In fact, you have to be unhappy.

Cui Wanzhi, Dielian Costume, CEO of Quebec Love Cheongsam, guest lecturer at Zhejiang University, and NBC Advocate Expert of Alibaba. In 2019, he was named as a new generation of CCTV China entrepreneurs.

I don't like to watch the story of people with disabilities and life struggles, it's too heavy.

A few days ago, in the circle of friends, the variety show variety that was shared by people was "Super Speaker". The speaker was Cui Wanzhi, CEO of Quebec Love Cheongsam. He left his feet first because he was born, leaving a physical disability.

He said that when he was a child, he went to school. A ditch could easily walk over. He just couldn’t do it, but he didn’t want his parents to go to school. So, he slowly climbed down and climbed up. In high school, he achieved excellent results. He took the county's key high school and paid tuition fees to the dormitory. After being discovered by the principal, he immediately kicked his baggage out of the school gate, saying that even if he was admitted to college, there was no school to ask him. His father was two hours for this. At that time, Cui Wanzhi was filled with hate, but his father asked him if he would continue to study. He should not complain, go home, and rely on himself.

Later, Cui Wanzhi chose a remote university. After graduation, no company was willing to hire him. He began to set up stalls, and later opened bookstores, opened supermarkets, opened Internet cafes, and made online stores. When he was doing online shopping, he lost only 200,000 yuan. When he opened an e-commerce company, he owed 4 million yuan in foreign debt. But he did not give up, did not complain, and silently swayed all emotions and pressures.

Finally, his cheongsam became the number one seller of cheongsam on Tmall.

He said that the world is a mirror, you complain, then your world is full of gray, but you are grateful, you see warmth, sunshine and love.

Yes, a disabled person is still like this. What are the qualifications of a sound person to complain about life?

The world is a mirror, the grayness you see, but it is what you look inside. Sometimes, maybe we just got used to complaining and getting used to the pressure. When we complained, we finally found a sense of existence. It is clear that we hate that kind of life, but we can't calm down very well, face it, and find a solution.

There is a story in Greek mythology. The punished Sisyphus was asked to push the stone up the mountain. Every time he pushed it up, the stone rolled down, pushed it up and rolled it down again, so that it would be his eternal mission to push the stone. This story shows how you can solve it. Some people say that it symbolizes the persistence of unremitting efforts, while others say it is punishment and redemption.

Sisyphus, as understood by Günter Grass, is like this. If you take off the stones of Sisyphus, he will be unhappy. Stone is pressure, but it is also power. The hardship in life is the stone promoted by Sisyphus. You are willing to regard it as the burden of life. It will always oppress you. If you regard it as a challenge and motivation, even if life is hard, you can find it. The reason for the next step.

There are more complaints and you can't solve the puzzle of life. The world has never been partial to you. Your unhappiness is just that you have to be unhappy.