Life may be bold, anyway, only once

When I first got to work, I saw girls who wore famous watches all day, and they felt that they were special. When I saw those girls who were fascinating every day, masks and make-up costumes, I always felt frivolous, certainly no connotation; I fell in love. Running, 3 times a week, someone told me that you don't want to run like this. You see who you are, running and hurting your knees, and finally you can't climb the mountain. When I was in college, I had a classmate, a character, and a typical person. You can meet each other with a hateful night. I am particularly annoyed in my heart. I feel that such a person is hypocritical and good with anyone. I don't bother to be such a person, and I don't bother to deal with such people.

The above things, some of the protagonists are me, some are not me, but inside, I can see the shadow of my own: a little stick to the rules, a little bit of a stubborn opinion; living according to the rules defined by myself, stubbornly thinking of their own ideas It is the law of life; it is not suitable for other people who do not live according to this law.

I think that the past is the fox that can't eat grapes. Because you are not suffering, or the process of implementation is painful, tell yourself that the grapes are sour. Comfort yourself in this way to achieve a temporary psychological balance.

I always thought that I was right, but time went by, day after day, year after year, like a sandstorm, I seem to be a strong but unbearable "stone" surface.

Thoughts began to shake, slowly discovering that all beings, how few geniuses, often ordinary people have not done well, but they have a genius problem. Those things that were originally clinged to are not necessarily as imaginary as they are; those that have always hated avoiding may not be as unbearable as they might be imagined.

Therefore, the development of the above several things has increased the number of impressions left by the brush: One day I found that wearing a textured watch can also increase my self-confidence; my girlfriend can’t look at the way I am not trimming all day, forcing me. Going to dress up, teaching me simple makeup, feeling out of my mind every day when I go out; talking about a colleague who is not running well, then I saw his sweaty circle of friends, saying that it’s so cool to sweat out; because of work Need, I learn to get along with people, talk to a lot of people, I found that there is no hypocrisy, but everyone likes you. Learning to speak is an art that reduces the chances of a straightforward character hurting people.

You see, we do become people we hate. However, I don't hate myself now. Because I became more inclusive, I began to learn to try, learn to clear the rules and regulations that I set for myself, contact people I don't like, and do things that I don't like. In the process of trying new things, gain different strengths.

Sometimes, we are used to sticking to the circle we draw down, showing a safe and comfortable space. Standing in this psychological comfort zone, watching others do something wrong, just laugh, you see, I know that this is not the case; watching others do the right thing, the mood is not good, then sour, say, really Made out. Let's walk and see if you can get a few days.

Anyway, others are losing or winning. My life is still like this, and it is not affected. Finally, the ages are similar, you are still the original, but the people are not the original ones.

There are many reasons for not breaking through. It comes down to nothing: fear that the existing life will be disrupted, and that the new life is not as good as it is now. In a word: I can't afford the cost of adventure. Well, pessimistic people, always. Because I only see the bad 50% of new things, but forget that there is still a good 50%.

So why do you want to be a prisoner? Why not go out and look at it? If you don’t have the first person to eat crabs, maybe we have lost the opportunity to taste deliciously now? If there is no first invention of electric lights People, how can our city be brightly lit and bright now?

Some people laugh at themselves, why have they heard so many reasons, but they still have a bad life. The self-deprecating is almost all young people like me in their 20s and 30s. Twenty or thirty years is just one part of life. Many young people, including myself, always want to wisely show the appearance of seeing the world. Is it just like the abandonment of the "juveniles who don't know what to eat, what do you want to say about new words?"

Another reason is that you know all the truth, but you have never practiced it. These principles have little relevance to your life. So, in your young years, you still have a day to know everything and do nothing. Then pretend to be a vicissitudes of life, I understand the truth, but I have a bad life.

Is it better to blame others for accusing them than to blame yourself? Because greed is not painful, so choose to ignore yourself and blame others?

There is an old English proverb: No pains, no gains.

No pain, where to grow? When I decided to start to face up to the "strong talk", face up to what I hate, actually escape, I think I seem to be more brave than before. This courage is not a loneliness that has been stubbornly seen, but a tenacity that dares to face the pain.

Because I began to understand that if you really want to understand the truth of life, you must be able to climb and squat, and you will feel hurt and feel warm, so that you can have a life rumor engraved in your life.

All of this requires you to jump out of the frame boldly, face the pain, try the unknown, and challenge yourself who dares to shrink.

There is a saying I like very much: life may be bold, anyway, only once.