Why do people have to work hard in this life?
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My father's cousin, my little uncle, is not only a very intelligent person, but also a talented person.
"Very smart" is reflected in his examination of Fudan University from a little-known pheasant high school in Weibei. After graduating, his life trajectory is completely "promotion of salary increase, becoming general manager, becoming CEO, welcoming Bai Fumei, walking." A true portrayal of the peak of life;
As for the "one person in the table", I remember seeing him for the first time in the fourth and fifth grades. At that time, he happened to be a youthful age of twenty-five and six years old. I looked at the feeling of a blushing heartbeat. In short, it was a very long A enchanting man.
But what I mainly want to talk about is not him, but the story of his sister, my cousin. Uncle's mother is a well-known beauty, but Dad is notoriously famous, especially a pair of eyes, so small that it is almost invisible. Uncle’s appearance inherited her mother, and Guan Gu unfortunately inherited her father’s appearance, especially the small eyes.
After discovering the inferiority of her appearance, her father made a decision that surprised everyone - not letting the school go to school. His reason is: "As a girl, she grows too ugly. The more she knows in the future, the more she thinks, the more she suffers. It is better to let her know nothing. I will support her with her mother and brother. Happy for a lifetime."
For this decision, I am afraid to evaluate it because it is too special. But now it seems that my cousin and the uncle have embarked on a completely different path: although she has not read the book, but by the natural cleverness, she started a small business in her hometown, earning money can not only be self-sufficient Self-sufficient and well-fed; married an honest rural man, gave birth to a little boy, and the days have been very moist. For more than 30 years, her parents and brothers have indeed spoiled her like a princess.
Uncle’s life seems to be beautiful, and the effort behind it is also very impressive – just think about it, a young man from outside, a farmer’s child, and a “phoenix man” who have no background, want to be firm in Shanghai. It is by no means an easy task; while Guan Gu’s life seems to be shabby, but it is easy to eat and drink, and more importantly, she has never really worked hard.
When the story is over, what I want to say is that most of us are not artificially cut off from the outside world like my cousin. In the process of our growth, the more we know and see, the less satisfied we are with the life we can have without working hard, but the desire to temporarily disagree with our existing abilities. In order to realize these wishes, there are actually no shortcuts, only through hard work.
On the contrary, if a person is always satisfied with his or her own life, no effort or nothing. However, in my opinion, people who have this kind of mentality often do not know too much, that is, they have great wisdom. In comparison, it is clear that continuous efforts are more suitable for most people.
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I have been reading books in this leisurely city of Chengdu for a few years. At that time, as long as the sun is out, the school lawn and teahouse will soon be occupied by the Chengdu people like the tide. They sat under the sun all afternoon, chatting and drinking tea and playing mahjong. I think this is really cool, why should I work so hard?
At that time, there was a family of flies downstairs in the place where I lived. The Yibin burner was delicious. I think that I will eat very cheap Sichuan food for a lifetime and I will definitely live very well. Why do you still have to work hard?
When I was a sophomore, I rode my bicycle and went out to the mountain, and the uphill slope of more than 30 kilometers. From 2,300 meters above sea level to 4,500 meters above sea level, it is several degrees below zero. Unfortunately, it started to fog again in the morning. Visibility is less than 20 meters, clothes do not know whether it is dripping with sweat or dew. Before the departure, I said with pride and enthusiasm: "This time I want to conquer XX Mountain. Hahahaha." After the departure, it became: "Fuck, I want to go back to the sun!!" "Wo Wo, I have to go back to eat noodles / take food / Hoof flower soup / pork back / pheasant!!"
I am soberly aware that as long as you give up your efforts, life will live much more quickly than when you work hard. So why bother to work hard?
Because sometimes I want to spread: "A lifetime is satisfied with a place to eat pork, what about the meat folder? What about the pot?"
Yes, I will think that there are still many places in the world that have not been visited. Many foods have not yet been eaten. Many people have not yet encountered it. Many of the knowledge has not yet been mastered. Many things have not yet been understood.
When I think about it, my heart is restless, and my ass can't sit still.
Although climbing the mountain climbed like a stupid, although it was said that climbing up to the plateau reaction really made silly. But crawling and crawling in the fog suddenly spread like a curtain, and the blue sky suddenly came over. You are stupidly standing there watching the sea of clouds and snow mountains jumping out of front of you, the feeling is still very different.
Wang Anshi, a high school textbook, said: "The world's wonderful, eccentric, and very savvy, often lies in danger, and people are rarely seen, so people who are not interested can not."
So go and work harder.
Not for the sake of success, not for surpassing others.
It is a desire to experience a bigger world.
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The end of human life's efforts is not entirely out of our progress and dedication. The fundamental reason why we evolved from mammoth to Leonardo is our innate nature.
Greed and laziness.
So there is no doubt that the greatest cause of human endeavor lies in human desires, and what we have to think about is whether this desire is worthwhile.
Some people have been alone in the temple for a lifetime, and some people even lived a charge before the battle.
In the pond of the moon, in the mountains of the hustle and bustle, mankind constantly tries to challenge the higher, stronger and more beautiful realm. As a result, we create art and create destruction. Our obsession with our own value even exceeds our life. Awe.
We have to ask if it is worth it.
