Different life, each has warm and cold

Some time ago, Mr. L made a few simple and charming photos in his dynamic circle. In the photo, the desert spreads to the sky, a road breaks away from the desert, brown camels, take a leisurely walk under the vast yellow scenery, blue sky and white clouds, like the broken ice in the river, beautiful and warm.

Under the two pictures, it is a sentence left by L. This sentence is like this:

Looking at the scenery, living in the Auman Hotel, Room 380, every time I eat 11 cars...

Mr. L is a large truck driver. Every day, he is driving his large trailer of more than ten meters and running in the mountains and seas. I stopped in Sanya, Hainan, and watched the scenery in Dali, Yunnan, and shuttled through the winding alpine clouds.

This time, the dynamic was taken when he went to Xinjiang to transport the cantaloupe.

I held my mobile phone and stared at him in a dynamic daze, surrounded by tall, strong lime cement. We were isolated by a cubicle and ran between the dormitory, the classroom and the cafeteria every day. The life image is set to an alarm clock, and everything follows the progress of the timetable. It seems that every day, the activity can be seen at a glance, and there is no life at all.

I think that L can go around the country to go around, go to a wider space, and experience different life and scenery. My simple and repeated life is boring. Therefore, the young and instigating mood is full of expectation and embarrassment for his life. When the brain is hot, I want to escape from the surrounding walls and follow his life.

But soon, the two gathered together to chat, and the cups alternated. He said to me that transporting this work is very hard. Because of the problem of freight time restrictions, it is often necessary to drive around the clock, and it is necessary to constantly concentrate on the spirit. Of course, there may be risks like this on the road. What you have seen, those flashing scenery is just an embellishment in our rushing life, a silhouette, but we are not traveling after all, so we can't sit comfortably and enjoy it. And those who pass by the scenery, the beauty is beautiful, but our destination is not there.

I saw him darker than the sun before, thinking of the scorching sun, and talking about the business with others. In the middle of the night, when you are waking up, some people are still far away, and their eyes are red. The wind and the dust are running all the way. Suddenly, sometimes, you only see the glamorous side of others because you have not experienced it yourself.

We always love what we don't have, or can't easily get it, and fiction is beautiful. It was because it was not available that it gave it the possibility of endless imagination.

I have two female friends, sister flowers, Miss M and Miss H.

M is a younger sister. I got married early after graduation. Now I have a child who is fascinating. M usually does some housework at home, and occasionally goes for a walk. Most of the time, I stay with my child and start a full-time mother.

Miss Sister H, although she had already graduated from college, but went to the boyfriend's city after graduation, two people worked hard together, and did not get married immediately, but worked hard for the future life. Because there is no family, no children, life is relatively free and easy. H is lonely, and has a dog to pass the time.

H also told his sister M why he got married so early and lost a lot of freedom when he got married. What is good?

M thought for a while, saying that it is not good, but it is not too bad. I just built a family earlier than you, and after I got married, the family is very good for her, and now I have a lovely baby, although I can't live as free and casual as you, but I have My new circle, I didn’t feel good or bad, just switched to a different lifestyle.

Just like listening to songs, what you used to listen to is rock and roll that is full of passion and freedom. Just, one day, you listen to tiredness, press the next song, switch the song, the song is abrupt, it is no longer rock, it is a The first quiet and peaceful lullaby. But it doesn't matter, I like this song too.

Miss M looked at the sleeping baby with concern. Then she said that it is like your life. Maybe you can always go with your boyfriend to say that you can take a walk, you can travel to the company as an independent woman. Accommodation. Because they are not married, two people can still be as sweet as a love.

And I, every day, started to run in the life of the rice, vinegar and vinegar tea, and began to give up some freedom, because I have to take the children at any time, but also to adapt to the new relatives, completely a full-time mother.

But my life, there is also the happiness that you have never experienced, the kind of happiness that the child is with, not that you can raise a pet. Of course, because I have been a full-time mother, I don’t have to work hard in the company to see the faces of bosses and colleagues. The establishment of a family also allowed me to learn to be independent and mature earlier, because it is not a child, because I have taken on more responsibilities because I need to work hard to create a happy family.

Ms. M continued, I feel that I am just entering the marriage hall earlier than you. Some people say that marriage is the tomb of love, but I think marriage is also the final result of love and nest. A good love is not measured by whether or not the two are married. It depends on how you operate and treat it. And even now, you and my life are not on a channel, but you and my life, how many have the corresponding happiness and troubles. There is nothing to compare and compare. It is only important to manage and cope with your own life.

I have 10,000 approvals for her rhetoric. Because life is a huge rugged crossroad, you walk your Yangguan Road, I am crossing my wooden bridge, there is nothing to envy and disdain, you see here a sly landscape, others may see there Different.

But there are always people who feel that there is a life that is the life of someone else's family. We are sometimes unhappy, not from the life itself, but from the beautification of other people's lives, to compare the badness of their lives.

People always love to compare because we don't always see ourselves.

People who have drifted north and south, after experiencing a baptism of the wind and frost, may envy those who can settle in their own life circle, and the business is stable, then they want to go to a broader world. You envy the blue smoke under the bridge, people may envy you, the city has good security and convenient transportation. You may envy the stability and sweetness of others after they become a family. Others may envy the love life of your two red candles.

It is also possible that you have not found the one that can be with you at any time, but in the days of singles, it is the best chance for you to appreciate. You have more freedom, although you don't want to go on alone, but in a person's day, you have no choice but to live happily and prosperously.

Because this single time, after you are in love and married, you no longer have it.

And since your life can't be easily changed, you don't have to compare your life with others. Because the conditions are different and the subjects are different, so each person's different life can't be compared and evaluated. And sometimes those who look happy on the outside may have cracks and pains in places you don't know, and there is a misfortune that only the protagonist can experience.

So no matter where you are, no matter where you are going, I hope that we can move forward in the light of the heart. And all your days, don't let go and give up easily. All the time can't be easily abandoned and thrown away. Because you are standing in the moment, everything is precious.