Stephen Chow: Hanging the humiliation on the wall

After graduating from the Hong Kong Wireless Artist Training Course, Stephen Chow did not get the chance to immediately perform his beloved performance. Instead, he was arranged to pick up a friend, Tony Leung, and was the host of the children's entertainment program "Four Three Zero Space Shuttle". The broadcast time was 4:30 pm unpopular time. Zhou Xingchi stayed here for six years. For a young man who is determined to be a great actor, this is undoubtedly painful.

During this period, Zhou Xingchi watched Liang Chaowei take pictures of TV dramas and movies, and soon became very popular, but he did not like the children's show host. No one was appreciative, but also endured the indifference and discrimination of others. An adult film star said in public that he "lives like a dog", an entertainment big sister said that he "you will never be red", a friend said that he "daydreaming day and day, dreaming of becoming a big star." Even more embarrassing is that a newspaper commented that Stephen Chow is only suitable for children's show hosts and not suitable for actors.

Faced with all kinds of humiliation, Stephen Chow did not give up on himself. Instead, he carefully cut the newspaper's report and posted it on his bedside wall to motivate himself and vow to create a great cause. Later, everyone knows that relying on the "nonsense" performance, Zhou Xingchi became a master of comedy with countless winter powder.

Coincidentally, the footballer David Beckham has had similar experiences. In the 1998 World Cup in France, Beckham was sent off for a red card, resulting in England to 10 to 11 people, eventually lost to Argentina in the penalty shootout, was eliminated, and stopped the World Cup's top 16. With such a result, Beckham is naturally blamed, and he has paid a heavy price for his irrational actions.

Overnight, Beckham changed from the pride of the sky to the public enemies of England. He was hit by thousands of people, and the fans who once loved Beckham’s hometown glared at him on the court with angry eyes. In order to make himself feel ashamed and forge ahead, Beckham magnified the photo of "Furious of the Fans" and hangs it on the wall of the living room at home, reminding himself to never forget the pain of failure.

Mencius said: "Shame is in the people's congress." The sense of shame is the basis for our defense of self-esteem and the pursuit of self-improvement. In life, each of us will inevitably encounter cold eyes, criticism and insults. In the face of humiliation, some people are insensitive and ignorant, just like the wind and the waves are no trace; some people seem to suffer a devastating blow, unable to withstand heavy pressure, so they sink into it; some people, such as Stephen Chow and Beckham However, he hangs his humiliation on the wall and acts as an upward force to motivate himself to never stop moving forward.

No one knows that behind the success of the success of the fame, there are hidden little bitterness and grievances. But I believe that there are always people who can face the humiliation given by others, shame and courage, and hang their humiliation on the wall as the match that ignites their little universe. And such a person will surely hold the fruit of success in his hands.