Throughout the history of mankind, three things are constantly being staged in this stretch of riverbed. They are a glimpse of power, a desire for honor, and a request for love.
From the palace of King Solomon to the camp of the Majesty, from the hot springs to the Yangtze River, from Damascus to the sacred beams, the continuous advancement of mankind has continued to sway each other, not knowing how sleepy.
From a certain point of view, human beings can live for a long time if they let them have two meals a day, drinking water, and many people feel that they can't live without working hard. In fact, they just feel that they are not living well.
If we are things without desire, then we don't need to work hard.
If we just want to live, it is not difficult.
In 218 BC, the Korean Zhang Liang stood in the hurricane of Bolangsha for a long time. His robes were full of wind and violently swayed. As far as he could, there was a team of horses, black flags, and young. The man raised his hand and leaned around the force.
Within a few seconds of the iron cone flying out, the Korean Zhang Liang thought of the recovery of his mother country. His small half-life efforts were all in this cone, and the iron cone drawn a fierce arc.
At the same time, thousands of kilometers away, the horses from Carthage crossed the Alps, and the iron hooves set foot on the fertile soil of Italy. These people marched in the waisted sewage for four days and three nights, appearing in northern Italy. In the plains of the Po River, the Romans were shocked. After a year, the Carthaginians killed 70,000 Romans on the banks of the Opidas, with only 370 survivors.
At the moment when Hannibal set foot on the Italian peninsula, the city of Rome was close at hand, and the glory of the city of Wancheng was as open as a woman, and another Qin people killed 400,000 Zhao in Changpingkeng 40 years ago. People, ten years after the failure of the Korean Zhang Liang Zhu Qin, another man named Xiang Yu sent the 200,000 Qin people to the land in the giant deer. When those descendants fell into the big pit, they would not know. At the same time, the Romans caught the messenger of Hasbro, and the Battle of Metoro, which was buried in Carthage, kicked off in history.
I thought of a cavalry in the giant deer's original horse, swearing to kill the Qin people, and recovering from the big Chu. There are flying feather arrows around them. At the foot is the high grass, and between the heavens and the earth, we will take our sights to thousands of kilometers away. In the shadow of the Senate, the anxious Scipio, he just got the message that the Carthaginian Hasbro has entered Gaul from the northeast of Libya.
Intercepting a certain piece of history, we can find that human history is a bloody picture. The soldiers under the shield and the consuls of the Senate are essentially the same kind of creatures. Although the reasons are different, they are almost the same. .
What makes us feel that these people can stay at home honestly, as some of us said, it is also a pleasure to enjoy tea for the moon.
But why does human beings always choose a hard and even tragic way to fulfill their lives.
In general, if I am a non-human thing like a dragon or a god, I will definitely think that human beings are a more tragic animal, just like we watch ants keep busy all year round but have no meaning in all science fiction. In the novel, humans eventually evolved into quantum-like creatures, and they lived forever in the stars and universe, and they knew everything.
But this is not the case.
Is this saying that all our efforts out of desire are not worth it.
I do not think so.
This makes me want to tell a story about the dragon, which is similar to Nealdie's answer.
The brave Carl came to the cave of the old dragon. He said that he wanted to save the princess. The old dragon interrupted his words and opened his mouth. The gap in the back molar was stuffed with the woman's body.
Laolong asks why you want to kill me.
Carl said that I love the princess. The old dragon said that the princess is dead, and my infinite wisdom tells me that your companion, Miss Tamil, loves you deeply. You can go back and get married with her, have children, you will find The swordsman you have worked hard for many years is meaningless.
"Is it sad? I have to listen to the truth." Old Dragon asked Karl faintly.
"I hate you."
The brave Carl left the dragon's aches in frustration. Ten years later, Baron Karl tried to kill the dragon again with the best black robe mage and the most handsome elf archer in the mainland.
"Why are you killing me."
Carl said that in order to become the first hero of the mainland, although he has already married the lovely children of Miss Tamil, he hopes to obtain greater honor.
The old dragon smashed the skull of the wizard and the elf in the face of Baron Carl. Those red is blood, the powder is brain, and the old dragon says Carl, you can now go back and hold your children, the next afternoon of checkers, Instead of dying here, you will find that you don't need to work hard. The two helpers you have worked hard to find can't make you better.
"Is it sad?"
"You make me feel that everything is wasting time."
Baron Carl left the dragon's acupressure painfully, and he felt that the vast dragon's axe behind him was like an endless abyss, in which a devil known as a devil was living.
Ten years later, King Carl surrounded the old dragon with more than half of the mainland's army.
"Why are you killing me."
Carl said that living a day is a threat to his rule. Lao Long sighed and said that I feel that your children are racking their brains for the battle. Miss Tanmir is crying all day in the deep palace. You are now in position. The emperor, but still not assured of an old dragon, the old dragon gently pulled out a fireball, burned Carl's army.
"Is it sad?" The old dragon faced the piles of burning bodies, and the face did not change color.
"This is my army! Fuck, you ruin me!"
"Go back, Carl, you are not honest at all."
In the last ten years, Karl came to the old dragon in rags, his throne was taken away by his son, and his wife was killed by the poison of the barbarian. At this moment, he took the sword of the year and made a comeback. Say old dragon, I want to kill you.
"Why are you killing me."
