It’s your fault to be poor for too long.

Ayan called me to say that there was entertainment at night, and did not come back for dinner. I quickly asked my girlfriend to accompany me to eat seafood stalls. In the early summer, find an open-air place and order a few fresh seafood, which is definitely more than a five-star seafood buffet.

Just sitting down, my girlfriend gave me a look, I looked at her eyes, a pair of men and women suppressed the sound in the quarrel.

The man said, "I beg you to give me another chance, don't break up?"

The woman is impatient: "I have given you many opportunities. I am already 30 this year. I can't delay myself anymore. Let's get together!"

The man has always been pleading for grief, showing grief, and the woman is unmoved and expressionless.

My girlfriend said secretly to me: "Before, I was a woman who was infatuated with a heart. Now I am a beautiful man."

I signaled her to continue listening, and the man continued to plead, and the woman was still unmoved.

Finally, the man’s patience collapsed and yelled at the woman: “Have you ever loved me? I just ask you to give me another chance. Can you wait to find rich people? If I have money, you Is it like this? Women are so realistic, so snobbish? What are our feelings, what?"

Other guests have cast their contemptuous eyes on this woman. The woman refused to show her humiliation: "I knew you didn't have money at first. If I love money, I won't be with you at all. I have been with you for ten years. We have graduated for seven years. In the past seven years, I have given you many opportunities, but the result? We can't afford to pay even the rent now. I can't see the future. No matter what you say, this breakup is divided. It is."

When the woman finished, the head did not go back. The man picked up the beer bottle on the table and slammed it on the ground: "Why? Why? Isn't the poor worthy of love?"

Others have been talking about it. My girlfriend and I are no exception. I thought that my girlfriend would sympathize with this man. I didn’t expect my girlfriend to look at the back of the woman’s disappearance. “Congratulations to this woman, she finally made a correct decision and left. This unblemished poor ghost."

I gave her a sigh of relief: "Do you have any sympathy?"

My girlfriend almost came to my face: "Compassion? It has to be worthy of the people who are worth it. I will not sympathize with a poor man."

I laughed and knocked on her head: "Speaking and leaving a good mouth, people are always rich and poor, don't be poor and poor."

The girlfriends showed her instinct of poisonous tongue: "You didn't hear it? They have been graduating for seven years. Even the rent can't be exchanged. A man, but who is practical, diligent, and slightly dimes, has been in the past seven years. It’s a small set of the richest man. It’s still not a problem, it’s not a problem, but a life attitude and even a character problem, so it’s still impossible for him to do anything, even his girlfriend. To leave him. Poor people must have hateful places. I used to show that others are poor and I will sympathize. Later, I gradually discovered that a person who is poor, most of which is not related to fate, is inseparable from his own problems. ”

I couldn't help but nod, and if I was a girlfriend, it really makes sense.

"Most poor people will use their parents to defend their own poor. Everyone is born differently, so the starting point is different. This difference exists objectively. But if you are not pursuing wealth, you only need to worry about it, just work hard. One can do it. In seven years, it’s enough for a man to stand firm and even make a small achievement. Some people are poor, he will think about changing the status quo, he will try to find opportunities, he will go down every step One step. Before the age of 30, the poor, in addition to the ability to deal with luck, but still poor after the age of 30, this problem is serious. If the origin of the class is not something to choose, then the ability to learn is definitely the effort will have I blindly blame the parents on the cause, but there is another inferiority - no responsibility! Most people who have been poor have two problems: Zhida is too sparse or hard-working, and such people will continue to be poor."

I can't help but think of one of my relatives. From the age of twenty, he told everyone that he must be a leader, Guangzong Yaozu. The parents and wife were very happy to hear that they would support him. Then, he went to do business, and after half a year, he lost a good light. He said to his parents and his wife: This time it is my bad luck, I will succeed next time. Parents and wives took out their savings and supported him again to pursue his career. This time, he lost a good light. Parents and wives can't eat, advise him to find a job with peace of mind, and raise a family to live!

But when he heard it, he cried. I am a big man who wants to make big money. How can it be possible to work for people? What are the bosses? When they see me, they have to nod.

After so much tossing for five years, the big things were not made, the big money was not earned, and the original honest family was almost ruined by him. But he not only did not reflect on himself, but blamed others for not having a vision, refused to give him a chance, or blamed God for not having long eyes, and not giving him some luck. The family once again advised him to find a job with peace of mind and not toss it anymore. But he still feels good about himself: "Looking for a job? What work is worthy of me? Let me go to the chairmanship, I don't do it. I am at this level, and I am a provincial governor."

The people around him are gradually reluctant to take care of him. Now, in his fifties, he still has nothing to do. Every day he blames everyone. The parents in their 80s can only sigh. The same age wife is working for a long time, raising a pair of children and falling into a disease. However, he always felt that his life was owed to his fate. He caught a stranger and began to blow the blow. Now even his children are not willing to take care of him.

There are quite a few women around me who are looking for poorer men. They think that this is true love. True love cannot be tarnished by money. The feelings of sharing happiness and suffering will last forever. One by one, they intend to create a better future with men. But now look back, several pairs have already parted ways, and the remaining pairs are mostly barely maintained. Really poor and happy and happy, I barely found it.

Because life is reality, love is pure, life needs basic material maintenance, we can rely on love to meet spiritual needs, but to have children, raise children, everything is inseparable from matter. Especially after having a child, I can bear it again, but I hope that my child can live a better life. This is better. It is inseparable from the economy. I see that my child is not as good as other children. How to be happy?

But these reasons are not enough to divorce a woman who loves to enter a marriage, because they originally chose this man because of money.

Most women who have experienced poor men tell me: I really don't mind if he is poor, but I can't stand him not asking for progress. This kind of day makes me come to the future.

Moreover, men who are not motivated are often lazy. A person who is lazy at work and in life basically does not expect him to be very diligent at home, so if you find a man who is not motivated, it is equal to finding at the same time. Grandpa.

In addition, these men have another feature: they like to buckle their hats for women. If a woman has a slight whisper to his performance, he will become like a hedgehog. "How? Abandon me? How did you become so secular? I found out that you are such a person, snobbery, vanity, not at all cute. It is."

If a woman really can't stand leaving him, he will complain pitifully everywhere: "I really love her. We haven't been able to withstand the temptation of money for so many years, because I have no money, so she left. I."

Thus, people who do not know the truth have accused women of their ruthlessness. The woman, after dedicating countless youths and feelings, has passed through countless poverty days, and exchanged an evaluation of admiration for vanity and no old feelings.

Men are not terribly poor, and those who have just left the school are basically poor. The old saying goes that they are bullish and poor, and the terrible thing is to have the thinking and character of the poor.

A man keeps saying that true love is supreme, without you can't live, but refuses to work hard to give you a better future, such a man, still leave!