The same mood makes my children get closer, there is no gap between them, and they are as close as friends, without saying anything. You can feel the changes in your child's mind and mind from a distance, so that you can adjust your methods and methods in a timely manner to better create a family environment and learning environment for your child. Let her grow up happy and healthy.
In his "To Child", Gibran wrote: "You can give them love, but you can't give them thoughts, because they have their own thoughts, you can shade their bodies, but you can't shade their souls."
Yes, let us give our children a good book for a lifetime, accompany them to read the classics, read life! Let the seeds of happiness sprout in the book!


Parent-child writing a total of reading experience Fan Wensan:

When I came home from school last Thursday, my daughter said to me: "Mom, the book recommended by the teacher, "The Education of Love," is in our family. The "argument" we learned today is chosen from this book. You look at it. Look." I picked up her language and read the "Quarrel." The daughter also re-read it with the "Education of Love". After reading it, he said, "Mom, you come to read, we all come to write reading experience." I said "good."
I read it carefully, and after reading it, I was very touched. An Like, a fourth-grade student, can observe so seriously and write such a touching story. And I admire the father of Anlik, who can pay attention to the way of education, methods, and guide the children in a timely manner, and shape the good quality and character of Amico.
One of them, "Siddy's "Library"", introduces Steddy, whose family is not rich. Although he can't afford a lot of books, he will pick up if he has money, and then go to the bookstore to buy books. His father found out. Specially helped him buy a bookshelf with a green curtain, let him put these books. He put these books neatly, and the titles on the spine were shining with golden light. He loves these books very much. When he is free, he will smash the ash on the book and blow off the dust in the book, so his book is still like new. When the classmates come, he only takes books to classmates and does not play anything else. His father also often encouraged him to say that he has perseverance and will succeed.
An Like feels that his books are worn out. He should learn from Stade and think that he can learn a lot from him and admire him.
This story tells us that Stade is a very good child. He likes to read books and can cherish books. Anlik is also very good, and the observations are meticulous. Can take the length of others to make up for themselves. I am open-minded to learn from my classmates. The father of two children is very good at educating children. Stade's father found that children love to read, can give help and support in a timely manner, and give encouragement at the right time. And Alice's father can often communicate and communicate with children, and guide and educate in time. It is an example for our parents to learn.
And Amico’s mother is also a caring person, setting an example for Amico. He also often cares about classmates and helps classmates. It can be seen from the story of "Little Attic." Anlik's mother took Amico and his sister to send some cloth to a poor woman in the newspaper. It was only when she arrived at her house that she was the mother of Alice's classmate Clossi. Clossi's father went to the United States. He usually relied on his mother to sell vegetables to support his family. Now his mother is sick, his furniture is sold out, and Clossi doesn't even have a desk to write. But he still studies very seriously, and he is not embarrassed because his family is not good. Seeing Alice, he smiled at him, and Amico also ran in and embraced Clossi. They pulled each other up. Anlik's mother was very moved. She took all the money in her wallet and gave it to Clossi's mother, and kissed him. When I came out, I couldn’t help but cry. After calming, Quark Losey studied hard and sensible, and asked Anlik to learn from him and care more about him.
Amico lives in such a family. He is really happy. Mom and Dad can communicate and connect with him, and set an example by example. It is suitable for guiding and educating.


Parent-child writing a total of reading experience Fan Wensi:

