Because I am a girl, I am so hard to fight so hard.

1.

The Spring Festival of the third year of the year was the only time I had not been with my family for the New Year. When my mother called and asked if I could borrow some money from my cousin, my heart suddenly hurt. My mother said that there are really few thousand pieces in the house. I really don't know how to do it in the year.

At that time, I was in the cousin’s husband’s house to bring the children with the children and cleaned up the hygiene. In fact, the things that were done were very simple, that is, mopping the floor, washing the dishes, doing cooking and drying clothes, etc. thing.

The cousin's mother-in-law is a promising female strongman. She is more than 50 years old, wearing a generous and temperament. Just before the Spring Festival, she bought two coats and asked me and the cousin which one looks good. In fact, They are pretty good looking.

When the cousin’s mother-in-law said the price of the clothes, I was scared. The green coat was more than 8,000, and the other one was more than 10,000. I remembered when my mother asked me to help borrow one or two thousand quick money, my The heart is not calm. That was the first time I felt about the life of the poor and the rich. My mother was worried about a few thousand dollars for the New Year, and the cousin's mother-in-law was asking us which brand of clothes would look better.

Just like an brother-in-law, it may be the money that my parents struggled until now.

I secretly made up my mind that in the future, I can buy my own house to buy my own car. In the New Year, I can give my parents a big red envelope so that they don't worry about their basic life.

2.

A friend said, thirteen, you have a girl who has to struggle to find a house car is more boring, you want those, marry a rich man with a car and a house, and you can still grow.

I said that marriage is not for exchange for anything, friends smile, you are the brain is not open.

That was the first time I felt scorned because I was a girl, so what do I want, why bother to rely on myself? The words of a friend are also correct. It is indeed the most direct and fastest way I can get those things. However, everything that comes with it may not be happy.

I have always believed that only the things that I have worked hard on my own are the most secure and most practical.

I don't want to, when one day has to be divorced, my husband told me, thirteen, the car house is mine, you have not paid a little, so you don't think about what you get. Yes, such a scene is something I don't want to face, and I don't want it to happen. Therefore, I am more determined, even if I am in love, even if I am married, I have to be an economically independent woman.

2.

In the year when I was in my sophomore year, my family came to the news that my sister was suffering from depression. At that moment, my heart was broken.

She is still young, still a minor, and her mother has to send her to a mental hospital for treatment. Because she was treated for her illness, the family was so lonely that she could only borrow money to borrow money. Later, the mother said that she did not dare to borrow money, because it was all over the place.

At that time, I wished that I had a lot of money, so that my mother could not worry, and her sister could have better conditions. Now, my sister has already recovered from hospital discharge, but she has to eat more than 1,000 medicines every month. After all, parents are ordinary farmers, and every penny is hard-earned. Where come so much for my sister, but also for my living expenses.

Therefore, I have no reason not to study hard, and I don't work hard. I hope that one day, when I am sick or sick, I don't have to worry about money. I can get the best treatment. I hope my parents don't have to worry about it.

4.

When I was a child, my parents went out to work. My sister and I became left-behind children. I was forced to go to the town and my grandparents to live in the big house. At that time, my sister and I were in the town.

Once, my sister accidentally broke a leather sandal with a female classmate in the dormitory. The female student always shouted to lose money. That year, my sister’s living expenses were 20 weeks a week, and my sister lost 15 female classmates. Because my parents were not around, we didn’t dare to ask for more with my grandmother. So, my sister and I had dinner together that week, we two People eat a bowl of rice together and don’t dare to talk to relatives.

When my father came back to work, he came to see me and my sister. He gave us 5 yuan. On the weekend, my sister couldn’t help but take me to the canteen to buy sugar. When we went to the small department, my sister. Found that she lost the 5 yuan on her body, she cried very sadly.

She said, my sister is sorry, I didn't mean it. That year, she was 8 years old, I was 10 years old, we are still children.

Later, I realized that my father came back to work and was deceived. He gave me and my sister 5 yuan from the whole body. In that year, my parents did not earn money to work in other provinces. The mother was very swollen because of illness.

When my mother finally came back, I got the first class in the final exam. It was the first time. The children in the city thought that I was very good. My mother knew that my results were proud of me, but she was sick. That year, I went to my grandfather's house with my mother. We earned some living expenses by sticking matches. In the New Year, my sister and I didn't have new clothes. Later, my mother was very sick. My relatives saw that my sister and I were still young, and we pooled money to live in the hospital.

Mother, finally got back a life, and I grew up quickly, from a child to a sensible little girl. During that time, my sister and my relatives were both disliked, because my family was really poor and could not be poor. They were afraid that my sister and I would eat a bowl of rice. It turned out that when it was cold-eyed, how much it was. Sad things.

At that time, I wished that I would grow up quickly, so that we would not have to be sent to the fence, so we don't have to be careful.

5.

When I was a sophomore, I had a minor operation because my sister was sick. My grades plummeted. At the end of the final grade, more than 40 of the class were awarded, and there was no qualification for applying for a subsidy.

I remember that time, I called the class teacher to ask her to help me. My family was really difficult. However, no matter what I said, the class teacher only said one sentence, there is no way, your score is not qualified. At that time, I shed tears for my own inconsistency. But when I calm down, I know that crying is useless. It is useless to ask for help. What I can do is to calm down and learn the profession well.

That year, I have never been serious. Later, I took more than 10 exams at the end of the exam. I was finally eligible to apply for a subsidy. When I got the money to tell my mother, my mother said, you save it, this month. I will not call you a living fee. At that time, I knew that I had relieved my mother of a little burden.

Later, the manuscript I wrote often received some manuscript fees, and I was able to spend a lot of money on tutoring. At the same time, in the final exam of my junior year, my grades finally entered the fifth class of the class. When my mother knew it. I am very happy. No matter what I do, I feel that I am very confident. At that time, I realized that it was a sense of accomplishment to study hard. Working hard can make you proud and confident.

When I published the book, the school rewarded me with 800 yuan. At that time, I took the money, my heart was so steady, so satisfied, because the money was earned by my own efforts.

6.

As a girl, why should we work so hard?

Perhaps it is because I am poor from a small family, so when I grow up, I don't want to live like that again, and I don't want to be as tired as my parents.

Perhaps, because he is a girl himself, he doesn't want to be despised by others, he doesn't want to be said, "What do you want, marry a rich man?", don't want to be said, "What do girls do to read such a book?" Say, "Girls can teach at home, what can they do?" Don't want, too much.

Because only by working hard, you can live the life you want, and you can live proudly and live beautifully.

In order to not want to live, you can make a poem in front of you.

Everyone has a hard way to go. There is a lonely and lonely time. Everyone has a difficult day. Everyone will experience the pain of the storm. Everyone will grow up, but as a girl, The best growth is to learn to be strong and laugh at life.

I didn't feel ashamed because my family was poor. I didn't get frustrated because I can't afford expensive now, because I believe that I can have it as long as I work hard. I don't think I can't chase because my dreams are far away, because I know that no one can stop the heart I want to fight.

Only once in youth, I hope that you will live up to your own lives.