Crossing is not a thing, and crossing the past is far away.

01

I used to have friends and chat with me.

In spite of her family's opposition, her brother insisted on abandoning the work of the civil servants at the moment and pursuing the poems and distances described in some of the current articles.

I said that it is quite good. Our generation has its own future plans, and it does not limit the life of one generation beyond the thinking and values ​​of the older generation.

What she said is good, he is now trying to be a backpacker all day long, and East Norse is borrowing money to prepare for a trip.

Finally, under her coercion, I chatted with her brother. I asked him why he resigned?

He said that he feels that life is extremely boring. Every day, nine to five, three o'clock, one line, you can see death at a glance, and live a life of retirement in advance. People are a lifetime, this is not the life he wants.

What are your plans after you resign?

When a backpacker, go on a trip.

After the tour comes back?

He did not answer, but said that in fact, I admire you very much, when can I come to a trip that says to go.

I can't smile, saying that most of our authors have their own jobs. After work, they still have to write time code words. Where do you travel every day?

He said that the so-called poems and distant places are all deceptive tricks.

I said no lie. At least for me, work is a reality, and I don't feel embarrassed. Writing is my poetry and distance.

I suggest that he explore his hobbies and hobbies in his spare time, so that he can finally take his ideas for a while.

Everyone is tired of the boring life of the same. Many people are accustomed to taking the life they are experiencing as a sly, and almost paranoid that there is a poetic life in the distance. I don't know that your so-called poetry and distance may be the embarrassment of others.

The true poetic life has always been to discover the beauty in the ordinary life, and to live an ordinary life.

02

A senior university student, after graduation, graduated into a famous design institute in the country.

The institute is one of the “eight courtyards” of the country, so it is very good for both the improvement of professional skills and the development prospects of individuals.

But in June last year, the brothers who had been employed for less than a year suddenly resigned. We were all puzzled. Later, after a good relationship with his sister, the talents suddenly realized.

After entering the job, the brothers found that they did not talk about the predecessors in the workplace. Just for their newcomers, Tsinghua University graduated several times. Other schools in Hehai and Wuda graduated a lot.

In such a top design institute, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon is a very normal thing. But for him who has been accustomed to the results of the chickens, this huge gap makes him adapt to it all at once, even into a terrible panic, and finally began to doubt his own life.

He felt that he should look for a gap to escape, and then applied for a long vacation leave to the leader. After being rejected by the leader, he simply resigned directly, carrying his rucksack all the way to the west, swaying a large circle in the northwest, and finally doing it. It is crispy in a youth hostel in Lhasa.

We once thought that the brothers would be enlightened and lived a poetic life.

After staying for three months, the brothers came back, and immediately found a general design company to work, and lived nine to five working days.

Then he reported the documents for several documents at once, and even targeted the documents that we were discouraged, geotechnical engineers.

This is also a resurgence of the unprecedented momentum of learning from the past, but the huge gap between the two units is still a pity for him.

Later I talked about it when I was in a gathering.

He said that there is regret, but it is not completely meaningless, at least let him understand the truth.

Living elsewhere, and here and elsewhere, the world is at the end of the world, and the end of the world is the end of the world.

03

In the second year of graduation, I met the biggest challenge after I joined the job.

At that time, the company received a dam reinforcement project. I was temporarily placed on the position of a project leader. It sounded like a promotion to the official. The fact was that the company was not enough, so it was rushed to the shelves.

The chief engineer sent two recent interns to me, but the sharing of their work by the two of them can be said to be minimal, and sometimes it will slow down the progress of my work.

Go to the project site to make a record, draw a sketch and don't know how to start. Back to the company's formal work, and even the basic office applications such as CAD and excel are often asked.

Party A's project was urgent, so for half a month, I didn't have a double break, I didn't have normal working hours, I worked almost every day until 12 o'clock in the evening, and then I went to work on time with dark circles on the next day.

But just after I handed over the project, there was another major change on the side of Party A. Looking at the materials that were returned, my heart really fell to the bottom of the valley. Apart from the loss, it was more unspeakable. anger.

I thought that I was fed up and I was determined not to wait.

On the way back to work, when the sunset was just right, I suddenly became emotional, and a thought appeared in my mind: I have to resign.

When this thought appeared in my mind, it was like being taken up by the devil in an instant. When I went back to my residence, I packed my clothes, and I started off with my bag. I didn’t even think about resigning.

On the way to the station, you can exhaust yourself every step of the way. Calling a college friend, after listening to my story, he only said one sentence, did you forget the last year?

I naturally know what he said. It was just when I graduated. The two of us made a decision to resign in one second and wandered outside for a month, but did not find the poetry and distance in the imagination, but came back. After looking at the hoe, I will find a job again.

This phone made me completely lose the impulse of the beginning, carrying my backpack and walking back silently. The next day I sank and took the two interns carefully to verify the changes.

In fact, the mentality is really important. When you abandon all kinds of impetuous ideas, understand your situation, and know that in addition to facing no choice, that power can make your work efficiency multiply. After less than a week, I handed over the revised information.

That afternoon, on the way back to the residence, it was still the fiery sunset, but it was enough to make me feel another kind of life.

Many times, when your heart is firmly tied, and you do not want to face it, it is futile to escape, because you will one day return to the original track of life.

04

No one wants to let a mechanical life engulf oneself, and no one wants to linger on the road ahead of life.

We are all looking for a higher level of spiritual lifestyle, but in many cases we have forgotten the path under our feet, pinning our beauty and beauty in the unknown.

This is the support of the soul, but it is also an excuse to escape.

If you can't face the life at hand, then far away, there is nothing left in the distance, and you can't do it all your life.

Life is a practice, and life requires a wisdom and determination. The same thing, the same situation, some people will live a life and become awkward. Similarly, many people have lived poetry and distance.

Do you think the current life is dull and dull? Cross the past and find a hobby that will resonate with your soul.

Do you think the road ahead is bleak? Strive across the past and work hard to master the various professions and skills that will enhance your personal value.

Do you think that the predicament in front of you makes you feel at ease? Cross the past, since you can't escape, calm down and face it calmly.

Perhaps this is the ultimate meaning of life.

Can not cross, even if it goes to the end of the world, but the soul is still firmly locked in place, the heart is sturdy.

Crossing the past, even in the downtown area, you can still find your innermost conversion and enjoy your own unique poetry and distance.