The topic of chatting with girls 2019

1, the way of chatting, do not use direct question and answer. If so, chat is sometimes difficult to continue, and the atmosphere of chatting is also very dull.

2, chat is not a person to say a word, you say, do not wait for her to say. Be active

3, say more praise, girls like to listen to this.

4. If the other party suddenly silences, it may not know how to say it, or is not interested in what is said. Don't ask, try to change a topic and break the embarrassment of the situation.

5, the angle of chat, to care from, love the other party.

6, chat more about some trivial things in life. It is best to express it in a humorous form.

7, chat when it comes to emotional issues, do not ask, especially questioning. It can be said that feeling together is a good time together, and chatting with you feels very kind... telling a certain state, she brought it to you, and compiled it myself.

8, chat, be good at using humor. If you can manage humor very successfully, it is easy to get the other person's favor.

9, chat should be appropriate. The time for a chat is not too long, and the feelings are slowly cultivated, mainly because the atmosphere of chatting is very harmonious.

10. Chat, try to focus on the topics that girls are interested in, but at the same time you have to take the initiative.

11, to make more of your own words. It is necessary to have a lot of books, increase the knowledge, and learn to use Lenovo. For example, when it comes to oranges, you must think about the difference between oranges and oranges, the origin, the benefits and disadvantages of eating oranges, why are some acids, the role of yellow fruits, other fruits...

12, chat, to make the other party like yourself, we must fully show the side of their man. Personality, responsibility, humor, thoughtfulness...

14. When chatting to answer questions, you can not use the regular answer method.

15. Humor is very important, but be appropriate, don't use some cold humor.

16. Chatting with girls is very simple and good for them.

17, chat, try not to use, en, 喔 ... and the like

18, every time you say a word, a little longer, indicating that you are careful, not coping...

19, chat to learn to lead the topic, do not block the topic.

20, do not know how to say, you should know how to do it.

A few tips for answering girl questions:

Don't tell the truth, don't tell lies.

For example, the girl asked: "Do you often meet girls on the street like this?"

Tell the truth: "Yes."

Telling lies: "Never."

Not really false: "I have been there, but this time I feel the most."

For example, in the night bar, the girl asks you: "Do you come often?"

Truth: "Yes."

False words: "No, I am coming for the first time."

It’s not true: “Don’t come often, only once a day.”

Identify false questions and bypass unanswered questions.

Not all questions require an answer. Sometimes it is just that she is curious to ask questions, not really want to know.

For example, the girl asks you: "Do you like children?"

The easiest way to handle it is to pretend not to hear it.

Exaggerate the mistakes.

When the girl points out your shortcomings, don't justify it, don't lie, don't deny it. Admit it and exaggerate it.

For example, the girl asked: "Do you often meet girls like this?"

You replied: "Yeah, you are the 100th I am talking about today."

First acknowledge, then deny.

Contrary to the exaggerated recognition above. Pretend to admit the girl’s accusation, and then lead to new explanations, let the girl find herself stupid.

The girl asked: "Are you kidding?"

You replied: "Yeah, I am soaking a lot of girls... I am soaking in the swimming pool, there are so many girls here."

The girl asked: "Do you want to chase me?"

You replied: "I am a sprinter who is planning to participate in the Olympics recently. I am missing a sparring."

Broken box method.

The other party asks a question, there is a subtext, and the other party's subtext can be reinterpreted by means of misinterpretation.

In fact, it is not a new skill. The Chinese have used it for thousands of years. In the story of the "Spring and Autumn" scorpion, Zhao Guo let the scorpion drill the dog hole into the city, and the scorpion said: "Well, it is better to go to the dog country to drill the dog hole."

A foreign example: When a foreign diplomat visited Lincoln, he stumbled upon him wearing his shoes: "Mr. President, do you wipe your own shoes?" Lincoln said: "Yes, what? Who do you wipe yourself?" Leather shoes?"

Another example from Lincoln: Lincoln looks ugly. A debate between Lincoln and Douglas, Douglas said he is a two-faced faction. Lincoln replied: "Now, please listen to the audience. If I have another face, do you think I will wear this face?!"

To give a few more examples, the girl you talked to said: "I have a boyfriend."

You said, "Your thoughts are too strange. I just want to know you. If you don't know you, you will think of male and female friends."

Ask questions.

The counter-question method is a common method of jumping out of the opponent's trap. When the US presidential election, the politicians love to play this old trick.

The other party designs a frame, you don't jump in, and in turn throw a new frame for her. Some questions give you two options, but they don't give you a choice. Which one you choose is a trap.

Just like the marketing method of the second choice: "Do you want a tea egg or two?"

The question asked by the girl: "If I and your mom fall into the water, which one do you save first?" You can ask: "If I and your dad fall into the water, which one do you save first?"

Replace "I..." with "you..."

Anything that makes you feel embarrassed is because you are trying to answer with "I...". If you jump out of the circle and turn "my problem" into "your problem," you will not feel embarrassed and difficult to answer.

"I" is pointing to myself and is defensive. Answering questions with "I..." is an excuse, it seems weak, and it is darker.