Bacon said: "Knowledge is power," in today's knowledge-based economy era, this sentence is particularly relevant and important. Knowledge is learned, and reading is the most important learning activity of human beings. The old saying goes: "Reading history can be wise, research and philosophy can be rational, literature can be preached, and chewing can be good."
During this time, my mother and I were reading the book "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty". Because this book has a few books, it is too late to read all of it.
When I read the first book of "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty," I made my eyes shine, I immediately fell in love with this book, and I was deeply attracted. It is a pleasure to read this book because the author has written history in his humorous, easy-to-understand language. Because the civilian population does not understand the ancient history books, do not like to read the current history books, but have the potential needs to understand history. "Those things in the Ming Dynasty" are in the middle of the people. Based on grass roots, give nutrition. It is very lively to make the history that is difficult to understand, so that people can't stop reading. As Mr. Mingyue said, “History can be written very well.” History itself is very exciting.
The book "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty" mainly tells about the Ming Dynasty from the opening of Zhu Yuanzhang in 1344 to the end of Wanli in 1644. It is based on historical materials, with the era and specific characters as the main line, and joined the novel's brushwork, to display the fate of the Ming Dynasty's seventeen emperors and other princes and small people, especially for official politics, war, and emperors. The mind is most intoxicated, and joins the interpretation of the political economy system and the morality of the people.
This book is really nice! Every night after I finished my homework, my mother and I couldn't wait to take a book and lean on the sofa to look slowly. When we saw the wonderful things, both of us could not help but laugh. Sometimes I read the wonderful part of the article to my mother, and my mother is the same.
I really want to thank Mr. Ming Yue. He made me love the Ming Dynasty more. I remember that I said at the time: "The Ming Dynasty was more exciting than the Qing Dynasty. The Ming Dynasty was more democratic, more open and powerful, and full of vitality." When I was to my mother When I said this, my mother couldn’t help but be shocked. Mom knows that I really look at this Ming Dynasty with my heart. I can see it deeply and see it endlessly. And we often talk about the characters in the book. From Zhu Yuanzhang, we talked about Zhang Shicheng, Chen Youliang, Zhu Yunqi to Zhu Xi, Zhu Yuzhen to Zhu Xi, and most talked about Zhu Xi, Yu Qian, Zheng He, Fang Xiaoyu, Yang Shen, Jie Jie, Tang Yin, Ma Queen, Qian Queen, Wang Zhen and other characters. These characters portrayed in the book impressed us and talked about it.
My mother believes that parent-child reading is a person who is a parent. I hope that by reading a book together or reading a story to the children, I will let the children learn some knowledge and inspire some of their ideas. Parent-child co-reading is often seen as a necessary condition for parents to raise children because it can bring many benefits to the child's growth. Such as:
1. Co-reading can enhance the intimate relationship between parents and children, and open up common experiences, understandings and topics between parents and children.
2. During the enjoyable process of reading together, the child will experience that reading is fun and gradually develops the habit of reading.
3. The books shared by the family directly enrich the children's auditory vocabulary and understanding.
4. A total reading can establish a child's understanding of books and reading at an early stage, so that children have the opportunity to explore the structure and content of the book, and the methods and concepts of experimental reading will find out what the book will bring to people. Meaning and fun.
5. The experience of reading together can inspire the child's imagination.
6. In the process of reading together, the child's problems and concerns can get an adult's response in time; and the courage and confidence of the protagonist in the book will also have an incentive effect on the child.
Therefore, parent-child reading is not only a way for children to develop cognitive thinking through reading, but also a good moment for emotional exchanges and ideas communication between parents and children.


Parent-child writing a total of reading experience Fan Wenwu:

In our real life, parent-child activities are few and far between. Most of them are long-term work for parents. After work, they give meals. After school, they are doing homework. There is no time to accompany their children, let alone study together. I have studied, so this time the school organizes parent-child reading, we must cherish it.
Reading is a great accumulation of life. It can shape a healthy personality, temper the will of hard work, and enrich the knowledge of extracurricular knowledge and brain accumulation. It may affect the life of our new generation. A student who does not attach importance to reading is a difficult student; a parent who does not care about his child's study is an incompetent parent.
Because of my work, I can't do it with my son every day, but I can accompany my child to read at least twice a week. Since I started reading with my son and son, I have been re-recovering the kind of beauty and magic while reading and studying together with my son. Every time I read a parent-child, I am happy to have it!
When we read the story of Robinson Crusoe, we enjoyed the joys and sorrows of the characters in the book, and together we felt the hero’s tenacious spirit and super vigor, and explained to the children when they encountered difficulties. Robinson’s tenacious spirit in a difficult environment cannot escape without encountering difficulties, but seeks to overcome it.
I also enjoyed happiness in appreciating my child's growth. The childlike innocence in the book has gone to the dust of my heart, which makes me lucky to walk into the world of children and know how to get close to these innocent angels.
In 20xx, a new starting point for the new year, I will be happy to read the fun of the children and my life, and make the children and my life more colorful and wonderful!

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