It’s not to be obsessed, it’s called breaking, not perfect, it’s called life.

It’s not as good as it’s already, it’s sharp and it’s not long-term. Jin Yu Man Tang, Mo Zhi can be guarded, rich and arrogant, self-sacrifice. Tao Te Ching - Inscription

If someone wants to tell you: "Do not be too persistent, accept imperfections, because that is life." You must think that this person is very strange. In this society with such a strong competition, shouldn't it be better to do something wrong? You may even think that this person must be a coward, escaping from competition and imagining to find a vain paradise.

And I quite agree with this person's opinion. When you see this, you must have a good time to train me, and persuade me to play the spirit, not to be confused by this fascination. Don't worry, I will share with you a story of mine. After that, let me laugh and roar, I will be self-satisfied!

Late autumn has arrived, when the leaves fall back to the roots. I remembered this time last year, I was a planning copy of a private hospital. It was also during that time that I met the first Master since entering the workplace. I am a little bit mature in dealing with people today.

The first time I saw him was on the weekend of a weekend when I just got to work. Because there was no key, I could only sit in the chair outside the office and wait for the director to open the door. I was holding a book about the copywriter in my hand. . At this time, a voice came from the front: "Early!" I looked up, a short stature, white hair, wearing a white blouse, dark trousers, wearing a pair of shoes, the old smile smiled awkwardly I say hello. I politely returned the sentence: "Early!"

The old man walked up to me and smiled.

"Are you coming for an interview?"

“Oh, no, I am a new employee in the Planning Department!”

"Well, Director Lin hasn't come yet! It doesn't matter, you are sitting here first, he should come soon. Yes, what are you doing in the Planning Department?"

"I am doing a copy."

"Hey, the young man learns things quickly, it’s good to do this. Work hard!"

After that, he walked into his office.

This is the first time we have met, although it is only a few words, I feel the enthusiasm of his treatment. Later he was known to be the director next door. In the days that followed, some of his incomprehensible problems on the office software always asked me in the form of a consultation. Even if I couldn't help, he didn't complain at all, and he shared the problem with me after he checked it online. The old director who is over 60 years old can be so humbled by this young man in his early twenties. It is really commendable. I am also very moved. Because I have experienced in my past experience, in this relatively large unit, the human condition has always been relatively cold. New employees who have just joined the company have a low level of presence in the organization.

Because of work, I need to often need to assist the director's work. He also often asked me to go to the hospital canteen for dinner. I don't know if it's because of similar height, or because of other reasons, people at the beginning of the hospital thought we were fathers and sons. In the face of such misunderstandings, we laughed at it. The old director said something that made me very surprised: "We are colleagues!"

Why is it an accident? He is bigger than my father. On the position, he is the director of the medical department, the medical management of the hospital, except the dean is him. It can be said that in a well-ranked hospital, he is undoubtedly an executive. And I am just a new grassroots employee in the hospital's publicity work. Under such a disparity in identity, he still put me in the same position as him, and because of this, some of my work and life confusion will also go to the old director.

The old director is not only respectful and enthusiasm in dealing with people, but also meticulous in doing things. It is a famous "workaholic" in the hospital. The hospital’s affairs are not so detailed, he has to personally ask.

At that time, the projector of the hospital was faulty and often could not be shown at critical moments. Must be debugged repeatedly. At that time, no matter what meeting, the director asked me to try it a few hours before the meeting, and try it before the meeting. Once, the next day of the meeting, the afternoon will be put out to try the projector, the results were good, the next day is not normal. This made me often tempted by this broken machine. We all agreed that the projector was broken and decided to change one. The old director refused to give up and repeated the debugging with the old director. Finally, he found the problem that the disease is the signal line.

I have just caught up with the hospital to upgrade the second-class hospitals just after taking office. Many files and many jobs need to be further improved. My boss asked me to give the old director a hand after doing my own work.

During that time, the old director called for statistics of various previous years to count, as well as writing new files and other matters, the workload was quite large. And because I didn't give him trouble because of carelessness, he didn't blame me, but gave me the opportunity to correct it again and again, and repeated verification. As far as I know, the old director’s appointment was due to sudden death of the disease. Many problems need to be solved urgently. However, because there is no formal work handover, all the problems are the old director’s own solution to the solution. This is quite difficult, but it is The problem of work, the old director can always solve all kinds of methods, let me admire.

The old director often taught me to say: "Before the difficulties, I don't allow anyone to say no. If you can't say it is to shirk responsibility. This kind of attitude can't do anything well! The method must be more difficult than it is. No one is born to be customized. This society wants a generalist. You don't see me as a physician. I will also repair electrical appliances and make various dishes. Now I am still learning computers. Xiao Pan, we are not so popular people, so We must pay a lot more than others, and think of others in front of us so that we can't be tempted to be accepted."

Isn’t the old director’s remarks telling us that life doesn’t have to be too persistent? Too persistent in one way, too attached to one idea, too persistent to do one thing, and often let us rest on our laurels. Confucius told us that being a gentleman should not only focus on one thing, but only one thing. It becomes a learned and versatile person.

I used to be obsessed with calligraphy and asked for a book. A section of the professional class is spent in the practice of words, many students in the class think that I have been enchanted. I have been dubbed "artistic tyrants" for professional slag. In the month of preparing for the accounting certificate, I still can't put it down. Later, the two girls in the class bitterly persuaded them. They told me: "Calligraphy is a lifelong thing, not a temporary thing, and you have to know clearly that if you can't eat by calligraphy, you can't test it this time. I can't find a job, what do you do in the future?" Their words made me wake up like a dream. I really should be more prepared, not obsessed with calligraphy. I put down the pen and I went to read the book seriously. I finally got the accounting certificate. If the two students reminded me, how can I see the calligraphy? Now I am also facing intense work. If I still only hold calligraphy, then waiting for me will only be unemployed, then find a job and then lose my job. Go on.

Maybe you also have such confusion as me, and you can't achieve perfection without being attached. Yes, perfection is what every one of us asks for. And whether perfection is difficult to achieve, let's analyze it. Perfect is really good? "Full damage, modest benefit; climb high thoughts, pool full of quit." This is the loyalty of the ages! Lao Tzu has also warned that "the song is full, the 枉 is straight, the 洼 then surplus, 敝 新 new If you want to do less, you will be confused. If you don't cling to one thing, you don't insist on playing a role, you are willing to face imperfect things, imperfect people, imperfect self. In order to live out the open-mindedness of life, use Daguan’s mentality is to smile and see the clouds. You will find that the scenery of life is beautiful, just because we are too obsessed with the road and miss the scenery along the way.

Because it is broken, it is no longer obsessive, and because it is not obsessive to give up perfection, not perfect, it is called life!