Two small stories may give you a new insight into your life.

Plant your chance "possibility"

No one had thought that graduated from Beijing, the cousin who had passed the eighth grade in English would choose to be a flight attendant. At this time last year, she ran to ask me, you said, go to ICBC as a teller and fly around the world, which one should I choose?

These two options are a bit far away. I can only say, see what kind of life you want. Yes, ICBC means stability, flight attendants are different. In the first half of the career, you can have a higher salary than your peers to eat, drink, and play, but you have to find a way back in the second half of your career. However, this girl is bent on seeing the world. A few months later, she got her wish, Frankfurt, Melbourne, Tokyo, Seoul, Stockholm... She said that the language advantage quickly made her stand out in the group and quickly get the chance to fly international routes.

Watching her sigh on the German train, sighing on the gold coast of Melbourne, I remembered the girl's grievances and growth in the past year.

The first time I came to the spit, the customer took the bread to her body. The airline's bread is hard, she has been explaining, but it can eventually become a customer's punching bag. I asked, what did you do at the time? She said: I picked up the bread and went into the workplace. After I entered, the tears slammed down. I lament that this girl is very professional.

The second time I ate together, she said that everyone’s evaluation of her was “not like the post-90s”. Um? It seems that you are very reliable. She is happy, the key is that everyone is too princess. for example. On one flight, there was a problem with the bathroom on the plane. The flight attendants are holding their noses and spreading their hands. What can I do? In fact, everyone knows what to do, but no one is willing to give up. The cousin looked at the door of the bathroom more and more people, dialing the crowd and went in. The problem is naturally solved, and her nickname is also coming, the ladies.

Peers can tell a lot of reasons why she is heavily weighted, and she can also speak personally. What I want to say is that everyone has their own chance to pass forward. The last chance you got is not dropped into you.

There are still many prequels that have always been taken out of chanting. XX is really embarrassing to yourself. When I first arrived at the unit, I followed the group to do the project. It was originally a nameless pawn, and the project has become the number one seed. You said a little girl, doing all sorts of things, sleeping directly on the sofa at night, such a hard work, where not rushing.

Smart people will say that my energy is limited, I have to be targeted, and do something meaningful to achieve my goals. However, do you really think that those who are struggling in the workplace know what they can gain when they do everything?

I want to say that they are only planting a "possibility". In every matter, they demand themselves with a high standard. When high standards become an inertia, those who have dealt with, just passed, or did not get high scores, can't get through them first. They may not realize that when they planted these "possibility", they only planted much more, and the chances of harvesting were greater.

Many people will think that it is only a possibility. Why do I have to pay so much energy? Or, I only do things that can see the results. As a result, those things that are closest to the result have been blocked by a group of people. At every moment when they are likely to shine, they would rather let themselves idle. This is probably the reason why many people have not made a good prequel.

Finally talk about my classmates. The things that she did in college were not very understandable at first.

For example, on Friday night girls are busy eating, shopping, and falling in love, but she is busy with English corners. There are some international lectures in the school. We are all in the back row. She is always in the first row. Finally one day, we found ourselves different from her - she was on the stage and we were still on stage.

In every future international lecture, she is a translator who is not a foreign language professional. It is worth mentioning that in the process of doing translation, she has met many professors from foreign universities, and the other party favors her. So as soon as she graduated, she went abroad.

This prequel was written too wonderfully and without any traces, so that we are still discussing after many years, she is too active and too upright, or has always had a ruler in her heart. But in any case, this is a chance to get a high score.

Life gave me the tiger

At the time of the operation, I was like the teenager in the movie of Ang Lee. The doctor asked me how much you are sure. I said 50%. If he asked 50%, would you dare to do it? I said yes, I gave the other 50% to God, and I was not afraid of anything. Later, the transsexual operation was successful, but the medical accident was left because the nurse’s negligence caused the left calf to be reported and the secondary disability was reported. Lying in bed, I asked God, what do you want me? Parents, friends, even doctors are crying for me, can't Venus still be Venus? I am just confused. When I was doing surgery, I had nothing, no fear, I thought it would be a big deal. You can take it with me, but if you leave me, you must have your reason. But why did you leave my life, but took the way I want to go? Why?

