Experience in opening a parent meeting

Part 1: Opening the Parents' Meeting

The first time I opened a parent meeting for my daughter, I felt a little nervous and hopeful. I also communicated with the teacher for the first time. I was disappointed at first. Although the two main teachers praised the children at the meeting, they only said that the child was relatively solid. My heart is not a taste, it is different from what I think, the child is relatively lively at home, but I know that it is definitely more introverted and timid at school, so after the opening, I want to talk to the teacher about the child in the school. The situation, let her slowly improve.
In the communication with the teacher, my heart is more and more proud, the teacher said, when it comes to xxx this child, only know that it is a good child, there is no big impression, this half-semester change is quite big, I found that this child turned out to be a More comprehensive, achievements, paintings, and essays are quite good. Now the school's activities are actively participating. This school opened the sports meeting and won the first place in the whole year. There is also a spiritual civilization award. Liu Yirui has this spiritual civilization award. Big relationship, because she is the first person in their grades to write and read the manuscript, and the teacher said that when writing, other students are playing and eating, Liu Yirui is quietly writing in that quiet, right The child's evaluation is quite high. Let me also bring a sentence to the child, saying that the teacher especially likes her.
A few words from the teacher, I think it is very important:
What height do you put the child at, and at what height the child will be;
Now the national small school feels that the results are similar, and the middle school and high school will be much worse;
All activities are attended, and if you dare to try, you will have something to gain;
If you don't do it, you don't know how to do it. If you don't succeed, you won't be there. If you succeed, you will improve your child's self-confidence.
I remember that when we asked parents to open a parent meeting, they didn't understand what it was. Now, when the child is approved by the teacher, the parents will be happy when they open the parent meeting. If the child is not enough, the teacher will not recognize it. I also feel that there is no face, raising a child knows the parents, this sentence is really good.

Part 2: Parents' experience

The Parents' Association is a good form for the head teacher to contact with the parents. It is a good way to fully understand the situation of the students. It is a good way to promote the development of students' individuality and strengthen the collective construction of the class. I deeply understand from my own educational practice that every parent meeting is as important as a blind date, so our class teacher must prepare this "class". According to the situation of our school, the parent meeting is usually carried out after the mid-term of each semester. The first step in preparing for the class is to determine the theme, which is to guide the parents to educate their children with the correct attitude and method to solve the students’ ideological existence. Practical problems help students improve their academic performance and promote students' all-round development. The second step of preparing lessons is a wonderful replay of our class teacher and students since they met half a semester. As long as the plot we describe is realistic, parents will convince you; In the third step of preparing for the lesson, you need to master a lot of first-hand information before the meeting. In order to communicate with parents at a parent meeting, you can learn about the students' thoughts and dynamics from the class cadres. You can find the key words of the students and seek to open the key to the students' minds. You can learn about the students' learning from the class teachers. The life teacher understands the student's living habits and self-care. The fourth step, the environmental layout of the parent meeting is also very important. The quality of the environment is not bad. We do not say that it symbolizes the level of class civilization. It does not mean the quality of the class culture. It is enough for all parents to attend the meeting once in a semester. Everything in the class, they are in the eyes, remember in the heart, as long as the school gate, good will say that this school is good ... poor will say how bad this school is ... the final step of preparing lessons, to draw up An easy meeting process. This can avoid the arbitrariness and blindness of the parent meeting.
The class is ready, and it will be a matter of course. In order for parents to achieve their intended goals, our class teacher must also pay attention to two points: First, pay attention to language arts. In other words, you must have a sense of proportion, don't be open-minded; attitudes should be approachable, don't be arrogant; tone should be peaceful and kind, don't be arrogant; behave in a civilized manner, don't be arrogant; don't transfer the stereotypes of individual students to parents, that would Caused the parents' resentment. The second is to sincerely promise to the parents. Said that he is willing to do his best and do his best. Serving each child, we sincerely show that parents should work closely with themselves to educate these children. In this way, the parents will give the child to the teacher with confidence.
I think that if everything is done, I will definitely gain something, and I firmly believe that in the family of Yuying, the big family of the dragon and the tiger, the parent meeting after the class teacher will not only be well opened, but the first parent meeting after taking over the new class will be better.

