Asking people is worse than asking for yourself

Someone visited the Shao Kang Festival of the Song Dynasty Masters and asked about the fate.

The visitor asked, is there any fate in the world?

"Of course!" the master said categorically.

"Since there is a fate, what is the use of the struggle?"

Shao Kang's laughter did not answer, grabbed the visitor's left hand, first said that there are life lines, career lines and other fortune-telling words, and then he let him raise his left hand and break into a fist.

After the fists tightened, Shao Kang asked: "Where are the fate lines?"

"In my hands."

When Shao Kang Festival once again asked this question, the visitor suddenly realized that fate is actually in his own hands.

However, as modern people, most of us prefer to believe in others, to ask others, and never to believe in ourselves, to seek ourselves because of the following reasons -

First, we are educated from a young age to rely on our parents, not ourselves. The concept of "depending on parents at home, relying on friends to go out" is deeply rooted.

Second, we live in an era of so-called experts. Experts tell us that they know everything, and we know nothing about it.

Third, we believe that what most people are doing is not wrong for themselves.

Fourth, we like to give great achievements to others to complete, go home and follow the life of TV commercials, and get a satisfying experience.

We are obsessed with the above illusions, never wake up, and never have time to think about such a question: parents, brothers, experts, and TV ads are really reliable?

Relying on my parents and brothers? No one is better than the sage of his father. However, his son Dan Zhu was exiled; on the sage of his elder brother, no one is comparable to Zhou Gong, but his two younger brothers and Cai are behead;

Relying on the boss, his subordinates and friends? On the wise of the boss, there is no more than Zhuge Liang, but Ma Wei has lost the street pavilion; on the cleverness of the ministry, no one is comparable to the soup and the king of Wu, but Xia Wei and Yu Wang are by them. Crusade and perish.

Not to mention the advertisements made by the merchants who are profit-seeking. Like the hawkers who sell tofu, they only use the assumption of “I want one or two pieces” to mislead us, instead of asking “Would you like tofu?” We really think that we want to eat tofu, or suspect that we really need to add tofu.

The so-called mouth is not as good as self-propelled, asking for help is not as good as asking for yourself. Whether it is parents or brothers, friends under the boss or television, they can help us, but we must not rely on them to decide the way of life!

But then comes the second question: Are you reliable?

To answer this question, we first quote a secret discovered by Western scientists in the experiment: although human energy only plays a small part in general, it is possible to reach the extreme when it is stimulated.

A young couple drove in a car, and after a detour, the car rolled into the ditch.

The wife climbed out of the car and found her husband's leg unfortunately under the car. She ran up the road to call for help, but there was no one around. The wife ran back to the car, and her husband's snoring under the car became weaker and weaker.

In a hurry, the wife leaned over and lifted the corner of the car and violently pulled out her husband.

The husband was saved, but the wife has been thinking for many days: Where can I get the big lift to lift the car?

This is the enormous energy that people have erupted in an emergency. When we use the wisdom of life, the potential of our potential will not be shocked, but the effect on our destiny will be more than pulling the car. The power is thousands of times greater.

There is such an old musician who was deported to the countryside in the "Cultural Revolution" for a full seven years of grass. When he returned, people were surprised to find that he was not as aging as people expected, humorous The language and creative thinking are still flowing.

In the face of people's surprises, he smiled and explained: How can I be old, how can I be embarrassed? When I scribble every day, I press the sickle by 4/4.

The musician is not famous, but he knows how to save himself by himself. Although he can't see the gray life of the future, the music has always echoed in his heart. He eventually saved his artistic life.