Parents' parenting experience

Part 1: Kindergarten Parents' Experience in Parenting

He is 4 years old this year. In the past few years, I have also accumulated some childcare experience. Below I will talk about my childcare experience in the past five years:
First, listen to the idea and then the child will experience a lot of "critical moments", not as careless as we imagined. Not only must we help the children through this moment, but also help her to understand the emotions of fear, anger, disappointment, embarrassment and sadness, which is very important for parents. First, you should listen to the child more, determine her feelings, and then act as a military division, so that the child will learn to communicate with others in a difficult situation, more autonomy.
Second, every day, I will say "I love you" to the child. Every day, I will give the child a hug. I agree with my good father. Every day, I have to say "I love you" every time, no matter when it is, sometimes it is She just woke up, sometimes when she was going to sleep at night, sometimes she was on her way to school. At this time, the child will smile with me or her father, "I love you too." We always think that love should be expressed by action, but in order to let the children know how to express it, we should always combine it with reality.
3. Make good use of praise and encourage the habit of eating rice because of eating well, and it takes a long time to eat a meal, so that it takes an hour or two to eat a meal. Every time I feed, I urge her to eat faster. I can't slow it down, then I will only praise her. I will praise it when she takes a bite. But now that she has become a habit, she doesn't take it for granted. It doesn't matter. Therefore, parents must not abuse praise. If they do what they normally do every day, they will praise it as a long-term, and the child will probably use it as an exchange of interests or a parent's capital.
Good courage is not big enough, many times I dare not try many things. When I am at home, everything depends on us to do it for her, so what do we expect us to do? My husband and I tried to encourage her many times. She usually likes to draw pictures and cut paper at home, but she doesn't know how to draw with a pen, so she always calls "Mom, you paint me", I take the pen in her. On the hand, encourage her to say "you will paint better than your mother" and listen to this sentence, she will draw quickly. Now she will have a pen with nothing to draw, draw a circle, a triangle, and cut out a pattern of painting.
Fourth, avoiding criticism and accusation of excessive criticism and accusation is not good for the child's psychological growth. Especially when someone has criticized her for something, then blaming it next to it, I think it is very wrong, it will hurt the child's self-esteem, which will lead to rebellious psychology. At this time, she should be educated calmly and patiently. Let her judge the behavior in the story by telling stories first, then compare the behavior in the story with his behavior and let her know her fault. In the end, she praised her strengths and told her that although she did something wrong, it doesn't matter. As long as I can correct you, it is as good as before. It is a good boy that everyone likes. That will not only make her recover her confidence, but she will also recognize her mistakes and will correct them in the future.
5. Let the children help to do things. At home, I always let me do some chores that put the tableware and the ability to clean the tableware after the meal. Sometimes when I wash things, I will let her help me with a small stool. . These things may be insignificant in the eyes of our parents, but this small and no small thing can accompany people with good habits. As long as we pay more attention to such small things, we will let the children benefit for a lifetime. .
These are just my personal tips on parenting. I believe that parents and friends must have better parenting methods than me. Of course, educating children requires the whole family to work together and unanimously educate. At the same time, it is necessary to cooperate with kindergarten teachers to achieve family education, so that our children can develop better in all aspects.

Part 2: Parents' Parenting Experience

Time flies very quickly. I have been studying in kindergarten for two years. Next year is the big class. As a parent, our educational purpose in the early childhood stage is: the healthy and happy growth of the baby, the ability to develop a good life and good study habits, not to say what knowledge must be learned in kindergarten. It is not an easy task to make your child happy and healthy, and to enrich your child's various knowledge. Here are some of our personal experiences:
First, pay attention to listening to the child about himself
Parents care about their children, not only by looking at them, but also by listening to them. "Listening" means encouraging children to talk more about their own affairs and to guide their children correctly by "listening" to hear his voice.
Second, encouragement and criticism
Children need encouragement and encouragement is motivation. Whenever the child has some progress, we will strongly encourage him, so that he will be very happy and self-confidence will increase. When it is wrong, such as lying, we still have to sternly criticize him. At the same time, I will listen to why he is doing this. Tell him that it is wrong. You can't do this.
Third, we must have a childlike heart
With the child, play with him like a child and integrate into his world. Do some games, do manuals, etc. with your child. To have a childlike heart, you must stand in the child's point of view, don't let things go to deal with him.
These are some of my experiences in educating children. "It is easy to do it." We often have such shortcomings in children's education. We hope that teachers will give more guidance and let the children get more progress together.

