Dear, you only have one chance.

01

Let's call her "Miss Maruko". On a wedding program, there is a pretty girl in the costume, standing on the stage for a long time.

It is said that Ms. Maru has lost confidence in men and love since she ended her eight-year love run and did not enter the marriage hall.

Miss Maruchi, who is standing on the stage, said that I have to wait for a man I like to fall in love with me before taking action. So, Miss Maru waited for a period of time, but still did not wait for the man who cast the net, but she is still very patient. Not afraid, not afraid, will be taken away by the real person, Miss Maru comforted herself.

At that time, I finally came to a man who made Ms. Maru at first sight. She looked at her eyes and the other women were just around the corner. At this time, Miss Maru found that he looked at himself when he chose the girl. She suddenly had the strength, thinking about it again and again, she decided to wait until he fell, and must not divulge the heart.

So, Miss Maru, who has always been clever and talkative, was particularly silent that day. The host has a situation.

Sure enough, Miss Maru was chosen by this man as the girl of the day. Standing in the middle of the position, she is extraordinarily shining, very shy. Men seem to be more stable and refined.

Miss Maruchi secretly surprised, but still said: "If you succeed, you will perform well, let me like you."

When this sentence comes out, the whole atmosphere is not right.

The man said slowly: "Love is very simple. It is doomed when two people meet. I like her, try to pursue her, touch her, so like it, it is unfair to her, I don't want to have."

Later, the man talked about a girl he was obsessed with, and then was really moved, but she did not choose to go with him...

After that, the man took away the stunned girl next to him, leaving the young lady with tears running.

Miss Maruko said that it turned out that in the face of love, we only have one chance to fall in love. Turning around is lost because it doesn't have a chance to come back again.

If he chooses another person, it means that he will not be led to leave. If they go on happily, it means that you lost a love. Even if you are in love with each other and are moving with each other, at that moment, he suddenly feels unconfident and feels that he cannot conquer you, so changing his mind means that there is no possibility between you and him.

A lot of truth is so cruel. When we meet a person and walk into his world, there may be only one chance. You can laugh and say it doesn't matter, you can turn around and say no regrets, but you only have the chance to fall in love this time. There will be a few points in the fate of meeting again, and the fate of holding hands will hardly exist.

On this train of life, there are always people coming up, and there are always people going on. The only thing we can do is, when they come up, please be prepared to face it.

02

This reminds me of a very famous director's lecture.

The host asked him why he could become famous at the same time?

He said that the reason why life is so beautiful is that it is a moment of fraternity. Once a lot of things are missed, there will be no chance to come back. Every time I turn on the phone, I tell myself that this is the first time in my life to make a movie. Maybe I only have this opportunity in my life. I dare not say that than anyone knows the feeling of "doing everything together and making persistent efforts", I can only say that I have taken all of it. People are so lucky, this time the filming is not good, can make a comeback...

When he talked about the wonderful place, almost everyone was in tears.

Perhaps, in everyone's life journey, God will arrange such an opportunity for us to meet some people and things. Initially, if we had nothing to do, I thought it was just an opportunity to try. However, the opportunity to miss once and for all has made many people's different life trajectories.

I suddenly thought of a big saying in the Westward Journey to the honorable treasure: "If you give me another chance on the same day..."

However, the real life can't be like a fun stand-alone game. After the gameover, you can come back again. It can't be like a fishing net that falls into the deep sea. This time you can get nothing, you can throw it into the deep sea again. It can't be like a cat with nine lives. Similarly, you can fall from a very high upstairs, continue to climb to another tall building, and then look at the world with ease.

Many times, we only have one chance, just a quarter of an hour, to win a person's favorite, to win the interviewer's trust, to become a dazzling star. Once you miss it, it will be hard to belong to you again.

Sometimes, we are willing to lie to ourselves, and we are not willing to believe that a mistake or an inadequate preparation is tantamount to passing the opportunity, perhaps no reunion. Therefore, when you meet an opportunity, don't be lucky, don't deceive yourself. In addition to bravely rushing up, you must carefully prepare for it, and you will seize good luck.

03

The story of "Only one chance" has been staged around you and me:

That summer, you and the university roommates came together to learn to swim, she went, you have been shirking yourself, so she learned to swim, you are still a "drought duck." After many years, I saw her in the water like a fish, you remember that when you had a high-five, you have a plan to learn to swim in your life.

There was only one place in the company that was sent abroad to study. At that time, the supervisor was you, so if you think you are yourself, you will not fight for it. The result was unexpected, and the quota was earned by a colleague who had just passed IELTS. As you applaud, your heart is struggling.

In life, there is always such a regret. Those opportunities, walking and walking, really can't pick up again, those people, running and running, disappeared without saying goodbye.

Seeing the people around me still make persistent efforts, only standing on the side, saying to the goal that cannot be overcome, nothing, I can come back again. More often, we thought we were working hard, but in the end we only touched you alone.

One day, we understand that all the opportunities that we “disliked” will be won by others, until they go further and further, we are getting lost more and more until we don’t want to mention it.

One day, we will understand that all opportunities are as bright and youthful as they can only be followed by horses.