The struggle and transformation history of rural children born from inspirational stories

From the moment I was born, my identity is very different from you, because I can only report to the rural hukou, and you are an urban hukou----so I have to get your own life through your own struggle. The big city hukou and other material life, going to school is the only chance for me to jump out of the farm gate. However, I am unfortunate. I can’t afford to pay tuition, so I lost the opportunity to continue my studies. I can’t learn the nutrients of knowledge anymore. I can’t help but learn to work. Because I really can’t bear to take more parents. penny------

I found myself really soil falling, not painting, not play an instrument, do not know Hong Kong stars, not read novels, do not know the mp3, do not know what is walkman .. My English is scorpion English, dumb English, my pronunciation Chinese and foreigners can't understand -------- step out of school, facing the journey of leaving home, going to life, can be lucky to find in Shanghai The fresh graduates of the work only have a salary of about 2,000 yuan per month. I have to rent a house, pay the water, electricity, electricity, and coal. I have to send some money to my family to continue my study. The rest of the money is enough for me to eat rice. After two years of struggle, I finally got into this cosmopolitan city, and it is still very different from the white-collar workers around me. My white-collar friends, I am a migrant worker who came to Shanghai to work in high school without graduation. Will you still have coffee with me sitting at starbucks? No, certainly not. Comparing our growth process, you will find that I have to work hard for something that is within your hand.

That year I was 25 years old, and countless Zhaoxing Nightingales wanted to get out of the crowd. The forehead of the forehead was not obvious, but the foot did not dare to stop half a step. If you don't want to go home to farm, your children and grandchildren are infinite, you have to hurry to find a stable job. What about you? You are not in a hurry, World of Warcraft and Red Alert? You are tired of playing early! You are ambitious to plan the famous "starting business". At that time, Robin Li, Chen, Zhou Yunfan, cattle people have not turned out, Baidu, Google, Perfect World is far term, can be invincible arrogance of youth, you have to empty the project ------ constantly reinforced concrete jungle Climb upstairs to the top of the building to blow the hair, your eyebrows dance to me, to take care of your own voice, brother, how about making a fortune? Well, unfortunately, I can't. Entrepreneurship and you, can retreat can attack and defend chess, there are start-up capital to help raise Sangu six dependents, even playing with toys, parents' Sanshiyiting warm stove and never come to nothing. Failure to me means that it is difficult to cover the water. Every summer, in order to save three or five hundred dollars of machine money, my parents will carry the lumbar muscles to face the loess and harvest 5 acres of farmland under the scorching sun. I finished my first interview in a borrowed suit and went shopping with my borrowed watch. When you got the first investment letter, I calmly traveled through most of Shencheng to do the last sale. Yes, this is a low-tech, but I rented it before the first month’s salary was issued. The ground of the cone and the ration are all maintained by it.

Not long after, you are embarrassed about entrepreneurship, and you have your own company, but I stepped into your industry. I was so stupid that I was more than a former one, and I was working hard, and I believe that there will be a fairy tale after a few years. At the end, "and the princess live a happy life." It didn't last long, and I quickly understood. This scene of the comedy did not make me laugh, I can understand, every number is condensed with overtime and suffocating; the first ear is smeared, and the nest is built for one square meter and one square meter. The process of starting from scratch is a long and arduous process. For three years, I have not taken a long vacation and have never eaten a duck neck. When I heard the news that Huawei’s 25-year-old employee Hu Xinyu was overworked, she was not surprised at all. The phenomenon of youthful silver exchange is too common in this society. The only gratifying thing is that I am close to the ideal goal.

Suddenly, your good news falls from the sky and invites everyone to go to the new home warm room on weekends. I haven’t really stepped into a luxury house of more than 120 square meters. The bright red apple furniture, the 37-inch LCD TV and some luxury decorations are unquestionably in front of you. It is astronomy. I can only encourage myself, it doesn't matter, I take time to change space.

Honeymoon, you have been traveling, it has easily spent half a year's savings, back to say, meaning is not big, not as beautiful as the TVB TV, but I still dream, my wedding, hometown soil On the road, the folks were on a siege in the siege, worshipping the heavens and the earth in the low and dark old houses, and there was no air conditioning in the cold winter to sleep with the lover. Fortunately, after many years, the bleak picture turned into a radiant picture of his wife's blog. She recalled that there is a place of love, that is, heaven. We all want to give heaven to the girl we love, and the meaning of heaven is very different. Your wife became a full-time wife, using the electric stove to download "Youth" and "Happy Girls" every day; I also want to do this, but unfortunately, I don't think, my wife disagrees, you raise me, who raises my parents, I can't bear to let you raise 7 people alone.

