The girl who controls life, never live in PS

1. I met a cute girl at a salon event this year. In her early 20s, she was sweet. After the event, she added my WeChat, and her older sister shouted shortly. A few months later, she asked me to help her introduce her work. I realized that she is now a clerk. The company she is in is indeed a sunset industry. She has not developed a small scale. She has been half-dead in the past two years.

I asked her: Can Word, Excel, and PowerPoint be used skillfully? She said: will. I sent her a business document and asked her to make it a PPT. Three days later, she stared at me on the Internet: my sister, I am not doing very well, you look first? After I opened it, I was shaken and couldn't open my eyes. I almost squirted old blood on the screen. I gave her a port introduction. She was equipped with a fancy cartoon background and made special effects. The colorful balloons flew in and out, the port map was pulled and changed, and there were five or six obvious typos.

I can hardly believe that this is a PPT completed by a person who has been a clerk for three years. I refused the request to help her find a job, and reminded her to study, accumulate, and at least master a good skill. After a while, I saw her friend circle. The graphic meaning is: "Tomorrow officially went to a foreign company to do the administrative front, a new beginning, cheer for yourself." And behind her in the photo, is the melon skin and A messy quilt.

After about half a year, she was eliminated by foreign companies because of the lack of progress in English. Once again, come to me with distress, let me give her a career plan. Frankly, I don't hate this girl. The long beauty is not wrong, but she is too slick. When we are young, who are we not greedy? So I sat at Starbucks with her and told her a little story.

2. Xiao Xu is the girl I met when I first joined the work. We are of the same age. Her company is an important customer of our company. She will come to the company at a fixed time every week to find the relevant documents for my business. At that time, we were all ordinary small staff members in their early 20s. When they contacted more, they naturally became familiar with each other.

Xiao Xu is very short and fat, and his legs are shorter. The Qiluhai of the soil, the Mandarin pronunciation is with a strong accent in the west of Shandong, and the faces are dotted with freckles. At that time, we were single and single, and we had nothing to do after work. Young male and female colleagues often gathered together to eat. Because the company is not allowed to fall in love, everyone exchanges resources and is keen to introduce their classmates, friends and customers to each other, and promote a pair of calculations. a pair. Whenever I mentioned Xiao Xu, the boys waved their hands and shoved each other: I don’t want to leave it to you, you go chasing!

Born in the countryside, looks ordinary, no name, little people, there are no seven big aunts to give Zhang Luo, Xiao Xu has been single for a few years, because she is unconcerned, she is working most of the time. Colleagues have something to help her change the class. She suddenly took the initiative to work overtime. She was on the top of the emergency business. The size of their company is very small. She almost bears most of the chores, send documents, check accounts, run customs, and go to commodity inspection. After a long time, everyone praised her for her dedication, and she also ridiculed her body: "The little short legs are running very paralyzed."

Later, I learned that Xiao Xu graduated from a secondary school and had a difficult economic situation at home. She was cherished for this job. Because of her low academic qualifications and her lack of skills, she saved money and reported money to the Korean language training class. It was three years. After one year, I adjusted my work and left the business department. I have always heard about the news of Xiao Xu’s promotion. From the unnamed juniors who run errands to the group leader, to the business executive. Thanks to the persistence of many years, Xiao Xu’s Korean language has reached a professional level, not only can communicate freely, but also has the opportunity to go to Korea for many times.

The language advantage combined with her practical business experience, four years later, her Korean boss gave the management of the Chinese company to her. Although the entire team is less than ten people, she is well-organized and well-organized.

In 3.2019, my work moved away from the original city, and Xiao Xu completely broke contact. In the economic crisis that year, the industry was full of enthusiasm. Small companies have died due to the break of the capital chain, and large companies have been laid off due to overwhelming burdens. We also relied on a series of reforms to survive the two-year market downturn. Last year I returned to the business and added many partners and customers to WeChat.

One day in a customer's circle of friends, I found a little reborn. In the photo, she and several Korean guests are visiting the bonded warehouse. She is no longer a soil-fertilizer, and she has faded the rustic, slim, delicate makeup, Korean wavy hair, and gray professional suit. The figure is still short and the gas field is obviously strong. If it weren’t for the deep class feelings of the same yellow hair, I could hardly recognize her.

Can't help but screen the screen and ask the customer: Who is this beauty? Customer response: ** Xu of the company.

This Xu is really the girl who was ridiculed by us in the past. In the year of the economic crisis, the Korean company where she was located collapsed and the boss ran. She took a team of several people to set up her own company. After smashing the boat and dying for a lifetime, he took the only set of small houses he had taken as a mortgage, and then it was difficult to owe the accounts of the partners. By the hard work and good reputation, I have passed the hardest two years. Nowadays, her company has grown up and has set its headquarters in Shanghai, becoming a small but well-known private company in the industry.

4. After finishing this, I said to Mengmei: Do you know that I have set up a circle of friends that don't look at you?

She flashed the thick Korean eyelashes that she had just planted: Ah, is it because I am purchasing? I just want to make a part-time job to earn some money. Yes, there is nothing wrong with this. But your purchase is to sell masks today, make makeup tomorrow, the day after tomorrow is the essential oil underwear, the day after tomorrow is the Australian health care products, you know yourself and know. Your circle of friends, in addition to "collection can be free to shoot photo", is "forwarding friends circle can experience the latest Korean-style ion hot", plus the same monotonous enlargement of the eyes, whitened skin, lengthened beauty selfie:

Today, the sun is so good, I have a beautiful hair style, look good? I found a super delicious fried chicken. Come see this baby is not happy today, ask for comfort...

If you have graduated from college for three years, you have not read a book completely. If you spend two or three hours a day visiting a treasure, the most frequent update is the clothes cell phone boyfriend. Then it is useless for you to find someone to do career planning for you. I finished this in one breath, she bowed her coffee and stopped talking.

5. Actually, I am not talking about myself. When I was in my twenties, I didn't have a Mito show, only photoshop. I use my self-study lame technique to process my photos, smooth out acne, hide dark circles, and trim the face. When all kinds of software are turned out, the beauty mode of the front camera automatically gives you a white and flawless skin. The button of “One Button Beauty” instantly replenishes the lost collagen for more than ten years.

But I have already passed the age of playing. I know the real vest line, behind it is sweating, the real firming of the porcelain muscles, are inseparable from the conditioning and maintenance of both internal and external repairs, and those who can control life, never live in the life blueprint of PS.

In the high-tech of beauty, we mirror the flowers before and after, and the flowers face each other. Seeing that you are beautiful. After intoxicating, the real mirror of life will instantly bring us back to the original shape. The shallowness of knowledge, the shortage of ability, the narrowness of the pattern, the stereotype of thinking, and the limitations of vision, are unobstructed. It is more horrible than the acne on the face, the fat on the waist, and the short calf.

Friends circle can tolerate photos of P, but life will not tolerate your long-term self-deception. You know that "mainly look at temperament", you should understand that only learning can make you "have a poem and a book of self-satisfaction." Mengmeizi looked at her head thoughtfully. I don't know if she really understands. In fact, I want to tell the young girls like her, in their twenties, it is really the best time to add value to themselves. If you know how to grasp, you don't have to be like me. During pregnancy, you will endure the pregnancy test and pass the qualification certificate. After a certain age, you decide to learn English from the beginning.

My schoolmaster, Mi Qi, said: Learning this road, the pain of eating is a total number, do not eat in front, you have to make up later. The last thing we have lived is a life that matches our abilities. This matter, what PS can't help you.

Author: Li Ailing