"I want your head, once again become the legendary brave, I want my people to support me and take back my throne."
"Karl, when you were a brave 30 years ago, if you didn't enter my dragon, you could have lived happily."
"Thirty years have changed me from a small soldier to an emperor of the empire. I have lost my lover and lost my lover. I play with my children in the afternoon sun, and finally I have to face them in the snowfield." ""
"Is it sad?" The old dragon asked calmly.
"No! Wonderful!"
Karl sat down with his legs crossed, and he smiled and said that I didn't regret it in my life.
"So you are a human, and I am a dragon, I have no desire, this time you are very honest."
The old dragon leaned down and tore his neck with the sharp stone of the mountain wall. The blood poured Cal's body and the old dragon died.
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Because it is very fun.
Because life is meaningless, it’s not fun, what are you doing?
Someone once told me that
Life becomes a lot more fun when you know that it is meaningless. Everyone is going to die, so anyone who enjoys their life has just had an extra treat. It is just a big bonus.
That's it. It’s not so bitter and hateful, and there aren’t even so many people who survive.
Just life is too short, I need some ecstatic moments to accomplish the goal, I need some cool feelings beyond the people I despise, I need to cry with the people I like to realize my dreams, I want to eat Good to have fun and respect your inner thoughts so that they don't annihilate without worrying too much about others' eyes or money.
The so-called effort is such that sometimes it depends on enthusiasm, sometimes relying on persistence, and sometimes just taking a sigh of relief to pursue the process of adding value to these lives.
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When I was young, my family was poor and it was really poor.
I am the fourth, there are three sisters, and now I talk about it with others. The reaction of others is almost all: Wow! You must be happy when you were a child. I can only smile, and the poverty of the family at that time cannot support any "little young master" privilege.
From the beginning of my memory, there will always be different strangers in my family. When I was young, I liked to come to the house at first, because that might mean that at least a few dishes were entertained by them, and when they left, my sisters and I It will be greedily greedy with the few remaining plates, which is probably the happiest moment. However, many times later, after many times at the dinner table, they were loudly reprimanded against Mom and Dad, and Mom and Dad - my favorite person can only say good things like the child who did the wrong thing, I started to slow down. Slowly realized that their arrival may not be friendly... After I was a little older, I knew they had a common name: the debt collector. I started to be afraid of these people. I began to fear that Mom and Dad would speak loudly with others. I began to fear any stranger who came to my house. I began to fear that there would be contradictions and fights between family members and outsiders under any circumstances. This kind of fear made me do a lot of things that others seem to have no bones. When there are debt collectors coming home again, whenever they and my father loudly quarrel, I will be shivering, then crying and squatting at those people, holding their legs, crying and asking them not to be difficult for their parents. My sister will cry when I see you crying, so the whole house is the cry of the children. After the incident, I will feel ashamed of this young, but there is no way, I am afraid, really scared. Once, I was still shaking and crying in front of a middle-aged man. He opened my foot with a kick... Dad and he got up, I cried even more fiercely, so the middle-aged did not take advantage of it, lost The next few words left, my father came back to pick me up, I saw his eyes. I will never forget the moment in my life, what kind of eyes are there, blood and tears in it, I thought that the man cried his father, so I reached out and wiped my eyes for my father. At that moment, my Dad, a middle-aged man in his early forties, holding me, his youngest child, burst into tears.
Many years later, I can gradually hear how much helplessness in life is in the crying, self-blame for my incompetence, and embarrassment for the child.
Because of poverty, my mother had to leave us to go to Nanjing to work and earn money. It is said to be a part-time job. In fact, it is ruined. Every day, I take a snakeskin bag and walk for dozens of kilometers. I look for plastic bottles and cans in the garbage dumps of the city. Cardboard and more. My mother was sick with the car, so every time she took a long-distance bus, it seemed to her to be as uncomfortable as going to the ghost gate, but she still came back every two months. She wanted the children too! Every time she came back, she would happily hold me on my lap and use her face to stick to my face. I have been unwilling to separate for a long time, and I can't wait to hurt my heart.
I went home on the winter vacation a few days ago. I went to Xiaoxiao’s house and chatted with my sister. Xiaoxiao said that one summer, my mother had just returned from Nanjing. Xiaoxuan saw that her face was a little red dot and anxiously asked her what happened on her face. What, my mother said where is what it is, is a mosquito bite... I cried when I heard it, my mother didn’t go to school for a day, she spent the rest of her life in that village, having children, and the hardships of life deprived her of all Even a little selfishness as a woman gave the children all the time, so many of our children had eaten so much bitterness until she died of illness. In that year, I was 15 years old.
I am 23 years old, graduated from college, and studied flying at the flight school. At that time, the timid little boy was now the pride of the eyes of others. The people around me have the home of PetroChina, the Civil Aviation Authority, and the children of provincial officials. Although at this moment, we are sitting in the same classroom, but I am very clear about the huge gap between us.
I wrote this, not to tell anyone who told me about my suffering, the suffering of my family, but just to say, friends, when you can sit in Starbucks, order a cup of coffee, open the Macbook and know, "Why do people work hard?" There are countless children like me who are desperately trying to fight, not because of anything, just because we have no choice, we don’t want to be frightened, don’t want my children to experience those like me, don’t want my children to feel inferior because of poverty. I don't want my children to think about what they should think when they are 20 or 30 when they are 15 years old.
