Inspirational story: different attitudes, different destinies

Inspirational story: different attitudes, different destinies

Two people from their respective rural areas are preparing to go out to work. One is going to Shanghai and the other is going to Beijing. However, when waiting for the bus in the waiting room, they changed their minds because they heard the neighbors talking about it: Shanghai people are smart, and foreigners ask for directions. The people of Beijing are simple and have met people who can't eat, not only for the hoe, but also for the old clothes.

So the person who wants to go to Shanghai thinks: It’s still good in Beijing. If you can’t earn money, you’ll be hungry. If you don’t have a car, you’ll have to fall into the fire pit.

And the person who intends to go to Beijing thinks: It’s still good in Shanghai, it can make money by leading people, what else can't make money? Fortunately, I have not got on the bus yet. Otherwise, I really lose the chance to get rich.

Later they met again at the refund. I originally went to Beijing to get a ticket from Shanghai, and I went to Shanghai to get a ticket from Beijing.

The person who went to Beijing found that Beijing was really good. When he first arrived in Beijing for a month, he did nothing, and he was not hungry. Not only can the space water in the bank hall be white, but the snacks that are welcome in the big shopping malls can also be eaten in white.

The person who went to Shanghai found that Shanghai is really a city that can make people rich. You can make money by doing anything. Leading the way can make money, you can make money by opening a toilet, and you can make money by washing your face with cool water. Just think of a way, you can make money with a little effort.

Based on the feelings and understanding of the rural people on the soil, the next day, he installed ten soils containing sand and leaves on the construction site, and sold them to the Shanghainese who did not see the soil and loved flowers in the name of “flower pot soil”. On the same day, he made six round trips in the suburbs and made a net profit of fifty yuan. A year later, with the "flower pot soil", he actually had a small facade in Shanghai.

In the perennial street, he has a new discovery: some shops are bright and the signboard is darker. It is only after the inquiries that the cleaning company is only responsible for washing the building and not responsible for washing the signboard. He immediately seized this empty space, bought a ladder, a bucket and a rag, and set up a small cleaning company that was responsible for scrubbing the signboard. Today, his company has more than 150 wage earners, and his business has grown from Shanghai to Hangzhou and Nanjing.

Not long ago, he took the train to Beijing to inspect the cleaning market. At the Beijing Railway Station, a smashing man put his head into the soft sleeper and asked him for an empty beer bottle. When he handed the bottle, both of them were stunned because they had changed their ticket five years ago.

Some people may think this story is ridiculous, but my heart feels sour. The same people from the countryside, just because of different life concepts, the gap between them is actually so big. One is to use local characteristics to earn reasonable money, thus completely changing their own destiny. And the other one? Obviously, he is a bit greedy and passive, and ignores the spirit of positive and enterprising. Of course, smashing is also a way to make a living, but the difference is too big.

From this I think of another story:

A heart-wrenching, upset person visits the Zen master. He asked the Zen master: I have been destined to do this in my life? Do you have a fate?

The Zen master said: Yes.

The Zen master asked him to extend his left hand to show him. He also said: Do you see clearly? This slash is called the career line. This horizontal line is called the love line. This vertical line is called the lifeline.

Then the Zen master let his left hand slowly hold it up, hold it tight, and ask him: You said these lines are there now?

The man said: In my hands.

The Zen master said: Yes, fate is in your hands, calm down, adjust your mood and mentality.

This time, the man suddenly realized that he had thanked the Zen master and went.

This is a good statement and it makes sense. The fate is in your hands, you can't work hard, can you blame your fate? We also calm down and reflect on the mentality of our work, the way we work, and the ability to work. Does it lead to some shortcomings in life?

The famous Japanese management master An Gangzheng has said such a few words: the mentality changes, the consciousness changes, the consciousness changes behavior, the behavior changes, the character changes, the character changes the fate, that is to say, the state of mind determines our destiny. These words are enough to cause everyone to ponder.

So I often say, say it again and again. The person with a bad attitude is the first to disturb his own calm work and life, not the success of others. What is "mentality"? In psychology, mentality refers to a relatively weak and persistent emotional state in the human heart. It has diffuse characteristics that often affect the entire state of mind of the person, so that all activities during this time are dyed with the same emotional color. The words "people are happy and happy" and "slow and unhappy" are the portrayal of different attitudes.

Mentality has important implications for people's learning, life, work, and health. A positive, optimistic and peaceful attitude can increase people's energy, thereby improving the efficiency and effectiveness of learning, enhancing confidence and hope, and being easy to be healthy. On the contrary, negative attitudes and pessimistic attitudes can make people feel depressed and deal with things. The ability will be greatly reduced. Does the previous fate about the two people from the countryside not explain this problem? Because the individual's mentality is not well regulated. Thereby reducing the efficiency and effectiveness of people's learning work, causing people to lose confidence and hope, often in a bad state of mind, and will also damage health. Therefore, controlling bad attitudes and developing a good attitude are important to everyone.

People's mentality often loses balance, and the key lies in self-adjustment. The adjustment of mentality is actually the rational "I" and the actual "I" dialogue and struggle. It is first of all a kind of self-examination and self-examination. It is a serious self-examination and a kind of ruthless self-analysis.

As the saying goes: Life is not as good as usual. We rarely feel that our life is smooth sailing. I also often say this sentence: I don’t like it. In real life, everyone has to face others, face the environment, face the society, change the life, work dissatisfaction, life disappointment, misunderstanding of others, etc. Forcing, it is inevitable that people will complain, sorrow, grievances, irritability, blame, and mentality fall into a trough, the will will be depressed, and the mind will remain in a narrow space. However, complaints and complaints must not eliminate the depression in their hearts. The only way to eliminate them is to continuously and effectively adjust themselves. They often communicate and communicate with others. They are good at balancing their own mentality and finding a suitable point. Get the space to survive and the timing of development.

Some people live comfortably, not by nothing or doing nothing, but by the peace of mind that the mind is peaceful. The peace of mind can make people rational, make people full, make people open-minded, and make people "enable and let go."

Although the causes of mentality are multifaceted, it is the ideals, beliefs, and outlooks of life that determine the human mindset. People have a lot of potential buried in the depths of emotions. This energy may be stimulated by ideals and beliefs, but it is mobilized by emotions. Although we can't change our lives, we can change our outlook on life. Although we can't change the environment, we can change our mindset. It's not the environment that determines everything, but the attitude toward the environment that determines everything. In the entrepreneurial business, proactiveness is a correct concept of life. This is not only a kind of attitude, but also a way of doing things. The destiny of a person cannot be completely arranged and set by himself, but the path of life is entirely on his own.

Everyone is eager for happiness, but there is only one way to happiness. Simply put, it is to change your mindset. Happiness and unhappiness are not determined by the amount of personal property, the status of the family, or the luxury of the profession, but rather whether he has a healthy mindset. A healthy and fulfilling mindset can lead us to the path of life, just like the sun.

What is success? It is a feeling, a state of mind. "I can do it" is the attitude of the winner, "I can't do it" is the attitude of the loser. People change their mindset, and they become passive. They are self-indulgent and self-disciplined. If I can't do it, I will succeed and eventually change my destiny.

Isn't there such a poem: "I don't want to look at my eyes and walk out of my own world." In the rushing life journey, stop, calm down, adjust your mindset, clear your mind, correct your direction, and then calm down, maybe you can get out of a brand new self.

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