Read the disciples

Part 1: Read the disciples' understanding

The first contact with the "Children's Rules", like the "three-character classics" backed by childhood, is only the child's enlightenment education, so it is very disapproving. After listening to a famous life lecture of a famous family, I realized that this is a book of humanity. The easy-to-understand text contains the truth of being a human being, not only for educating children and children, but also for how our adults manage us. A happy life, a harmonious family has an important meaning.
The so-called "disciples" are students, students who live to the old age, learn to be old, and be saints. What does “regulation” mean? It is the norm, the truth, the principle that people should do, and the standard that people should do.
"When you enter the filial piety, you are swearing, you are convinced, you love the public, you have the strength to do it, you can learn the text" is the general program of the "Disciple Rules." As long as we seriously study and understand, we will understand a lot of truths. What can be done and what can be done for people? With the standard of being a human being, we will have correct judgments in life and work, and correct our mistakes in time. Words and deeds.
"Parents call, should not slow down, parents, do not lazy, parents teach, must listen, parents blame, must follow." In the past, children understand the truth, how many people of modern people can know? My father had read a few years of private school in the early years. The education for us was strict and wide. When the elders did not go to the table during the meal, the younger generation could never move the chopsticks. "Elderly first, after the younger," there are delicious elders to taste. Therefore, in our philosophy of life, the elders are the sun, we are the stars, and always revolve around the sun. His father’s hometown is very poor in the countryside. When his grandparents are sick, the mother takes all the savings and monthly wages in the family to treat the elderly, and the parents have to borrow money to live. Parents have never deliberately asked our sisters to filial to them, and we are now very filial to our parents, and the words and deeds of our parents are unforgettable for the children.
Although I read "Three Character Classics" and "Tao Jing" in my early years, I didn't know what I was reading. After listening to the lecture on happiness life, I realized that the "Disciple Rules" is the refinement of the Ten Good, which is the study of Confucius and Mencius and the Mahayana Buddhism. Match point. The "benevolence" of Confucianism and the "civility" of Buddhism are closely related. In daily life work, I use the five precepts and ten goodness to test my words and deeds. However, the five precepts and the ten good are more general, and the specific application to life is a bit ignorant, so I often make small evils but I can’t detect them. I often ignore them because of busy work. The feelings of others, the words are not very soft, "Yi colorless, soft and silent" did not do, discuss problems with colleagues, opinions are not uniform, the tone will be improved octave unconsciously, "words tolerate, self-satisfied" Did not implement, after learning the "discipline", I found that there are so many shortcomings. In addition to the previous two, I think that it is quite special, each of them has a lot of deficiencies. Imagine if the time goes backwards for 200 years, when we face children who are innocent and gracious, what kind of shame.
Compared with the ancients, our character has fallen too far and too far. I am very fortunate to be able to accept the education of traditional culture today. I am very grateful for this book. To repay, only earnestly study the "discipline" and apply what you have learned. Use the "discipline" to regulate words and deeds, guide life and study, cultivate your filial piety, gentle and humble character, with a respectful heart and a humble attitude. Polite and courteous behavior, to treat all people, things, things, and constantly improve their own character, "the father, the father, the brothers, the brothers", the suffering of all beings, help More people.
Studying the Disciples, I think it is not only a process of improving personal cultivation, but also a process of sublimation of ideas. For a person's growth, it is very necessary. Love the people around and love the world. Only in this way can this society become a harmonious society and the world becomes a harmonious world.

Part 2: Reading the disciples' understanding

Life is alive, and conduct is not born. It must be cultivated at a young age. The "Division of Disciples" requires us to appoint authentic German. These include filial piety, filial piety, courtesy, benevolence After doing this, it taught us some ways to learn. Not only must you study hard, but also practice, so that you can really read a good book and become a useful talent. After I finished reading the Disciples, I measured my own conduct and there was a certain gap.
In filial piety, I now think of my past. Although I have never done anything big to my parents, I have never done much filial piety to them. Instead, they are very good at me, taking care of home, what I want, and trying to satisfy me. Everything my parents do for me is what I think is all right. Sometimes, parents care too much about me, and after a few words, I hate them instead. Now think about that much should not be! Now that you are a child, you should follow the "Disciple Rules", "Parents should not slow down; parents should not be lazy. Parents should be respected; parents should be obliged to follow." Only in this way can you be able to live with your parents who are suffering from their own adulthood. On the other hand, as a mother, I should correctly guide my children to read the Disciples. Let her slowly taste the true meaning of it, subtly change, develop good conduct from a young age, and lay a good foundation for healthy growth in the future, which is also the biggest benefit for the mother.
In addition, I mentioned in the book "the width is limited, the work is done tightly. The time is up, the stagnation is stagnation. The heart is suspicious, follow the notes. Just ask, ask for the truth." These words, the deepest feeling, is also Benefits are not very shallow. Because these points are also the places where I have done the most in my work. For example, sometimes the work that the leader arranges is always dragging and pulling, and I don’t want to do it at the last minute. Sometimes I encounter problems that I don’t understand. I have not recorded them, studied them in depth or consulted the materials, and I have not humbly asked others for advice. Both of these mistakes are committed by me, and such work is usually not efficient. Now that I have read the Disciples, I finally understand my shortcomings. If I can follow the above, I believe that my work efficiency will be even higher.
I think that when a person is alive, he has to talk about morality and a bit of taste, which has won the appreciation of others. The truth in the Disciples is the most basic common sense of teaching people's ethics. In the future, I will go deep into my heart and read the "Disciples", learn the truth of doing things, and improve my self-cultivation.

