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Teacher's home visit experience


Part 1: Teacher's home visit experience

Home visits are not a strange word to our teachers. As a link between home and school, it plays an irreplaceable role. Home visits are, in the final analysis, an indispensable bridge between the school and the family to educate the children. Through home visits, you can keep abreast of the students' learning and life situation and their thoughts, so that every student can not enjoy the care given by the school while they are away from school, and listen patiently to the feedback and suggestions of parents on our work, not only the parents' understanding of the school and teachers. And support, but also deepen the feelings of teachers and parents.
Through home visits, I realized the effects that the electric interviews could not achieve. The face-to-face conversation and the listening on the phone don’t meet, the feeling and effect are different. Therefore, the tradition of this home visit cannot be gone. As the saying goes, "Emotion is the bridge of education." The old "pro" word also explains the truth: people must be familiar with each other. Therefore, the home visit can make us and the parents of the students become one, the feelings are friendly and harmonious, so that parents will no longer have any misunderstandings and blame, our work will be able to get what you want.
For the home visit, the target is a late-stage student. I think that the "post-study students" will be very happy when they are praised by the teachers because of some unobtrusive advantages. The teacher can talk with the parents from the progress of the little ones and analyze the students in two parts. Use the advantages to overcome the shortcomings. Therefore, when I was visiting at home, I grasped the actual situation and adjusted it flexibly. In the relaxed and harmonious atmosphere, I raised the problems of the children, discussed and discussed the educational measures, and made the students convinced, and the parents also cooperated.
The teacher's home visit will make the students feel the attention and attention of the teacher. This is an incentive for students and a touch for parents. Teachers, parents, and students are all in one room, and they are able to talk to each other and bring them closer to each other. Every visit will benefit me a lot. I will learn from each other's parents, exchange information in all aspects, and communicate feelings. Even if parents understand the performance of students in all aspects of the school and the requirements of the students, they will make me understand the students' families. The situation in all aspects and the performance of students in the family, and research with the parents of students, to reach a consensus on the content and methods of educating students.
In the course of this home visit, I deeply realized that as teachers, we must actively guide parents and communicate at the same time. Parents and teachers learn from each other, trust each other, and cooperate with each other to form an educational alliance for family schools. Then our education will be more successful.


