Endless experience in life

A friend's child graduated from college for half a year. He didn't go looking for something, stayed at home, slept during the day, and went online at night. I recently asked for money from his parents. I wanted to go to the United States to study. My friend asked me if I should let him go. I looked at his white hair and said, "If you really want to be good for your children, let him go, but don't give He is money."

I thought of the story of my sister.

My sister is an American. I wanted to be a sailor since I was a child. I want to travel to the world and want to travel around the world and go back to school. Although his father is a doctor and his family's economic environment permits, his parents don't give him money. He didn't ask for it at home. When he graduated from high school, he went to Alaska to save money. Because Alaska had a long summer sunshine, the sun didn't fall until midnight. More than three points have risen again. If he works for 16 hours a day, the salary of cutting a season can let him travel around the world for three seasons. He went back to college to study after two years in the world. Because he decided to study the department under his own deliberation, he completed the four-year credits in three years and came out to work. He worked very smoothly, and he can be said to be a senior engineer. Once, he told me a little story that it affected his life.

When he was working in Alaska, he heard a wolf's roar with a friend on the mountain. They searched nervously and found that a female wolf was caught in the trap and was screaming. He saw the strange one. The trapper knows that it is an old worker. He is amateur to catch the beast and sell fur to subsidize the family. However, this old man has been sent to Ankerech Hospital for emergency treatment because of heart disease. This female wolf will Starved to death because no one is dealing with it. He wants to release the female wolf, but the female wolf is very fierce. He can't get close. He finds that the female wolf is dripping, indicating that there is a wolf in the wolf's hole, so he and his companion spent a lot of effort to find the wolf. Bring four little wolves to the female wolf to eat milk to avoid starvation. He distributed his food to the female wolf to maintain the life of the female wolf. At night, he had to camp near the female wolf to protect the wolf family, because the female wolf was caught and unable to defend itself.

Until the fifth day, when he went to feed, he found that the mother wolf’s tail had a slight shake. He knew that he had begun to gain the trust of the female wolf. After another three days, the female wolf made him close to the beast. The clip is released and the female wolf is released. After the female wolf was free, he took his hand and asked him to take medicine on his foot before he walked away with the wolf, and he often looked back at him all the way.

He sat on the big rock and thought that if human beings could let the fierce wild wolf lick his hand and become a friend, couldn't humans let another person put down their arms and become friends? He decided to show sincerity to others first, because from this matter In the middle, I will release the sincerity first, and the other party will report it with sincerity. Therefore, he treats people with sincerity in the company, first assumes that others are good intentions, then explains his behavior, and often helps others, regardless of minor matters. So he rises one level every year and climbs quickly. The most important thing is that he is very happy every day. The person who helps others is much happier than the person who is being helped. Although he does not know that China has the phrase "Blessing is more blessed," his life proves this. a little.

He told me that he has been very grateful to Alaska for his experience, because it has made him useless in his life. Indeed, only the things that you want will be cherished, the persimmons under the frost will be sweet, and the people will mature after tempering.

If a person graduates from college and doesn't know what he wants, then he should be allowed to go outside to temper, don't give him money, let him feed himself, give him a chance to prove himself and experience life, and believe that he can get a pair from it. He has endless experience in his life. Let the good things spread in this world.