Part 3: Kindergarten Parents' Parenting Experience

How to be a qualified father and mother? Not only in terms of material aspects, baby education is an important aspect of being a qualified parent. "Being a filial son under the stick" is a thing of the last century. Nowadays, how to scientifically raise children is to let the baby win at the starting line. key. The following two examples are about the parenting experience of kindergarten parents. You may wish to refer to the following:
Example 1: When the baby is unreasonable, he can't change his position softly.
When the baby wants something, if it is crying and noisy, whether or not this thing is what he really wants, he can't be given to him at this time. The words given to him are encouraged, and the crying behind becomes a weapon. When I was young, I took my baby to the supermarket and saw the stall selling sweets. I refused to go there. My mother insisted on not buying it. She took the baby crying out of the supermarket and there was another time. A candy has to go to the mouth, my mother objected, saying that I can't pay the bill, and then I won't be like this. I just talk to my mother and buy some good. At this time, I will be very happy to buy it, not to buy it. Emotions.
Example 2: Treat your baby's behavior with a normal heart. Don't react too hard, give appropriate encouragement and guidance.
If the baby is always drinking water when eating now, it seems to be a conditional reflex. Before drinking water during the meal, the mother is more responsive and does not let him drink. As a result, the more you stop him, the more he wants to After doing this, after the mother pretended not to see it, he would still tell me after drinking, mother, you see that I drink water, the purpose is to attract the attention of parents.
If your baby loves to imitate the mother to work at home, the mother will generally stop the baby's movements. In fact, it will not achieve any effect. Instead, it will use the tools to wave in the living room. If your baby picks up the guy later, Mom will definitely affirm him. Oh, you are awesome, can help my mother work, the baby listened to this, it was so happy, it was really like a decent Get a circle and put the tool back in place.
Example 3: How to deal with your baby's emotional problems
Some babies are crazy and troublesome with their mothers as long as they are at home. They are very excited. They don’t sleep at noon. They say that this is a way for babies to express their love. I don’t know if the baby is too depressed in kindergarten. On this point, my mother is really a little overwhelmed. Sometimes she is too crazy. Mom and Dad will stop it. Actually, it seems that there is no effect. Try to guide the baby. The way to express love is not only in this kind.