Part 3: The experience of the parents' meeting

Since the children went to school, every parent meeting is still fresh in memory, but this time the parents will make me feel very much. The children have changed three class teachers from the first grade to the third grade. For the children, it is a test for their ability to adapt; for our parents, it is the most unwilling to see. Fortunately, the children enter In the short period of two years in the third grade, through the progress and changes in the children, we feel that the children have met a dedicated and responsible teacher. They are lucky, and they also saw you from the school news. I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to you for your hard work and hard work.
Yesterday's Parents' Meeting, I heard your system explaining the problems related to children's education, and let me feel that there are many problems in my child's usual education. Sometimes I don't consider the child's feelings and impose our thoughts on the children. I think the child is relatively simple. I feel your tolerance and understanding of your child from your words. I believe that under your words and deeds, the child not only learned the knowledge, but also learned to be grateful and tolerant and learned how to behave. As parents, we are very happy.
In the future, we will fully cooperate with your education model and methods at home, do what you want, communicate and communicate with your children, pay attention to your own way, learn more about your child's heart, give your child more encouragement, and pay attention to yourself. Usually words and deeds, set an example for children, and be more tolerant and understanding of children. Let her grow up happily in a healthy environment.

Part 4: A little experience of opening a parent meeting

I have been a class teacher for more than ten years and have opened many parent-teacher meetings. After the meeting, I can always hear some sighs from the parents: "Every time I attend a parent meeting, the class teacher always emphasizes the child's academic performance. My child's academic performance. Not so good, I am always nervous...", "If the parents can set aside some time to communicate with the teacher," the parents will be able to provide some help to the parents and the parents. Discuss together how to educate children and let their children grow up healthily, rather than tit-for-tat..." Wait, yes, parents will be a bridge between parents and teachers to understand their children. Every time they open a parent meeting, their parents’ parents will Come to the school with hope, listen and remember. In the face of those eager eyes, as a class teacher, I only introduce the situation in the class. It is not enough to say that a certain grade is good. It is not enough for a certain person to perform badly. I think we should give something to parents, or in education and teaching. Experience, or what characteristics of the student's age, or the experience of others. If the parent conference is opened up as an experience exchange meeting, or a presentation of the child's situation at the school, then every parent who attends the meeting will have something to gain, and there is a feeling of distracting the fog. So how can our class teacher sing the "one-man show" for the second time? So, every time before the parent meeting, I will always carefully prepare, and I also have several principles for how to open the parent meeting in the future:
1. Every time parents pay more attention to the psychological and learning state of a period of time, to what extent the level of knowledge ability is improved, not just achievements.
2. With parents as the main character, parents can not only understand the situation of children in school, but also have a better understanding of the students.
3. Through communication and communication with parents, parents and teachers have the opportunity to understand the overall situation of the child, change the perspective of the child's attention, and re-examine and analyze the child's problems.
4. When parents attend the meeting, what they want to know most is the children's learning and daily performance. It is often unrealistic and unrealistic for teachers to introduce them.
5. In the form of openness and distinctive themes, some parents' experience exchanges and parental open days activities will be carried out in a targeted manner.
With this scale, I am very clear about the content and theme of my parent conference. Here are the parents' meetings in the past two years.
First, fully motivate the students' subjective initiative, let them show themselves, let parents use their own eyes to discover the strengths and weaknesses of the child.
I remember that the students in my class have just entered the first parent meeting in the country from different countries. Because everyone is from different countries, they are not familiar with each other, and parents are the same. So, this time, the parents meeting, I let all the students and parents attend together. Before that, I have already prepared the students well: each classmate has made his best "unique" in front of the parents. Show one hand." So, there was such a scene: performing essays, pulling erhu, violin, accordion, playing the keyboard, singing, dancing, storytelling, reading English, etc., wonderful, some students even prepared Some paintings, calligraphy, hand-made and other works, each student showed their own bright spots, no one is willing to fall behind. Parents look at their children, all of them are excellent, and they are happy.
