Don't live a discounted life

When I was working in a foreign company, one day I accompanied my female boss to the street to buy Christmas presents. When we sat down with a big bag and drank coffee, the female boss asked me: "The New Year is coming, don't buy some gifts for the family?"

I smiled and said: "My parents are very saving. Only if they don't spend money, they will think that I will live, and I will have a happy life in the future."

The female boss looked at me and told her own story: "Do you know? I used to be a person who likes to worry about the future. I am always worried about my career. I always want to buy more books, read more books, and get more. A high degree. When I was 36, I was pregnant with a child, but I was admitted to a Ph.D. in economics. I was very nervous. In order to be better, I studied hard all night. As a result, my child was aborted. I never had a baby. I have children. Now I have a lot of money, but I can't see my children all my life."

The words of the female boss made me very shocked. She added: "Many people think that saving can make their lives more insured. Therefore, they have made the current life too cheap and cheap. In fact, this is a performance that is not confident in life. I will not advocate spending waste, but you You must know that healthy enjoyment is the progress of life. When you omit the enjoyment of life in the future, your life will be 10% off; if you sacrifice your freedom and affection, your life will be 30% off. If you give up your will and love, then your life will be folded in half, and the rich life will not stand the discount."

In fact, even if money is so, time and energy are the same. When you are all invested in work and not assigned to family and love, you are not far from losing.

Don't live a discounted life. When you find out that you have it, you are beginning to mature:

First, when you find that you are no longer blindly mingling with a group of people, start to respect your own wishes and do what you need to do, start to arrange your own plans, plan your own direction, and your own solitude will become Full of meaning.

Second, when you face a lot of choices, no longer hesitate, the brain will quickly flash more than three necessary reasons to choose an option. With my own independent thoughts, I began to learn the town's theorem to think about problems.

Third, when you start to feel that time is obviously not enough, you gradually feel that sleeping late, shopping, etc. is a waste of time and money, and the concept of time in action and action is consistent, reasonably arranged time, full life, will put yourself Bring into a more like world.

4. When you are on the Internet or reading, you will shift your focus from a blind focus on entertainment to a news and state, economic development trend. Entertainment talks are always used to laugh, and news and state affairs are to improve personal cognition, care about national development and patriotic performance, open mind, open country, mutual exchange, and common progress.

5. When you are paying more and more attention to the quality of food and the idea of ​​keeping you in your eating habits, learn to insist on eating breakfast and keep exercising every day. As the saying goes, stay in the green hills, not afraid of no firewood. No one knows this truth.

6. When you are asked again about the weight of love, friendship, and affection, the first thing that comes to mind is the mother at home. The blood is thicker than water is the truth that has never changed.

Seven, when you encounter something that doesn't go well, you no longer use crying to solve the problem. The tears can always be washed out. The only thing that can change the status quo is action.

8. Pay attention to your friends and loved ones. Because these people are not always in your life, maybe inadvertently things are wrong. You don't have to be fake in front of them, and the innocent self is for them in this big world. Don't forget the sincerity.

Nine, let yourself be happy, let the people around you be happy, definitely worth more than money.

Ten, in the face of the problems of gains and losses, going and staying, generosity and openness will make complicated things simple, simple things become meaningful.

XI. Don't care about the elderly and children at any time. The beginning of life is ignorant. The end of life should be happy.

Twelve, learn to respect each creature, everybody, just like sunflowers like to face the sun will smile.

Thirteen, a sound peace of mind, is always a bargaining chip through the road to success. Properly set the goal of progress, let the goal of life not be spent in a heavy atmosphere, remember, don't make yourself too tired at any time, the value of life is completely lost.

Fourteen, live confidently, smile happily, success and happiness go hand in hand. Not pleased, not to have compassion.

Fifteen, forget the hatred, spring blossoms. How big is the heart and how big the stage is.