Chapter 4: Parents' Parenting Experience

My child is Xie Chendong, who is a big class. He is 5 years old and a half, and he is already a lively little man. He can know more than 3,000 Chinese characters and vocabulary, can count from 1 to 100, will calculate the addition and subtraction within 10, can know 26 English letters, and will sing more than 20 English songs. He made his own small album. He has a wide range of hobbies and interests, and is already a yellow-green belt for Taekwondo. He can skate, swim, play billiards, ride a bicycle, tell stories, and play computer.
I feel satisfied and happy for having such a healthy, lively and well-educated son. I am also grateful to everyone who has helped us. The birth of Dongdong brought a lot of joy to our family. After I was excited and happy, I was a little uneasy and kept thinking about the education of my children. Sometimes I am troubled by the confusion of child-rearing, but I will always reflect on my own education methods, insist on reading the latest parenting ideas, and ask parents and teachers to educate parents. The following are some of my experiences with my son over the past five years. I am willing to share and share with you.
First, choose the right kindergarten for your child and let him like to go to school.
I think it is very important to choose the right kindergarten. It is often seen that some children are afraid to go to school and are afraid to learn. Dongdong also had the same feeling of going to school before going to kindergarten. I chose the Julong bilingual kindergarten through a comparative study of kindergartens. It seems to be very correct now. Since he went to the Julong bilingual kindergarten, Dongdong has seen his happy smile every day when he went to school. At the end of the National Day holiday, he whispered to his mother: Mom, I tell you, my happiest thing is to go to school tomorrow. With the closer interaction with kindergartens, I feel more and more full of hope for Dongdong education. In this regard, I am really grateful to all the teachers in the big class.
Second, help children develop hobbies and hobbies, let him love life.
If the child has his own hobbies, the child's life will become rich and colorful. In terms of hobbies, my attitude is to guide and respect children. When I was a child, I often caught a cold. I saw that other children were very envious when they ran and jumped, so I was determined to lead him to like Taekwondo. When he had not reached the age of learning Taekwondo, I took him to see the big brothers practicing boxing. When he played the boxing game on the computer, I took the opportunity to say that the one that played very well was to learn Taekwondo. After my patience, he finally took the initiative to entangle me and said, "Mom, I want to learn Taekwondo, take me to learn Taekwondo?" After studying, his body is strong every day, and he rarely has a cold and fever. It is good to have a cold and drink more water. With a healthy body and a foundation, Dongdong has a wide range of interests and interests. He likes to learn taekwondo, painting, skating, swimming and so on.
Third, teach the child to learn to read the word early, let him love learning.
When I was over 1 year old, I found that he was very interested in the word. He bought a set of literacy books and asked him to look at it at will. If he had time, he would teach one or two words. He has a good memory and he has learned it a few times. When you go out and see the words on the road sign and on the billboard, you will point out and read it to me. At present, there are more than 3,000 Chinese characters and vocabulary that Dongdong knows. He reads the book of small people and can effortlessly tell the story to his mother. It is also touching when it comes to the wonderful things. The benefits of knowing the word in Dongdong can now be realized slowly. He became very fond of reading books. Even when playing computer games, you will find out the game strategy to learn.
Fourth, give the child a do-it-yourself and let him be independent.
I pay great attention to cultivating children's independent personality and letting children do what they can. I often tell Dongdong: I do things myself. Get up in the morning, Dongdong brushing his teeth, washing his face, wearing shoes and socks, wearing clothes and pants, and packing his stationery. Give him a fixed table, chair and position, let him eat himself and finish his homework. After doing your own thing, you should also help to share the housework, such as helping to clean the table and dumping garbage. When Dongdong finds that some phenomena are very curious, I will encourage him to do his own experiments, such as making soap bubbles with soap. If you buy Dongdong related supplies, such as clothes and shoes, we will ask for his opinion, see if he likes it, let him choose his own decision.
5. Give the child an example and teach him and let him be of good quality.
I believe that parents' words and deeds, every move, can be a child to follow suit. All along, our family has been striving to create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere and create a good environment for children to grow. It is also important to cultivate a child's good habits than to teach him knowledge. When Dongdong was only a few months old, I taught him: Where did the toy come from, and where to go after playing it. I usually do this myself, no matter what items I want to return to my home. Dongdong has developed a good habit of loving and neatness since he was a child, and he still loves his toys. We often express our concern between family members in the face of the East. Now Dongdong has been very caring and caring for the family. Every time Mom and Dad are going to work, no matter what they are doing, they will come over and say goodbye to Mom and Dad. If you have a good thing, you want to share it with your family.
6. Be a good friend of the child and let him be mentally healthy.
When I was with Dongdong, I was more of a good friend. I often chat with children, listen to him singing and singing, and be his most loyal audience. Every day after school, I will ask my child about life and study in kindergarten. Dongdong will be very happy to tell what happened to him in the kindergarten. He has his little classmate, his teacher, what he has learned, and his thoughts. This will allow me to better understand the child's thinking and help to coordinate the teacher's education of the child. On the other hand, it also exercised Dongdong's language ability. I love my children as much as every parent, but love is not a love. I must refuse the unreasonable request of the child and tell him the reason for the refusal. When the child is not performing well, my approach is to encourage more, less reprimand, help the child to build a good self-confidence, I believe the child can do it and can do very well!
Every bit of life is a witness to growth. I feel that I am growing up with Dongdong. He is growing up day by day. I am learning to be a parent every day. Every day he grows will bring me New topic. The above is my parenting experience in recent years. There are too many contents to be written. This is only part of it. I hope that I will share my parenting fun and experience with you next time. Thank you for the stuff that Dongdong brought to me. Pride and happiness. Finally, I wish the children are healthy, safe and happy! I would like to work with the teacher to do a good job in the education of the children.

