Fu Lei's book reading experience

Fu Lei’s book reading experience :

Every family book is a cultural heritage, not to mention the "Fu Lei Family Book". A family book, as the name suggests, refers to correspondence between family members and relatives. About after the birth of the text, the family book appeared, and it can be said that it has a long history. With the gradual richness of the language and the invention of paper, the family books have become popular. Until today, home books are one of the bonds of family.
A letter in the letter, in the line of expression of deep affection, reflects the beautiful interpersonal relationship, noble living standards, excellent behavioral conduct and moral tradition, and the patriotic enthusiasm of the boxing. These contents are all part of the excellent culture of the Chinese nation. According to "Fu Leijiashu", the nearly 100 books written by Fu Lei, the general theme is that educating children, acting on the basis of things, must be based on the Chinese and Chinese civilization; determined to become talented, to serve the country as a priority. The whole book is the best interpretation of the Chinese people's outstanding moral character.
Fu Lei’s book gives us a look at the past history, opened a window, and preserved the memory of that era for us. It is precisely because of its existence that the Chinese people’s outstanding morality is clearly explained. It is not only Fu Lei’s education for children. It is also the criterion for us to act.
In addition to teaching many people to do things, Fu Lei’s book is full of deep affection, and the family revealed by the lines makes people feel moved. I can't help but think of my parents. Although they are not giants, they are not as famous as Fu Lei, and they can't say the principle of making people come to work. But they think about everything for me. No matter what they do, they will consider it for me first. Plan for me. There are many great principles in Fu Lei's family that are human beings. It is a valuable spiritual wealth. However, is the normal education of parents not a criterion for doing things? My parents don't talk about principles like Fu Lei. They are always good for me.
After reading "Fu Lei's Family Book," I learned a lot of the principles of being a man, and I felt that I was met by the greatness of my family.

Fu Lei's book reading experience 2:

Every family has different educational methods. "Fu Lei Jia Shu" is a painstaking education book. It is a rare and good book, which is most suitable for parents and children.
Fu Lei’s method of educating children is quite unique. He conveyed his true feelings to children in distant places through letters, and sincerely guided his son’s life and art, and secretly revealed his concern and love for his son. A good parenting education is a good thing for children. It can determine a child's life. After all, parent education is the first teacher. Fu Lei used a good method to educate his son to become a talent. Endless.
It’s true that many families are looking for a child and a daughter, so a good parenting education is essential, but how many families can properly educate their children? In China, many families are not properly educated. Parents do not communicate with their children. They do not understand the child's situation. They do not properly guide the child, let the child go astray, and finally regret it. Some parents think that children are not beaten up, there are countless domestic violence, so that the child is physically and mentally hurt, not only does not make the child sensible, but makes the child become rebellious. Parents should appreciate this "Fu Lei Family Book" when educating children with appropriate parenting education. In fact, as a child, we also need to look at it, because it can infect us, let us know that parents are well-intentioned, know how to thank their parents, it allows us to understand the appreciation of art, to behave in life, to get the right guidance. .
"Fu Lei's Book" is a book suitable for both men and women, and will definitely make people profitable.

Fu Lei's book reading experience is three:

Since the 1930s, Mr. Fu Lei has devoted himself to the translation and translation of French literature and translated many works. At the same time, Fu Lei is still a strict and conscientious father. After his son grew up and studied abroad, he still passed the letter. The son’s life and art are carefully guided. After the compilation of these family letters, it is the "Fu Lei Family Book."
The book published in "Fu Leijiashu" is a letter between Fu Lei and Fu Cong from 1954 to 1966. In those days, these letters were only private letters between the father and the son. They are now published as a book, and they are popular everywhere, because this is not a gossip between the father and the son, but a spiritual dialogue between two special artists.
Fu Lei also has deep knowledge in art. Therefore, these books also talk about art, music works, performance skills, artistic accomplishment, etc. in a considerable amount of space, whether Fu Cong went to Poland to study, won an international award, or went to the rest of the world. During the performance, Fu Lei always pays attention to his son's growth on the road of music and art. He gives instructions from time to time. In particular, he often mails books on Chinese classical literature and art theory about painting and sculpture, encouraging him to learn more from poetry and drama. Art and other art categories draw on nutrition and improve their artistic accomplishment. The book is a true expression of the truth, coupled with Fu Lei's profound writing skills and artistic accomplishments, these words are vivid and beautiful, and they are touching and touching.
In the communication on February 29, 1956, Fu Lei started from the characteristics of Mozart's music, and said that the artist must have a heart of heart and be sincere. Sincerity is the foundation of being a human being, and must be cultivated from an early age. This is a kind of education that is sensible and stimulating.
These books condense Fu Lei's deep love for the motherland and his son. Fu Lei used his own experience to show his own body and taught Fu Cong how to face various problems. Fist and love the heart of the child, overflowing with words. Through this book, you can learn a lot of people's truth and improve your self-cultivation.
In this book, what we have seen, in addition to the endless thoughts of the fathers of foreigners, the endless hang, and the era of the national intellectuals that have been carrying Chinese intellectuals for thousands of years, filled with a special generation of common memories. Reflection. What we see is the inheritance of culture and the pursuit of art. At the highest level, art is transcending the nation and not dividing the domain. Our tribute to life and the exploration and pursuit of the ultimate meaning of life are never-ending and ancient. For this reason, what is reflected in Fu Lei's Family Book is not only the love and care of human beings, but also the spirit and mind that transcend life.
"Fu Leijiashu" was written fifty years ago, half a century has passed, but in the minds of conscience and deep readers from generation to generation, such as the wind chimes that winds and hangs in the wind, they have plucked countless sharp heartstrings. To make countless readers feel and move.
At that time, Fu Lei was in the fighting room, and his heart was in the country, even in culture and art. All of this would not be old and would not be outdated. Nowadays, people are no longer there, but its influence is getting stronger and stronger.

Fu Lei's book reading experience is four:

"Fu Leijiashu" is an excerpt from the family letter of Chinese literature and art translator Fu Lei and his wife who wrote to the children Fu Cong and Fu Min from 1954 to 1966. This book is an excellent young intellectual cultivation book and a classic model of quality education. It is a famous chapter of the godson who is full of fatherly love. The two children who have been painstakingly and painstakingly trained to educate them to be first and then become "homes" are the successful expression of the children's educational thoughts of independent thinking and teaching according to their aptitude. Therefore, Fu Lei and his wife have become the model of Chinese parents.
The following is a Fu Lei family book reading notes, for your reference only:
First, Fu Lei’s love of love
"Dear child, the next day after you left, I want to write a letter, I am afraid that you are bothered, but it will stop. But I don’t want to miss you one day. I wake up at six or seven o’clock every morning, and I can’t sleep, and I can’t sleep. Nothing is wrong. It seems that Christopher’s mother is alone at home, and remembers the image of the child’s childhood scene. My mother and I always think about your story from the age of two to six or seven.
The previous statement was taken from the "Fu Lei Family Book", which was written by Fu Lei to his son Fu Cong. From the above statement, you can see Fu Lei's love of love between the lines. For the grown up son, I hope that he will grow up and develop outwards, but he will not bear the children away from him. In fact, parents are like this. From pregnancy in August to delivery in October, parents are working hard to feed their children step by step, in order to hope that their children will be useful, and they will not sleep on the streets in the future. However, when children are talented, it is also the time when they leave the house. As parents, they are happy for them, and they are saddened by this. After all, it is the flesh and blood. As we should understand and understand the pains of our parents, let parents see what they want to see – our happy life is a reward for the parents’ hard-earned parenting.
Second, Fu Lei’s encouragement to his son
"In terms of performance, I feel very good, in one go, full of energy, delicate place is very delicate, tonecolour changes are indeed a lot. We are very happy, very moved. Good boy, I really should praise you a few words. Looking back at the time when I returned to Kunming from Kunming in April 1951, you really fell from the low to the middle of the mountain. I hope that you will pay attention to the whole cultivation from now on, and you will be able to climb the peak in the future."
This is Teacher Fu Lei. After listening to the recording of his son Fu Cong, he commented on his son. This includes, Mr. Fu's recording of his son, a detailed analysis, and objective appreciation. And later mentioned the hope for the son. This is the parental approach to education for children. It is necessary to reflect your affirmation of your child, your determination to work hard, and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, it also put forward its own hopes, pointing out the way forward and the direction of development. And when we are children, we should also draw on the experience of our parents on the road of parental guidance, and learn from each other's strengths to develop our new path.
Third, Fu Lei's 嘱咐
"In public organizations, it is inevitable that rushing to the task and hindering normal learning. I have expected this. All you have to use your firm will and position to fight for leadership and forcefully. Otherwise, you can do it abroad. How much? - Especially in terms of music, I have been reluctant. From now on, relying on your personal perseverance, faith and will - the will of practice."
Millions of people, parents can not afford. The son is faced with ever-changing society, how to deal with it, as parents have mixed feelings. Use his own experience to remind his son to take less grievances and take more shortcuts. This is the idea of ​​the parents of the world. The child is the continuation of the life of the parents and the hope of the parents to hold up the sun. Parents take a detour, do not want children to repeat the same mistakes, I hope they can "go a step higher" than themselves. In adolescence, we should let go of the rebellious mentality, follow the parents' lessons, and understand the parents' pains. In fact, this is also for our own good, for our future life is more relaxed and happy.
Fourth, the mother's concern
"I hope that you put all your energy into research and study, use more reason and use less emotion. Of course, it depends on your strong confidence and restraint all the troubles. It is not an easy task, but it cannot be overcome. For your emotional problems. I have never participated in any opinions. I feel that you are making progress in all aspects. You are a smart person and you will realize it. I am both your mother and we are related to the flesh and blood. We have to make a few words and persuade."
To say that the mother's heart is fine, the father is well-intentioned in the future of his son, and the mother starts in the most subtle place - the son's emotional problems, giving the son a clear road direction. Tell him how to deal with his own feelings and career problems, let his son understand that the focus is there. We should also accept the lessons of Fu Lei's wife. We should understand our own priorities, understand our tasks, roads and directions, know what we should do and what we should not do, and grasp the direction of the direction. This will help us succeed.
Five, Fu Lei loves the heart
"Children, I am waiting for you, I will always be sorry for you, I will never be able to redeem this sin! These thoughts have not left my mind for a whole day, just dare not tell your mother that life is doing something wrong, Conscience will never be peaceful! Really, Balzac said it well: some sins can only be redeemed and cannot be washed!"
When leaving, his father Fu Lei blamed his son for strict discipline and means "cruel." It turned out to be his own mistake. Oh, in fact, this is the love of the child! "If you don't work hard, you will be sad!" When Mr. Fu Lei was a child, he was strict in discipline and meticulous, and “cruelly abused” his son Fu Cong. Hear a joke, where is the father who abused his own flesh and blood? As the saying goes, the filial son is under the stick, and the teacher Fu Lei uses the talented father. In normal times, when parents practice "violence" against us, we should have an understanding attitude. We must be considerate of our parents' eagerness. Because they are doing good to us, and they hate iron. After all, the parents have a desire to look forward to seeing a woman into a dragon!
Sixth, sum up Fu Lei image
I have come into contact with Fu Lei’s "Fu Lei Family Book", a Chinese tradition but with advanced ideas. I really appreciate the teaching method that Mr. Fu Lei told his son, but I don't really like Mr. Fu's venting of his son's emotions. Compared with Liu Yong, Fu Lei is obviously more implicit and conservative.
From the book, I realized the parents’ hard work for me. Their hard work has created a good learning environment for me to study in a comfortable place, work hard and create a good living environment for the future. I can't live without it. They have worked hard! And we still don't understand the truth. The rebellious mentality is stronger every day, and the parents' bitterness is ignored. In fact, we are still suffering at the end! No talent, level, how to face increasingly fierce social competition in the future?
I think we should understand the pains of our parents, study hard and reward them!