Part 2: The experience of teachers' home visits

Home visits are, in the final analysis, an indispensable bridge between the school and the family to educate the children. Through home visits, you can keep abreast of the students' learning and life situation and their thoughts, so that every student can not enjoy the care given by the school while they are away from school, and listen patiently to the feedback and suggestions of parents on our work, not only the parents' understanding of the school and teachers. And support, but also deepen the feelings of teachers and parents.
In the course of this home visit, I deeply realized that as teachers, we must actively guide parents and communicate at the same time. Parents and teachers learn from each other, trust each other, and cooperate with each other to form an educational alliance for family schools. Then our education will take
Have more success. Let me talk about my own experience.
Taking advantage of the rest time on November 26, I went deep into several students' homes and made home visits. I felt quite deeply. The home visit can really make us and the parents of the students, and the relationship is friendly, so that parents will no longer have any misunderstandings and blame, our work will be handy. At the same time, the enthusiasm of most parents made me deeply appreciate the pride of being a teacher.
The parents of the student Zhao Meiyue were very surprised and excited about my arrival. It was a bit "flattered". I gave them a brief introduction to the current concept and development of education, reported on the guidelines of our school in the direction of children's education, and how our classes carry out education and teaching. Face-to-face talks, parents gave high praise and encouragement to our educators, I have a lot of class capacity, and some activities are not in place, please parents understand, what are the recommendations for the development of our school, class construction? Can be made despite it. Zhao Meiyue’s parents said: “There is no expectation that the teacher is so concerned and concerned about the students. Our children are placed in your school class. It is reassuring that you are in a school that the people are satisfied with. Our parents must strongly support the work of the school.
Many parents are very enthusiastic about the arrival of the teachers. They feel warm and excited. The students feel that they are not a "forgotten corner". They are not dispensable in the teacher's heart. I am watching and caring about myself. Student Li Haoyu said: "Teacher, your home visit has given me a lot of strength. I am more confident. I have to work harder to be a good student in the class. I have to be a good boy at home. You see My future performance."
This home visit made parents and students feel very cordial, and I am very grateful to the teachers from the bottom of my heart. When student Zhang Shiyu saw my arrival, she began to be very nervous. She stood at the door and was at a loss. I was afraid that I would come to the parents to "sue". I did not expect that I would not mention the place where she did not perform well, but encouraged her to avoid weaknesses. Strive for greater progress. In a relaxed and harmonious chat, the children are more and more happy, telling their teachers their ambitions and thoughts, and the parents understand the deeper things in the children and become more and more satisfied with their performance. In the end, their family reluctantly sent us out of the gate and hoped that the teacher would often arrive home.
During my home visit, I also learned that a considerable number of parents are busy with their livelihoods and rarely look after and supervise their children. This makes our responsibility on the shoulders even heavier. We can't choose parents. We can only choose different education methods to treat these children who need us more. Many parents have said that the teacher said that the child will listen to it. The teacher as a student is also particularly moved by this sentence, the teacher's charm has no limits. Of course, I am happy, we need to pay more. Let me see that different parenting education forms a completely different level of individual student and cognitive expression. Parents with higher education know how to study and guide their children. These parents often have good habits and strong self-awareness. A kind of parent who has a low level of education, but who is principled, has a lack of guidance for their children's learning, but they will teach them how to behave. Parents say more and do less. There are quite a few parents who can only swear at some of the bad tendencies of their children, but they can't take it or take care of it. The effect is not good. Such children need to be guided in their study habits and methods. There are also a few parents who have low levels of education and are too fond of their children since childhood. Nowadays, children are older and more courageous. Some families have already had a situation that they will not manage and can not manage. Therefore, for students with problems, I and my parents have a heart-to-heart relationship. They analyze students with a split view. At the same time, they grasp the actual situation and adjust them flexibly. They raise the problems of children in a relaxed and harmonious atmosphere, discuss and discuss educational measures. The students are convinced that the parents are happy to cooperate.
In short, home visits have benefited me a lot. Even if parents understand the performance of students in all aspects of the school and the requirements of the students in the school, it also makes me understand the various aspects of the student's family and the performance of the students in the family. Only through home visits can we understand some hidden problems and find out the root causes of students' bad behaviors, so that we can start from the roots and further strengthen the education of students. I feel that the burden on the body is even heavier. We must strengthen the close ties between the home schools and pay attention to the individual education of the students, and truly achieve the educational effect of "educating a child, driving a family and affecting the whole society."