Part 5: Parents’ Parents’ Experience

Parents are the children's first teachers. From the time they go to school, work, and society, they are inseparable from the influence of parents and the family environment. From the beginning, focusing on the cultivation of children's ideology and morality will undoubtedly play a key role in the growth of children. Doing a good job in enlightening children is not only related to a family, but also to the question of what kind of person the child will become in the future. It is also a big issue concerning the stability and development of the country and society.
First, creating a good family environment is a prerequisite for nurturing children
"People can transform the environment, and the environment can also make people." To be honest, I am a person with a straightforward personality. In the past, I was the least good at children. Sometimes children are not obedient. Although they are reluctant to fight, they are always scared, but they are always scared. Later, I found that my child's fear was growing, and I learned to go to Grandpa and Grandma to complain. In response to this situation, I first consciously created a good family atmosphere. There are problems between husband and wife, and the children are not negligent. The child is naughty, patiently persuaded, and the husband and wife complement each other. I criticized the child, and then I educated my lover, and stressed that the mother criticized her for her good, her love for her, etc., so that the child did not have parents. The feeling of being close to you; secondly, pay attention to language civilization. Third, use music to create a beautiful environment that makes children feel the warmth of the family.
Second, starting from the habit of living, paying attention to children's moral education is an important part of cultivating children. Children are the shadow of parents. To cultivate good habits of children, we must start with me. In the process of educating children, I realized that good living habits are the basis for cultivating children, and the cultivation of children's mental health and ideology and morality is the purpose and the key. In modern social life, especially in the situation where the only child family in China is the overwhelming majority, how to cultivate children to be self-reliant and avoid becoming a weak seedling in the greenhouse is a problem worthy of consideration by every parent. In this respect, I mainly adopt three methods: First, love your child but don't love it. For example, children often ask outside to eat McDonald's, KFC and other issues. Staged outings can not only improve the normal life rules, but also broaden the child's vision and adapt to the outside world, but I think that if the child takes a crying method for this, parents must not let go. Second, there is a relaxation of Zhang and a combination of leniency and strictness. When a child makes a mistake, the parent should analyze the internal cause. First, it is clear whether the child is deliberate. Once, I was resting. The child got the water in the house. I came to see the fire, but when I asked why I was playing with water, the child said that I was washing my handcuffs and asked: "You are not talking about your own business. Do you do it yourself?" From this, I realized that educating children is not something that can be solved simply by preaching and fighting. Third, respecting the old and loving the young to form a family rule. Intergenerational generation is a common phenomenon in modern families, and the love of elders often causes children to look like in front of grandfather and grandmother. In this respect, I not only respect my in-laws, but also exchange views directly with my in-laws. The problem is that in our family, the environment of respecting the old and loving the young is formed.
3. Kindergarten is the cradle for cultivating children's healthy growth. My child entered the park in September this year. Every teacher who meets the following students is so kind and kind. When I first entered the park, the children were the youngest in the class. They didn't chew their teeth when they were eating. They just swallowed it, couldn't eat a few mouthfuls, and spit out. It was the teacher in the class, patiently teaching the children to eat a little, the first time for the child. How happy it is to feel the smell of the food. Who knows how hard the teacher is doing. In less than two months, under the guidance of the three teachers, I learned more than a dozen songs, learned to respect the elders, eat, wear shoes, draw some simple pictures, the children are sick, the teachers are Take her to heal in time. While the child is receiving systematic and formal education in the kindergarten, as a parent, I take the initiative to ask the teacher about the performance of the child during the day, learn what new knowledge, cooperate with the teacher to consolidate the knowledge of the society, and usually buy some children for the child. Favorite books and videotapes to develop children's ability to distinguish between good and bad.
In short, it is a complicated and long-term process to train children to become useful materials in society. It is impossible to hope that through a day, parents should be psychologically prepared, plan and carry out in a step-by-step manner.