After nearly an hour of talent show, the students exited the classroom. I introduced the form of class management: “four-person group” mutual help form – I divided the class into 9 groups, each group of 6 people. Any evaluation of the class is based on groups. Each group has a team leader and vice There are a number of team leaders who are responsible for each. Then I solemnly launched my nine team leaders and started a 20-minute exchange with parents. The purpose is to let parents know about the children’s situation at school through the group leader. Big, the embarrassing students in front of teachers and parents actually had some unexpected shortcomings. Some parents also left some group leaders to call, saying that they often have to call to understand the situation after learning about children. I think that when parents come to listen to their children's grades, they will naturally find some reasons for good and bad. My explanation is superfluous. Such a parent meeting, parents have a lot of gains, full of return!
Second, find out the shortcomings of students, and discuss ways to solve problems with parents.
During the period when the students first went to the second day of the second year, they gradually revealed some problems. The students’ ability to learn independently was very weak. They were generally satisfied with the assignments completed by the teacher, and then they did nothing, not watching TV or playing. computer. I think this should be a question of learning habits developed from the national level. With the increase of the curriculum, this learning method can no longer be adapted. If you want to have good grades, you must have your own learning methods and learning plans. If you rely solely on the teacher, you can't stand out from the crowd, especially for the more top-notch. This is especially true for students. So, at the parent meeting, I did a survey, the questions include:
1. When do your children complete their homework? When do you sleep?
2. Has your child posted a study plan at home?
3. Does your child often review homework at home?
4. Do you know which child's homework is weaker? You bought the corresponding one for your child.
Extracurricular information to help him improve this homework?
5. Have you bought extra-curricular books for your child to supplement extracurricular knowledge?
Parents are rushing to speak on the above situation. There is a boy named Yi Yijiang in the class. The speed of doing homework is very fast every day. I sleep at 8 o'clock in the evening. I think if he can spend more time studying, seriously Previewing the homework, the results will be even higher, although his results are now good. There is also a girl named Zheng Yuhan. Her mother introduced her child to be very conscious at home. After completing her homework early, she will implement her own study plan, so that she has taken the first place in the grade several times. Through this activity, it also serves as a guide for parents who are indifferent to children.
Third, in the role of parents in the neutral, this can often play a more direct role.
At the last parent meeting, I changed the model that was previously participated by the students. All the content was completed by the parents, and the parents were the masters.
Before the Parents' Meeting, I carefully selected several representative parents as the keynotes of the Parents' Association. One was the first parent of the first grade of the first grade, and the other was the Yang who progressed from the first grade to the 15th. The parents of the classmates, and the parents of Yue Mengzhou, a very intelligent but unsatisfactory test score, and... Let them prepare for the commonality and difference of students' parenting education, and parents are very active and cooperative. Here is a special mention of the unique insights of parents of a classmate in parenting education:
a) Respect the child and be a close friend with the child.
1. Promise the child’s business to be honored
2. Respect the children's classmates and friends.
3. Communicate with your child every day to keep abreast of your child's thoughts.
2) There must be principles in learning, and children cannot be emotionally managed.
1. Children must have principles in their time of learning and doing things in order to develop good habits.
2. There must be principles in learning attitudes and cannot be treated casually.
3. Learn to grasp the big and small, don't grab a brow and beard, and teach is more important than words.
4. Try to let the child relax before any test, don't put too much pressure on it, and emphasize that learning is important in peacetime.
c) Treat children's extracurricular entertainment and hobbies.
1. Guide your child to watch TV correctly, watch news with children, discuss news, and watch other useful programs, such as: Hope English.
2. Introduce useful extracurricular readings and read them with your child, even if you read them too many times.
3. Full support for the child's hobbies.
d) A normal heart to look at their children.
1. Never disappoint a child, a good child is boasted.
2. Correctly treat your child's talents and don't over-consider.
3. Caring for children.
When the words came down, the other parents were deeply inspired, and all of them were taking notes, all of them were rethinking where they did not do enough.
Next, Yue Mengzhou's parents also talked about his confusion: the child is smart, accepting ability, but the results are average, he has a lot of discipline at home, but the effect is not high. So the parents said, I said a word, and gave him an idea. Some parents asked Yang’s parents about how to make their children progress so fast. For a time, the parents would become a meeting. I think that the experience of any class teacher has no such effect!
Educating the next generation is an extremely complicated and meticulous systematic project. It requires the close cooperation and cooperation of schools, society and families to form a unified goal, consistent requirements, scientific content, and optimized methods to form a lively education network. As a class teacher, I have a heavy responsibility. Parents can be in a variety of ways, the key is to combine the situation in the class, depending on the class. The above is just a little bit of work experience, not very mature, and the future is still long, I hope that I can make progress.

