"Hate hate" motivated me to succeed

In the process of growing up, I especially remember an indifferent look. It was shortly after I became famous. I once attended an international film festival and met a very important actress in the background. I went up and shook hands with her very politely and said, "Hello, I am Chen Kun, I am very glad to meet you." After the actress finished this sentence, she slowly turned and gave me a look at it. Coldly "snapped" for a moment. I still remember her "squeaky" sound, how cold it is. I smiled and left without talking. I did not change my face and walked forward. What we saw was still a calm and calm Chen Kun. In fact, hatred, anger, and desire to prove that my cravings have been tumbling in my heart several times.

At that moment, I swear in my heart: Waiting!

I have a bad problem called "remembering hate", which made me remember for many years. The unforgettable hatred and anger have been lingering in my heart, turning into a kind of motivation, urging me to continue to be strong and become today's Chen Kun.

So, in a sense, hate is a double-edged sword, it can both hurt you and become the driving force for your growth.

A few years later, when I was affirmed in the industry by serious acting and became an actor with certain professional qualities, one day I suddenly found out that I understood the actress. Her contemptuous eyes are actually the contempt and disapproval of a kind of actor who is popular but not powerful. Looking back at me at the time, there is really no acting, but the popularity is suddenly very strong, a bit fluttering. Perhaps in the actress's heart, I am an empty shelf that is famous for my face, a so-called idol.

Since then, I have learned that if an actor wants to be respected in the industry, he must rely on character, strength, and popularity.

Today, I sometimes meet the actress in public, and the feeling of hatefulness is completely gone. Even I am deeply grateful to her for a scornful glimpse of me. Although she did not intend to help me that year, the indifference of the unintentional sensation inspired me to go today.

As of today, if there is a star who is not strong but very popular, in front of me, "I will not give face." If the other party is frustrated and frustrated, it will be a good thing to turn my indifference into the driving force for his growth.

Therefore, sometimes, smile and encouragement are not necessarily good things. Indifference or suppression is not necessarily a bad thing. Just look at the attitude of the opposite person to face and bear it all.