Tolerate humiliation, to achieve great things

There is too much disappointment in the long road of life. Step back is a broad sky. As long as you don’t forget your ultimate mission, you are still you. To be able to withstand the ridicule of others, this is a kind of elegance, but also a sign of tolerance.

The master of the Guardian Zen Master is the owner of the Chaling Yushan. One day riding the rafters across the bridge, the feet of the scorpion fell into the crack of the bridge. The Zen master fell down and suddenly realized the poem: I have a god, a long time. Was shackled by giant labor. At present, the dust is full of light, and I see the mountains and rivers.

The guards liked this poem very much and kept it back. One day, he went to visit the Zen Master.

Fang will ask him: When your master crosses the bridge, he falls down and suddenly realizes enlightenment. I heard that he made a poem very wonderful. Do you remember?

The guards did not hesitate to think about it and recite it completely. When he finished his back, he would laugh for a while and then got up and left. The guards are stunned and can't think of any reason. Early the next morning, he rushed to the party and asked him why he laughed.

Fang will ask: Have you seen the clown who performed the evil spirits yesterday?

I saw it.

Fang will say: You can't even compare them a little.

The defender listened and started to say: What does Master mean? Fang will say: They like people to laugh, but you are afraid of people laughing. The guards listened and opened on the spot.

If you can't accept a ridicule, you will be more picky and attacked by others. If you can't stand the pain in your life, your pain will be long-lasting.

In fact, all kinds of situations in life are the lessons we learn; some people can be in adversity, but they may not be able to live in good times. What kind of mentality will a person use to face his own environment? It depends on the hard work of his insults. I heard that in the prison, a dozen or twenty years of crimes, it is said that many are out of jail with full hatred; therefore, after being released from prison, they often become more serious and commit bigger crimes. In the Buddhist scriptures, the meaning of humiliation is very rich. Frustration and blows must be tolerated, and success and joy must be tolerated; However, the so-called acceptance is not a passive acceptance of recognition, but a proactive attitude to transcend the situation beyond, so that you can learn from them to learn and grow. The average person is subjected to grievances and frustrations, and he is always indignant in his mind; however, just because resentment is hard to come by, painful suffering is also lingering and lingering. If you exercise your mental character by facing the blow, even think of the person who is attacking you to influence your Bodhisattva, thank him for giving you the opportunity to exercise yourself and improve yourself. There is no resentment in your heart, and naturally you will not feel pain.

A few parents of mentally retarded children said that after a long period of time, they have been able to take care of their children's hardships and hardships and slowly realize that their hearts have been opened. They can bear with the test of feelings, so even if the outsiders seem that their situation is miserable, they are ashamed. In the face of adversity, you can bear the burden of humiliation and enthusiasm. This principle can be accepted by everyone. It is not easy to understand when you have to do things in a smooth and prosperous way. The spring breeze is proud of horseshoe disease. Every day, I look at Changan flowers. Many people can work hard when they are frustrated. Once the spring breeze is proud, they will be debauchery. They will be forgotten, their words and deeds will be lost, and the disaster will soon follow. Therefore, to be prepared for danger in times of peace, success must be tolerated, and happiness must be tolerated.

Humiliation can be an ice water that annihilates a person's ideal fire, and can also be a driving force for a person to anger. To know that humiliation is a bad thing, but it can also become a good thing. Psychologists believe that people have the driving force of the creation of three spiritual energy sources, the driving force of love, the driving force of oppression and discrimination. Humiliation is a kind of spiritual oppression. It is like a whip, urging you to take courage and move forward.

I remember a philosopher said that no matter how you study, it is not as fast, profound, and lasting as he was humiliated. Humiliation makes people learn to think and experience things that can't be realized in good times; it makes people go deeper into contact with reality, understands society, promotes the sublimation of people's thoughts, and thus opens up a broad road to success.

Being good at learning from humiliation is really an important factor in achieving performance.