Part 3: Teacher's home visit experience

Heart and heart communication
Every color should be in full bloom, and every child should have a future.
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Facing the wind, stepping on the brisk pace, and singing with the children's cheerful singing, walking in the lush rice fields, excited, looking forward to the zero distance communication with each child, looking forward to discussing the children with the parents. s future.
In the twinkling of an eye, the days of teaching to the river have passed more than half. After a period of observation, we have a certain understanding of each child’s behavioral habits and personality characteristics, and through our own efforts, parents Also understand our work. So we carried out the second phase of the work - home visits. Our home visits are mainly aimed at parents, through the exchanges with parents to further understand the children, understand the growth and education environment of the children in the West, and understand the western education in the eyes of parents. At the same time, for each child, parents are advised on parenting education to make the children develop in a good direction and make the children's future clearer.
In my impression, parents in rural areas pay special attention to children's learning. The hardships of generations have made them full of yearning for the world outside the mountains, and every parent hopes that children will lead a happy life. However, it may be due to regional differences. In the process of home visits, there is no such thing as I imagined. Every time a family, parents warmly welcomed us in a unique way in the countryside. After a chill, we stepped into the topic and began to explore the children's education. At this time, the atmosphere was obviously not as good as before. After my observation, there are two types of parents. One is that family conditions are good, they can afford the children's reading expenses, and they will make extra investment for the children. There is also a family that has poor family conditions and thinks about the children. In the future, there is no way to pay too much, and the children will be allowed to do a lot of farm work. For the former, parents pay a lot, but the attention is not enough. Their minds are not completely placed on the children's education problems, but will be less than the latter. They may think that it is enough to provide a good condition for their children. In fact, children are still young and the focus should be on developing education. Good parenting education is crucial for children. For the latter, they deeply understand the hardships of life, so I hope that children can get rid of the hardships and live a happy and happy life. They are very concerned about their children's learning, but they can only be worried about one side, because life is life after all.
On July 26th, we went to a few classmates with good academic performance. They are all outstanding in the country. All the way to listen to Wan Yonglian introduced the plants next to it, admiring the beautiful scenery around, and soon arrived at Liu Lin's home, Auntie warmly hosted us. Her family belongs to the latter. Liu Lin’s mother has read middle school, she attaches great importance to her children’s study, and the family is not very difficult. His father is working outside. Liu Lin’s grandfather is a high-eyed old man. After listening to his words, we are really touched and very pleased. I think that the elderly who have spent a lot of years have such insights that they are admirable. In response to Liu Lin's timid and shy personality, we have put forward a lot of suggestions, and it is also some experience we have studied for so many years. In my opinion, teachers always like those who love to ask questions and often go to the teacher's office. We introduced this "experience" to Liu Lin and asked Liu Lin's mother to help supervise. With a satisfied smile to Liu Yuanyuan's house, her family's condition is good, she lives with her brother, probably because it is too young, my brother seems to have no care and concern for his sister, but also for learning. Its development. But the good news is that the children are doing well. In response to this problem, we made a suggestion to my brother, and my brother’s education for her can be improved. Finally, I returned to Wan Yonglian’s house. Auntie had already given us a sumptuous dinner, so we chatted at the dinner table. Although the aunt has not read the book, it is a rural woman who knows the book, and there is a great maternal love between her words and demeanor. With such a parent, Wan Yonglian is really happy, this will be her fortune.
