Normal student social practice report

During the summer vacation, I found a tutoring job under the recommendation of the counselor. This is the first social part-time job I have found since I started school. When I got this job, my heart was both excited and grateful. The excitement is that I have an opportunity to exercise my own ability while embodying my own value. I am grateful that the counselor's care for me is really meticulous. As a result, my summer vacation has added a beautiful scenery. This landscape has taught me a lot, I have tasted a lot, I have thought a lot...
The first poor world parents, my student is called Ma Ning. The first time I went to his house, he was sulking in the study room. Ma Shu and Aunt warmly hosted me and talked with me in the living room for a long time. He talked about his academic abilities from Ma Ning's personality hobby. Therefore, the first time I learned about Ma Ning, not through direct contact with him, but through conversations with his parents. During the conversation, I learned the following: Ma Ning is tired of learning, lazy to learn, and greedy to play. "For many reasons, his achievements are not satisfactory. Parents have great expectations for him, I hope he can get into the key middle school, he will come to the university for further study. And his current learning situation, let his parents Feeling very disheartened and disappointed.
In the conversation, I can feel the eager expectation of the parents in the mind and the eagerness of hatefulness and irony. The expectation of parents for their children is hot and selfless. They look far and see the future of their children; they are very selfless and even blame themselves for their children’s incompetence. I was deeply touched by my parents' feelings about my children, and felt that the burden on my shoulders was heavy. He, for me without any tutor experience, is a "challenge" after all.
The second one, he is my student, a stone that has not yet been carved, called Ma Ning. A tall, thin man with a pair of bachelor glasses on his high nose. On the face of a childish baby, there is always a trace of tiredness that is hard to fade. This is his first impression of me.
On the first day of tutoring, I explained the final exam paper to him. The writing on the test paper is very sloppy, whether in English or Chinese. Knowing people by words, I think he must be very casual in his studies, and he is not strict with himself. In the process of explaining the test paper, I found that he was very tired when he was listening and yawned from time to time. The effect of such a listening state can be imagined. I also began to realize that the primary task now is not to give lectures, but to help him correct his attitude.
The next day, I gave him an ideological education class to explain to him the duties of the students and the purpose of the study. He seems to understand something. From time to time, nodded and agreed. Since then, I have often given him a similar course, from time to time to talk to him to learn the experience. His class status has changed a lot from before. I am very happy with it.

Work more than two hours a day in the morning, with a break in the middle. When he is resting, he will not talk to me on his own initiative because his personality is very introverted. He loves to read newspapers and magazines. At rest, he always looks for some newspapers to look through and find what he is interested in. Occasionally in the living room, kicking a football kick. He said that football is his favorite, and he has also made many friends. "The article is organized, and the copyright belongs to the original author and the original source. 』
It seems that reading newspapers and playing football is something that he is very interested in, perhaps because the two do not consume too much brain cells. Faced with a lot of exercises and boring texts, I don't think anyone will have a strong interest. In my opinion, reading newspapers or playing football is actually a way of consuming time and a way to escape learning. Escape from learning is itself a manifestation of fear of hardship. Later, his mother told me that Manin was really lazy and did not want to suffer. Since then, I have encountered a difficult problem: how to let him overcome laziness. Because I know clearly: his laziness was cultivated from an early age, and learning to be lazy is his "family routine". It is impossible to let him overcome laziness in a short time. Therefore, in the following lectures, I gradually tightened his requirements and often explained the harm of laziness. Although he listened to it, it didn't change much. This is understandable.
The third book of family life, the bitterness of sweetness, mixed feelings because of the morning to go to do tutoring, which forced me to change the habit of sleeping late in the holiday. In the first few days, I got up in my sleep and took my dim head to wash. The taste of that transformation is really bad!
His home is not far from the school, but because it is very late every day, in order not to be late, I always have to hurry. Whether it was sunny or cloudy, when I arrived at his home, it was sweating. The ass has not yet stabilized and it is time to start working.
When he was in class, he often went away and looked at him absent-mindedly. Sometimes, I feel very annoyed in my heart: I am so eager to speak, but he ignores it, really ruthless. Fortunately, I am very patient. Whenever he is distracted, I will remind him to be patient with him.
When he was doing the problem, he liked to use glasses to observe and lazy to do it. When I was in class, I was just "early listening" and never took notes. This is the embodiment of his study of laziness. I clearly know that lazy people can't afford to study. So, I told him three times and five times, I must change the lazy habits. However, he is actually "yang yin yin", maybe he is not willing to try the pain of that transformation.
He sometimes brings me a "heavy" blow. I remember once, I explained several physical exercises to him, which was moderately difficult. When he was at class, it seemed a little hard. After I finished speaking, I asked him if he still had questions. He nodded and said that he understood everything. After two days, in order to test the effect of the review, I took out the exercises and asked him to do it. As a result, he was almost "all over the army." At that time, I felt as if I had fallen from the Jiuyiyun Hall into the bottomless abyss. This is the biggest setback encountered in my tutoring process. Afterwards, I constantly rethink: Is it my own reason, or is it his reason? Anyway, one thing is clear: he didn’t understand the exercises. But why is he lying? Through the exchange with Ma Shu, I found the answer: his lazy thoughts will make him meet a slightly difficult subject, and he will not be too lazy to ask questions, because he is too lazy to delve into it.
In the face of lazyness, I seem to be "incapable." The quality of academic performance often depends on the quality of study habits. Laziness is the "big enemy" of learning. I don't have any "magic bullets" that can make him change all of a sudden. He has to urge him from time to time to spur him and make him gradually become diligent.
The fourth day of the divergence is that he is about to start school, and I have ended my tutor life. His learning attitude is much more positive than the front end, and learning has become harder. The previous difficult problems have basically been solved. This is the effect of my tutor. His parents are grateful to me for helping him during this time and asking me to call him from time to time to urge him. I will stick to it.
The tutor life reminds me of a lot of Dongsi, and I got a lot of feelings. I think that urban and rural areas are two very different worlds. People who grow in these two worlds will behave differently in some ways. Children in the countryside must go to the ground to help their parents to do some heavy farming work. They can understand the hardships of labor and profoundly understand the hard-won life of a happy life. Therefore, they will not be lazy. On the contrary, it will work harder and harder in order to live a happier life.
However, urban families generally have a good life, and children grow up in such an environment, and some may not even suffer. Some people have to go to school to pick up and drop off, and all the requirements put forward will be met. Even some people in their rooms will be cleaned up. Life is so comfortable, it is easy to develop a lazy habit.
Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate the child's ability to suffer from childhood. Urban children lack the same hardship opportunities as rural children. I think this is a pity.
The above is my harvest and experience. At the same time, tutoring also made me realize my own shortcomings. These gains and experiences will affect my future study life and have a positive impact on future work.