"Because you have to prove it to me. You think that I put you in the man's gender is wrong. Am I wrong? Then I will see how determined you are." This is the result of my inquiry. .

Ok, then I will prove it. If I left this life, I can leave my leg again, that is, my Venus is worthy of God's negligence gift. The tiger in my heart is gone and the fear disappears. When the doctor has already sentenced my leg to death, my last card is also the strongest card, the belief - to become an accurate "Golden Star", this belief is extremely powerful.

Less than half a year after discharge, the legs are still cold, and the rehearsal of "Red and Black" has already found me. I think it is time to go to the fate. From choreography to dance, I stuck my teeth and insisted on it. I was still on the stage with a cold sweat. "The actors and the leaders who came to watch the dance and the leaders who came to inspect were touched by me, so that time. Everyone's heart is very familiar from the beginning to the end of the rehearsal. Tickets for both shows were sold out, and the black market began to stir up three times. After the performance, the curtain call lasted for twenty minutes, and my tears could not stop flowing.

Someone is saying, "Why didn't Venus jump high before?"

"You don't know, it's a miracle that she can stand on the stage again!"

Indeed, it is the miracle I fought for myself. There is a doctor in the dressing room. Every time I skip the scene, I have to find him to help me massage my legs. Only in this way can I jump completely. But I finished it and it was done. When I was standing on the stage, my left leg was cold, my right leg was hot, and my eyes were hot. But when the audience stood up and applauded for me, I knew it. The stage still belongs to me. It didn't abandon me. It always looked there to see if I could stand back. At that moment all the doubts and confusions vanished. I said to myself, I won. Not accepting defeat, not accepting fate, winning yourself, winning the fragility of the heart, and a huge "why." From now on, I will stand on the stage in a solid manner, and the stage still loves me so much.

After many years of mentioning others, they will jokingly say that the moment Venus is on the stage is really not human. There is indeed such a wonderful feeling, the shape of some people, and the ethereal spirit of not being human, the eyes of God are on me. I think there is a kind of power between the universe that is particularly wonderful. I can only describe it as a human idea. With such an idea, you will never despair.

Every disaster is like laying a layer on a certain stage of life. You have to keep going up, arching the top of this layer, and going to another level. You can think that a medical accident can't make you dance. How can you be so embarrassed? Unfortunately, it can be thought that it is because you asked God to ask for such a big gift, so it must arrange for you to undergo some tempering, just like Life bargains, how many hardships I can bear, I can ask how much life God wants. Then go up and arch, you will find that it is neither a punishment nor a gift, but a life, and everything is a special Venus.

Tribulation will take you to see different things. What if I was really embarrassed at the time? Then I went to the small mountain village in the mountains, taught the children to dance, told them about the outside world, and maybe found another "Venus." Facing the green mountains and green waters, the cleanest air, the coolest water, and the most impoverished material life, continue to experience life. That fate will bring me a different Venus, and I am happy to accept it.

My feet have not recovered completely until now, and it is impossible to be like the legs of normal people. There are still squats on the left leg, crescent-shaped, that is, life has carved a mark on my leg. I accept this mark. Every time I see it, I will be especially reassured. I will not be flattered when I give it to me today. I will not lose it if I take it. The bottom of my life has widened my life. No one knows how much I paid, I don't say it, I can't say it, only God knows. So from then on it will slowly give you what you have to do, because it knows that you have that tolerance.

I can see this crescent-shaped mark every day when I take a shower. I am always reminding me what I am doing now, why I give up, and why. It was a crescent-shaped medal, taken from God.

If you can see so many prejudices after that, then that experience has to be remembered. If I was a teenager, the surgery was the storm, then the social prejudice I encountered was like the tiger. We floated on the sea, and we didn't know how long it took, but in the end I survived, relying on faith. When I faced the tiger, I also had fear and resistance in my heart, but in the end it became a companion to accompany me across the ocean.

Life gave me the tiger. It puts fear, loneliness, persistence, and trust on a relatively figurative thing, accompanying you to grow up, but when these are gone, when you go ashore, its mission is completed. gone. But it won't disappear. The youngsters will remember that there will always be the tiger. When we talk about the boyhood, we will never forget the tiger. The existence of figuration gives you that experience. It will be in your mind for a lifetime, telling you who you are, what you experienced, how you came.