What hurts you, what?

Anyone who becomes a friend and puts aside some kind of interest relationship is mostly because they share the same interests and hobbies. I have no entanglement with W, and there are many similarities in my interest. For example, we don't smoke, don't sin, we all like to be quiet, we all love to drink, and even more so, we all love to be drunk.

To be frank, if you are not working in the same company, I guarantee that we have lost contact. Because he never takes the initiative, even if he is kind enough to ask him, he will always refuse for a reason without reason: not to go!

If you don't go, you don't go, and you don't have any explanation. How do you understand how you understand it? Resist him once, endure him twice, this time, do you still have to endure? Not asking for anything! So, the friends around him are reluctant to retreat. I believe that this can't blame others. He does make many people unbearable, but I can bear him. L can also bear him. He resists him not because he doesn't see his shortcomings, but because he finds that he has more value in human nature. On the one hand, this side is much more prominent than his shortcomings.

He doesn't like to talk, and he doesn't say hello. He doesn't say a word in a day. He often has a sore mouth. I remember a colleague who laughed at him: You just talk too little! The air in your mouth is not circulating. He had a habit when drinking, as long as others clash with him, he did it right away, and he bowed his head and never thought about whether the wine in the other people’s cup was finished. Most of them live alone. When they get home from work, they first turn on the TV, turn up the TV, and then start to concentrate on the Internet. Ask him who to open the TV. He said that he wants to add popularity! In fact, there are not many people in this world. Willing to be alone.

At the beginning of L's business, he took all his savings without any worries. He was not betting on him to win. He told L by action: You are bold to do it, I support you. L financing needs, he mortgages his property together. It is not easy to have a good house in Guangzhou. This is his hard work for many years, but he does not seem to think of it. In fact, he and L are not common, and there is not much to say when they meet, just because L is his good friend, good brother. A good brother has something to do, and he has no hesitation. Sometimes I rush to open his mouth, it is more refreshing than asking him to eat, as long as he has, never hesitate. In fact, he is not richer than me and L, but he does not have any investment ideas, and income will only accumulate. In this regard, it makes me and L take advantage of it, and therefore, we have to "accept" him everywhere.

We have another reason to accommodate him: his situation is not very good, it can even be said to be very bad. He was divorced and was not perfect until now. His father was half-baked. His brother had a long period of chemotherapy in the late stage of oral cancer, and he basically gave up. He is in a bad mood, some emotions, some autism, and I can understand it. If these happen to other people, maybe it will be sad all day long, but he does not mention anything, and what suffering is swallowed by one person.

On the first rest day after work, I asked him to go to the club to play with the ball. In the evening, we had three to eat together. We used to drink a few cups every time we eat. This time, he drank too much, or because of our The topic touched the line of defense of his feelings and made him cry.

He told us that the only pillar of the family now - his mother, is also oral cancer! The doctor said that the disease is inherited, and his own "oral ulcer" is no less than his mother and brother. The family asked him to check. He refused to go and said that he didn't want to know the result! When it came to this, the wine table was quiet, and everyone had not heard for a long time. I and L both shed tears.

He really wants to go home with them, and he is responsible for being a younger brother. But he must be supported by the economy. He has to work hard, save money, and use his salary to win more time for his loved ones. .

In fact, he and his mother, he knew very early, even in front of his best friend, he is not willing to mention too much, he does not want to put a painful or pitiful look in front of others, I don't want others to share his pain and grief. Some people who don't know will say that he is autistic and indifferent! If there are so many troubles on the body, how many people can be as strong as him!

On the way back, my tears flowed out again! As his good friend, good brother, what can we do for him? Or can't do anything. He used a cruel fact to set a scale for us to measure happiness. Let us understand in a moment, even if we have such a disappointment, compared with him, we are so painful, what is it! We are not yet Is this contented, grateful life?