Fu Lei's book reading experience is five:

Everyone has a biological parent, and most of them have experienced the love and teaching of their parents. When I read this book, I felt another kind of teaching, not the teacher’s teaching, not the embarrassment of the elders, but the parents’ concern for the children, which was different from the care of my parents, but was carefully cared for. The feeling, I seem to find another kind of parental love, which is what most children can't understand. This may be the reason why this decade has not lost her love. It’s that a sealed book, like a precious conversation, brings us closer, I feel like a child, listen, and remember with my heart.
Father Fu Lei is a wise, knowledgeable and upright scholar. He is even a bit violent and very individual when he is young. Mother Zhu Meizhen is an oriental woman who has the oriental cultural literacy and is baptized by Western culture. She is both dignified and gentle, and warm and kind.
Father Fu Lei has extensive research on literature, music, painting and modern Chinese and foreign cultures, and his personal culture is extremely high. The object of his training was to receive a good parenting education from an early age, and finally grew up to become the son of the international master Fu Cong. He profoundly understands that even if art is like a piano, it requires strict technical factors, but it is not a "craft", but a manifestation of whole body and full personality. He educated his son and said: "I always think that it is good to learn and to make art. The top thing is "people". We must develop a "person" as much as possible. Before we become an artist, we must learn to be a human being. Otherwise, that No matter how brilliant a certain family is, it will not contribute much to mankind. A person who is purely devoted to art, he has nothing to do except art and personal personality.
The so-called "people" is concrete and micro in Fu Lei's mind. This is not just a wish, a slogan. It is as big as the world's loyalty and dedication to the human beings to the motherland, from the rigor of their own career, their filial piety to their parents, their understanding of their wives, their tolerance to their friends, and even the treatment of a certain piece of music, a friend. The exchanges so much that the son’s words and deeds also warned that “the hand should be vertical and the person should be straight” made the readers impressed and quite eloquent.
In that sinister age, in the days when personal safety was unprotected, she was in the distance with her son and grandson. She restrained her inner fear and pain and transmitted her strong, serene and meticulous care to her relatives who drifted away from home. . A sweater that was knitted for the grandchildren, she was as uneasy as the "ritual", in order to let her son feel the warmth of the family in a foreign country, she meticulously wrote the production process of the dishes, fearing Omission of a detail. She loves her husband and gives her life for this family. However, she also tramples and insults the human dignity that can no longer be tolerated. The husband and wife together integrate life into eternal, perhaps more lyrical, and it is an end. . However, this end has never let people separate their couple.
As a model of Chinese people, the couple worked hard and painstakingly to train their two sons. The eldest son Fu Cong became a famous piano master, and his younger son Fu Min became an English special teacher. They taught their sons to be "people" first and then "home". In the end of their lives, they ended up with the word "people". All good memories are not willing to humiliate themselves, and they are not willing to let them live again. There are so many unpleasant things that I can't stand. They would rather abandon themselves and get a relief to complete the interpretation of the person. Their death has been shocked in my heart. I am no longer as painful as they were when I was young. I only hope that they will rest in peace for half a century.
It is their strict tutoring that cultivates a world-class master of art. Just as a good friend, Lou Yi, faced Fu Lei’s strict tutoring of his son Fu Cong’s tutoring, but “do not agree”. However, it is such a strict family education that has created his good life and left a mirror for thousands of parents. What do we give the children? How do we do things for our children?
In the book we not only saw a strict ring but also a caring father, but also saw the common growth of the father and son. His music translations communicated with his son. He expressed his concern for the development of the motherland and his love for the motherland to the students. Fu Lei took his own responsibility to the social motherland and the human world with a highly responsible spirit and heart. responsibility. His son Fu Cong, in the exotic drifting career, learned how rich nourishment, but his father made him in an orphan-like situation overseas, as if his parents were still by his side, always giving him guidance, encouragement and encouragement, so that he has the courage And the power to overcome all kinds of magic obstacles and resistance, to embark on the path of their own legitimate growth, through these letters, not only the strong bond between the son and the loved one, but also through this link, Fu Cong and away from The motherland has firmly established a combination of hearts. Later facts proved that regardless of the cruel experience of the domestic family, regardless of the notoriety he suffered, he never turned his back on his motherland and was not threatened by the hostile side of the motherland. He did not say or did harm the dignity of the motherland. Words and deeds, this is a father's edification of a son, which is inseparable from his father's patriotic education to his son, tens of thousands of miles away. Time and distance are not problems. The parents who are attentive, the heart of your sleepless love is the irreplaceable textbook, the gas station of life.