On July 27th, with the sick Yang Weiwei, he embarked on a “hiking” trip that he had never had before. The wind has passed, the rain is lingering, and I have never walked on such a difficult road. There are stones everywhere, and there are cliffs everywhere. It is shocking. The piece of abrupt stone seems to fall without any warning. From the beginning of the red day to the darkening of the sky, I finally finished the road of five or six kilometers and boarded the high hill. Yang’s parents are working outside, and only grandfather and grandmother are at home. Looking at Grandma’s simple face, a kindness came to my heart. I feel that Yang Yuwei is a good boy, responsible for work, and very active in class, but the child's personality is still flawed, and he can't stand the praise. Recently, he has gradually changed and become very public. In this regard, we have put forward several suggestions, hoping to bring convenience to the education of grandparents. It’s too late, we don’t dare to stay for a long time. After all, there are still five or six kilometers of mountain roads to go. We rushed down the mountain and walked to another big mountain...
On July 28th, the third day of the home visit... I went to the Luo winner who I always wanted to go, because I think Luo Win has a certain representativeness. I want to know more about her life, family conditions and so on. It may be a difference in personality. Her parents seem to be very peaceful, and there is no such excitement as other parents have seen us in the future. After a simple conversation, I feel that the situation is almost clear. In contrast, Luo wins better conditions and is a typical first-class family. Children have lived in a better environment since childhood and seem to have some advantages among their peers. Such conditions are conducive to the growth of children, but they also change the child's personality in a subtle way. "A rural child has the character of a city child", so I don't know if it is appropriate. There is a lot of work for the children at home, but it seems that there is not much education. At home, I have to send my children to the secondary school in Zunyi, and the aunt may go to rent a house to accompany them. This is something that other children can’t think of. In response to this problem, we have discussed the importance of parenting education for the growth of children and the uncles and aunts. In my opinion, Luo Ying’s character really needs to be changed. It seems to be a bit extreme. Although the child is still small, it may sometimes be ignorant, but it cannot be allowed to develop. Criticizing education is still necessary...
On July 29th, against the scorching sun, I went to Tian Hong's double family... These twin brothers are really shy, even shy than girls, even the teacher dare not face up. I have told them about the findings of these days, and I have put forward many suggestions that are conducive to their own development. I don't know if they listened to it and how much they understood. In short, I hope that these two children can successfully realize their common wish...
On July 30, the last day of the home visit was a pair of shy twin brothers and sisters - Zhu Jun and Zhu Hongxia. Zhu Hongxia is one of my favorite children. Zhu Hongxia's performance is very good. Once he enters the house, he is greeted with a certificate of full wall. It is very stylish. Zhu Jun’s performance is relatively good and his performance is also very good. Perhaps shyness is a common problem for rural children. These two children are very shy, and Zhu Hongxia is better than Zhu Jun. Family conditions are not very good, and where the children go to read the country has not yet been determined. As a college student who came out of the countryside, I know that it is not easy for rural families to train a college student. If you want to send your child to a good school, it will definitely bring more difficulties to families who are already struggling. Although learning is based on oneself, the environment has made people a truth since ancient times. Therefore, from a personal point of view, I suggest that children go to a better school. Every child should have a bright future, and reading is their only way out. May the children have a harvest every day.
During the home visit, the most common sentence I made was that “the teachers’ favorite is to ask students who are daring to ask questions. Go to the teacher’s office and turn around.” It feels that our home visit is still very effective. In the past few days, they have come. The school came to the teacher question, it is very positive, and I really have never been gratified... I hope the children can stick to this good habit and study hard. I also hope that parents can pay more attention to the issue of parenting education. The children are still young and still in the stage of developing education. It is also an important stage in the formation of children's personality. Parents should pay more attention to this issue.
The road is coming out of the way, and then it is rugged, and there will be a road in the mud... We can't change the status quo, we can only accept it. "The wind and the waves will be there, and the clouds will sail straight to the sea." Children, come on, the future stage is still waiting for you to perform wonderful programs.


