Become a brocade before you can add flowers

Butterfly changes often take time to exchange.

I met her many years ago. At that time, I was just out of the woods. At first, there were college girls who came here, including one of her.

The first side I was taken aback, thinking about it, the most objective evaluation is still a word: ugly. Farm girl, short, flat face, nose, yellow skin, the most shocking is a rotten tooth, a smile is like a grin. Her eyes are sincere, but I am a little overwhelmed: what advice can I give her? In particular, she is a junior college student.

It sounds like a life lost on the starting line: the birth is cold, struggling out of the chicken nest but far from the branches. What can she do in her future, clerk? Especially, love and love, often have to look at the bottom, she has more advantages, it will be blocked by her rustic and even ugly face. Does the girl do a good job or marry well? It seems that she has no share.

Later, I didn’t see each other again. I only had intermittent contact: she was promoted to school; after two years, she stayed as a counselor; went to the lecture, she only knew the news afterwards, saying that she was studying at the university, but unfortunately did not come. participate……

Not long ago, I accidentally met her at an event - she screamed my name enthusiastically, I didn't recognize her first, she gave her name, I was shocked: "Just as two people" can't Describe her, it is almost a difference between heaven and man. Petite, the body is kept very good, a Chanel little black dress is exquisitely dressed, eight centimeters of high heels retreat freely. The hair is exquisite, the makeup is decent, the look is fine, the facial features are still ordinary, and the skin is still yellow - but this has anything to do with white sputum. She was a lot more lively and often laughed loudly, but her teeth were pleasing to the eye. She smiled and said: "I have worn a braces a few years ago."

Ask her about her current situation: she has already graduated from a doctoral degree, and now she teaches professional courses at the university. Marriage is a bit embarrassing. After thirty-five years old, she married a school teacher who was one year old. She gave birth to her son last year. I asked directly, she replied generously. Talking about the child, she said humorously: "The principle of my education is that people must read more when they are ugly." He smiled and looked up, without any haze.

She used to be so calm about her appearance? I can't remember it.

Don't talk, saying that this is just an inspirational story. What I see is not a story. It is a living person who is close by, a perfect example. Let me see how people can change their destiny by their efforts. She used to have nothing, no background, no education, no value, only an upward heart, no feet that have stopped. I know that she loved it, but this love was disgusted. The frustration felt like a sand, and she said nothing. She kept going and chose the most clumsy and effective way: learning.

What a difficult road, endure loneliness, fatigue, some of my peers marry a wife, husband and wife, some in the workplace to enjoy, some eat, drink, and enjoy youth, but they only have a book and a lamp. What will happen when I read it out? Is there a future? Is she stunned? Did she give up? I think she can be sure that she can’t read it, and most of them have no future. One heart and one mouthful is the only way to success.

Some people despise her: but it is a female phoenix. There is a clear discrimination in it, but it can also be regarded as awkward. The doctor and the associate professor are at hand, and there are husbands and wives who have been able to settle down.

So she became beautiful.

I often hear young girls say: Reading is useless, this is a society that looks at the face. There are people who don't think about my concept: how about improving yourself? It's not the same thing that people have to pick and choose. The skin is also poor, and the age is big. What are the advantages?

Maybe they are right, but a man I know says: Only young boys don’t care, just pick beautiful girls; men are 30 years old, they are very realistic, they are willing to find a good home, work well, Strong ability - if you are still beautiful, it is better.

Unless born with beauty, it is born to become a work of art. Otherwise, most of the things or people in this world are actually practical--beautiful, just a icing on the cake. So, you have to be a brocade first.