Part Three: The Experience of the Disciples

Recently, our President Zheng Le brought back the "Disciple Rules" from Haikou and sent me a copy. After school, I read it. Reading this book has benefited me a lot, I have learned a lot, and I have learned a lot of knowledge that I can't learn from textbooks.
The original name of the Discipline Regulations was "Meng Meng Wen", which was adapted from the "Children's Needs" of the Song Dynasty by Zhu Xi, and later renamed the "Disciple Rules" by the Confucian scholar Jia Cunren in the Qing Dynasty. It is a book that teaches children how to treat people. Its plain and easy-to-understand text contains many truths about being human, not only for educating children and children, but also for adults in life, work, family and so on. In real life, some people still have low quality, moral decline, infidelity, filial piety, injustice, incomprehension, no sense of responsibility, and no sense of responsibility. What are these people missing? What I feel is lacking is the edification of the national excellent culture. The Disciples Rules profoundly teach us how to filial parents and friendly brothers; form good morals and habits; how to have the spirit of fraternity and correct reading methods. For example, in the book: "Parents should not slow down; parents should not be lazy; they must report, return to the face; there are always, the industry changes;" This is the basic requirement of filial piety. "Brothers and brothers, brothers and brothers; brothers, filial piety; called the elders, do not call the name; for the elders, do not show." It is the most basic language and behavioral norms of how to love brothers and respect children. In addition, the book enumerates the habits and phenomena that are most easily regarded as trivial in life, and then teaches us how to develop good habits, a spirit of fraternity, and a correct reading and learning method. Every chapter, every sentence, and enumeration in this book are the most common and basic habits and phenomena in life. These habits and phenomena can be said to be well known, but many people are not so easy to do. Not knowing, but not doing it. The book tells us a truth: don't do it because of smallness, good habits are started from bit by bit.
By learning the Disciples, my understanding has improved. What should be done every day, what should not be done, when should I do what, what should not be done, how to do it well, everyone knows. Some people think that this is a children's book. It is a matter of educating children and having little to do with adults. In fact, as an excellent traditional culture of the Chinese nation, we all have no reason to abandon it. Although the times are changing and people's ideas are also being updated, China's national studies are profound and profound, although they have a long history, they still have strong reading value and profound educational significance. Through the edification of Chinese classical culture, it is very beneficial for us to establish a correct world view, outlook on life and values ​​to enhance our own aesthetic and humanistic consciousness.
Studying the Disciples, I think it is not only a process of improving personal cultivation, but also a process of sublimation of ideas. For a person's growth, it is very necessary. Love the people around and love the world. Only in this way can this society become a harmonious society and the world becomes a harmonious world.
I have the following experience through the study of the Disciples:
First, be a person to know how to be grateful. For a person, the greatest kindness that should be repaid is the parent's parenting grace. Therefore, the first chapter of the "Discipline Rules" is the "Gentlefulness" in the "filial piety" reflected in the word "filial piety". "Parents should not slow down." Parents should not be lazy. "Parents should be respectful, parents should be responsible, and must follow." Think about these are the basic requirements of our filial parents. Through study, I hope that I will redouble my efforts in my future study and life, hoping to give my working parents a happy life.
Second, to be treated with respect, to be humble, to be modest. Respect and modesty are inseparable, and it is difficult to respect people without internal modesty. "Full damage, modest benefit", "Humble mind makes people progress, pride makes people fall behind", although I have read many such famous sayings from an early age, but I did not realize that modesty is a kind of quality, but often strives for strength. Victory, pride and complacency. Thinking about pride and complacency does bring a lot of damage to yourself, and it also makes you fall behind others. By studying the Disciples, I am aware of the importance of respectfulness and modesty, and people must not have arrogance.
Third, identify your own life goals. The Disciples Rules teach people to be good, and the virtues of long-term support are to make people live meaningful. And I also understand and learn the truth of being a man by learning the Disciples. Life is a process, and the process depends largely on what kind of life goal you have chosen. Now I have to study and implement the "Disciple Rules", and also educate my children, let him accept traditional culture from an early age, "to teach the country, to educate people", the child is the future of the motherland, educating the next generation is what we do The greatest responsibility of parents. "To be like a child," I believe that I will work hard to make a profit. Know how to reflect on yourself, always reflect on your words and deeds, and be a truly innocent person!