Nicholas Tse said a word when Lucas passed his birthday:
I fight,so you don't have to.
I think this is also the reason for my efforts.
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Today, I chatted with my girlfriend. The final result was that the two of them chatted and cried.
I said: Hey, the pressure to prepare for the postgraduate study is so great, my foundation is not good, I can't sleep at night, and my eyes are full of books.
My girlfriend touched my head, it was comfort, and asked: Where do you want to go?
"I want to go to Beijing to study, the family is still available, and I have been studying for a few years. I have no chance in the future."
"Oh, then I don't want to study, then are we going to separate?"
"..., it shouldn't be, I can stick to it in different places! How do you want to have a birthday in two days?"
"It’s not a birthday, it doesn’t matter. Is there any me in your plan?”
"Of course! I will come back after reading the book, and the time will not be long."
At this time she had tears looming, I can only be silent, my eyes are sour.
In fact, we all understand that if you want to have a fairly good life, study hard and get a high degree of education, it is actually the only way out. There is no choice.
Friends who have graduated separately may feel why I and she are crying.
It’s really helpless. Many children from ordinary people like us from a small place have insufficient talent and a lack of family. The only hope to share this world with the young masters is to rely on innate diligence and hard work to gain more cheap social resources.
Today, when the so-called "reality" pressure is crushed for the first time, I can do too little.
This is why I have to work hard: to be with my loved ones.
Go back to the words.
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For the pride of our hearts.
With colleagues on the plane at night, overlooking the city where the lights are lingering, two people lamented that this is where we are to show our ambitions.
The world is too big, we are very small, but our pursuit is big and boundless. And this, in essence, is just for a possibility. If the future has been arranged, I already know what it will be and what it can only be, what a painful thing. We can't predict our future, and we can't control it for a long time, but it's just like this.
The end of each person's life is the same, but the scenery on the road is completely different. On the road of hard work, the scenery is so beautiful. When you see yourself moving forward, even if it's just a little bit, the inner pleasure is beyond words. This progress is not necessarily material and utilitarian.
Many people around me are born in poverty, unremarkable ordinary, and vulgar is said to be silk, but the heart is not silky. We all have a proud heart. Efforts are made to live up to this pride.
There are also some friends who are rich second generation, but they are not satisfied with the accumulation of family, and have been working hard to prove themselves. They also have a pride in their hearts.
Efforts come at a price, give up some ease, give up some little fun, just to find more fun. The life of a script is always monotonous, and the performance of his own color is wonderful. Hard work is because you are originally a person who is unwilling to be lonely. Time is no longer, loneliness is hard to bear, and I have to work hard.
After working hard for a long time, efforts become a habit and an instinct.
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There is a curse in the world. As long as someone says these four words to you, you can study and study in the middle of the night, climb to the peak of your career, and bite your teeth to resist all difficulties. These four words are - come all come.
Of course, you can also say that you don't want to come, and the parents have given birth to you. I can come here, don’t work hard, don’t you pay for it in the world?
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As a waste wood that is too lazy to do nothing, I have been thinking about this issue recently.
I think my answer is probably: in order to meet a better person.
Before I went to college, I never thought that my high school was very low. Even if I found out that people from the same place in the university, I graduated from a famous school. Until the freshman time, my mobile phone was out of power. I took a mobile phone from a fellow villager to brush her everyone, only to discover the huge difference in the reality of the friendship circle.
The junior high school classmates on my website are still forwarding "Women will not leave the man in this way." They are still happily photographing each dish they eat and spelling it into a nine-square grid, and her classmates, It’s not a photo of volunteering to go to Nepal to volunteer, it’s a tutorial that forwards some software.
Speaking of some of the friends here may say that I am superficial, use social networks to judge people, but in fact, there will be comparisons, you will find that it is really obvious, although her friends will not necessarily do it, but At least they have that heart and know what is good. They are each other's resources. And my friends, probably because of the limited environment, even if they have money, they will not think of doing those things.
Of course, they have the right to choose their own way of life, and they don't want to blame. It's just that you and I know what kind of lifestyle is more attractive to us.
So I also began to learn to move closer to the lifestyle I admire.
In fact, the time spent on this process is very small, because after all, the college entrance examination makes all the high school students do something similar, the gap is not big. The people in the university are getting more and more different. Because of the new values, I gradually become more complete than before. Then I chose to exchange in Taiwan through the good GPA in the junior year. Now I am in a certain wind in Taiwan. The university library has written this text, and it accepts a fresher concept of impact every day. I feel that my body has issued a kind of bloody [之前] sound before the upgrade, and the exchange with excellent people makes me happy and fulfilling. .
Every time I went home during the summer and winter vacations, I became a lonely thing. The high school friends basically went to the unidentified national primary schools in the remote cities and counties in the province. In high school, they also had very imaginative and positive girls in life. A woman who is proud of being a rich woman, and is my best friend at the time. Of course, there have been no efforts to give up, and I want to jump out through various methods such as postgraduate study. It is not in the topic category, and I will not mention it for the time being.
In short, what I want to say is that most of the time, the effort may not have a substantial return, but what is certain is that it can at least connect you with people who are equally hard and who want to be better, and then The ordinary life is under a group of young people who want to get better, and there are wonderful chemical changes.