When your girl is comfortable with the Clinique mask, my girl is stubbornly fighting in the sea. The speed at which two people make money will of course be much faster, but unfortunately they can only think about it. By 2007, I also spent a little money plus my parents' enough down payment. I didn't learn economics, but I still understand the principle. It doesn't matter, life vividly explains what is the asset bubble and the proliferation of liquidity. At this time, the so-called experts came out to speak, the house price will drop by 20%, no longer wait? I almost live in the empty camp of Wentang, the house always buys, when I earn enough money to buy, already It has risen again, so I slammed my teeth and tightened myself: I quickly bought it and the house price will rise. The message of buying a house passed to my hometown, and my aunt and aunt also gave me some maturity. One year later, the younger brother was pleased to say that your house has appreciated. A few days ago, I saw a message on the Internet. I was quite impressed: "I haven’t bought a house for five years, and it’s really a time to live. In 2003, when the property market was in a downturn and a depression, waiting until today, it’s not just the gold property market. It is the whole life.''

I am grateful to my family for knowing what is consumption and investment when I don’t know how to manage my finances. Not everyone has a forward-looking vision and investment philosophy. Many of them came from small places like me. They only knew that the hard-working brothers were too concerned about the rice fields under their feet, so that they missed a starry sky. My theory is that making money is for spending, only in circulation can add value, buy favorite goods, and make life happy. And my peasant brothers----specifically the brothers who stayed in the big cities after they graduated from the farm, used to hold the renminbi tightly in their hands. The growth of passbook figures has made them obsessed. When they buy a house, they are renting a house; when they repay the loan, they would rather endure the 7% loan interest rate and have to keep it for five years. The hard-earned money has shrunk in waiting. They often take the last stick at the peak of the house price; they have made a fortune and made enough money to go home to buy a house. I can wait until that day really comes, the prices of my hometown, second-tier, third-tier cities and even towns and villages have been mad. This is the biggest difference between me and you. The deep-rooted differences and the insurmountable gap are also here. I used to think that only hard work, salary, company reputation, our life is the same. In fact, the difference is not reflected in the obvious symbols, but in the inheritance of generations, embodied in the blood, reflected in the brain. Years of accumulation, family background, lifestyle, and property concepts have created such a person, and created such a me, which has created your arrogance and my conservative weight.

When I was paying off the loan, you had already bought a second suite with a SSE of 6,000. When I finally tried to become a stockholder, you cleared the market and switched to the gold market. I mentioned that I would send 1,000 yuan back every month. Taking on the responsibility of supporting parents, you smiled and said that it is not bad to be old-aged when you are old-aged; when I think about the extent to which the cost of getting married, having children and raising children will detract from the quality of life, the four old people have already paid for it. contribute to help you take care of the second generation, the Golden week trip to Jiuzhaigou very good, and you are not satisfied, you say Germany is too cautious US is too casual French fashion capital you aspire ------ my story, it should be a generation 'immigrants' true portrayal ---- forced to leave their homes and vast motherland, I was like, like migratory birds removed, greener pastures. Modern living system, destined to the big city has a richer educational resources, medical resources, convenient living. Even if you get a paper account, the process of integration is still full of suffering, and the struggle of 5 years, 10 years and even longer will get everything that the indigenous people have at their fingertips. Once indignant and pursued, nowadays, I learned to stop complaining and calm down in one gap after another. The gap does exist, but it is not regrettable. It is the gap and the effort to make up for the gap. Strengthen the tension of life and make it more hierarchical and more diverse.

The imaginable future is that one day our descendants will meet in Dinis and tell the story of the father. My one, though not necessarily more refined and more colorful, is undoubtedly much more interesting. That story, about independence, courage, the Jedi rebound, returning to life, I can not afford the luxury of the future generations, but can give him a growing heart. I want to tell him that no matter how poor or rich, millions of family members or displaced, they must be equally open-minded. At this point, the elegance of life attitude does not depend on your location, the utensils you hold, and the tea you pay. It depends on your attitude.