What is strong inside? How to become a powerful person?

When I was in college, I often made some confusing status on the social network. Whoever I met today, where I went, what books I read, who and who had smashed the mud, whoever divorced me, finally developed a habit. Later, I accidentally lost my love, but I was out of control. The lyrics that passed by, the mood of touching the scene, and the emotions that broke out, I dumped on the social network.

——You also feel like you have known each other. You don’t have such a person in your life. You can’t stand it anymore. When you open the qq everyone’s network, the microblogging circle of friends is full of negative energy, so you turn your eyes and look at the mother. Exit the social account, or - directly pull the black to take off.

Well, I was blacked out and was my best friend in middle school.

In those days, we called the brothers and sisters a bedtime night. When he gave me the college entrance examination, he came to the examination room to find me after the college entrance examination. We walked through the long road to vent our secrets. After the university, the two men’s phone porridge can squat for an hour or two. After I was infected with a strange illness, he would also ruthlessly swear and swear, and count on me to change my evil spirits. I often think, "It should be like this between brothers."

Then click on Transfer.

- So I was finally blacked out. Of course, there may be people who question the reliability of this friend. I can only say that the mood of the past is mixed and complicated, and it is many times more complicated than yours.

Later, I participated in the work and became a hard-working bank credit. Basically, every loan we have to go through the approval of the superior bank, approval system process, approval report, and materials.

Because they are rigid process operations, once comfortable, but a certain day is not dead, I was hit by the system upgrade. At that time, I made a few million trade financings. The day was the last payment day. It happened that I had made mistakes, and there were many loopholes. I was tossing up the approval staff and swearing. At that time, my master and the leader were still entertaining, and the mobile phone could not get through. The whole office I am a novice, I have no way to go to the sky, no approvers, counters, remote authorized personnel... Everyone is watching me, the rookie credit is nowhere to go, I want to die. There are.

Unfortunately, there is no way. This is not the time to write a letter of resignation. You still have to stand up and take on everything.

When this incident was resolved, it was already twelve o'clock in the middle of the night. Bank staff handled millions of tens of millions of dollars, and the consequences were slightly serious, which was tantamount to asking for life, such as this incident, and later encountered several times.

I know that when you go to work, you will encounter countless wonderful things, and you have suffered countless grievances. Compared with the broken things that many people have encountered, my experience is nothing. I also faced the empty office in the dead of night, because I could not stand the pressure of tears. Before I changed it, I used to pick up my mobile phone and make a long phone call to complain. I sent a friend circle show bitterness. How tired are I to make it? Are you under pressure from the bank?

I have never done this again. Every line has a difficult experience. Selling pressure to gain sympathy has no effect. You are not a goddess. No one is sending you love. Grinding has a fart, and the next moment, you still have to swallow three large pieces of meat and continue to fight.

Going back to this question, what is called inner strength, I can only describe it from my perspective. We have to encounter too many embarrassments in our whole life, try to swallow all the bitter water ourselves, and then bravely bear everything.

Later, for some reason, I met a female teacher. I didn’t know her well. She complained to me every day. The school was full of infighting, parents were all kinds of difficult to talk, bears and children were difficult to deal with, and all kinds of hardships were tired. If you want to say it, you will come and travel and let go of everything.

In the same way, I still have a female student who is engaged in investment banking. I will talk to me about Japanese TV dramas and anime novels. I seem to be full of energy, but I know that she "gets off work at three in the morning, and that she will rectify the next day at eight or nine. Day." In this case, she has taken an understatement. No mention is made anymore.

Everyone has a living method. I am not letting everyone give up the individual right to talk about bitterness and relieve stress. Nor is it to persuade you to wear a disguise to do everything, but to open the world and see the world. .

The world is so cruel. If you are not a relative, who will care for you?

There are still many people who are day and night in the circle of friends. His/her trivial daily life: I don’t want to do it, my mother-in-law is too difficult to get along with, how hard do I have to make it, if you don’t have it, I won’t be sad... ...

I know that people who are strong inside will only laugh with their friends and relatives, and then start a new day. Sometimes, they can't even say that they are not reluctant, but they are all negative fucking things. For them, it has long been nothing.