Wise father without children

One of the most used words when people describe their father is the "strict father", because the father is usually not as gentle as the mother, and the father will not spoil us like a mother when we were young. Fathers have never been good at expressing love to us. In the Jewish nation, the same is true. The Jews believe that being a father is a wise father who does not have children.

One day, a Chinese student studying in Israel and friends walked in a small park. On the way, they saw a four- or five-year-old girl sitting on the road and crying. The adults standing on the side didn’t know what to say, but not To stop the child crying, not to comfort the child. This foreign student feels very strange. The person standing next to the child is obviously the father of the child, but why didn't the father hold his own child? This father is too worried! She doesn't understand this very much. The Jewish father’s practice then asked the Jewish classmate around him what the father was saying. The classmate told her that the father told the child: The more you cry like this, the less I will hold you. You are already an adult. You should stand up firmly and you should learn to stand on your own feet. After listening to this, the foreign student realized that the Jewish parents taught the children like this. She just thought that this father was worried. Now she suddenly understands that this should be the pain of being a father. In order to let the children stand on their own feet, they can only use this seemingly "cruel" method to educate their children.

Some parents not only love children physically, but also pamper their children in spirit. When such children grow up, their ways of doing things are always not commensurate with their age. Therefore, when children are still young, they should continue to cultivate their self-reliance. At home, mothers often care for us with their tenderness. Mothers are always the ones who love us, and my father often criticizes us. However, it was only a long time later that we discovered that the progress we made had a lot to do with the teachings of our father.

Jewish fathers often teach them some life knowledge when they are very young, and they often treat children as adults. The Jewish nation had a custom, and the father had to teach the child a life skill so that the child could make a living when he grew up. When the children were very young, the Jewish father began to play the role of a strict father. They would not reveal their feelings. The men’s feelings were calm and introverted. This was very obvious in the father’s love for the children.

A philosopher once said: "After growing up, people should be grateful to their father." According to a scientific survey conducted by Yale University in the United States, children with large males have higher IQs, and their performance in schools is often very good. It is also easier to succeed after society. The survey was the result of a 12-year follow-up survey of children of all ages. Children who lack male education often show signs of sentimentality, weak character, timidity, and unsociable character and inferiority. This is because they accept more female education, are easily influenced by women, and lack masculinity. And male education can make up for this shortcoming, because men are more open-minded, generous, decisive, and confident. Male education can make children more resilient.

Jewish fathers will educate their children from an early age. They will not be used to children, let their children do anything. Practice has proved that children in life often rely on their mothers, but on major issues, they still rely on their fathers to let their fathers make decisions. So the father should take responsibility for being a father. The child's growth is inseparable from the father's strict education. Initially the child may not understand this kind of education, but after the child grows up, they will be grateful to their father.