Part 4: Experience of teachers' home visits

Our teachers are a heart-to-heart communication with students, parents, and society. At this time, every color should bloom in all seasons. We are eager to see that every child should have a future.
At noon on November 21, 2019, our teachers faced the autumn wind and sent us to the cool autumn wind. Our teachers walked in the lush rice fields with the gentle pace and the cheerful songs of the children. There is a kind of excitement in the rain. We are looking forward to the zero-distance communication with each child. We look forward to discussing the future of the child with the parents, so that we are no longer a book-teacher, but a harmonious teacher.
On this day, our teachers and the four of them went through the twists and turns, went to the Sandao Town Tian Roll Village Committee, and then calculated that the time for their home visit has passed for a long time, and after a period of observation, I have The class students have already had a certain understanding of each child's behavioral characteristics and personality characteristics, and through my own efforts, parents have also learned about our work. Therefore, I actively cooperated with the school to carry out the first thing of the first thousand home visits of teachers - to visit the students home. This time, our home visit is mainly aimed at parents, through the exchanges with parents to further understand the children, to understand the growth and education environment of our rural children, and to understand the status of Baoting education in the eyes of parents. At the same time, for each child, I propose parents' advice on parenting education so that the children themselves can always develop in a good direction, but their children will become more clear in the future society.
After my family visit, I also reflected on myself, because in my impression, parents in rural areas pay special attention to their children's learning, and also explain the hardships of our society's dynasties, and better let the children themselves let them The world outside the mountains is full of yearning, and every parent wants the children to live a happy life. However, it may be due to regional differences. In the process of home visits, there is no such thing as I imagined. Every time we go to a student's home, no matter how busy the parents are, we warmly welcome us in a unique way in the countryside. Teachers, parents, and students have naturally entered the topic after a chill, and began to explore the child's parenting education at home. The atmosphere at this time is obviously not as good as before. After my observation, I personally felt that there are two parents. One is that the family is in good condition, and the child’s reading expenses can be afforded, and the parents will make extra investment for the children; most of them are poor family conditions. I think that the future of my child is that there is no way to pay too much, and I will let my children participate in the parents to do a lot of farm work. I feel that in theory, the parents pay a lot for the former, but the attention and supervision are not enough. Their minds are not completely placed on the children's education problems, but will be less than the latter. Because they may or may not think that it is enough to provide a good condition for their children. Actually, because their children are still young, they don’t know that the focus should be on developing education. Good parenting education is for children. It is important. For the latter, they deeply understand the hardships of life, so I hope that children can get rid of the hardships and live a happy and happy life. They are very concerned about their children's learning, but they can only be worried about one side, because life is life after all. Parents can't make conclusions on their own.
On November 21st, our teachers went to several villages near the school. They also went to several classmates with good academic performance in the class. They were the best in the small class. Along the way, I listened to the introduction of Huang Jie, the principal of our school. I looked at the landscape next to the village and enjoyed the beautiful scenery around me. I soon arrived at the home of Dong Jiayin’s classmates. Dong Jiayin’s parents warmly welcomed us. Her family belongs to the latter. Dong Jiayin's mother has read middle school, but she attaches great importance to her children's study, and the family is also very difficult. His father is working outside the farm. Dong Jiayin’s grandfather is a high-eyed old man. I communicated with him. I listened to his own words. We were really touched and very pleased. I thought that the old man who had spent the years had such insights and it was admirable. In response to the timid and shy personality of Dong Jiayin, I made a lot of suggestions with my parents. It is also a part of our teachers' experience over the years. In my opinion, teachers always like students who love to ask questions and often report to the teacher's office. However, I introduced my study “experience” to Dong Jiayin’s classmates and asked Dong Jiayin’s mother to help supervise her children at home. The home visit has been very effective. Until now, Dong Jiayin is still a leader in our class and has a good study.
Then went to the third grade Dong Shujie's home. When we arrived, we walked to Dong Shujie's home with a satisfactory smile. Her family's condition is good. She lives with her brother, probably because she is too rich, Dad. It seems that I have not taken care of and care for my sister, and I am allowed to develop in terms of learning. But the good news is that the children are doing well. In response to this problem, we made a suggestion to Dong Shujie's father, hoping that her education can be improved. Finally, I returned to Dong Shuping's home. Although Dong Shuping's parents did not read the middle school, a rural woman who knows the book has a great maternal love between her words and demeanor. With such a parent, Dong Shuping is really happy, this is the wealth of her life.
Close to noon on November 21, we are ready to go back to school with a tired body. I also embarked on a “walking” trip that I have never had before. Because we used to be in the wind, the rain was so rampant, we never walked on such a difficult road. There were mud, stones, green forest everywhere, and I couldn’t help but feel the fresh air of the village. On this day, we went from the hot sun to the darkness, and finally finished the fifteen or six kilometers of country road, and then boarded the high hillside. I came to Ji Xiaomei’s home in the sixth grade because her parents were outside and there was only a grandfather at home. Looking at her uncle's simple face, a kindness came to my heart. I feel that Ji Xiaomei is a good boy, responsible for work, and very active in class. However, the child's personality is still flawed. She can't help but praise. Recently, she has gradually changed and become very public. In this regard, we have put forward several suggestions, hoping to bring convenience to the education of Ji Xiaomei's grandfather. It’s too late, we don’t dare to stay for a long time. After all, there are still five or six kilometers of mountain roads to go.
Our teachers hurried back and forth, and then walked to another mountain village...
During the home visit, the most common sentence I made was that “the teachers’ favorite is to ask students who are daring to ask questions. Go to the teacher’s office and turn around.” It feels that our home visit is still very effective. On this day, the students came to the school early. It’s very positive to come to the teacher. I really have never been gratified...
I also hope that children can stick to this good habit and study hard. I also hope that parents can pay more attention to the issue of parenting education. The children are still young and still in the stage of developing education. It is also an important stage in the formation of children's personality. Parents should pay more attention to this issue.
After the home visit, I felt that the road was coming out by myself, and then I was rugged, and then there would be roads,,,,,,
Because we can't change the status quo, we can only accept it.
I remember one sentence: "When the wind and the waves break, there will be time to hang the clouds and sail the sea." Children, come on, the future stage is still waiting for you to perform wonderful programs, children, come on! The future world belongs to you!