Part 4: Reading the disciples' understanding

I just got a shock from it when I first read the "** Regulations." It turns out that China has such a good traditional culture. I have to admit that I have learned a lot and I have only gotten to know the good book of the ** Regulations. After reading through, I am very impressed. The ** Regulation is a mirror of our lives. It is a guide for us to develop good personal behavior. It is a standard for testing our moral quality. It is an important enlightenment education to improve the quality of our people. It is also our lifelong benefit. Good teacher and friend. However, I am very fortunate to be able to accept the education and edification of traditional culture. > "The ** Regulations" was originally called "Meng Meng Wen", which was adapted from the "Children's Needs" of the Song Dynasty by Zhu Xi, and later revised by the Qing Dynasty Confucian scholar Jia Cunren. It was renamed "The ** Regulations" and is a book that teaches children how to treat people. books. Its plain and easy-to-understand text contains many truths about being human, not only for educating children and children, but also for adults in life, work, family and so on. In real life, some people still have low quality, moral decline, infidelity, filial piety, injustice, incomprehension, no sense of responsibility, and no sense of responsibility. What are these people missing? What I feel is lacking is the edification of the national excellent culture. The book "Disciple Rules" profoundly teaches us how to filial parents and friendly brothers; form good morality and habits; how to have the spirit of fraternity and correct reading methods. For example, in the book: "Parents should not slow down; parents should not be lazy; they must report, return to the face; there are always, the industry changes;" This is the basic requirement of filial piety. "Brothers and brothers, brothers and brothers; brothers, filial piety; called the elders, do not call the name; for the elders, do not show." It is the most basic language and behavioral norms of how to love brothers and respect children. In addition, the book enumerates the habits and phenomena that are most easily regarded as trivial in life, and then teaches us how to develop good habits, a spirit of fraternity, and a correct reading and learning method. Every chapter, every sentence, and enumeration in this book are the most common and basic habits and phenomena in life. These habits and phenomena can be said to be well known, but many people are not so easy to do. Not knowing, but not doing it. The book tells us a truth: don't do it because of smallness, good habits are started from bit by bit.
By learning the book "Disciples", I realized that I have improved. What should be done every day, what should not be done, when should I do what, what should not be done, how to do it well, everyone knows. Some people think that this is a children's book. It is a matter of educating children and having little to do with adults. In fact, as an excellent traditional culture of the Chinese nation, we all have no reason to abandon it. Although the times are changing and people's ideas are also being updated, China's national studies are profound and profound, although they have a long history, they still have strong reading value and profound educational significance. Through the edification of Chinese classical culture, it is very beneficial for us to establish a correct world view, outlook on life and values ​​to enhance our own aesthetic and humanistic consciousness.
Through this study, I feel that I am a profound ideological revolution, a spiritual wash, overcoming some of my own inertia, and asking students to do it. They must do their own work, take the lead, and walk in front of the students, for the students. Be a good example.
The process of learning is a process of identification, and the impact on itself is a subtle process. For example, if we study the Disciples, it should be easy to memorize them, but it will take time to really have a beneficial impact on one person. There must be some principles for a person to live, and they are constrained by these principles in their subconscious. Learning the "Disciples" is to carry out the teachings of the saints into life and implement them in words and deeds.
Studying the Disciples, I think it is not only a process of improving personal cultivation, but also a process of sublimation of ideas. For a person's growth, it is very necessary. Love the people around and love the world. Only in this way can this society become a harmonious society and the world becomes a harmonious world.
I have benefited a lot from the process of studying the Disciples. Some of them are simple, but they don't really understand the truth. Because I really understood after studying the Disciples. The Disciples Rules have increased my wisdom and shocked my heart. I have three experiences through the study of the Disciples:
The first person must know how to be grateful. For a person, the greatest favor that should be repaid is the parent's parenting grace. Therefore, the first chapter of the Disciples is that the gratitude of the filial piety is reflected in the word "filial piety". "Parents should not slow down their parents." Don't be lazy. "Parents must be respectful of their parents' responsibilities." I think these are the basic requirements for our filial parents, but I have not done so. Through this study, I hope that I will redouble my efforts in my future study and life, hoping to give my working parents a happy life. In the past, my husband and I always loved to be awkward. When we were wronged, we often went to our parents to tell us how to think about ourselves. We should not care about our parents, but they always bring them troubles. By studying the "discipline" I made my wish: whether my parents or my in-laws, I must do my best to make my glory in my later years!
The second person to be treated with a respectful heart is to be modest. Respect and modesty are inseparable, and it is difficult to respect people without internal modesty. "Full recruitment and loss of moderation", "Humble mind makes people progress, pride makes people fall behind", although I have read many such famous sayings from childhood, but I did not realize that modesty is a kind of quality, but often wins strong ,arrogant. Thinking about pride and complacency does bring a lot of damage to yourself, and it also makes you fall behind others. It is always difficult to get along with leaders and colleagues in the unit. The relationship is not harmonious. It is always complaining about unfairness. By studying the Disciples, I realize the importance of respectfulness and modesty. People must not have arrogance and work. The results are outstanding, and there is not enough respect for the leaders. I still can't get the approval of the leaders. If I accept this kind of education earlier, I believe that I can coordinate the relationship between the superior and the subordinates well and the truth of being a person.
The third is to identify your own life goals. The Disciples Rules teach people to be good, and the virtues of long-term support are to make people live meaningful. And I also understand and learn the truth of being a man by learning the Disciples. Life is a process, and the process depends largely on what kind of life goal you have chosen. My goal in life is to educate my children well. In the process of my own study, I found that my own learning is better than the previous ones. I didn’t really try to "do not do anything, but learn the text, grow my glory, and become a person. I have seen it, I am convinced." I used to be such a life. Now I have to study and implement the "Disciple Rules", and also educate my children, let him accept traditional culture from an early age, "to teach the country, to educate people", the child is the future of the motherland, educating the next generation is what we do The greatest responsibility of parents. "To be like a child," I believe that one will cultivate a profit and ten ten benefits. Know how to reflect on yourself, always reflect on your own words and deeds, and be a truly innocent person!