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Say what happened to me.
First, when I was in the middle of the country, I didn’t study hard every day, and I’m happy to play. In the second day of class, there was a girl who secretly loved a boy in our class. She lent the money to the boy and she did not return her. She went to me and said loudly: "How do you still pay me back for xxx, super hate?" I was a good-looking girl at that time. I immediately angered and rushed to the crown. I stood up in a angry book and squatted on the boy’s body. He told him that you would borrow money and not blablabla. Who knows that this boy came over and beat me up? Knocking my neck and punching my face. Can you imagine that feeling? My dad didn't beat me so much, it was the face.
As a result, the teacher told us to go to the office. The physics teacher was the cousin of the boy. The teacher said to me all kinds of things, saying that I was not like a girl. In short, I was miserable. Later, the boy and his colleagues, in our class, advertised that I had an abortion and stayed with me. At that time, I was just a pure girl! ! The second day, even the first love has not happened yet! ! At that moment, I suddenly realized that I decided not to see such people in my life. So I struggled and started to study hard from the second grade. In the end, I became a black, black and black black horse, and I was admitted to the best high school in the province. At that time, the results of the senior high school entrance examination were the top ten in our school. The boy and the girl are all on the list.
Second, on the best high school in the province, the quality of the students around is much higher, not the second generation is the second generation of the official, or is it a smart one, two rests and three rests and me? I started playing again, ah, ah, ah - the scores became more than 1,000 in the school, and a total of 1,200 students in a grade. When I was in the second year of high school, I stayed at that time, and the teacher of the board yelled at us. When I was angry, I was quarreling with her. The result was called the parents, the teacher said to my dad and my mother: "How bad your life is, educate such a daughter. The daughter's fault is because your tutor is not good." My dad and my mother lowered their heads, a sentence Do not say anything. Ok, my dad, that is also a cadre at the department level. I was so embarrassed by a boarding teacher. Oh, yes, I was still remembered because T_T saw that my parents were insulted because of my mistakes. I decided to leave this. A nasty teacher to prove himself.
That semester is the second year of high school. At the end of the final exam, I took the fifth from the bottom of our class to the positive tenth, and I worked hard until the third year. In the first place, English and mathematics were the first in the city, and the total score was the second in the city.
I thought it would be easy to go to the North to return to the North, but in the two days of the college entrance examination, I was insomnia, and I didn't sleep for two days. The results of the college entrance examination came out. My text is only 150 points. Fortunately, the number of words is very high. Of course, I am not happy with my daily cheerful personality. I am happy to go to a top10 school in China.
Third, everyone in the third year is insured, and my grades can be guaranteed. With a dormitory in my house, a girl who had a good relationship with her was worse than me. In order for herself to be able to keep the research forest and squeeze me down, she began stealing my notes and throwing them away. Quietly hooking up the brothers to test cheats, etc., there are some more naive behaviors I will not say - so as not to become a textbook. I am not a fuel-efficient lamp. I frequently go to the library, read books, think about it, and finally I sent it to top2. Of course, she is not bad, and she sent it to the school.
Fourth, after studying, I met the first male god in my life. In fact, he is a brother of my high school. It’s just that the undergraduate is top2, I didn’t meet it early – I was very shy at the beginning and I felt inferior. Because the male god is handsome and has a mind, it is an invincible attraction for me! His mother is a university professor, his father is a law firm, and his work is good... At that time, with a little inferiority, I turned the worship of the gods into motivation and decided to make myself outstanding! I took various certificates, participated in various activities, made friends, went out to play, internships, played the piano, danced, and played everything. Later, the male god took the initiative to tell me that he liked me 哩#^_^# There was a lot of things in the middle.
I am now pinching, I have been graduating for a long time! And I am a busy and happy life with my goddess. The male god is at the investment bank. I am consulting the company. Our two years of income are just enough for seven figures. Being in the north and the north, although this money is still hopeless to buy a house, but the living conditions are not bad.
Besides, my classmates, the girl in the middle school was pregnant and married very early. Please pay attention to the order, which is to get married first. The boy opened a private hotel, it is estimated that it is not the kind of ID card... I also listened to what others said... and my university’s roommate became a civil servant, and the days are not bad.
Speaking of these four stories, I can only say: Try to change the fate! !
Franklin said: "Only pain can be profitable." Coster Pike said: "Want to let others love you? Let yourself become a person worthy of love!"
Why work hard? Make yourself a worthy person. Earn money that others can't earn, sleep with people who can't sleep, and recognize big cows that others can't recognize, and eat things that others can't afford. But all of this is not for who is angry with who and because of hard work. It is for yourself.
Mobile party, do not mind the logic chaos!
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99% of the world's people are playing a game called "Climb Up".
The rules of the game are like this: You can choose three props and climb up with these three props.
These three props, some have 0, some have one, some have two, and some have three.
Some people get 3 props in their lifetime and climb to the top;
Some people get 0 in their lifetime and die silently;
There are also 3 people with a thin family name who got three, climbed to the top, and lost another night.
Props are personal physical, intellectual, artistic creativity and management skills;
Props 2 are resources owned by individuals, such as deposits, real estate, and shares;
Props 3 are social relationships, including blood, geography, classmates, and business.
