Confusion is talent is not worthy of dreams

Don't be confused, the current work at hand, and the future will definitely be clear. Please remember: If you need to reflect, you must not work hard on your dreams, but you may have to retreat in your talents and reflect on why it can't be full.

Because of the relationship between the manuscripts, I met Xiaolu, a girl who edited in the magazine. After three years of work, I was still trained by the leaders from time to time. Whenever this time, she would say "retrain me once, I "It’s been a job-hopping." After more than a year, I didn’t know how many times I was trained. She still didn’t resign. She still kept saying “Opportunity is right, leave immediately.”

One day, I asked her, "If you don't edit, do you want to do something?" She paused for a long time and replied "If I knew what I could do, I would have resigned. I am now lost." I tried to ask, "Do you have anything you really want to do? For example, the dream that has always existed since childhood." She said embarrassedly, "Yes, I want to be a tour guide, not domestic, but The kind of international group." "It's good, why not try it?" I asked. She grinned and said, "You know, I haven't passed the English six. I can't read any other words in the language. I don't even know what attractions in that country don't know. How can I bring others?" Ah, although this dream sounds radiant, it is really difficult to achieve.

Curious, I went on to ask, "Why did you finally choose to be an editor?" She stunned and said, "I don't want to be a teacher or a civil servant in the Chinese of the undergraduate. I like it more easily and it is easier to find a job. When I came to this small magazine, I was full of confidence and thought of it as a transition. When the ability was reached, I had to work for a certain number of years. I went to a big magazine. When I graduated, I told myself. : To be a good editor is my dream after the age of 20, but until now, I feel that I am not suitable for editing. The newcomers in the community are better than me. I have been criticized by the leadership as an old employee. I am very entangled, what else can I do?"

Recently, she changed her mood to "confused and lost, what is living in the moment, if you don't even know what you should do, how can you know that you are right now?" To be honest, see this In the words, I am very sad. Because I have also been deeply confused, and now I still have doubts about what I have done from time to time, but I also know that confusion is the normal state of life. In many cases, it is just a talent that is not worthy of a dream. All we can do is to give our talents a little bit of energy, and on the road of dreams, we can run faster and be more practical. The most frightening thing is not that we are slow in our actions, or that our talents are growing less, but that we have been staying in a static state, spending every day complaining and weary, and never making a little change for ourselves.

This is the case with Xiaolu. Although she is often criticized by the leadership, I hardly notice that she is trying to correct her mistakes. Every time she is in a mood and complains about the matter. The next time, when she encounters such a problem, the same mistake will still be committed. Not wrong. I remember once, we collaborated on a manuscript of an interview with a character. After I finished the interview, I sent it to her after finishing the arrangement. She told me that the number of words was a bit overdone. I said, "I am in the field, it is not convenient to use the computer, you can help me. Delete it, or if you are not in a hurry, just wait for me to go back and change it.” She did not reply, waited for me for a few days, turned on the computer and saw that the manuscript was lying in my mailbox and attached. A few words "Because of the deadline for the deadline, I sent the manuscript directly to the director. The director said that there are too many words and reprimanded me. After you see the manuscript, you must delete it within an hour. Send it to me, we must be as soon as possible, otherwise I will be finished." I was shocked at the time, instead of letting this manuscript put in the mailbox for two days, can you not delete it as an editor? Doesn't the editor have this responsibility? Two days is enough to change a manuscript?

Later, I listened to other authors complaining that she said, "One time, I forgot to write the time when a traveler first traveled abroad. In fact, I can check it online, but she has to call me and let I went to check, that time, just did not receive the call in time, she was still angry." The author said, "I got a sample, I saw several typos in my article, although I am wrong. But as an editor to help the author change a few typos, shouldn't it be?" So, I seem to know why she has been reprimanded by the leadership, and why she keeps saying that she is confused.

She was not denied by the leader and others, but was denied by herself. Since you are making a good editor as your future dream and career, you should start from scratch and train yourself according to the requirements of good editors, but she does not, and plainly, in the matter of work, let alone, let alone It is the colleague who does not respect her, and even the author hates her. Her so-called confusion is the talent of an editor, and she is not worthy of her dream of being a good editor. This is no stranger to others. For several years, I can change myself to realize my dreams, but she has not given her talents and abilities, even if she grows a little bit. In the end, she can only give herself a confused position and struggle.

I used to think that many people were confused because there was no dream, but then I found out that I was wrong. In fact, everyone has dreams. This dream can be big or small, and it is something worth going to. I have a cousin. From small to large, it is a "bad boy" who does not want to be seen. He fights and swears. He will do everything related to bad things. After a few years of graduating from the middle school, I suddenly changed careers to learn boxing. The family said that he was not doing business. Once, I asked him why he had the idea of ​​learning boxing. He said awkwardly, "I wanted to be a child when I was young." A fitness instructor, fighting at school, feels that he has beaten people, which means that he is strong and healthy. When he grows up, he knows that he must be trained professionally. I don’t know if I am a wildernesser. But I still want to give it a try."

Talent is also there, big and small. People with great talents can eat and eat even if they eat something, and most of the talents of ordinary people are small talents. It takes a lot of sweat and hard work to achieve such a little progress. But even so, people who can make a little progress every day will never be confused. On the contrary, those who look down or ignore small progress will be truly confused; those who do not know their talents, Will be really confused.

Therefore, to overcome the confusion, nothing more than other things, is to seize the existing life, squat forward, and strive to make yourself better, instead of standing there, looking up to the sky, complaining about the future. I think if Xiaolu can take every manuscript seriously, even if her starting point is very low, it will be enough to complete a gorgeous transformation in three to five years, instead of complaining about life like a student just graduated from college just like now. The hardship and discomfort of work.

If you have great talents, go for a big dream; if you feel that your ability is limited and talent is not enough to support your ambitions, then calm down, get into small failures and setbacks, get nutrition, if you can't be a leopard It is also good to be a beautiful and noble sika deer, at least people love.

Don't be confused, the current work at hand, and the future will definitely be clear. Please remember: If you need to reflect, you must not work hard on your dreams, but you may have to retreat in your talents and reflect on why it can't be full.