You have to live through your life to talk about life and dreams.

Good friend Tianer left Beijing after last month's postgraduate study and went to Sanya to develop. Although we are reluctant, we are still silently blessing. Tianer is not only a good friend in my life, but also a good partner in my work. These days, too many people left, suddenly felt that the day is like the end of a movie, maybe after a while, it can seem like the beginning of a new story.

These two days, I suddenly thought that my film studio was established almost two years ago, no matter what the work, but the two happiest things: doing what you like and making these good friends. They always said that I am the most unreliable boss. When people start a business, they are all going to go public in order to make money, but I just want to make everyone happy, and they just shoot what they like and help everyone to pursue their dreams.

I think that this team can last for a long time, or until we have children, we will say so passionately: Hurry up and shoot. Unexpectedly, the first one left was my right arm: Heaven.

Tianer took two years of research in Beijing. The family spent a lot of money and got a lot of unreliable training classes. On the way to the postgraduate entrance examination, he used his free time to film with me on the set. We will always discuss scripts and sub-shots together, and talk about the recent filmings in the cinema. I always feel that these people have the opportunity to write good scripts and shoot their own works as long as they are together. In the first year, it was the day.

The father arranged a job for him in his hometown, saying that if you are so big, you must always stand on your own. I can't always spend money on my parents.

Tianer reluctantly said, let me test again, if not, I will go home again.

The girlfriend of the day and her four years away, at this moment also hope that he will go home to develop.

The pressure was very high. I drove him home one night. He said, I still like the days when we fight in Beijing and don't want to go back.

I said, you are so young, why are you going home to stabilize, do you like to drink tea and read newspapers?

He smiled and said, I also want to experience more, but is this a bit selfish?

I shook my head and said that it is a bit ideal for people to live.

He smiled, and he always told me about his dreams. He talked about life long after, and talked about the planning of our studio. I also told him all the way how I "fudge" the investor's nonsense story.

Before the second year of postgraduate study, Tianer birthday, he invited us to dinner. That day, he didn't say anything. After dinner, we were scattered.

I vaguely thought that he had something to glare at me.

After that, we have no contact.

I thought he was busy with the postgraduate study and did not ask.

But after the completion of the postgraduate entrance examination, my new drama was completed, and I went home to rest, and I was ready to wait for him to come back. Unexpectedly, the first call to me was actually, Long Ge, I went to work in Sanya.

He told me on the phone how much he didn't want to do such a thing, how much he wanted to continue our dreams, but he couldn't be so selfish and always do what he likes, always thinking about his family and making some money. .

Hanging up the phone, my nose is sour. I thought, if I can send a higher salary, it would be fine.

A few days ago, after we finished the event, I told everyone that you know that Tianer is gone.

They haven't spoken for a long time. These years of hard work, feelings are too deep.

Friends can't understand, saying, can't people always make money?

I said, you don't understand, you Beijingers, there are cars and houses. Others of us have other ways to support our work, earn enough money to survive, and then talk about dreams. In fact, no matter where you are, you must first solve the problem of survival, then talk about life and dreams...

Our dreams will continue, but I understand that the material foundation is the cornerstone of spiritual architecture. If you don't have a foundation for survival, you can't talk about your dreams. When Tianer left, I sent a WeChat with him and said, Go, we will not disband, waiting for you here. Let us all come back when we make a lot of money.

In fact, everyone is like this. In many cases, persistence is not necessarily correct. Before you realize your dreams, you need to do a lot of things that you don't like. You need to take some detours to know what you love. Those who stand in life, who knows how many times he has passed behind, the success of the return is not shameful, but as long as you still do not forget the dream of the year, do not let the world change you, do not become what you hate, your persistence That's right.

Suddenly I understood the essence of some truths. I once heard from my friends that college graduates who have just graduated must first be employed and then choose a career. Now I know that when I have nothing, I will do what I am good at, can do it, earn money, build up my network, have a certain amount of capital, and then do what I like. There are many people around me. I have been entangled in the work I can choose before graduation. I can't look at her for a good job. She looks down on poor work. She graduated from home for more than a year. Every time someone asks her, you are recently What are you doing? She said that she was looking for a job.

Another friend, S, came to a prestigious Hong Kong school to study the hot profession at the time: news. I have been in Beijing for more than half a year and have not found a job. Every time I meet, I stimulate her and say why you haven't found a job yet?

She said, don't worry, if it's not suitable, you can't just go.

Later, she learned that she went to a lot of employers for interviews. It is not that the salary is not satisfied or the location is too far. It is not that the profession is not completely wrong or that others are not looking at her.

Slowly, I don't like to ask her how her work is. Because the answers are the same: no hurry, no suitable.

So, I began to ask, when are you looking for a boyfriend?

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Work and feelings are different. If you choose the wrong one, you won't be able to come back again. You won't hurt yourself. Only by doing a job first, can you know what you want at work, know what you are good at and what you don't like. Only the gentleman can save the ideal.

I think that any dreams and life are based on the time spent on the life of the next section of the tube, otherwise, they are all in the air. In the process of surviving the life, you may lose some valuable things, or you may have lost your life. But don't forget your heart, remember to remind yourself every day: These darkness is only for the dawn of the future. Doing these unwilling things is just to get up better in the future, so it is good.

May we pass through the dark days of life and see the dawn of tomorrow.