The gap between people is caused by these three different props. How many three items have a decision can climb.
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Who said that life must work hard?
If you don't want to work hard, you don't work hard, but if you don't work hard, you have to bear the consequences of not working hard.
Life is in your hands, you grasp it yourself, and hard work is your own life.
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What do I have to work hard?
I also asked me this question. There is no money in my family, but I am the only child. I can inherit more than one house in the future. Why should I work hard?
Because I have a desire for this world.
I have seen people's wonderful life, I don't want it to be just a dream in my heart. Other people's stories are told to you, and the taste is the same as chewing wax. I have to come by myself.
Because many places have beautiful scenery, I heard people say that I have seen photos, but I have never been there. I have to go and see for myself.
Because there are a lot of delicious foods in the world, I am a foodie. I don't want to drool in the propaganda picture. I have to taste it myself.
Because life is very long, there are many times when I can't help myself. I want to fulfill my wishes, satisfy my desires, and hinder a lot. Many times I wear dances. I don't work hard, I will only be trapped in the will of others, regardless of Society is still a parent.
Because after a long time, but the length is not long, you and I will hang down, I hope that my life has been wonderful and interesting, there are many things worthy of recollection to tell me.
Yes, I still have a little pride and narcissism.
These, need money, need experience, need ability, take time.
I only have time, I need to work hard to turn my time into experience, ability, money.
What is an effort?
If you love food, you may want to learn about the chef and study the recipe.
If you love diving, you may wish to take a certificate.
You love photography and find out how to be as professional as possible.
In a word, let your profession go through, choose a few hobbies, and try to be professional.
This is the effort.
Efforts are to trigger several copies of the main line of your life. Who knows whether the door behind the door is an angel or a devil? It doesn't matter. What is important is that there are many possibilities.
Why should I work hard? How can you be wonderful?
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First of all, I want to use the two most impressive words of the house of the house: hunt or be hunted / Ruthless pragmatic.
In my opinion, this is a person's words of eagerness for success until the end of his life; in this life, people make ruthless pragmatic efforts to be not hunt.
I was fortunate enough to be born in a family that is superior to most ordinary people, but it is far from the upper class. If you don't work hard and don't work hard, you will only waste the good foundation provided by your fathers. Maybe you can live a life of material comfort and enjoyment in your life. Can you be spiritual? The next generation? If the final mix is worse than the fathers who came out of the countryside, it really makes me shy.
It is well known that the class mobility of Chinese society is slowly decreasing. If I don't work hard, not only will I be stepped on by the upper level, but it is also likely that my descendants will do the same. Some people may say that the ordinary life of ordinary life is also very pleasant, there is no be hunted concept; but if you stand at my starting point and walk through the path I have traveled, this ordinary is really surrendering to class, compromise For the hunted of life.
There is a popular saying on the Internet recently: We are working hard, just to become an ordinary person. This sentence should be: for those who are born in the middle class and the family, we should work hard to become a person.
Effort is to lead to the upper class, so that you are not hunted.
Effort is to lead to the upper class, so that you may hunt.
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Being comfortable with the status quo and enjoying the comfort is seemingly comfortable, so why should we work hard?
In fact, this is not the case. Really accepting not working hard, and finding peace in the heart is extremely difficult to achieve. People who can do it are not lazy people, but people in high realms that ordinary people cannot reach.
The vast majority of people who think they are comfortable with the status quo and enjoy the comfort are simply burdened with inner uneasiness and psychological burdens or try not to think about it, or pretend to be comfortable, or find reasons to escape. When you see that there are so many good things that you don't have, there are so many people who are better than you, and there are so many people who have done a great job, you can't stop the water, but you use it. Various internal or external ways to obtain false peace.
"I haven't worked hard." This sentence is like a small wound, buried in the bottom of my heart. Even if you look for 10,000 ways to appease, numb, relax, suffocate or deceive yourself, this small wound is always vulnerable, or at some A day breaks through the blood, or you can only deceive yourself in your life to get false peace.
In fact, hard work is the easiest way to solve this knot.
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I still remember the fisherman. Every day he fished a few fish to go home, and the next day he came to the river again and again. Then there was a wise man who saw it and hurriedly ran to him and said, "You are so stupid, the fish in this river are so easy to hook, you can fish more, you can sell it, make money, then open A fishing company, and finally became the richest man in the world! !
After the fisherman haha, put away his hook to go home.
That is to say, if someone is content with the present life, and if the extra payout means higher returns and can make him have a better life, then is he still necessary to work hard?
So, there are people like Tao Yuanming who ran to see the mountains and farmed...
There is a man like Thoreau, rowing in Walden, building a house by the lake...
And they really didn't work hard?
In the question of the landlord, the fact that people must work hard is acquiesced, because in the mainstream values, we have been encouraged, fueled, instigated, and often have not yet figured out the situation, and we have already started the desperate model.
But what is the effort? Is it moving bricks on the construction site? Or do you recite words in the study room? Is it working overtime at the company until midnight? Or do you earn some living expenses by brushing dishes in foreign restaurants?
If people's life is a road, there are always a variety of scenery in front of us. Some people don't go far, they just rest. He said that I am tired, and the scenery here is good. Why are you still so hard? Going on the road? Some people, even if many people are far behind, he is still moving forward, he may stop at a place to look at it, or perhaps, he is just fascinated by the feeling of rushing, intoxicated by others envy The eyes are too late to appreciate the scenery and pounce on the next destination.