Chapter 5: Experiences of Home Visits by Elementary and Middle School Teachers

Since the launch of the "Intra-class teaching, extra-curricular visits to ten thousand" campaign, as an educator, I have actively participated in this vigorous activity, improving my awareness of educating people and enhancing the responsibility of teaching and educating people. On the premise of doing school work, I used my spare time to conduct a home visit to 51 students in my class. I saw a lot of feelings:
1. Unify thinking and clarify the main tasks of home visits
1. Understand the family situation of the students interviewed. Before conducting a home visit, we first made an in-depth understanding of the family situation of the students we visited. Because the family situation directly affects students' thinking, study and life, teachers can only improve the pertinence of education work if they have a comprehensive understanding of the specific situation of the students' families.
2. Reflect the performance of the students in the school to the parents, report more hi, and report less worry. Introduce parents to the main educational activities carried out by the school and form effective communication between the school and the family.
3. Study with parents, clarify requirements, unify thoughts, identify problems and causes in students' inner development, deepen their understanding of students, and have a clear focus on future education.
4. Advising parents to provide guidance for their parenting education. If necessary, they should introduce some basic knowledge of psychology and education to parents and discuss ways to solve problems.
Second, through effective work, home visits have achieved remarkable results
1. Through this home visit, we have fully understood the students and their families, and laid a solid foundation for promoting the healthy development of students in the future education work.
2. Through home visits, we have established communication channels with parents of students. We understand the parents' ideas at the first time and relieve parents of doubts and puzzles about school education.
3. With the home visit as the platform and students and parents as the channel, we have comprehensively publicized the school and expanded the school's popularity and reputation.
4. Through home visits, listen to the opinions and suggestions of the society on the education and teaching of our school, and give timely feedback.
Third, home visit experience
1. Good parenting education is critical to the healthy growth of adolescents.
Parents with a high degree of education have a set of effective educational methods for their children and know how to guide their children in learning and living. These parents' children often develop good behavior habits from a young age and have strong self-awareness.
Parents who are not highly educated but who are principled in life, although they lack the guidance for their children's study, they will teach the children to be human by words. These kinds of children are usually good and kind, and as long as they are guided by the learning methods, there will generally be greater progress.
There are also a few parents who have low levels of education and are too fond of their children. As the age grows, the child's temper is getting bigger and bigger. These families often have a situation of "can't manage, can't manage." Their parents can't manage it, they just want to change their children through school education.
2. Students' performance at school and their performance at home usually have large differences.
Most of the students performed well in all aspects of the school, but at home they seemed to be like another person. After the holiday, do not study, do not write homework, watch TV, video, and go online all day, and do not do any housework. These students are not concerned about family matters, but are indifferent to the affairs of the country. This is very unfavorable for the cultivation of students' comprehensive quality and ability. It directly leads to the extreme lack of extracurricular knowledge and relatively poor practical ability, which will definitely affect their future development.
3. Parents generally hold high expectations and requirements for schools and teachers.
From home visits, we deeply feel that parents have high expectations and requirements for schools and teachers. Some children are more likely to eat at home than others, some children are willful and spoiled, some parents are very fond of children, and children appear like this. When the parents always say that you are not obedient, they invite the teacher and feel that the teacher is omnipotent and can solve all the problems of the child. If something is found in the teacher, the parents feel particularly surprised and feel unthinkable. Parents are deeply responsible for the high expectations we have for us. How to set an example for the children, but also put forward higher requirements for us.
Education is a systematic project that requires the participation of schools, families, and society. Home visits are an important part of this systematic project and an important means of doing a good job in teaching and class management. Through a period of home visits, we have gained a lot of achievements, and we are determined to continue our purposeful, planned, and focused home visits in our future work, and contribute to the leap-forward development of the school!

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