Ask your own ideals

When I was just working, my teacher told me, don't complain, who you complain about, who will push you to your opposite, you complain about society, you just put yourself in the opposite of society. I always live a hard life, but if I have an idea, whether I can't make it or not, I will try it, and I will ponder it. Maybe it is not related to this.

We discussed in the writing group, some people asked how to make their own articles on the Douban homepage, then I thought of Li Yishu's article on the home page, I summed it up, it is to be written, or to say I am thinking about modifying it. I often receive soy oil and said: "You can help me recommend my diary, thank you!" Then I clicked into a lot of typos, not necessarily how good, but at least let people see that you are thinking. Li Yishu feels that there are a lot of recommendations that are useful, which is why he registered 500 vests. Someone raised a question and said, "Is Li Youshu really registered 500 mailboxes, and then registered 500 vests?" Li Yishu said, "Of course!" Someone said, "How much trouble?" Li Yishu said, "You even have this thing." I don't want to do it, you still want to go to the Douban homepage, when the watercress is red!" Many times, we don't have a chance, but we give up. I didn't even start at the beginning, and even tried without trying, I just gave up.

Five years ago, I and a few friends stood in front of the windmill in the Guanting Reservoir, facing the blue sky and the wide water surface, and said their dreams. One friend said, "He wants to buy a big house in Beijing. His parents have come to live in this city and let his children become the people of this city!" Another friend said, "He wants to buy a small house, no need to rush in this city." Today we talked about the original We, the original dream, the one who bought the big house has already been realized. He has a villa in Beijing, and he has received his parents and contacted the child who is about to be born. And the friend who wants to have a small house is still living in Beijing on a day of frequent moving.

The friend who did not realize his dreams has always complained to everyone, the society is unfair, the house prices are rising, the women’s forces, the boss of the company are crushing, and the ruthlessness of friends. Our older predecessors felt after he left. In fact, sometimes the fate of everyone is very random. You can't succeed if you work hard, but at least you have to do something. Complaints are venting, but venting cannot change the real problem.

Many times, we are always entangled in the past, constantly looking for various reasons, giving ourselves a lot of excuses to prove that our bad state is not our own problem, and not willing to take the courage to change ourselves. Louise Hai’s "Reconstruction of Life" has such a passage: "We must choose to release the past and forgive everyone, including ourselves. We may not know how to forgive, or we may not want to forgive, but we are willing to say When I forgive this sentence, I began the healing process. If you want to heal yourself, it is a must-have command to release the past and forgive everyone."

There is no door to good fortune, only people call themselves. Our lives are always determined by ourselves. A very hot passage forwarded on Weibo "Beware of your thoughts, thoughts can become words. Keep an eye on your language, language can become action. Be mindful of your actions, actions can become habits. Keep an eye on your habits, habits can become personality Be mindful of your character, personality can determine fate." If you have not achieved your ideals, be sure to ask yourself what you have done for your ideals. People always say that time will change everything, but in fact you need to change it yourself. A long time ago, my lover said a joke. "Life is like an electrocardiogram. It's smooth sailing unless you die."