The five hoes have been very hot recently, and you haven’t heard of it before you are out!

[The first girl]

A. A hungry man ran to a farmer's house. The farmer gave him a steamed bun, a bowl of water, and the hungry was saved. The saved man went to the farmer's house and found that there was nothing in the farmer's house. I was moved by tears and I couldn’t stand it. Since then, he is grateful and brings love to the people he needs to help.

B. A hungry man ran to a farmer's house. The farmer gave him a steamed bun, a bowl of water, and the hungry was saved. The saved man went to the farmer's house and found that the farmer's house was full of delicious food. Gratefulness was quickly replaced by anger. He lifted the knife and killed the farmer because he found that there were so many farmers who didn't give it to him.

Thinking 1: The same behavior will have the opposite result - grateful to see what you get, and hate when you see what you don't get.

Thinking 2: It is the farmer's dedication and water that saves people's lives, and has nothing to do with the farmer's own possession. But the reality of education pays more attention to the generosity of the farmer without any circumstances, which means higher. This does not change the standards and expectations of people's minds. In fact, love exists in every aspect of life, and it is usually not normal. Everyone can offer love instead of expecting a person like A farmer to appear. Everyone is his own savior. Everyone can help people around them as much as they can.

Thinking 3: Gratefulness or hatred is often determined by some details rather than by nature. In essence, in both cases A and B, the results should be grateful. But only normal and rational people can maintain the same gratitude in both situations.

Thinking 4: Is there another mentality beyond gratitude and hatred?

[Second gimmick]

A. A hungry man ran to a farmer's house. The farmer gave him a steamed bun, a bowl of water, and the hungry was saved. But later, people found that the rescued person was a wanted official. As a result, many people hate the farmer and think that he is helping others.

B. A hungry man ran to a farmer's house. The farmer gave him a steamed bun, a bowl of water, and the hungry was saved. But later, people found that the rescued person was a good person who had helped many times. As a result, many people praised the farmers for doing a great job.

Thinking 1: When saving people, it is difficult to save people according to their status. Everyone will decide who to save according to their own standards. They should not save anyone. Therefore, many people are less than one thing, and no one can be saved.

Thinking 2: If people can respect the farmer in both cases, love may grow stronger. On the contrary, under the influence of snobbery, wariness, etc., love will be lost.

[The third girl]

A. A hungry man ran to a farmer's house. The farmer, pointing to the other farmer's house, said, "Look, that is the person who gave alms and water to save people. Go and ask him." The hungry went to the farmer's door and the farmer opened the door. Sorry to say: "I have not eaten." So the people in the village hated the farmer, and no one accused the farmer who never helped.

B. A hungry man ran to a farmer's house. The farmer, pointing to the other farmer's house, said, "Look, that is the person who gave alms and water to save people. Go and ask him." The hungry went to the farmer's door and the farmer opened the door. "I only have half a hoe." So the people in the village despised the farmer, and no one accused the farmer who never helped.

Thinking 1: For those who are caring, people's standards will rise involuntarily.

Thinking 2: For selfish people, people are not disappointed to minimize expectations.

Thinking 3: Super-morality is a powerful force to expel love until all people close their homes in the face of the hungry.

[The fourth girl]

A. A hungry man ran to a farmer's house. The farmer gave him a steamed bun, a bowl of water, and the hungry was saved. The saved man went to the farmer's house and found that there was nothing in the farmer's house. I was moved by tears and I couldn’t stand it. Since then, he is grateful and brings love to the people he needs to help. At the same time, he did not ask for good or evil for any behavior of the farmer, and he fully supported it. The farmer lost his mirror and thought that everything was right. Later, he went bankrupt because of a big mistake.

B. A hungry man ran to a farmer's house. The farmer gave him a steamed bun, a bowl of water, and the hungry was saved. The saved man went to the farmer's house and found that there was nothing in the farmer's house. I was moved by tears and I couldn’t stand it. Since then, he is grateful and brings love to the people he needs to help. However, for the behavior of the farmer, supporting his goodness, bluntly speaking, the farmer worked hard and constantly improved, gradually prospered and widely loved.

Thinking 1: Different ways of gratitude can lead to different outcomes.

Thinking 2: When normal thinking is to be maintained, bluntness and criticism are often better ways.

Thinking 3: Actually, after eating hoes and drinking bowls of water, turning around and leaving is also a kind of gratitude. Many times, people who help people just do it with a peace of mind and gratitude, and do not deliberately want to be praised or rewarded.

[The fifth girl]

A. A hungry man ran to a farmer's house. The farmer gave him a steamed bun, a bowl of water, and the hungry was saved. Everyone in the village praised him when he saw the farmer and did a good thing. Later, even if he encountered something that he could not reach, the farmer took the initiative to help.

B. A hungry man ran to a farmer's house. The farmer gave him a steamed bun, a bowl of water, and the hungry was saved. Some people suspect that the farmer is making a show, and even suspect that this hungry person is the farmer himself looking for someone to play. Therefore, when the farmer meets the help-seeker, he will hide far away, and I am afraid that it will be destroyed again.

Thinking 1: Praise or slander, often affects the behavior of some people, the behavior of those who are not mature enough.

Thinking 2: If you pray for a consistent evaluation of a certain behavior, you will only let yourself go into flames.

Thinking 3: Those who escape from smashing can only be cowards.

Thinking 4: The farmer should quickly forget the hoe and the bowl of water, and forget what people say, calmly do their own thing and be a happy farmer.