People's life does not have to work hard. People need to have a judgment on the current resources and whether they can support their own destination. Because failure takes away not only the last scenery, but also your life.
If you must start, please remember to enjoy the current scenery - for this world, never lose consciousness.
Because it is alive, it is more interesting.
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I haven't come to know for a long time. The first one I saw was such a lyrical question and answer. I didn't want to answer it, but when I saw such resonance, my hand was itchy. Why should people work hard in this life? If I used to say a lot of reason and reason to lie to myself, but now I will think about it again, and this is my inner thought. My current stage is exactly what everyone said. When I was in the early 20+, most of the pictures described on the Internet were like the ones that I had graduated from college last year. A hard-working 211 school just passed my internship period and went to work in a state-owned enterprise. Last month, No. 25 It was the day when I paid my salary. I got the first money after turning positive. It is not much seen by most people, more than 5,000. But for a newly graduated student, at least it is not too small for me. That's it. I still want to resign and go to the South to see and see the world outside. Here I feel that although I am busy all day, I am really busy, I can’t learn anything, everyone knows shirking responsibility, two hours. I am looking for a sign to sign a day. When I am free, I will learn something I am interested in. I will reserve it for the future. Second, I feel that I am young and have capital. I have always been a restless person. My curiosity is particularly heavy. take advantage of I’m sorry to go out and go and see if I am old. If I don’t go out, I might think that the world is what I saw. I don’t want to see my life in my 50s when I was in my 20s. What I want to say is that the effort is not forcing you, but from the heart, I want to give myself a better life, a little regret, a little more memories, a life that I long for, I don’t want to leave people to give I designed the route, I want to live it myself, so I work hard and give myself an account.
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What is the difference between a person without a dream and a salted fish?
What is the difference between not trying to do better yourself and a bunch of code?
Life, after all, brain death is over. Life is so magical. It only exists in "now". If you don't try to prove the meaning of your existence, it really disappoints the magic of life.
Why are people born and being human?
Where does self-consciousness come from?
How is my difference from others?
What is the essence of life?
What kind of state is considered alive?
Where did consciousness go after death?
I have thought about this, and then think about why you should work hard? Is it for identity, status, rights, money, love, reproduction, future generations or just to try to prove themselves.
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Looking at the answers of such stars, they are so much praised. I believe they must have been approved by most people.
However, I think more, I get the answers that most agree with, and it must be the real answer that is very useful to everyone. Everyone likes it just because the examples they listed hit everyone’s emotional weakness, so that Everyone feels the helplessness of the same group of customers who are running in front of their destiny, in order to show their encouragement for the struggle of others in their lives.
I have no intention of adding a sadness in many cases, let me tell you a little story.
Let's start with the drama of "Rhinoceros in Love".
What can make me sure that I am still me? What made me sure I was still alive? - This is no longer a question of love or not, but a kind of contest, not my contest, but the contest between me and everything. It didn't matter if I didn't accomplish anything, but this time I recognized the loss, I bowed my head and obeyed, I will always compromise on life, be a normal person in your eyes, and take a little easy to get from life. Things, playing in the shadows, are fun, these are meaningless to me, I would rather not do anything.
- Road "Rhinoceros in Love"
When I was still wandering around with the ideals of a teenager, I still didn't understand love. At that time, I could wander all night in the lost snow in the northeast, and I could relax on the winding lawn all night. I occasionally In the night of heavy nights, open the dilapidated computer, bring the cheap and worn headphones, and download the 18+ seeds for yourself.
However, it was already many years ago. At that time, I still didn't understand love.
In one night, I opened a web page and popped the seeds of the rhinoceros in love. I was thinking about what the two rhinos looked good. It was not as rough and sultry as the two butterflies. I click on the download and click it as a garbage in my E drive. Never want to come to me one day will open it.
Opening it is already a boring day after half a year. Because of my whim, I want to know how these two rhinos can make a move during estrus.
The inferior seeds downloaded on Youku, the quality of the natural video is rough and uncomfortable. But when I saw a person named Duan Long, I suddenly found that the goods were familiar, and Duan Yihong was called Duan Long.
You guessed it well, brother, you won, this is indeed a process of how a hard-working rhinoceros wins the heart of the female rhinoceros. In the process, they completed the XXOO, the evolution of the biological inheritance should end here, each Isn't the love of a creature all ending with a male genital squirting out his dirty and pure love? However, this stupid and hard-working male rhinoceros undoubtedly disappointed us.
If there is anything in the world of love that can make people more desperate, it is a three-person line, and it will hurt. This is an unchanging law. You love me, but I love him. However, he loves other people.
On that day, when the approximate rhinoceros-like road met on the infinite street, the girl with a clear fragrance and wet, who was no one crying on the road, he did not know that he would fall into a hopeless love. .
No one knows, at that moment, a flower called the first love, quietly blooms in the heart of this unruly male rhinoceros.
Brahms is a humble zoo breeder. He hasn't read many books. He and the toothbrush are the most humble class on the bottom of the city. However, he has a temperament that is sensitive to airflow.
At that time, it was clearly a print shop printer. She was full of beautiful streets, making the road feel soft, clean, sky-like, and the purest. She was crying at the time, and she had a wet fragrance.
