Poor, not shameful, but it is really hurtful

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Manman is like a gyro, not at work, or on the way to work. When she comes out to play, she has to ask for a week in advance, otherwise she will hear her sorry voice: I have a job at hand...

A while back, I finally couldn't help myself, and advised her: You are not short of money now, what are you doing? Can't enjoy life?

Manman looked at me for a while and told me something:

Ten years ago, when she was in the middle of the country, her father paid more than 500 yuan a month to support a family of four. At that time, it was very popular among classmates to finish a physical education class to buy a bottle of Coke, and it was cool to drink Coke when sweating and sweating. But Manman didn't drink Coke. She wanted to drink, but she couldn't find a home to ask for money, and the more she drank, the more she wanted to drink.

Therefore, she spent a month in the province and finally bought a bottle of Coke after a certain physical education class. After drinking two drinks, she was not willing to take it. She decided to keep it slowly. After a while, I had to come back at the same table. I saw Coke patted and said, "Great, Manman, you have a cola. I am going to buy it, but I am going to class soon. I am thirsty." He sipped half a bottle. Manman smiled and bowed his head, and the tears came down.

"Now think about it, it was really sad at the time, because I was crying when I was drunk with a few mouthfuls of coke, and I still want to be a good friend, and I still can’t let her see it. But then, a bottle of two five colas I think it is like a treasure.” Manman said that even if I buy a piece of clothing for thousands of dollars, my eyes will not be embarrassed, but the taste of the bottle of cola will never be forgotten, it is the taste of poverty. Even though I am now well-fed, I have a good time, but deep down, I am still afraid that I will have no money on one day, and I will not be able to afford even Coke, so I have to work hard and try to improve my value. My fear of poverty, and the resulting insecurity, have gone deep into the bone marrow.

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Just a few days ago, B. sinensis initiated a discussion: Do you think poverty is a shameful thing? The cause is this: Do you think poverty is a shameful thing?

After these few days of voting, only 11% of people firmly believe that: of course, shame, poverty is a symbol of failure. But only 22% of people clearly stated that they are not shameful at all, and they have not deceived anyone. The most recognized is that the concept of the problem is fundamental, when the society no longer discriminates. 58% of people voted for this option. Another 9% of people think that it is unclear and both sides have reasons.

The voting is still going on. You are welcome to click on the link to participate: Do you think poverty is a shame?

In addition to voting, there are also many friends who have commented on B. sinensis and expressed their attitude. In these dozens of messages, most of them are quite positive:

The cow thinks: I don't think this is a shameful thing. On the contrary, you have to work harder to win everyone's approval. People are not too short-lived.

Love and hate and hatred: Poor is not shameful, but it is not hard to change the concept of poverty. The ancients say it well, and the poor have no roots. As long as you change through your own efforts, you will not be stumped.

Lan Bixia: Poor and not shameful, but if you fall into poverty, you will lose your mind if you don't think about change. College students are adults, and even allow marriage to have children. Poor people can accept benefits, but they must work hard to drop out of school, or seek scholarships to improve their lives in a dignified way.

It seems that the poor are not shameful, and everyone still agrees.

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However, as Manman’s experience, poor is very hurtful.

Poor, will affect people's mind and attitude in a subtle way; poor, will not leave room to limit people's opportunities and choices.

Take the poor college students, freshman, other students in the various club activities, from time to time to gather a meal, please have a guest to have fun, he does not go, because the meager living expenses are difficult for parents.

Sophomore, some students like to travel, and even found the direction and meaning of their lives. He has no travel expenses, even if he is not enough.

In the third year, everyone started planning for life after graduation. Some students are preparing to go abroad for further study. He didn't dare to, because he couldn't get the registration fee for a TOEFL test. He was nominated by the graduate school. He only chose a path for himself: he graduated and worked immediately to make money.

Senior, many students are looking for an internship and looking for a job in Beishangguang. He is hesitant. He can't afford the high rent of Beishangguang, even if he only has a short internship for three months.

Deep sense of powerlessness.

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Fortunately, although poverty makes people lose many opportunities for choice, it will not block all your paths. At this point, the best example I can think of is Yue Yunpeng.

Yue Yunpeng recorded live pictures at the 2016 Jiangsu Satellite TV Spring Festival Gala | Oriental IC

Can not afford to pay 68 yuan tuition, Yue Yunpeng dropped out of school at the age of 14, began the North drift life.

When it was preserved, because the night patrol was sleepy, the first month's salary was not only not received, but also owed 20 yuan in the factory.

After working as a small worker in the restaurant, he was dismissed because the head of the chef looked at the job.

He swept the toilet in the restaurant, because the boss was drunk, he did not promptly help the boss to clean up, and was dismissed.

I worked as an attendant in the front desk, and I was stunned for three hours because I miscalculated two bottles of beer. Finally, he paid for the guest to buy a single, or was dismissed by the boss.

Even if he later entered the Deyun Society, he also swept the land for a long time. The first time he took the stage, he only said it for three minutes and was ousted by the audience. Even playing the mixed belt practice, learned five years of cross talk, in 2019, he was officially accepted as a disciple by Guo Degang. Up to now, seven years have passed, and Yue Yunpeng has been popular in the north and south.

Not every poor child can become Yue Yunpeng.

But you still have the possibility of getting rid of poverty

So if poverty hurts your wings

Please don't break it yourself.

Tell yourself and tell others:

Mo bully