Chapter 5: Reading the Experience of the Disciples

"Keeping good, doing good things" is the foundation of being a man. I believe that one of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation is the integrity of gold. The book says: "The relationship between father and son, relationship between husband and son, relationship between husband and wife needs to be built on trust and in giving. In addition, the brothers are also the same. The more you take care of the brothers, the more the brothers trust you. The last friend, friend is not blood. Relationships, this is to get along with each other through long-term, so-called long-term people can truly win the trust of friends." In other words, in our lives, we must do something that is beneficial to others with a sincere heart, whether it is to be honest with others, that is, "honest and trustworthy." This is also the basic principle of being a man since ancient times.
As a teacher, I have to get along very well with my children every day. I feel that I want to deal with this relationship with my child and make friends with my child. Friends are very equal. Anyone who wants to get friendships must learn to respect your friends. Otherwise, you will lose him. The same is true for children. He may be small, maybe not sensible, but he definitely knows how to respect. As a friend, you must be honest, and when you learn to keep your promise, you gain the trust of your friends. At the same time, it also gains the trust of children, which is the most precious and unconditional in the world. Suhomlinski once compared the student's emotions to the land and the student's intelligence to the seeds. He said: "Only caring for the seeds and forgetting the cultivation of the land is equivalent to dropping the seeds to feed the sparrows." He also said: "In school. Learning is not a expressionless way to put knowledge from one mind into another, but the contact between the teacher and the student at every moment." This statement makes us understand the important between the teacher and the child. It is emotional communication. Every collision of the mind is conducive to the establishment of a harmonious, relaxed and pleasant relationship between teachers and students; it helps to create emotional resonance between the teacher and the child; and makes the child consciously devote himself to the learning activities. This kind of activity can only be carried out on the basis of mutual trust and integrity.
In short, learning the "discipline of the disciples" is to regulate the behavior of the person, to do what people should do, to be the norm. It plays a key role in the formation of a person's values, the establishment of personality, and the development of intelligence. Especially for children, more or less understanding of the traditional culture and ethics of the Chinese nation can better inherit and carry forward. Fine tradition. It is also a rare mirror for teachers.