The long-term environment in the zoo with the rhinoceros has given him a rare opportunity to reach out to those cute, weak, pure people, especially the lovely girl like Ming, in his eyes, simple, soft, pure and beautiful. The halo is clear in the body, like a blush in the ink painting, which is striking. In the season of love, she loves another high-ranking handsome, his name is Chen Fei.
The memory is very deep, and desperately clear, after accepting the fact that Chen Fei does not love him, she gave this desperate male rhinoceros a great gift on the birthday night - XXOO. This male who was burned by the mind The public rhinoceros heard this message, crazy every night and XXOO, he thought his love came.
However, when it is clear to tell the truth to the road, this is the plain words:
This is still for you. [Take the wallet that was given to the road that night to him, the road looked incredulously, and smelled in front of the nose.] It was Chen Fei’s birthday. I waited until he was late at night, so I didn’t come. Cakes, gifts and my enthusiasm have been given to you. Chen Fei left on the second day of his birthday, a distant country. I have been thinking in bed for a week and decided not to forget him!
Obviously going to another country to find Chen Fei.
She said that there are many times when I want to give up, but it leaves a feeling of pain somewhere in my body. I think it will always be there for a long time. When I think about it, I will look at it all because of that. I became scared when I became painful, and I loved him. It is the best thing I have ever done.
At that moment, the road must be a dream. No one knows that that night, in a pool of noisy Fang Feili, there is a night lotus, helplessly folding all the guilty things, and then, silently, his heart is extinguished at the end of the night.
You are standing at the corner of the stairs, with some kind of fragrant smell, a little wet, strange smell, when you pass by, you know that you are crying. Things happened at that time. How can I let you know how I love you? I silently endure, sobbing and sleeping? I shouted loudly, screaming exhaustedly? I hurt myself in the mirror? I rushed into your office and pushed you to the ground? I went to college, I was a Ph.D., a writer? I have abandoned myself for you, and have been pity since then? I walked into a mental hospital, I love you, love collapsed? Love is crazy? Or am I committing suicide under your window? Obviously, tell me what to do? You are smart, dexterous, fangs, foolish, my beloved, my clear...
......
Finally, the road pulled out a pair of scissors and stabbed the rhinoceros that he had raised! Blood spurts, Tula makes a horrible roar! Raging rushing to the road. Clearly screaming.
The road kills the rhinoceros, cuts off the heart of the rhinoceros, and says to the Ming, this is the last thing I can give you, Tula's heart, and myself, do you take them in?
Finally, the road was arrested by the police. Before leaving, I clearly said to the road, "You have finished writing the poems that love me, how beautiful, really sorry."
The whole drama was at that moment, and it was the end. I don't know why, in the boring and empty night, I burst into tears and wept.
I also deeply remember the other sentence that the road said in "Rhinoceros in Love."
I know that you can't get along with everyone, just like I am with Daxian, toothbrushing them, but staying with boring. Now they all think that I am a madman, no longer care about me. You should obey your destiny like other rhinos, and you won't be so depressed all day. Is it so difficult to obey the fate? I think most people do this naturally. As long as people do what, what do you do. So we are all unpopular and should use an anesthetic gun. There are many times when I want to give up, but it leaves a feeling of pain somewhere in my body. I think it will always linger in there, and when I think about it, all my eyes will change because of that pain. I am afraid of being lifeless.
To be honest, I don’t quite know why, people need endless efforts in their lives. I sometimes think of many things in the boring night.
I think, maybe the effort is not a vegetable and a meal for ordinary people, but it is an undead desire, a heroic dream in exhausted life. It is a color that is different from others in our lives, and will never drown us in this boring and identical sea.
Reply:
Hard work and hard work are all living conditions. Efforts are better every day than yesterday. If you don't work hard, you are comfortable with the status quo. If you work hard, you can see different scenery every day. This is the meaning of hard work. In fact, like living, meaning only ends with meaning.
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This question is a bit big, a bit empty, but it is true, and people can understand it naturally.
Life will not work hard.
The effort is because there is no peace in mind.
1. You are very poor, but there are children with wives and young children. If they don’t eat well, don’t wear them well, will you be guilty? At this time, you will secretly make up your mind to make money. When you put out all the money and made money to buy food and clothing for your family, do you feel comfortable at the moment?
Hard work is because of shame
2. When you are not learning well, you feel that your parents or yourself are losing face in front of everyone, and they are determined to use shame when they are painted on the wall. When you take the first place in the whole year, the eyes of everyone will give you a feeling like a spring breeze.
Effort is because of the expected return
3. A life that is poor and destitute, more and more unwilling, want to come to do some business. From Zhang San’s purchase of big stones, he can earn 1000 yuan a day when he arrives at Li Si. So you can keep up the work of getting tired and wearing the moon every day, but you also enjoy the money coming back at night. happy.
Effort is because of enlightenment
Lazy relative effort is just two ways to spend life. It is just how to think, what do you want to do, just do something, after you finish it, you can do better, then you can do better, feel Can still do a little better, then okay, continue to do better. From the perspective of outside observers, you will feel that he has made extraordinary efforts, so he did the best, but for himself, because I thought of it, I did it.
No effort, it is just a way of life.
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