Part 5: The second parents will feel the experience

On December 6, the son's school will open a parent meeting. Since the son went to the country, this is the second parent meeting. The last time was the child's mother. She is an educator. She has been engaged in Chinese language for several years. Teaching and research work, usually also self-proclaimed by experts, talking about children's education is also the head of the road, but after going home will convey the spirit of the meeting, the feeling is very deep, very much, since then, the last thing to remember is to be in the next Open the parent meeting, let me participate, accept the re-education of the Master, and update my education philosophy. It should be said that participating in this parent meeting has indeed gained a lot. If you want to talk about the experience, I think the most important aspects are as follows:
First, there is greater confidence in the education of children's schools. At the beginning of the parent meeting, the speech of President Wang Qingqun gave a deep impression. President Wang is a famous principal and a doer. His deeds have been heard and impressed. The arrival of President Wang, I believe that the three small clubs will once again enter the fast lane of rapid development. When the child was in the first grade, the age was still relatively small. For the case of Shangguoxiao or the previous year’s kindergarten, our two parents themselves were hesitant. Finally, the three small learning styles and excellent teachers were allowed. We made up our minds. In the two years since enrollment, the children's growth and progress in study and life have been vividly witnessed. All of them benefit from the school's relaxed, rigorous, harmonious school spirit and the teachers' earnest, practical and innovative attitude. Through this parent meeting, we have more confidence in the progress of the children's national stage of learning.
Second, the ideological understanding of educating children has been improved. It should be said that the growth of children has the characteristics of each stage at every stage. For parents, the education of children is a very complicated and long-term and arduous task. It can even be said that it is most important to evaluate the success of a person's life. Judging the standard, the child's education is good, then we have achieved the greatest achievement as a parent, and the child's education is not good, that is the biggest failure of a person. Yang Xiao was a relatively healthy and sensible child since he was a child. From birth to the present, he has never let his father and mother go too far. He didn’t even have a few colds before going to kindergarten. He didn’t know what the injection was, and he adapted to kindergarten. It is also faster, full of curiosity and interest in the school, and is also relished to teachers and classmates. For the children's daily education, combined with their own experiences and related children's education theory, my mother and child are consciously creating a relaxed family atmosphere for the children, paying attention to positively guiding the children's words and deeds, and starting from a small age to develop children's self-reliance and hands-on interest, and Good study habits and interest in learning should be said that the development of good habits in these psychological and behavioral aspects is reflected in the child's body. However, after listening to Mr. Zhang’s request and Jiang’s parents’ experience, I feel that I need to pay more attention in many aspects. First of all, I am not doing enough to communicate with my child's thoughts. As a father, it may be better to communicate with the child than the child's mother. Although I usually pay more attention to communicating with the child and get along with the child with an equal attitude, the time spent with the child is not enough. Some children in the school. I can tell my mother with gusto but rarely tell me. Secondly, it is not enough to cultivate some of the child's learning habits and behavioral habits. The children's reading and writing postures are not correct, and the writing strokes are not equal. Although they were able to correct them at the time, they did not insist on the cultivation of habits. In the child's schedule, because of the habit of sleeping late, sometimes the child does not follow the schedule. In cultivating children's work habits, children are sometimes eager and sometimes lazy, and they often cannot strictly demand.
The third is to have more goals in the counseling of children's learning. Whenever a parent meeting is held, in fact, every parent is most concerned about the overall performance of the child in the school, especially the learning situation. The teachers of the parent conference divided the overall performance of each student in the school into three categories: serious listening, positive speech, quality of work, and active work. Yang Lan is well-known in both the class and the labor. I am both encouraged and stressed. During the children's reading, the role of the teacher is quite large. Fortunately, Teacher Zhang and Mr. Jing are very responsible teachers. They have rich teaching experience and are very popular among students. During his school days, Yang Lan was very concerned about his study and development, and he served as a group leader and class representative. He greatly improved his child's interest in learning and his sense of identity and honor for the class. This is his life's growth and progress. They all laid a good foundation. When Yang Lan was in the first grade, the age was smaller than that of the average child. The idea of ​​the two of us was that we did not start to make high demands on the results, so as to cultivate good study habits. . In addition, two people were busy some time ago, and the study and supervision of the children’s spare time did not keep up. I found the problem when the exam was due, the child’s basic knowledge was not strong enough, and the basic reading and writing skills were insufficient. Next, we will better help children master the textbook knowledge and increase the literacy calculation training. At the same time, contact the teacher to keep abreast of the child's performance in school.
Children are the future of the motherland. It is the wish of every parent. It is the ultimate goal of every parent to have healthy, happy, independent and strong growth. Every child has different personalities and characteristics. As a parent, he should be subtle. Care about the child's growth and change, use the right method to help and educate the child, and grow in a healthy and upward direction. I sincerely thank the teachers for their hard work and thank them for their help and good influence.